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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
13961 posts
8/7/2018 11:30 am
Strip Clubs


Men who go looking for a girlfriend in a strip club have always amazed me.
The girls who work in the strip club and there for the money.... it's not a singles club.... but still...... some men chose to attempt to date these girls......

AND ... they are HURT and FEEL USED when these girls move on to the next guy.....
after all his money is gone......

How do you feel about dating a woman you met at a strip club???

Would you date a woman you met at a strip club..???

Just want to see how a guy feels about this.....

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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
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8/7/2018 11:32 am



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1salesman3 65M
5066 posts
8/7/2018 11:34 am

I would not.


Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
8/7/2018 11:37 am

maybe if you met her some where else.... but not if you meet her at work...

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funsnellvillecpl 63M/51F  
2366 posts
8/7/2018 11:37 am

not a chance in hell , been to a few over the yrs ( not many ) but have no interest


Sflguy04 62M
298 posts
8/7/2018 11:38 am

Nope, they are beautiful and sexy however still just entertainment


WeWantYouToP1ay 41M/35F

8/7/2018 11:49 am

date? no. bang? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯


hotime585 69M  
111 posts
8/7/2018 11:50 am

NO WAY !!!


nwilm4u2 64M
437 posts
8/7/2018 11:56 am

Only if she wanted to be with me. With in most cases only in my dreams!!


Riderprider73 47M  
27 posts
8/7/2018 12:01 pm

I can't see how you can date someone you met from a strip club. Yes, some of the women are hot and yes, I will admit, I would love to fuck them. But realistically, I can't see it happening.


_IKanCu2_ 101M
2700 posts
8/7/2018 12:04 pm

aaaaahhhhhhhh Yes. ][t has been over 30yrs. since ][ have been to any Club/bar.
Yes, ][ would date a woman from the S-Club/Bar "if" She] WAS that into (\/)e.
][t*z a work place for these "Entertainer*z" nothing more.
Some Men know this, the numb Horn-d0g majority don't, No sympathy/support from Me for them.
][ once knew a guy that got LucKy with a Lady from the club. S/-/e was 12yrs. his senior.
Only recently did ][ hear that S\-\e had just passed away. They made a Great Pair.
][ know /-/e won't re-hook up again, /-/e is still that into /-/er as S/-/e was him.
Yes,,, ][t does happen, What join*z a Man & Woman together is their business, BLeSSeD by God.
This ][ Know ~
]✨✨~✨✨ We are Sorry ,,, The GoDDeSS Yu have reached,,, ✨✨~✨✨
✨✨~✨✨ is Totally Out of Yur Area,,,✨✨~✨✨
Please,,, C/-/ecK Yur GoDDeSS*z ][mage,,,
,✨✨~✨✨ and Try Yur \\/\\/is//-/ again.,✨✨~✨✨
✨✨~✨✨ tY***✨✨~✨✨



Cpllooking6671 53M/49F  
2643 posts
8/7/2018 12:12 pm

Nope.... Couldn't see this ever happening.
Not saying it isn't possible that a real relationship is possible..
Like on the level of the Browns could win the Super Bowl possible...
Just not very bloody likely...


luvs2grin 47M
357 posts
8/7/2018 12:17 pm

I dated a few strippers when I was young and in the army, and my eyes were wide open but it was all short term dating. If it's just a job and we met outside it, maybe but it would be the same as anything else - what's her character like. Because that's what is important, if you are paying for everything to keep someone interested, they are an escort and you are paying for their time. That never interested me.

It seems quite different now, a few months ago - I was at a strip club with a woman I was seeing and the dancer came on so hard she gave her phone number to her. Before we left I had to laugh after the "stripper" said to her, text me, it'd be fun to go shopping together. She had already talked about going out to dinner and drinking with us. I can't imagine that being anything but a hint: buy her things to take her home, which doesn't interest me or the woman I was with. We were just there to watch, then go home and have our fun!

Being married was as close to paying for sex as I want to get. Sex is way more fun when it's about mutual satisfaction and fun. Not a business deal. IMHO

That was one stripper/one time, and I have met others who were not like that, just there to work the crowd and go home. Nice women, most of the time.

And the snazziness or expense of the club doesn't matter at all, as everyone is different and some are more desperate for cash than others...


papis_baby_girl 41F
5296 posts
8/7/2018 12:28 pm

Guys don't want to date the women on this site, do you honestly think they want to date a stripper?

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rick315875 62M
10364 posts
8/7/2018 12:30 pm

I've never been to a strip club. A waste of money.


1234tomtom1234 54M
30 posts
8/7/2018 12:40 pm

I see nothing wrong with dating a stripper on an emotional level. If your personalities match up and you have great chemistry, what a person does for a living shouldn't change that.
Having said that I think the sexual aspect of the relationship might be unsatisfying. After spending the whole day being naked, propositioned, groped and rubbed is she really going to want that when she gets home. A mechanic always has the worst looking car on the street, a teacher never has children of their own and an athlete rarely watches their own sport for pleasure.
So if your looking for a great partner with a limited sex life I say go for it.


Story435 72M
3187 posts
8/7/2018 1:07 pm

No have never even tried to date a girl in a strip club. Only been two lol. I would say not a good place to find a date. Some of the girls are married.
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MissCinders 54F
1529 posts
8/7/2018 1:38 pm

Did I just read "being married was as to close to paying for sex...." WTH????


CleavageFan4U 63M  
62032 posts
8/7/2018 2:16 pm

Of course I would - DID (briefly) actually.

But I didn't met her there, and I THINK I was more than a pay-pig to her. I ADORED hearing her stories!!

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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
8/7/2018 3:03 pm

    Quoting funsnellvillecpl:
    not a chance in hell , been to a few over the yrs ( not many ) but have no interest


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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
8/7/2018 3:04 pm



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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
8/7/2018 3:04 pm

    Quoting  :



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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
8/7/2018 3:04 pm

    Quoting _IKanCu2_:
    aaaaahhhhhhhh Yes. ][t has been over 30yrs. since ][ have been to any Club/bar.
    Yes, ][ would date a woman from the S-Club/Bar "if" She] WAS that into (\/)e.
    ][t*z a work place for these "Entertainer*z" nothing more.
    Some Men know this, the numb Horn-d0g majority don't, No sympathy/support from Me for them.
    ][ once knew a guy that got LucKy with a Lady from the club. S/-/e was 12yrs. his senior.
    Only recently did ][ hear that S\-\e had just passed away. They made a Great Pair.
    ][ know /-/e won't re-hook up again, /-/e is still that into /-/er as S/-/e was him.
    Yes,,, ][t does happen, What join*z a Man & Woman together is their business, BLeSSeD by God.
    This ][ Know ~

    ]
    ✨✨~✨✨ We are Sorry ,,, The GoDDeSS Yu have reached,,, ✨✨~✨✨
    ✨✨~✨✨ is Totally Out of Yur Area,,,✨✨~✨✨
    Please,,, C/-/ecK Yur GoDDeSS*z ][mage,,,
    ,✨✨~✨✨ and Try Yur \\/\\/is//-/ again.,✨✨~✨✨
    ✨✨~✨✨ tY***✨✨~✨✨



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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
8/7/2018 3:05 pm

    Quoting luvs2grin:
    I dated a few strippers when I was young and in the army, and my eyes were wide open but it was all short term dating. If it's just a job and we met outside it, maybe but it would be the same as anything else - what's her character like. Because that's what is important, if you are paying for everything to keep someone interested, they are an escort and you are paying for their time. That never interested me.

    It seems quite different now, a few months ago - I was at a strip club with a woman I was seeing and the dancer came on so hard she gave her phone number to her. Before we left I had to laugh after the "stripper" said to her, text me, it'd be fun to go shopping together. She had already talked about going out to dinner and drinking with us. I can't imagine that being anything but a hint: buy her things to take her home, which doesn't interest me or the woman I was with. We were just there to watch, then go home and have our fun!

    Being married was as close to paying for sex as I want to get. Sex is way more fun when it's about mutual satisfaction and fun. Not a business deal. IMHO

    That was one stripper/one time, and I have met others who were not like that, just there to work the crowd and go home. Nice women, most of the time.

    And the snazziness or expense of the club doesn't matter at all, as everyone is different and some are more desperate for cash than others...


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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
8/7/2018 3:05 pm

    Quoting  :

lol

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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
8/7/2018 3:05 pm

    Quoting rick315875:
    I've never been to a strip club. A waste of money.


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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
8/7/2018 3:06 pm

    Quoting  :



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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
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8/7/2018 3:07 pm



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Isttime4us 60M/60F
137 posts
8/7/2018 3:24 pm

so what's the difference between a strip club and AdultFriendFinder ? either way it's women using sex to manipulate men for their own personal gain


Horny_Cat68 51M  
582 posts
8/7/2018 4:46 pm

Never really saw the appeal of strip clubs, some of the women are decent enough looking I suppose, but all they want is your paycheck, so would I date one? Maybe, as long as I didn't meet her there, or know that's what she did. When I was younger though, I did date a Hooters girl.

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Leegs2012 47M
54460 posts
8/7/2018 4:47 pm

I swing so I would love and have dated Strippers.


20ForMILF 22M

8/7/2018 5:09 pm

I agree with your sentiment for the most part. I would date someone who works in a strip club and have dated several who do. I've also worked as an escort for private strippers who do parties where I pick them up, drive them there, collect their money and watch out for them while they perform.

Most men go to strip clubs and conduct themselves like most men. No stripper is going to feel flattered if you compliment her body as she hears that hundreds of times per day. Nor are you going to impress her with how much money you give her, no matter how much you give. The more you give the less she will respect you. Talk to one about another physical feature such as her eyes, hair, a piece of jewelry. Talk to her about her life and they are like any other women and will respond like any other women.

I find the atmosphere depressing because of all the weirdo types who go by themselves then shovel money to the dancers, over indulge in alcohol, then you can see the regret on their faces as they start checking the time and counting their remaining money. You know what they say, "a fool and their money are soon parted."

But strippers are people and some of them are very good people. Many have problems like anyone else but a lot depends on the club they work at because the low quality clubs will not attract high quality dancers.


A1Xpleaser 61M
410 posts
8/7/2018 10:22 pm

Not interested in strip clubs nor the women there. Guess I'm a bit pickier. Looking for a better standard.


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 59M
3755 posts
8/7/2018 11:06 pm

First, I would date a woman from this site, if any of them wanted to date me!
Secondly, Yes, I have dated a gal who was a stripper, I 1st saw her at the club that I went to a total of 4 times in my entire life, but we didnt meet there. It wasnt until a weec later that we met, while I was on my delivery route. I conversed with her at least 3 times when I was deliviering, and finally as ed her out, never telling her I new her occupation. We dated for over a year, and SHE told ME on our 1st date what her occupation was, no appologies, she just wanted to let me noe. She also didnt want me to visit the club, neither when she was worccing or not. We had a lot of fun in that year, but as most who DO go to such clubs noe, fresh bodies are required after awhile, and she moved to Chicago (450 miles from me) to continue her carrear. We lost trac about a year later when she moved again.


Heathen_G 61M
7863 posts
8/7/2018 11:17 pm

Strip Clubs .... Variety pack.

Men who go looking for a girlfriend in a strip club ....Are taking a short cut, and even if he did find one, she couldn't see him outside of the club, because club managers don't want their girls dating [having sex with] the customer outside of the club. She could lose her job there.

Although, better if the male does not "Look" for the girlfriend". Men who are doing something right in their life, tend to have women looking for him.


The girls who work in the strip club are there for the money. ... The girls who do NOT work in strip clubs are looking for men with money [a successful man]. So really either way.

If you did manage to become bf and gf with a stripper...you would have to accept that she is grinding on at least 20 to 100 men a night. And some of those guys are looking a girlfriend.

.. it's not a singles club... ......In a way , it is a single club... even if the guy is married... or if the stripper is married [and has kids at home]. For twenty bucks [up to however much you want to drop on her], you're both getting the "Singles experience".
The funny thing is, the guy just spent 20 bucks on a chick, but instead of for drinks and dinner, he just paid her for what he really wants a woman for, then she goes away.... perfect.

The perfect scenario outside of a strip club? You meet a woman, she says, "Hi , I'm horny, lets fuck", and in a few minutes you're in bed together.

but still...... some men chose to attempt to date these girls...... ... Well sure. What's the stripper doing that a non-stripper is doing ? She doesn't have all her clothes on. That's all. Absolutely nothing different between a stripper, and the girl you just meet by chance any where else. They both want a man with money....they both will walk away when you have no money. So what the hell...... take a chance and see if she'll go out with you........ but of course, lots of clubs don't allow their women to date [have sex with] the customer outside of the club.

AND ... they are HURT and FEEL USED when these girls move on to the next guy..... ..... Good experience for the world outside of the club.. Women look for successful men. Women will move onto the next guy if you don't have what it takes.

after all his money is gone...... In what reality does that never happen? None. Women will seek a better man, [trade up], if those women can attract better.

How do you feel about dating a woman you met at a strip club? ... Pretty much the same as dating a woman from here, or any other place you meet her.

Would you date a woman you met at a strip club..? ... If she was there for a lap dance? Sure.
If she was the stripper? Sure.

Keeping in mind that "Dating" means "To have sex with", and "Dating" is typically not exclusive anyway. The guy who would have problems is the guy who wants a commitment and exclusivity from one of these girls.


Heathen_G 61M
7863 posts
8/7/2018 11:21 pm

    Quoting papis_baby_girl:
    Guys don't want to date the women on this site, do you honestly think they want to date a stripper?
"Date" means "To have sex with". So men on this site do want to "Date" some of the women on this site.


Heathen_G 61M
7863 posts
8/7/2018 11:25 pm

    Quoting MissCinders:
    Did I just read "being married was as to close to paying for sex...." WTH????
He's right. You married women are basically legal prostitutes, and if you get a divorce, you get a bonus check.


Looknfind18 67M  
4232 posts
8/8/2018 4:34 am

I did date a stripper one time, although I met her outside the club. She always separated work and play.


lyavu 47F  
1346 posts
8/8/2018 4:36 am

Men think with dicks not brains .


20ForMILF 22M

8/9/2018 4:07 am

Wow, I find most of the replies here a depressing reflection of how most men think. How could you rule someone out or in based on watching them work as a stripper? I really doubt most of those commenting have known a stripper well enough to critique their character. They are people, like secretary's, teachers, nurses, etc... there are good and bad ones. In the shady clubs there tend to be an abundance of drug addicted ones but in nicer clubs not so. One of our local clubs routinely employs former Playboy models, at least one or two at a time. They earn very good money, drive very nice cars, have children, husbands, families just like everyone else.

Don't throw your money into a wishing well and then get mad at the well for taking your money.


Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
8/9/2018 5:55 am

    Quoting Isttime4us:
    so what's the difference between a strip club and AdultFriendFinder ? either way it's women using sex to manipulate men for their own personal gain
A huge difference..... I'm only on here to blog and make on line friends.... and for the most part... I keep my clothes on. meeow

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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
8/9/2018 5:55 am

    Quoting Horny_Cat68:
    Never really saw the appeal of strip clubs, some of the women are decent enough looking I suppose, but all they want is your paycheck, so would I date one? Maybe, as long as I didn't meet her there, or know that's what she did. When I was younger though, I did date a Hooters girl.


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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
8/9/2018 5:56 am

    Quoting Leegs2012:
    I swing so I would love and have dated Strippers.


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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
8/9/2018 5:56 am

    Quoting 20ForMILF:
    I agree with your sentiment for the most part. I would date someone who works in a strip club and have dated several who do. I've also worked as an escort for private strippers who do parties where I pick them up, drive them there, collect their money and watch out for them while they perform.

    Most men go to strip clubs and conduct themselves like most men. No stripper is going to feel flattered if you compliment her body as she hears that hundreds of times per day. Nor are you going to impress her with how much money you give her, no matter how much you give. The more you give the less she will respect you. Talk to one about another physical feature such as her eyes, hair, a piece of jewelry. Talk to her about her life and they are like any other women and will respond like any other women.

    I find the atmosphere depressing because of all the weirdo types who go by themselves then shovel money to the dancers, over indulge in alcohol, then you can see the regret on their faces as they start checking the time and counting their remaining money. You know what they say, "a fool and their money are soon parted."

    But strippers are people and some of them are very good people. Many have problems like anyone else but a lot depends on the club they work at because the low quality clubs will not attract high quality dancers.
Do you have more pics?

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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
8/9/2018 5:57 am

    Quoting LakeRidgeBBWSeek:
    First, I would date a woman from this site, if any of them wanted to date me!
    Secondly, Yes, I have dated a gal who was a stripper, I 1st saw her at the club that I went to a total of 4 times in my entire life, but we didnt meet there. It wasnt until a weec later that we met, while I was on my delivery route. I conversed with her at least 3 times when I was deliviering, and finally as ed her out, never telling her I new her occupation. We dated for over a year, and SHE told ME on our 1st date what her occupation was, no appologies, she just wanted to let me noe. She also didnt want me to visit the club, neither when she was worccing or not. We had a lot of fun in that year, but as most who DO go to such clubs noe, fresh bodies are required after awhile, and she moved to Chicago (450 miles from me) to continue her carrear. We lost trac about a year later when she moved again.


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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
8/9/2018 5:58 am

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Strip Clubs .... Variety pack.

    Men who go looking for a girlfriend in a strip club ....Are taking a short cut, and even if he did find one, she couldn't see him outside of the club, because club managers don't want their girls dating [having sex with] the customer outside of the club. She could lose her job there.

    Although, better if the male does not "Look" for the girlfriend". Men who are doing something right in their life, tend to have women looking for him.


    The girls who work in the strip club are there for the money. ... The girls who do NOT work in strip clubs are looking for men with money [a successful man]. So really either way.

    If you did manage to become bf and gf with a stripper...you would have to accept that she is grinding on at least 20 to 100 men a night. And some of those guys are looking a girlfriend.

    .. it's not a singles club... ......In a way , it is a single club... even if the guy is married... or if the stripper is married [and has kids at home]. For twenty bucks [up to however much you want to drop on her], you're both getting the "Singles experience".
    The funny thing is, the guy just spent 20 bucks on a chick, but instead of for drinks and dinner, he just paid her for what he really wants a woman for, then she goes away.... perfect.

    The perfect scenario outside of a strip club? You meet a woman, she says, "Hi , I'm horny, lets fuck", and in a few minutes you're in bed together.

    but still...... some men chose to attempt to date these girls...... ... Well sure. What's the stripper doing that a non-stripper is doing ? She doesn't have all her clothes on. That's all. Absolutely nothing different between a stripper, and the girl you just meet by chance any where else. They both want a man with money....they both will walk away when you have no money. So what the hell...... take a chance and see if she'll go out with you........ but of course, lots of clubs don't allow their women to date [have sex with] the customer outside of the club.

    AND ... they are HURT and FEEL USED when these girls move on to the next guy..... ..... Good experience for the world outside of the club.. Women look for successful men. Women will move onto the next guy if you don't have what it takes.

    after all his money is gone...... In what reality does that never happen? None. Women will seek a better man, [trade up], if those women can attract better.

    How do you feel about dating a woman you met at a strip club? ... Pretty much the same as dating a woman from here, or any other place you meet her.

    Would you date a woman you met at a strip club..? ... If she was there for a lap dance? Sure.
    If she was the stripper? Sure.

    Keeping in mind that "Dating" means "To have sex with", and "Dating" is typically not exclusive anyway. The guy who would have problems is the guy who wants a commitment and exclusivity from one of these girls.
I always enjoy reading your responses.....

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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
8/9/2018 6:00 am

    Quoting lyavu:
    Men think with dicks not brains .
most of the time

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Cuddly_Kitten 51F
6354 posts
8/9/2018 6:01 am

    Quoting 20ForMILF:
    Wow, I find most of the replies here a depressing reflection of how most men think. How could you rule someone out or in based on watching them work as a stripper? I really doubt most of those commenting have known a stripper well enough to critique their character. They are people, like secretary's, teachers, nurses, etc... there are good and bad ones. In the shady clubs there tend to be an abundance of drug addicted ones but in nicer clubs not so. One of our local clubs routinely employs former Playboy models, at least one or two at a time. They earn very good money, drive very nice cars, have children, husbands, families just like everyone else.

    Don't throw your money into a wishing well and then get mad at the well for taking your money.
Good point!!!

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20ForMILF 22M

8/9/2018 2:20 pm

Yes I have more pics but don't want to post them here as I do not want to be recognized or identified on this site. You could add domesticdisc to the (at) then to yah oo without the space and follow with (dot) and com and convince me it's you and I will send whatever you want. I don't plan to upgrade my membership here and know of no other way.


Heathen_G 61M
7863 posts
8/9/2018 7:33 pm

I enjoy thinking about your questions.


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