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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
13959 posts
9/7/2018 4:10 pm
IS IT CHEATING?


Is it cheating if..... it's with the same sex?

If you walked in and your girlfriend/wife was in bed with another woman.... would you consider that cheating? Would you be less offended than if it was with a man????

I just over heard some people talking today about this topic.... and I wanted to see what you guys think....

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tmacshane26 35M
2092 posts
9/7/2018 4:13 pm

Well I would have to talk to her first before she decides she wants to have her first girl on girl experience. I would be surprised at first if I did she her with another woman, but it would definitely turn me on some.


Darkthorne 50M
14 posts
9/7/2018 4:14 pm

This is a good question. It is cheating and while I would be a little less offended I still don't think I could forgive it. There is emotional trust that is betrayed by that. And while I admit as a guy the though of it is a turn on in the area of the darker fantasies, its still a betrayal and not right.


kissableleo66 68M
159 posts
9/7/2018 4:21 pm

Cheating...but I want to watch.


love2pleasu13 52M
6474 posts
9/7/2018 4:40 pm

No it's not cheating 2 me. I would tell her way 2 go. Then ask her could I join in or at least let me watch.


boredarmyguy3 40M  
119 posts
9/7/2018 4:42 pm

If you feel it is cheating then it is cheating. If it is something that you wish would happen then you can't be mad.


bitchkitty2017 68F  
5299 posts
9/7/2018 4:46 pm

lol yep everyone says the same thing follow like sheep but bottom line wonder who telling lies or whos telling the truth? lol would be interesting to see especially if the wife or gf would enjoy another woman more than him and not be into him much any more ..that be a hoot..good one girl..


Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
9/7/2018 4:47 pm

    Quoting tmacshane26:
    Well I would have to talk to her first before she decides she wants to have her first girl on girl experience. I would be surprised at first if I did she her with another woman, but it would definitely turn me on some.


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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
9/7/2018 4:47 pm

    Quoting  :



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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
9/7/2018 4:48 pm

    Quoting  :



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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
9/7/2018 4:48 pm

    Quoting boredarmyguy3:
    If you feel it is cheating then it is cheating. If it is something that you wish would happen then you can't be mad.


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flagfun3 61M
431 posts
9/7/2018 4:48 pm

Yes, less offended and would ask to join in


Ienjoythetaste 71M
2562 posts
9/7/2018 4:49 pm

Who cares as long as I can join in.

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2Saltie2 27F

9/7/2018 4:51 pm

If it's not cheating then either is it cheating if one person gives another oral or a hand job. Or just make out. Some will say anything to justify cheating.

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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
9/7/2018 4:52 pm

Very true

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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
9/7/2018 4:53 pm

    Quoting 2Saltie2:
    If it's not cheating then either is it cheating if one person gives another oral or a hand job. Or just make out. Some will say anything to justify cheating.
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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
9/7/2018 4:53 pm

    Quoting  :

Yes... it is.

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Vixen_Zen 53F

9/7/2018 4:55 pm

IS IT CHEATING
I agree it would be very sexy to watch. Especially if it was a loving, secure couple watching the fun. Anything can happen in those situations. If two adults want to join in, or not, and both individuals share the loving, and end the nights together, I think this could possibly add to the growth of the heart connection.


69ereatwetpussy 58M
3912 posts
9/7/2018 5:23 pm

well let see there are in are bed and she on my side of the bed it cheating if I aske to join in and the wife said no its cheating. if I walked in and saw another woman naked in bed and I striped down climbed in and went for her not the wife would it be cheating. lolololol no I would be less offended if it was a woman over a guy.


EWGuy 60T
563 posts
9/7/2018 5:36 pm

YES, plain and simple. You play together or it's cheating.


jones8559 46M
19 posts
9/7/2018 5:49 pm

I would just be sad to not be invited to at least watch...…...


Fuklikedogs 49M
1733 posts
9/7/2018 6:10 pm

If I didn't get an invitation and it's behind my back then it would be, however I'd ask for an invite the next time is all


jrfree2play 51M  
139 posts
9/7/2018 6:30 pm

The gender of the other person makes no difference, if you're doing shady things with them without your partner knowing.


Idaho_Author 50M  
23 posts
9/7/2018 6:37 pm

I think it depends on the circumstances of your Relationship.....if the two of you had already discussed and laid out that it was okay for her to be with another woman, definitely not. If you had talked about it but not actually agreed on it, then it's up in the air. If you had talked about it and said NO, then yeah....it's cheating.
Every Relationship is different.....and it depends on the circumstances. At the same time, our perception is our emotional reality; if you perceive it as cheating, then it's going to have the same effect, whether it is or not. That emotional effect has to be dealt with.....


Looknfind18 68M  
4277 posts
9/7/2018 6:59 pm

probably cheating but I would be less offended.


CleavageFan4U 63M  
63072 posts
9/7/2018 7:05 pm

You might have figured out by now that I have very liberal definition of sexual morals. I'd be overjoyed to see her fucking someone else, and YES someone of the sam se would be and added bonus.

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Horny_Cat68 52M  
582 posts
9/7/2018 8:06 pm

Yeah! probably cheating, but with two babes getting it on, I'll be grabbing some popcorn and watching, hoping to be tagged in, or invited to join in.

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amused704 57M
33 posts
9/7/2018 8:52 pm

It's lust fullfilled.. not cheating.. It should be encouraged to help her fill her needs.. better to be up front and not hide desires


tresennui 65F  
2474 posts
9/7/2018 8:53 pm

I feel it is considered cheating whenever it is done secretively. Gender is irrelevant Is omission lying? If you are doing it intentionally to deceive, I say yes.

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9/7/2018 10:03 pm

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Cpllooking6671 53M/49F  
2667 posts
9/7/2018 10:17 pm

It would be- we are playing in this lifestyle together not separate.
It is THE cornerstone of our trust in each other to be here and do this to begin with. She would have to discuss it with me prior and vice versa before playing solo.


drizzt10768 52M  
153 posts
9/8/2018 4:59 am

I've always told my partners if you decide to have sex with a woman, you just have to video it for me.


Leegs2012 47M
56432 posts
9/9/2018 8:11 am

If she was in bed with a Man or a Woman, I would take all of my clothes off and jump in with them!!


Sexczy69 65M  
3361 posts
9/9/2018 10:12 pm

As for me NO i do not see this as cheating but my girl i BI so for me it just the way it is!!!!!


rick315875 62M
10857 posts
9/10/2018 4:04 pm

it depends on how open minded you are and how secure you are in your relationship

I am very open minded and secure


RickyDicky93277 59M
16 posts
9/10/2018 4:19 pm

Yes it is cheating. I would probably be less offended. It would hope I could join in next time. Kitten you are hot


69bud69 66M
7091 posts
9/11/2018 5:18 am

I don't consider that cheating. Actually, I might think that's more expanding her horizons.

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e3mob 35M  
7 posts
9/11/2018 8:34 pm

only if i could join in with them..i love to see two women together


_IKanCu2_ 101M
2706 posts
9/13/2018 12:28 am

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Heathen_G 61M
7838 posts
9/20/2018 8:30 pm

Is it cheating if..... it's with the same sex?.... Yes. Still cheating.

If you walked in and your girlfriend/wife was in bed with another woman... would you consider that cheating?.... Yes.

Would you be less offended than if it was with a man????... No. "Less offended"? What idiot would be less offended? Another person is with the man's wife.

How about this question; "Would you physically beat her lover or shoot her lover, or walk away?"

When a man catches another man in bed with his woman, sometimes, out of rage, he would get a gun and shoot both of them, or physically beat the lover.

When a woman catches her man in bed with another man, out of rage, she is very likely to shoot both of them, lacking the ability to beat them, or maybe she grabs a baseball bat.

So would a man , out of rage, shoot both his wife and female lover, or beat them, or walk away?

The nonsense of joining them is pretty adolescent .

Be a man , walk away, is pretty stupid too...unless you are in that position , gone through whatever it was that led up to that moment... you don't really know what you'd do.

Of course if you don't really "Care", man or woman, you'd probably just walk away. But what if you very much passionately cared, and you walked in on your wife with a woman?


Yours_4A_knight 55M
1397 posts
9/20/2018 9:07 pm

If she lied to be with her lover she is cheating, if she was honest about it them she is not. Cheating is not the act in my opinion, but the lies to cover it up.

I would expect that she would demand a divorce though.

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nostalgic68 61M
374 posts
9/21/2018 10:31 am

she doesn't want sex with me let alone anyone else. Physical and mental issues that drugs seemingly only make it worse. Is it cheating if after 40 yrs I look outside my marriage?


craigers4u 52M
9 posts
9/22/2018 9:53 pm

Id go with the it is cheating crowd but id want to join in to make it even!! Well kinda lol


mkusmile1959 61M
28 posts
9/24/2018 9:46 am

cheating , is when you do something that you and your partner haven't agreed upon.


greggo65 55M
23 posts
9/25/2018 4:37 pm

If you have to ask is it cheating seems a good chance that it is


Granny872 68F  
2720 posts
9/26/2018 3:54 am

Interesting to consider how the lines are b/w for some, gray for some, and "woohoo, who cares if she's cheating as long as I get a piece of the action!" Who says self-satisfaction is not alive and kicking??!! SMH. Not that it makes a difference to anyone else reading this, but for me, it would be a violation of an emotional bond or trust that I thought existed. Once that violation has taken place, you might be able to repair things, but the core relationship has been weakened.


alwaysawake91 29M  
7 posts
9/29/2018 2:26 pm

It's cheating but I would be way more receptive to it.


vikter30 44M  
34 posts
9/29/2018 3:52 pm

yep, its still cheating.


MasterPaul73 39M
11 posts
9/30/2018 12:15 pm

yes its cheating


TnTvariety 58M
7 posts
10/1/2018 8:10 am

I would hope they would at least ask me to stay a while and perhaps at some point join in.

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Aes604 46M
47 posts
10/1/2018 5:31 pm

If you weren't told then it was cheating


gmailwananooner 65M
20 posts
10/1/2018 11:07 pm

I wouldn't consider it cheating! Since we have an open relationship, she or I have the option of having a sex romp with anyone we choose to, so to see her with another woman wouldn't be considered cheating. I'd probably be invited to join in, hopefully sooner than later.


candylicker_6t9 59M
317 posts
10/2/2018 6:26 am

We should have at least talked about it and the possibility.


sdbnow 64M/63F
32 posts
10/2/2018 8:51 am

If you have an honest relationship and fun with other people, no not cheating but if it is done behind your partners back yes it is cheating.


dirkshouse 39M
2 posts
10/4/2018 8:02 pm

it would be cheating but it would be easyer to handle


BBCwanted7682 44M/38F  
4 posts
10/6/2018 1:51 am

yes if it wasnt discussed beforehand and agred upon post 4138153


itastethespot 40M
7 posts
10/6/2018 3:04 pm

Cheating is cheating.......


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