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Its not the sex I am talking about, it's how we get there.
Posted:Jun 10, 2020 6:01 am
Last Updated:Jun 13, 2020 12:42 pm

I'm tired of the same old game.
I'm tired of doing the same thing all the time.
I'm tired of always being the initiator.
I'm tired of being the pursuer.
I'm tired of being the first to email.
I'm tired of saying "Hi".
i'm tired of being left on read.
I'm tired of having to carry the conversation.
I'm tired of making the moves.
I'm tired or having to set up the dinner arrangements.
I'm tired of setting the pace.
I'm tired of leaning in for the kiss.
i'm tired of making the first touch.
i'm tired of taking off your clothes.
I'm tired of showing my interest, desire, and passion without clear assurance
i'm tired of always leaving myself open.
I'm tired of having to make myself vulnerable.
I'm tired of seeing this passion in you restrained
i'm tired of your talk of desire and no action.
i'm tired of not being swept off my feet
i'm tired of the same old game.
Bisexuality Vs gay
Posted:May 30, 2020 8:46 am
Last Updated:May 30, 2020 10:45 am

The criteria for bisexual is pretty clear cut... Sexual contact by choice with the same sex while still by choice enjoying the opposite sex.
But does same sex, bisexual contact without the presence of the opposite sex become homosexuality?
At which point does it become gay?
Doesn't gay mean you want a relationship with the same sex? Or are you gay if you find the same sex attractive? What if you find them attractive and never act on it?
What if you aren't attracted the same sex nor want a relationship with them, but will still engage in same sex contact in the bedroom? Is that gay? Or just bisexual? What if it just on a trial basis? At what point is it no longer discovery? 2nd? 3rd? 86th Time?
Does it matter if we are talking about a man or a woman? I think women are given much more latitude on bisexuality than men. Should this be the case?
Is opposite sex anal gay? Like pegging or fingering the guy? Is there actually areas that straight/bi/gay can be applied, in the bedroom with physical contact and out of the bedroom emotionally?
Why do we even need categorize it?
It's all so confusing.
I'll make it simple... No judgement... If you like me or my thing thing (whomever you are), and would like me put my thing thing in your orifices or you want put your thing thing in my orifices let know, I don't need your pedigree. And I'll do the same.
Wait a minute? What does toy make you? Do I have start this whole thing over? Ugh...
FYI The cock knows all
Posted:May 28, 2020 4:18 pm
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2020 2:50 pm

Little tip, you never need ask if you are sucking a cock well, the cock will tell you.
A vagina and a clitorus' indicators are less pronounced some clits don't grow or are too small to notice and vagina wettness is not consistent across all women. A cock on the other hand is a direct indicator of the pleasure it is receiving. It grows and stiffens when pleased and shrinka and withers when not. and the pan ultimate ejaculation is the sign of a job well done.
If you are not getting a positive response from the cock change your stride or amount of force or use the hand, do all those things you heard in movies and back room conversations like cup the balls, rub the perineum; try the anal prostate massage (that one is a guarantee)... but never ask if it is good... listen to the cock, the cock knows all.
music as a rhythm tool
Posted:May 28, 2020 11:33 am
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2020 2:50 pm

wanting get the most out of my physical interactions, I find that my natural visceral drive will move speed up the interaction if left unchecked... Now trying check myself intentionally causes be distracted and as a result get less pleasure from doing things like giving oral than I would otherwise.
A proper music choice allows a rhythm setting tool that both regulates my progression and adds a sensory pleasure...
The slow and steady intensity of the song "Sail" by Awolnation is an amazing choice I have stumbled upon with quotes like " this is how I show my love" and "maybe I'm a different breed" subliminally sensualizing the experience.... and to the benefit of my partner they have an hour long version of the song... so just lay back spread those beautiful legs and let show you what god gave a mouth for...
sometimes music catches my sentiment so well
Posted:May 28, 2020 8:29 am
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2020 2:50 pm

I been tryna call
I been on my own for long enough
Maybe you can show how love, maybe
I'm going through withdrawals
You don't even have do too much
You can turn on with just a touch, baby
I look around and Sin City's cold and empty (oh)
No one's around to judge (oh)
I can't see clearly when you're gone
I said, ooh, I'm blinded by the lights
No, I can't sleep until I feel your touch
I said, ooh, I'm drowning in the night
Oh, when I'm like this, you're the one I trust
Hey, hey, hey
you ask what I think I can do to please your sexual wants...
Posted:May 28, 2020 6:47 am
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2020 2:50 pm

And you ask what I think I can do please your sexual wants... well, I don't know since we have never interacted, but I do know what I bring the table. I have a mouth and tongue which will trace you moistness and can bring all but the most frigid or reserved to gushing pleasure. I have very knowing hands which can massage and rub and stimulate every spot of sensual pleasure, the back, the neck, the buttox, the breasts, the vulva and clit, to a point where you want stop because it is so overwhelming but beg for more. And I have a body who's presence cannot be denied as we lay there touching and rubbing and grinding, its strength assuring and relaxing you as it increasingly stimulates your senses. and I have a mind which controls it all heightening the eroticism of the moment like a conductor if a great symphony using every instrument to reach its peak at just the right moment....
That' what i can do...
Chat with an ambassador
Posted:May 26, 2020 9:35 pm
Last Updated:May 28, 2020 11:36 am

is an ambassador and has sent you a message. What is an ambassador?
hello - hope ur doing great. if u need help with site let me know. what r u looking for....
5/26/2020 7:45 am

Hello, and thank you... ideally I am looking for a never ending stream of partners that I can please and enjoy and consume. Ideally women, not a requirement. Age, race, and body style also not important. Partners who will enjoy my skills and the knowledge of pleasure I possess. It's even better if they are able shed their inhibitions on their own and really let go... but if they can't do it on their own, I will help them.
Posted:May 26, 2020 9:13 pm
Last Updated:May 30, 2020 3:59 am

When I was 16, and working in a mall, was approached by a gentleman in need of money. He had an elaborate story (of which I have long forgotten the details) where he was in a tight spot but had this valuable stone of appreciable value which he was willing to pawn to me for some money. It was like $20 if I remember correctly and he would be able alleviate his distress with the $20 and would then return to buy back the stone. I held the stone for him confidently, bolstered by the idea that I had just aided a fellow human being in need. I wrapped it in tissue and put it in my coin pocket for safe keeping. Several hours later The realization of his never returning turned my mood of satisfaction not into anger but into awe. The details of his story, each line used to hook me in, ran through my mind. It was beautiful. A work of art. The execution made easier by my age and good heartedness did not diminish its beauty.
I kept that stone in a memento box for years... looking at it with wry smile from time to time. That was the first time I was really conned after an age of understanding. Of course as a we are all take at carnivals and fairs, but then we do not realize the machinations, we are fulfilled by the 25 cent toy after spending $10 of our parents money.
That is whe I began studying and admiring the con. I look at advertisements and offers now not as commercials but as a form of interactive performance art.
And the other day I spent 4 hours letting someone con me out of a $50 Google play card. I loved it. You may ask why would I give them money? I don't see it that way, I see it as paying for hours of interactive entertainment. i'd ask a question and they would answer it. They would make a request and I would reply with skepticism, and then acquiesce after their reassurance.
I even came in my pants just a little as it unfolded.
$50 well spent
It was truly beautiful. a fine masterpiece to behold
I am not a woman
Posted:May 26, 2020 7:30 am
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2020 2:50 pm

I am not a woman.
And I could never give you what a woman gives you.
I am not supple, or soft, or gentle. By design I am rough, and hard, and strong. but through my experiences and growth I can act in ways that exceed my design and bring a dynamic my touch that is both supple and rough, soft and hard, gentle and strong. and with these combinations I can unlock feelings in you that others cannot. At that point we both grow. and free ourselves from old ideals. You just have to be open to it...
You took the word right out of my mouth
Posted:May 25, 2020 5:11 pm
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2020 2:50 pm

On a hot summer night
Would you offer your throat to the wolf with the red roses?
Will he offer me his mouth?
Will he offer me his teeth?
Will he offer me his jaws?
Will he offer me his hunger?
Again, will he offer me his hunger?
And will he starve without me?
And does he love me?
On a hot summer night
Would you offer your throat to the wolf with the red roses?
I bet you to say that to all the boys.
pleasure vs control in sexual activity
Posted:May 25, 2020 4:10 pm
Last Updated:May 25, 2020 5:12 pm

I have found a lot of people who act out control issues in their life through sexual activity. Often times a feeling of powerlessness in our daily activities becomes unhealthy dynamics in the bedroom. How many times do men degrade their partners through their sexual acts. Or women micromanage every detail to the point that ruins the experience.
Grabbing a woman's head and force feeding your cock down her throat as if she is not a person but an object is an act that diminishes her as a way to bolster his ego. This is not something a healthy person does to someone they care about... this is not an act of love... Yet this act is widely celebrated by men and women. Women try to excel at it in a misguided attempt to find value and worth.
It doesn't stop there, in so many way people act out their feelings of inadequacy by playing into different sexual roles this way. Instead of conquering their issues they reinforce them and call it pleasure.
True pleasure can only be found in healthy acceptance of yourself and your partner. It can only be given to you and never taken by you.
If you would rather control the way in which your partner satisfies you than allow them to give you satisfaction, you will never reach the levels of ecstasy the human body is capable of. And will remain blinded to the possibility of more. It is only when you let go can greater things be found.
Satan said "it is better to rule in hell, than to serve in heaven" I implore people to look in themselves and see where their existence is and open their eyes to just the possibility of what can be.
You cannot live in both places
Just a thought about hard dicks
Posted:May 25, 2020 9:45 am
Last Updated:May 28, 2020 12:49 pm

I chuckle when people think a hard cock is the ultimate pleasure tool. but I don't blame the student when the teacher has misinformed them. And misinformed they are... It is a misguided effort with the assumption of male dominance. It allows men to not have to get in tune with a woman's body, and simply show up erect.
By itself, it is a simple rod which can be imitated by a cucumber.
the whole body is a sexual tool, and proper stimulation of a body and mind by a body and a mind can create a sexual energy that a simple rod cannot imitate.
I can bring more pleasure to a person with a flacid penis than most can do on their best day. Stop selling yourself short and find a partner/teacher who is willing to learn and explore your body and bring you more pleasure than a garden vegetable.

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