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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
13969 posts
7/27/2018 5:54 am
Orgasms


CAN YOU TELL IF A WOMAN IS FAKING IT???

I MUST admit... I've gotten really good at faking it.

A lot of women I talk to say that men just aren't that great in bed... and are really quick.... and they just get frustrated and fake it...

Your opinion????

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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
7/27/2018 5:57 am

    Quoting  :

What is the give away??? lol

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tmacshane26 36M
2092 posts
7/27/2018 5:59 am

It depends on the sexual situation. If your barely making love to her and she is faking it. It means maybe she is bored and thinks you will finish early. If your realy giving it to her she will have multiple orgasms and enjoy wvery second of it. She will come back for more.


Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
7/27/2018 6:01 am

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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
7/27/2018 6:01 am

    Quoting tmacshane26:
    It depends on the sexual situation. If your barely making love to her and she is faking it. It means maybe she is bored and thinks you will finish early. If your realy giving it to her she will have multiple orgasms and enjoy wvery second of it. She will come back for more.


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Iamlooking4funu2 46M
109 posts
7/27/2018 6:05 am

Yes and No . All women orgasm in different ways with different actions. If you like it one way then speak up and get what you want and need to get the job done.


Story435 72M
3326 posts
7/27/2018 6:06 am

Hello Kitten!
I you did fake it I would not know you did! But I can last a long time in bed very long time!
Classy Cat
Butch


Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
7/27/2018 6:06 am

    Quoting Iamlooking4funu2:
    Yes and No . All women orgasm in different ways with different actions. If you like it one way then speak up and get what you want and need to get the job done.


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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
7/27/2018 6:07 am

    Quoting Story435:
    Hello Kitten!
    I you did fake it I would not know you did! But I can last a long time in bed very long time!
    Classy Cat
    Butch
How would you know??? meow

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UrbanMale7 71M

7/27/2018 6:08 am

I imagine that is true. I knew two women who looked upon a sexual advance by their spouses as a "to do"... They just lay there and went through the motions until he finished.

How sad.............


Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
7/27/2018 6:12 am

    Quoting UrbanMale7:
    I imagine that is true. I knew two women who looked upon a sexual advance by their spouses as a "to do"... They just lay there and went through the motions until he finished.

    How sad.............
That is sad. Something needs to happen t bring back the spark.

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bitchkitty2017 68F  
5303 posts
7/27/2018 6:17 am

of course all women fake it every now and then how else can you boost a mans ego if you don't?..lol...if a man knows how to totally satisfy a woman hes only worth a fake orgasm !


CleavageFan4U 63M  
63632 posts
7/27/2018 6:26 am

YIKES - now you got me wondering!!

But unless the lie too, most are very complimentary afterwards, and eager to go again, so...

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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
7/27/2018 6:28 am

    Quoting bitchkitty2017:
    of course all women fake it every now and then how else can you boost a mans ego if you don't?..lol...if a man knows how to totally satisfy a woman hes only worth a fake orgasm !
True!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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20ForMILF 22M

7/27/2018 6:32 am

Yes, at least if it is a lover I'm familiar with or been with for any amount of time. Muscle spasms, eyes, irregular breathing and even the vocal changes or screams cannot all be faked simultaneously. Well I say this but to the best of my knowledge nobody has ever faked an orgasm with me so I guess it's possible everyone was faking


Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
7/27/2018 6:33 am

    Quoting 20ForMILF:
    Yes, at least if it is a lover I'm familiar with or been with for any amount of time. Muscle spasms, eyes, irregular breathing and even the vocal changes or screams cannot all be faked simultaneously. Well I say this but to the best of my knowledge nobody has ever faked an orgasm with me so I guess it's possible everyone was faking
You are too young to have that much experience.. aren't you?? lol

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HedonicHeathen 53M
198 posts
7/27/2018 7:10 am

Are her lips moving?
Oh wait that is for the more northern expression of disingenuous wind ... in which case as evidence just like guys with the movement of lips.

Wilhelm Reich put it that the true function of the Orgasm was to release the neurotic tension of the normal acculturated clutter of tensions, unresolved conflict, BS, the 8 winds, whatever hassles that life presents internal OR external ... Endogenous OR Exdogenous ... Inspired OR expired dreams not met. All those little things that collect like unresolved desires to punch a clock OR for once not having to take orders from a watch - whatever... it accumulates like everything does and that which is not handled ... could be released through orgasm. Which if down with the full reflexive arch releases that tension. Not the with strained held back, 'barely moved by', narcissistic wenches of a disaffected porn star or sex worker.

This gets at the question of what is real Vs Fake. Orgasm an essential part of the notion of sex, but not the whole of it. Likewise, sex is not the whole of an identity or personality, but an important part of it - fundamentally so -and so on to gender and culture.

Critics of the modern world state that the civilizing of the sex act is more the sophistication of the natural functions. They miss, I think, the point that without civilizing and culture, one is likely to be hunted like an animal and treated as such with maxims of 'He who makes a beast of himself erases the pain of being a man'. Meanwhile cynical sex experts more concerned with being able to out-fake the Other and appear more functional ... don't really release the tension and thereby really do miss the release of the possibly more authentic orgasm reflex and thereby make the necessity of faking it and fooling them and the facade of more all majority all the more unavoidable.

You could dive deep on the topic ... Spend some time with Tantra, ESO, Taoist Sex play ... OR ... if you wanna nerd about it ...Kama Sutra/I-ching 8x8 64 matix of 3D chess played with a doe, mare, and bull-elephant squaring off with the rabbit, steed, or Bull ... cause you know nothing speaks of chess like barnyard follies! Get down into that Orgasm ... lose your mind if you don't mind. Fucking cum from your earth center foot reflex out through your thurd eye. What do you have to lose? Other than competitive and cognitive edge over another that you may or may not trust .... depending on your own level of security and fittedness.

After learning these things .... I think in the end seeing that while a good gasm is a release it is not a solution to the accumulation of enturbulated BS, just a repense with an expense... But man can I fake an orgasm so much better than when I was younger, dumber and filled with more poison. Can I spot a faker ... yeah every time ... They aren't hard to spot ... I see one every day in the morning staring back at me in the mirror.

Spotting the fake is easy ... that's the norm. Spotting the genuine article .. the realer than real, no sincerity spouting, verbal 'spressions of the OKness with being an animal and OKness with being around other human's without concern that one or the other might get in the ear. That's more challenging and so easy to lose sight of in the pornification of culture and the culture of porn that passes for the social milieu of 'Do onto others before they do onto you.'

Saw Tommy Chong Recently interviewed by Snoop Dogg and he said he did time with that wolf of wall street guy and the advice Tommy gave him was 'nah man you can't go on bullshitting about lies anymore, but you can turn it around and start bullshing about the truth.

Enough about the Orgasm ... how about the Norgasm, or the Xorgasm, Xandorgasm, nandorgasm ... so many different ways to walk through the gate.


phillyfriend54 51M
30 posts
7/27/2018 7:39 am

I always cum after the girl to the point that I'm sure she has had an orgasm....there is a spot I reach that seems to transform the action from nice to NICE!


B0x069xxx 43M
133 posts
7/27/2018 8:44 am

Can can always tell if she faking or not. It’s almost impossible for a woman to fake the vaginal spasms as it clinches tight around my fingers or cock.
Just sayin. LOL
And a real man will focus on making you cum bc it’s almost always guarantied men will come. It’s a big difference between men and fuckboys. LOL


vanbumlvr 53M
391 posts
7/27/2018 10:02 am

.. brings back memories of the Seinfeld episode with Elaine admitting to faking it all. priceless!


NewName62 57M
11929 posts
7/27/2018 1:29 pm

My fingers can tell if a woman is faking it, unless she is really good at doing Kegel's, rhythmically.

[gulp]
Aaaaand...I just got hard.


Leegs2012 47M
58275 posts
7/27/2018 2:11 pm

I love going down on Women...I get them nice and wet...if they are faking it, they are doing an excellent job!!


JustRight4Yooo 67M

7/27/2018 4:22 pm

When I was young, I was fool enough not to know. Especially in the beginning, instead of a quick cummer. It was hard to cum, and I think a lot of girls got tired,
or would not admit they couldn't cum... Today, it a much better situation... I woman who doesn't fake it get much more wet, and in many case with me squirts... Besides, todays woman demand her turn to cum. I love that! I love the satisfaction I get from pleasuring a woman...


rick315875 62M
11017 posts
7/27/2018 5:02 pm

If you are feeling frustrated and feel like you need to fake it. Then I would suggest talking with your sexual partner communicating your thoughts and feelings about your sexual interaction.


Lostincarlsbad 59M
34 posts
7/27/2018 9:36 pm

What a beautiful young lady you are. The key isn't how long you last as a guy. It's the fore play. You have to satisfy your lady with some foreplay before you get down to business. Women seem to be quite insatiable. SO the more kissing, nibbling and attention you give them the more they'll want you to come back


Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
7/28/2018 2:27 pm

    Quoting JustRight4Yooo:
    When I was young, I was fool enough not to know. Especially in the beginning, instead of a quick cummer. It was hard to cum, and I think a lot of girls got tired,
    or would not admit they couldn't cum... Today, it a much better situation... I woman who doesn't fake it get much more wet, and in many case with me squirts... Besides, todays woman demand her turn to cum. I love that! I love the satisfaction I get from pleasuring a woman...


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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
7/28/2018 2:28 pm

    Quoting HedonicHeathen:
    Are her lips moving?
    Oh wait that is for the more northern expression of disingenuous wind ... in which case as evidence just like guys with the movement of lips.

    Wilhelm Reich put it that the true function of the Orgasm was to release the neurotic tension of the normal acculturated clutter of tensions, unresolved conflict, BS, the 8 winds, whatever hassles that life presents internal OR external ... Endogenous OR Exdogenous ... Inspired OR expired dreams not met. All those little things that collect like unresolved desires to punch a clock OR for once not having to take orders from a watch - whatever... it accumulates like everything does and that which is not handled ... could be released through orgasm. Which if down with the full reflexive arch releases that tension. Not the with strained held back, 'barely moved by', narcissistic wenches of a disaffected porn star or sex worker.

    This gets at the question of what is real Vs Fake. Orgasm an essential part of the notion of sex, but not the whole of it. Likewise, sex is not the whole of an identity or personality, but an important part of it - fundamentally so -and so on to gender and culture.

    Critics of the modern world state that the civilizing of the sex act is more the sophistication of the natural functions. They miss, I think, the point that without civilizing and culture, one is likely to be hunted like an animal and treated as such with maxims of 'He who makes a beast of himself erases the pain of being a man'. Meanwhile cynical sex experts more concerned with being able to out-fake the Other and appear more functional ... don't really release the tension and thereby really do miss the release of the possibly more authentic orgasm reflex and thereby make the necessity of faking it and fooling them and the facade of more all majority all the more unavoidable.

    You could dive deep on the topic ... Spend some time with Tantra, ESO, Taoist Sex play ... OR ... if you wanna nerd about it ...Kama Sutra/I-ching 8x8 64 matix of 3D chess played with a doe, mare, and bull-elephant squaring off with the rabbit, steed, or Bull ... cause you know nothing speaks of chess like barnyard follies! Get down into that Orgasm ... lose your mind if you don't mind. Fucking cum from your earth center foot reflex out through your thurd eye. What do you have to lose? Other than competitive and cognitive edge over another that you may or may not trust .... depending on your own level of security and fittedness.

    After learning these things .... I think in the end seeing that while a good gasm is a release it is not a solution to the accumulation of enturbulated BS, just a repense with an expense... But man can I fake an orgasm so much better than when I was younger, dumber and filled with more poison. Can I spot a faker ... yeah every time ... They aren't hard to spot ... I see one every day in the morning staring back at me in the mirror.

    Spotting the fake is easy ... that's the norm. Spotting the genuine article .. the realer than real, no sincerity spouting, verbal 'spressions of the OKness with being an animal and OKness with being around other human's without concern that one or the other might get in the ear. That's more challenging and so easy to lose sight of in the pornification of culture and the culture of porn that passes for the social milieu of 'Do onto others before they do onto you.'

    Saw Tommy Chong Recently interviewed by Snoop Dogg and he said he did time with that wolf of wall street guy and the advice Tommy gave him was 'nah man you can't go on bullshitting about lies anymore, but you can turn it around and start bullshing about the truth.

    Enough about the Orgasm ... how about the Norgasm, or the Xorgasm, Xandorgasm, nandorgasm ... so many different ways to walk through the gate.


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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
7/28/2018 2:28 pm

    Quoting  :



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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
7/28/2018 2:28 pm

    Quoting phillyfriend54:
    I always cum after the girl to the point that I'm sure she has had an orgasm....there is a spot I reach that seems to transform the action from nice to NICE!


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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
7/28/2018 2:28 pm

    Quoting  :



THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG


Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
7/28/2018 2:29 pm

    Quoting B0x069xxx:
    Can can always tell if she faking or not. It’s almost impossible for a woman to fake the vaginal spasms as it clinches tight around my fingers or cock.
    Just sayin. LOL
    And a real man will focus on making you cum bc it’s almost always guarantied men will come. It’s a big difference between men and fuckboys. LOL


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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
7/28/2018 2:29 pm

    Quoting  :



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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
7/28/2018 2:30 pm

    Quoting NewName62:
    My fingers can tell if a woman is faking it, unless she is really good at doing Kegel's, rhythmically.


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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
7/28/2018 2:30 pm

    Quoting Leegs2012:
    I love going down on Women...I get them nice and wet...if they are faking it, they are doing an excellent job!!


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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
7/28/2018 2:31 pm

    Quoting rick315875:
    If you are feeling frustrated and feel like you need to fake it. Then I would suggest talking with your sexual partner communicating your thoughts and feelings about your sexual interaction.


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jrfree2play 51M  
139 posts
7/31/2018 10:56 am

I don't think they are, but it is pretty damn hard to tell sometimes. LOL


HONOLULU365 49M  
47 posts
8/2/2018 2:42 pm

You're very beautiful and sexy !

Kisses.


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