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Fuck No - A Tale of a Colossal Waste of Time  

Curvy56001 54F  
14 posts
9/19/2021 9:03 pm
Fuck No - A Tale of a Colossal Waste of Time


I gave it a try, put myself out there, met a man that wasn’t my type...aka not an asshole. He was smart, funny, kind and easy to talk too. We did talk, for hours at a time, honest, intimate...fun, funny.

The date went well, innocent, a walk more talk, hand holding and a few<b> kisses. </font></b>I hoped maybe physical attraction would grow from the mental one.

A small red flag whipping in the wind... then another... and another...but I just brushed them aside trying to get to “the real him”. More time, more communication, more smiles but still not the spark I was hoping for... he pushed, wanted more - Physical? Commitment? I don’t know, didn’t know... wtf, I’m trying to like this guy and he’s not making it easy.

He kept pushing and pushing on how did I feel or how did I think I could feel.

FUCK, slow it down I thought. I don’t know how I feel. Or maybe I did. Physically everyone isn’t my type, so why do I have to feel bad if he wasn’t.

He pushed more, wanted a reply so I gave him one. At this time friend’s only. It wasn’t what he wanted to hear. He quickly responded that I had been a colossal waste of time.

Now I’ve spent plenty of time wasting time, also occasionally wasted other’s time, but this is the first time I’ve been “colossal”. I didn’t text him back - I mean, after all I’d hate to just waste more of his time.

The next day I got a rant of vicious texts: You fuck all kinds of guys, why wouldn’t you fuck me? (That’s right all the crying about a relationship possibility came without a sexual encounter) Hmm, seems like he maybe was an asshole after all.

So my questions dear reader are these: When you meet someone on AdultFriendFinder do you honestly think it will always end in sex? If you meet someone you have an entertaining chat with can that ever be enough? If you have the chance to make a new flirty friend would you take that or prefer she just tells you to fuck off right away? I’ve had hundreds probably thousands of chats here with interesting sexy people and enjoyed “knowing” some of those people for years without fucking them. Should I completely give up possibility because of probability?

Manfromthestix69 38M
15 posts
9/21/2021 10:08 pm

It’s like a piece to a puzzle it’s got to be a perfect fit. It’s not going to work if you force it. Sometimes it works out and sometimes it’s not a good fit.


phuntimes19 49M  
2 posts
9/23/2021 6:50 am

Answers to your questions; When you meet someone on AdultFriendFinder do you honestly think it will always end in sex? NO
If you meet someone you have an entertaining chat with can that ever be enough? YES
If you have the chance to make a new flirty friend would you take that or prefer she just tells you to fuck off right away? TAKE IT
I’ve had hundreds probably thousands of chats here with interesting sexy people and enjoyed “knowing” some of those people for years without fucking them. Should I completely give up possibility because of probability? NO

After answering these questions and knowing Curvy for 20+ years and having some of the most amazing chats, calls and times together. The word colossal should only be used to describe the size of her heart. Get to know her she's a colossal phun time!!!!


johnson55401 66M  
43 posts
10/4/2021 2:28 pm

AdultFriendFinder is no different than any other "meeting place". You don't end up in bed with everyone you meet, this applies here too.

If anyone such as your new found friend is that desperate and/or you see those red flags waving in the breeze, you should make it crystal clear that you are walking away right that moment.


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