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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
13962 posts
7/30/2018 1:35 pm
PORN


My question for this blog is.....

IS PORN CHEATING? IF YOU WATCH PORN BEHIND YOUR PARTNERS BACK.... is that cheating?

Many of you will say NO... but I've seen a porn addiction destroy a relationship....
If a man watches and masturbates to porn.... does he lose interest in his partner?

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LakeRidgeBBWSeek 60M
3751 posts
7/30/2018 1:41 pm

PORN is NOT cheating, unless your partner is hurt by your viewing it. It can however wrecc a relationship, unless you both share the interest ! If you are doing it behind your partner's bac, well, you two need to converse about it !


Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
7/30/2018 1:43 pm

    Quoting LakeRidgeBBWSeek:
    PORN is NOT cheating, unless your partner is hurt by your viewing it. It can however wrecc a relationship, unless you both share the interest ! If you are doing it behind your partner's bac, well, you two need to converse about it !
I agree with you.

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ismaithliom56 64M  
411 posts
7/30/2018 1:48 pm

If you share and watch together I think it's great. Behind there back or hidden well that could be a problem.


Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
7/30/2018 1:52 pm

    Quoting ismaithliom56:
    If you share and watch together I think it's great. Behind there back or hidden well that could be a problem.
Thank you .... I am happy to see a man with your thinking...

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shogun_269u_II 58M
99 posts
7/30/2018 1:56 pm

How about if you have conversed with your partner, encouraged exploration together and separately and he \ she has decided his \ her only interest is very plain vanilla sex with no possibility of open mindness if curious partner then turns to porn as a means of quenching those desires, is that then cheating?


nostringsfun880 51M
3 posts
7/30/2018 2:00 pm

what if your wife has a medical condition that has made her lose the ability or desire to have sex and you watch porn rather than find something or someone to relieve your sexual desires. You are not telling her because you don't want to hurt her.


love2pleasu13 52M
6474 posts
7/30/2018 2:02 pm

Oh no the famous word porn. Watching it is it cheating. Why call it cheating. Just cause somebody wants 2 watch it and the other don't. No it's not cheating rather a way 2 watch something with nude people. Doing what we all love 2 do. Which i having wild crazy sex. Don't be a prude and be rude. Let em watch some porn and be reborn.


Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
7/30/2018 2:07 pm

    Quoting shogun_269u_II:
    How about if you have conversed with your partner, encouraged exploration together and separately and he \ she has decided his \ her only interest is very plain vanilla sex with no possibility of open mindness if curious partner then turns to porn as a means of quenching those desires, is that then cheating?


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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
7/30/2018 2:07 pm

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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
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7/30/2018 2:07 pm

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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
7/30/2018 2:08 pm

    Quoting love2pleasu13:
    Oh no the famous word porn. Watching it is it cheating. Why call it cheating. Just cause somebody wants 2 watch it and the other don't. No it's not cheating rather a way 2 watch something with nude people. Doing what we all love 2 do. Which i having wild crazy sex. Don't be a prude and be rude. Let em watch some porn and be reborn.


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BritishN 41M
5 posts
7/30/2018 2:45 pm

Watching and more importantly enjoying porn I deem to be not cheating. If it does become an 'issue' then there is something wrong 'between the sheets' and/or 'between the ears'.
On the trust side of things I have a saying - "Never trust a man who says he doesn't like porn"...those who do are probably unhappy, don't talk about it with their partner and watch it in secret!


tmacshane26 35M
2092 posts
7/30/2018 3:26 pm

I'm a single guy so watching porn is a big deal. If I had a partner then I would not watch it, unless she gave permission or she we watch together.

I feel that honesty is the most important thing in a relationship. Doing behind your partners back is just wrong. The same goes for camiing. You should not cam behind your partners back either. I see that a lot here on the site.


Leegs2012 47M
56828 posts
7/30/2018 3:29 pm

I am a swinger, so all is good when I watch Porn and I tell her about any new hot Porn that I have been watching. We usually watch it the nude together the next time and we take it from there...nice!!


Story435 72M
3298 posts
7/30/2018 4:59 pm

Well I don't know been awhile that I have watch porn by myself ! I could see that it may hurt some relationships. I watch some porn with my gf and made some videos!
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20ForMILF 22M

7/30/2018 5:31 pm

Not in my opinion is looking at porn cheating. I don't view it behind my partners back as I would not have a partner that would object or be so controlling. Nor does masturbating in anyway decrease the urge for sex but is a means of gratification until sex is possible. I believe a porn "addiction" could end a relationship, or a job, education, etc.... the very definition of addiction means that you continue doing it even though it harms you or causes serious consequences. But drinking is not terrible unless you're an alcoholic then you too are an addict.


CleavageFan4U 63M  
63220 posts
7/30/2018 6:58 pm

Hummm, interesting point.

Nothing worse than getting caught jerking-off, well UNLESS you wanted to get caught!

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Horny_Cat68 52M  
582 posts
7/30/2018 7:37 pm

I would have to say no, it's not cheating, that's not to say it can't become an issue if it develops into an addiction, but on the surface, no not cheating. I say talk to your partner and see if he or she will watch it with you.

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CumchatwMike 44M
252 posts
7/31/2018 6:02 am

Porn is not bad until it replaces real life!! If you can use it as a tool, then is not cheating... If you use it to replace real life, then it is!


jrfree2play 51M  
139 posts
7/31/2018 11:01 am

I don't think it's cheating, because it's self pleasure. However, you can't let the porn distract you from the real life relationship. You still have to be attentive to your partner and their needs.


luvinyoutoo 52M
72 posts
8/1/2018 1:51 am

watching porn is not cheating but to let it ruin a relationship is just dumb


Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
8/2/2018 5:33 am

    Quoting  :



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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
8/2/2018 5:33 am

    Quoting BritishN:
    Watching and more importantly enjoying porn I deem to be not cheating. If it does become an 'issue' then there is something wrong 'between the sheets' and/or 'between the ears'.
    On the trust side of things I have a saying - "Never trust a man who says he doesn't like porn"...those who do are probably unhappy, don't talk about it with their partner and watch it in secret!


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