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The Bus
Posted:Dec 24, 2019 6:06 pm
Last Updated:Feb 10, 2020 6:42 am

Some days, I swear I wish I was the kind of person that threw people the bus. I promise I wish someone had thrown some of these people a bus quite literally. If we are never gonna meet, don't set a meet date, time and location. You know you are too much of a coward to meet me, even if we've communicated via , , voice calls or video calls. You KNOW you are not gonna show so why put people through the charade?
If you know you only last for 5 minutes tops, let a know that so that we can have our minds right for that when we meet. I know, I know, I know. I've heard it. "I just wasn't ready for it to be that good." Then what had you prepared for sir? Are you expecting horrible pussy? Did you expect that this would be a quickie? Well news flashy sweetie, I don't do quickies. Force times distance. That's right. You have to be willing and able to put in that work for this kinna pussy.
I know several men from this site who won't pen a testimonial but will attest if you ask them what kind of session to expect with me. One man from this site physically cannot have a session with me for less than a couple of hours just because he DOES NOT WANT to . That is not to toot my own horn but to point that if you are not willing to meet me and perform, don't schedule the meet at all. You're wasting everyone's time.
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Whatever You Like
Posted:Dec 16, 2019 4:00 pm
Last Updated:Dec 16, 2019 4:18 pm

So I know we all have our kinks, things we like, dislike and are hard nos. When you truly vibe with someone, does that change? Hmmmm....I can honestly say that most of the time, for me, my hard nos don't change. My yeses and nos have been stretched, relaxed and even bent, but not my hard nos. With that said, there are certain things that I have learned about myself in the course of this journey toward sexual freedom. My body responds to different people who do different things in different ways. For instance, If with someone I am REALLY vibing with, they don't have to do much all to turn the faucet on and keep it on. Others that I have an attraction to but haven't reached that level with yet can do the same exact things, the same exact ways and I will react completely differently.
My likes and dislikes have also evolved over time. I never thought at 25 or 26 that I would like an audience as much as I like an audience. Never thought I could be with someone I love and fuck another individual right in from of him. I never thought he would like it, or even allow it. What I find crazy, is that people who may not have the same kinks that I have like to judge. very good tuning the rest of the world because what they say really doesn't matter to . I am so glad that at this stage in my journey, I can live how I want without the chatter of the outside world.
Quality over Quantity
Posted:Nov 5, 2019 7:13 pm
Last Updated:Nov 6, 2019 3:48 pm

Good evening good people. I mean that statement from the depths of my heart. There are some really, really good people here. But yall know I can't leave it at just that. Come on....who would I be if I didn't keep it absolutely real with you.

So let me start by saying, there are two men, both of whom I met right here on this site, that I deal with on a regular basis. Now, when I say I deal with them (not at the same time), I mean we talk, we interact, we have sex, we go , we chill, we cuddle, we even sleep together. It is something that is completely organic for us. It works for us. When we are together, it is absolutely explosive. When we are apart, we have our own lives and are free to move the way that we like to move. That means we are free to see and interact with other people should we choose to, and we do. They know full well about one another and they respect the parameters of our situationships. We are good. There are no disagreements about where one another has been or what we are doing or for that matter with whom.

But just because we can see other people at our leisure doesn't mean that we interact with EVERY person that wants a go. If you have read any of my blogs, you know that I am completely comfortable with who I am. I fuck whom I want, when I want, for however long I want and I don't have anyone to report to, unless they want to hear about the experience. Neither do they. We have respect enough for the situationship and for one another that we are careful and quite discerning about who we share our energies with.

I'll tell you a secret, everyone's energy does not mesh well. I have made the mistake of sharing my energy with someone whom I was completely incompatible with and the sex was horrible. It provided the release that I needed at that time, but it was nowhere near the mind-blowing experiences that I've had with those people who truly deserved my time, energy and exchange.

My sister once said to me, ", you are a whole ho here in these streets". I said to her, "No ma'am. But I do enjoy being free to be with whom I want". She then shared with how envious of that freedom she is. She said she would be fucking everything that was attractive to her. But to , that is so subjective. I have met some really beautiful men and women who lost all attraction when they spoke or responded to something. Uggh. But when you can share your energy with someone that will make you vibrate just a little higher, it's so worth it. Careful whose energy you let mix with yours and whom you let enter your sphere. #ItsAllLove
Party Season
Posted:Oct 17, 2019 8:50 am
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2019 6:25 pm

Good Day Good People!

The weather is changing so it's time to ignite some fires indoors. I haven't done one in a while but I am about to start up party season again. Classy couples only. I do have a party partner and one of us is vertical at all times during the events we have. We will consider singles on an individual basis. First one is gonna be smaller but the next one will be off the chain. Get your minds, costume (if applicable), test results, partners and travel bags ready. You can IM or message me if you have interest in attending.
Very Honest Rant
Posted:Sep 24, 2019 6:08 pm
Last Updated:Sep 25, 2019 5:36 am

First, let me say thank you AdultFriendFinder for letting people be honest and open about desires and needs that every human has, though certainly not on the same levels. Now, let me ask, have you ever considered that it may be you? I 'm here on and off and the prevailing statuses that I see among men is "No Fakers", "If we aren't gonna meet, why are you here" and "No game playing and endless messaging". Well sir, have you ever considered that maybe she just isn't feeling you? I've come to know that some of yall are really cool people but I don't want to fuck all of you by any means. We can talk, kick it, and maybe even be good friends but I still don't wanna give you the bits. Why? You're simply not my flavor. I know I'm not everyone's taste either. Some men don't like curvy women. Some men don't like overly confident women. Some men are patient enough to wait through all of my busy and for me that's okay. I think that when something is for you, you're gonna get it no matter what. Most of the men that I have met from on here have treated me very well, with very few exceptions. Most are super respectful of who I am and what I have going on. We don't like endless flirts and likes either but needs must. Every women is not gonna be feeling you bruv. We just aren't. Be grown enough to take that for what it is and move on. Yall ask for our honesty but then can't take it when we say something you don't wanna hear. Well let me be the first to say, I'm not gonna fuck every man on this site. I'm not gonna meet and like every man on this site. Hell, I'm not even gonna be friends with everyone on this site but at least let's co-exist on a level of grown, honest people. *Throws in two pennies..*
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Pics Pics Pics
Posted:Apr 19, 2019 3:01 pm
Last Updated:Oct 31, 2020 7:13 am

So you can tell by my previous posts I not one to hold my tongue about much. It completely escapes my understanding how members who don't have pics posted for "professional reasons" (and I understand, truthfully I do) want more pics of us poor "unprofessional" people who already have pics posted. First and foremost sir or ma', I happen to have a very high-visibility occupation myself. I meet a myriad of people from all over the world on a weekly basis. I, however, know they only saw my pic on here because they were on here too. Gotta be a member to see my profile honey! If in our first conversation, the first thing you ask me for is more pics and you have the elusive gray beast, sorry my dear, I won't be sending you any more of my wholely, unprofessional pics. I mean, even if you send me an and say hi, don't ask for another pic of until you've sent one of yourself. No, not sending you any pics of Honey. I deleted the pic of Suga and Spice so ummmm no. If my face is too unprofessional for you, sorry.
Ridiculous Dick Pics
Posted:Oct 15, 2018 8:44 am
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2019 6:30 pm

Listen fellas, women who like penises are offended by the fact that you put your dick next to a can of air freshner, soda can, a bottle of whatever or even hair products. Sir, your dick is beautiful. You diminish my desire for it by putting it next to something to measure it. I love authentic pics that show your dick in action or simply aimed out. That, to me, is so much more classy and beautiful than a dick measuring contest. So do all of us who are really dick connoseurs the favor of show him in his natural state.
Thick Chicks
Posted:May 8, 2017 10:00 am
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2019 6:33 pm

Yes I know.....we've heard all rhetoric about thick chicks. Contrary to popular opinion, being thick has nothing to do with how much one weighs. I've seen thick girls that weigh 130 lbs and thick girls that weigh 250 lbs. Nothing wrong with wearing you weight as best you can.

That being said....those of us who naturally have what some people pay a lot of money for resent being compared to morbidly obese, tar monster people who just don't wear their weight well. That is not to say that there is not a match out there for them as well but don't say you're thick knowing that you have a real issue with weight and you're just trying to garner enough attention to get to the first meeting. That's catfishing. I would love for everyone to just be honest with ourselves and face what we actually are.

I recently met a man who's profile said he was athletic and fit only to get to the meeting and see a man who was 6 feet but over 350 lbs. Sir, you're not fit or athletic. If you had been honest with me, I could have made an informed decision and perhaps still met with you based solely on some of the wonderful conversations we had exchanged for the two weeks prior to meeting.

All that to say, some of us make online situationships way harder than they have to be. I know who I am. I'm comfortable with that. Yes I get stopped at the airport frequently in security. When asked, are you carrying any weapons today maam, I am accustom to replying, unless you count bomb ass pussy, no sir. That has been a journey. My curves are mine. I am in love with them. The confidence that I exude because I am comfortable with myself is, in and of itself, sexy as hell (or so I've been told). I apply that same confidence to every aspect of my life so that I am the winner no matter what. I choose whom I share any energy with based on the energy I feel from them.

Love your curves. Love yourselves. Love your confidence. Grow into the realness that is you and then you don't have anything to prove to anyone.
Selection Processes
Posted:May 8, 2017 9:44 am
Last Updated:Oct 31, 2020 7:13 am

Good Afternoon All!!! I have a few posts in me today so bear with me.

Why do people who are either new to the lifestyle or vanilla think that everyone in the lifestyle will fuck anybody? That is completely and totally untrue. Most of us have standards. I know I do. We all know that I am sapiosexual first. There has got to be some kind of intellectual attraction between us before I even consider a horizontal relationship with you. Sorry....I just can't have sex with people who are not either my intellectual equal or superior. For me, it makes a difference.

Physically, I guess I really don't have a type. I do have some restrictions. This is meant as no disrespect for anyone, it's just my thing. I like black men......A LOT. I have experimented in the past with other ethnicities, but black men take the prize for me. I like taller men. That doesn't mean that shorter men are excluded. I just find myself more attracted to taller men. I don't like super skinny men or super obese men. If we have sex, I don't want to break a bone or be covered in sweat from someone who is winded off the first couple of strokes. Again, not complete deal breakers but preferences.

Generally, if I don't want to be seen in public with you, I won't entertain you privately either. No doo-rags, saggy pants, unkept hair, overgrown facial hair or torn up shoes. If your smile needs help, get it. If I smell you (in a bad way) before I see you, chances are, I'll walk right passed you and not even stop. We're grown. Take care of yourself. I take awesome care of myself so I expect the same.

No sir....you don't have to have a 12 inch penis that is 4 fingers thick. But you'll get nowhere with me if you have 3 inch penis that is 1 finger thick. (honestly, what am I supposed to do with that). Be able to work what you have.

Communication is key. As long as we can talk and agree on whatever it is we're gonna do, we should be fine. But let's please be mature and adult enough say, you're not my cup or tea or I don't think this will work. Just my two cents....
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Single By Choice
Posted:May 6, 2017 6:43 am
Last Updated:Oct 31, 2020 7:13 am

So one of the questions I get frequently (like multiple times a day) is "why is such a sexy lady single"? I am single because I choose to be. I have a few situationships with people I choose to interact with. My work/travel/family schedule makes this lifestyle perfect for me. NO....I'm not unfulfilled from not having a husband or someone to come home to. No......I don't miss the companionship sometimes. No.....I don't miss having someone to talk with and share my day with.

Quite honestly, I have all those things. People that I elevate frequencies with, I talk with on a regular basis. I have a few people that I truly love. We are just mature enough to maintain separate lifestyles and be okay with seeing one another when we can. If that means once a month, so be it. If that means once every six weeks, cool.

What I can not abide, particularly from people who are in a vanilla relationship, is the judgments that come with it. I don't judge your lifestyle so why no stay out of mine? If I am missing anything, I have the ability to find it and develop it.

To all my situationships, I do truly love and adore you. Even if we only text or talk on the phone everyday or a few times a week, I love you so for putting up with me and for elevating with me on a vibrational level that makes me a better me. {=}
So Now We're Each Other's Judge Huh?
Posted:Apr 28, 2017 10:49 am
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2019 6:42 pm

***Disclaimer**** I want to specify that this is not a post for everyone. I am not generalizing at all but my experiences of late have made this blog absolutely necessary to get off my chest. Just wanted to make that plain.

So because I kiss a woman or touch her I am bi-sexual huh? So because YOUR thing is not MY thing, I am judging you huh? So because your perspective is so much clearer than mine, I'm wrong huh? Let me tell you something, my thing is just that, MY THING. Your thing is your thing and I don't knock you for that. I am very good for reiterating that sex is fluid. We all have our own predilections and we all have our preferences. I like to be watched as I blow a man's mind, in whatever way I do that. I like to experiment with two men at a time. I like to watch others get each other off. I like to have my pussy eaten until my eyes roll back. I like big, thick, beautiful black dicks. But above all, I love an intelligent conversation that will elevate whatever experience we have beyond just the physical.

All that to say, if you wanna take a strap-on in the ass sir, be my guest. If that's what you like do it. Just because it's not something that I'm into doesn't mean I am sitting in judgement of you. It just means that we aren't a good fit for one another. I don't eat pussy so I am not gonna sleep with a lesbian. See how that works? But the most galling thing about it all is that you don't accept that we can be different without judging each other or trying to stick one another in a little box. This might make sense to you if you could bother to proof-read your post to make sure that everything is spelled correctly or that it's even grammatically correct. #Idiotass But then again, what should I expect? You are angry with me for calling bullshit on your assigning people labels because of your limited understanding. Oh well.....guess this will just have to serve as your notice. I am sapiosexual first.
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The Death of Common Courtesy
Posted:Apr 21, 2017 10:15 am
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2019 6:45 pm

So recently I was told that I was on this site for the wrong reason; that I was looking for love in the wrong place. I literally laughed out loud. So let me get this right.....because I said before you express to me a cordial hello, you think I'm looking for love? Sir, just because this is a sex site does not mean that we abandon common courtesy and etiquette. You catch what you put the bait out for.

To all who don't think it's important to at least say Hello, How are you, I think you're pretty, or whatever, it's fine that we are not compatible. But don't then assume that everyone else on this site is as unrefined, uncouth, or rough around the edges as you are. We don't have to be assholes to one another just because we are looking for physical satisfaction.

When you make and effort to be nice, you get nice back. If you're looking for someone rough, that's fine but don't judge those of us who prefer to speak well, engage with those who are our intellectual equals and think that is what love is. You've been misinformed, miseducated and lead astray. Get it together before you speak to me. #IJS
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