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CAN WE BE FRIENDS?  

Cuddly_Kitten 51F
13923 posts
8/31/2018 2:41 pm
CAN WE BE FRIENDS?

DO YOU THINK A MAN AND A WOMAN CAN BE BEST FRIENDS WITHOUT THERE BEING TEMPTATION???

Before u answer.... would you want your girlfriend having a male friend she hangs out with all the time?????

Sooo....

DO YOU THINK A MAN AND A WOMAN CAN BE BEST FRIENDS (WITHOUT ANY SEXUAL TENSION OR TEMPTATION????......
YES
NO


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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
8/31/2018 2:42 pm

I said no....

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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
8/31/2018 2:51 pm

    Quoting  :



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EWGuy 60T
564 posts
8/31/2018 3:15 pm

I won't say there would not be a hidden desire but actually I have had several lady friends. I think the X was the one that got jealous. That usually made every one feel bad.

My new wife is so cool that way, it's a breath of fresh air. Sometime a conversation with friends can point you in the right direction too. So It pays to have friends of ALL sex's. Just my two cents worth.


EWGuy 60T
564 posts
8/31/2018 3:18 pm

Faith said, " Depends on whether he is cute or ugly. But Hell Yes comes to mind"

faith Elaine


Platosgames 98M  
3182 posts
8/31/2018 3:20 pm

That's a tough question. About half my friends are female. Some of those, I've never had sex with, and the topic really never gets brought up. That said, I tend to flirt.
So I would have to say there's got to be some tension. And with tension, comes temptation.

Ok, so maybe not that hard..I'd vote no.

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nekkedcouple 60M/54F  
78 posts
8/31/2018 3:36 pm

My wife plays a lot of scrabble and Yahtzee and games like that online. She plays dozens of scrabble games at one time. Sometimes, the competition stars chatting. Usually a “great game!” or a “good move” comment. She will respond and pretty soon they begin to chat. Invariably, if it’s a guy- and sometimes if it’s a girl- the conversation always turns sexual.
I know that’s not a “best friend situation” but we’ve found it also happens with almost all her male friends from school that have reunited with her on Facebook.
We just think that if a guy speaks to a woman and the woman speaks back to him, his brain starts firing in a crazy sort of way and he thinks “maybe I gotta chance!” 😆


CleavageFan4U 63M  
62121 posts
8/31/2018 3:42 pm

I voted no, mainly because the man ALWAYS wants to fuck the woman, though the reverse is not always true.

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Paulxx001 63M
16754 posts
8/31/2018 3:50 pm

Absolutely.... Ask my fricken ex wife!


Story435 72M
3193 posts
8/31/2018 4:11 pm

Hello Kitten
Yes I can think they can do that. I know I have a friend that's a lady been friends for years! She has never been married too!
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Horny_Cat68 51M  
582 posts
8/31/2018 4:32 pm

Yes it's possible. of course if you're married, jealousy can certainly rear it's ugly head though.

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discreteSteve62 52M
2076 posts
8/31/2018 4:44 pm

It's a lot simpler if the outside friend is not the partnered friend's type, or if both are partnered.

But even if they're attracted to each other (or one way), as long as partner's aren't jealous types, no problem.

I have a woman friend who is super-hot. (We meet fairly often, but aren't best friends.) We talk a lot about science. We don't flirt. She is married. My wife is cool about it; she sometimes teases me about how I find the woman attractive.

My closest woman friend, other than my wife, is also attractive -- and a rare example of a woman who is both my type and my wife's type. No jealousy there either.


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 59M
3755 posts
8/31/2018 5:09 pm

I have had many more female friends than male friends over the years, if hubbys can trust me with THEIR wives, then of course I can trust my GF with other men. Beside, if she chose to take them to bed, I wouldnt object anyway!


Heathen_G 61M
7862 posts
8/31/2018 5:23 pm

CAN A MAN AND A WOMAN CAN BE BEST FRIENDS (WITHOUT ANY SEXUAL TENSION OR TEMPTATION????...

I said "No". But the question is very "General" for a "Y" or "N" question.

What about males who have lost their desire for sex?
What about males who have a neurosis causing them to think they are women, or have the gay neurosis?
What about males who are over 55 and their junk doesn't work?
What about males raised in the Femanazi anti male decades and have had any sense of being a male programmed out of them?

Those males could be best friends with female without sexual temptation..

But as the question is stated, you have to disregard the exceptions, so you're left with ...... "No". A male will want to have sex with a woman.

Ha ... "Best friends with a girl"....Maybe before puberty. But even before puberty , in the boy child there's a glimmer of , "Hey, you're a girl, I'm suppose to do something with you....just not quite sure, yet".


art2962 42M
7 posts
8/31/2018 5:44 pm

In a sense it's a great things that friends of the opposite sex [or hey, same sex!] are often attracted to each other sexually.......I know that goes against the ethos of this site, sex is enjoyable on all sorts of levels I know, but the best sex is with some you feel a connection with and friendship is a strong connection. Maybe the question is [bear with me, I have a few empty beer bottles to my right] could you have enjoyable sex with someone you hated?


Heathen_G 61M
7862 posts
8/31/2018 6:00 pm

    Quoting art2962:
    In a sense it's a great things that friends of the opposite sex [or hey, same sex!] are often attracted to each other sexually.......I know that goes against the ethos of this site, sex is enjoyable on all sorts of levels I know, but the best sex is with some you feel a connection with and friendship is a strong connection. Maybe the question is [bear with me, I have a few empty beer bottles to my right] could you have enjoyable sex with someone you hated?
could you have enjoyable sex with someone you hated?

Historically and prehistorically , women of tribes, clans, villages, empires.... often enough fell in lust for the men who represented their enemy who attacked and decimated their community. These men would take an enemies women.... sometimes these women grew to care for the man, who "Swept" her away.

They had enjoyable sex.


tmacshane26 35M
2092 posts
8/31/2018 6:09 pm

Sure I don't have any problem with her having a male friend. I've had many female friends, until I was stabbed in the back. As long as you both trust each other there won't be any sexual feelings toward you as your're only friends.

They're might be some sexual feelings, but you have to have the urge and say were only friends I in a relationship and we trust each other.


dewycooterlicker 62M  
347 posts
8/31/2018 6:28 pm

NO! every girl that I dated and had a male friend said "He's like a brother to me" That's code for I'm fucking him!

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NewName62 57M
11930 posts
9/1/2018 5:35 am

In my experience, more women seem to think this is possible, than men. But at the moment, I see that your poll results are almost evenly split.

[gulp]
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A1Xpleaser 61M
410 posts
9/1/2018 9:40 am

I have a few platonic "sisters." lol


zeke53028 61M  
1104 posts
9/1/2018 6:36 pm

I think they can. Over the years I've had several female friends that I've considered my "best friend" and there wasn't an issue at all. My wife asked me this morning if I'd talked to so-n-so recently. And I told her I had 2 days ago. I think in each case it was that we both valued the friendship enough and we didn't want to mess it up.


69ereatwetpussy 58M
3420 posts
9/2/2018 6:07 pm

it still a very loaded ? im sure in the back of every one mined is a fantasy of if or how and when. as for my wife she talks to and has men friend I don't have to worry about. then again im 6'2 219lbs may be in the back of there heads lolololol


20ForMILF 22M

9/3/2018 11:40 pm

Yes, of course they can be friends. I have a few female friends and have previously had more. At times there are sexual tensions but they are controllable.

More often the problem is someone pretending to want to be friends when all along they are planning to become more than friends.


hear2bimorefun 69M

9/4/2018 1:25 pm

bare is nice but really doesn;t matter to me....teeth need flossing at times too


Dtts43rt35 61M
7714 posts
9/26/2018 10:01 am

Somente a confiar no seu taco...

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Dtts43rt35 61M
7714 posts
9/26/2018 10:03 am

Yes, trust the person, and trust your cue,

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PAWAPh 44M
12761 posts
11/28/2018 11:04 pm

*Voted*

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