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Posted:Dec 8, 2010 6:39 pm
Last Updated:Sep 15, 2011 5:47 am
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Whatever you want to share with me. A thought, a comment, sweet nothings, something sexy, a naughty fantasy...Up to you.
Everyone is welcomed and will receive a reply to your blog. Your comment is for my eyes only. Strictly personal and confidential.
Hopefully you have a sticky for quick replies too
I use extreme courtesy and expect the same.
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My profile-Ladies Only plz
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Posted:Nov 21, 2010 10:26 pm
Last Updated:Jun 27, 2011 5:37 am
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To all the lovely ladies...
I can not view your full profile. All I can see is one sentence that you start out with and 1 picture, sometimes 3 depending on AdultFriendFinder's mood. All I can do is hotlist you if you peak my interest.
I can not flirt nor flirt back if you flirt with me first. Only way for you to contact me is thru this blog. or you be the paying gold member to mail me. I am just a standard member. My options are limited.
Ladies have full access to profiles, so my contact info is in my profile for you to see.
I am not married but attached. Probably be best to pursue other married ladies seeking the same but I will leave that discretion up to you. It doesnt bother me that you are bi, married or single. After all I am just here to entertain the thought of one lady willing to have sex with me. More than that if you so choose.
I am not into couples or other men. I am a straight guy seeking pleasures from another lady. We all adults here, so lets not act like we do not know why we are here.
While I seek to have sex, it isnt only option. We could hang out and be friends also outside the bedroom. There are other activities to do beside just sex, I am open to that.
I am an open book, so please ask any questions you may have for me.
I am latino 5'8" age 38. My cock 8 inches fully erected and I am not circumcised. For those ladies that size matters. I have dick pics if you care to see.
I am available nights and weekends.
Prefer someone within 50 miles of elkhart. Willing to go as far as Indy or Kalamazoo but only if you are a sure thing. Not driving all over the place just so we can talk. That is what my cell phone is for...
So if interested, reply to this blog...Your responses will not show up unless I approve them first, so it is totally discreet
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One and Done
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Posted:Apr 11, 2012 6:44 am
Last Updated:Oct 8, 2012 6:53 am
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Aka the one nite stand!
Pointing out the obvious here. Guys absolutely love it but women simply dont. Makes me wonder why...
Do I dare think that perhaps women are looking to develop a meaningful relationship out of mere sex? It has been my experience that this is so and then they start demanding more out of you like mind,body and soul! how dare they?! Even though they do deserve to demand such high expectations, cant blame them really.
No matter how you tell your story, all past lovers are just that, ONE NITE STANDS. Some just happen to last longer than the actual one niter. Some last months, some last years.
A true one nite stand is one where you dont know their real name, you used each other for a one time encounter, and you never ever contacted each other again, period.
In some ways it be nice to dream about such an encounter but it hardly happens. There is bound to be some contact again without sex even being involved again. I almost had a one nite stand but it wasnt suppose to be that way. It was suppose to be FWB arrangement that just never materialized. I was a bit baffled since I called numerous times and after a while of her brushing me off, I just knew it was time to move on. I never got a real answer as to why she would not have me come on over so I can do is just ponder. Most of you would say I had a one nite stand but I dont view it that way since I knew her name, number and where she lived. It just happen to be a one time sexual encounter with this person.
Perhaps it is since that is the nature of one and done or one nite stands. Just got together for sex and nothing else despite the pleasantries exchanged.
I have seen some profiles from four ladies that claim that is all they seek, just a fuck and be on your merry way. While the majority seek FWB with all kinds of conditions attached.
So I have to play the game and act interested in FWB when in reality all I want is one and done!
Truth hurts.
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Gots 2 B The 1
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Posted:Jun 28, 2011 4:16 am
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2024 5:58 pm
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[Verse 1:] It's not my way, to talk to strangers But I feel like I already know you, And if you need somebody I wanna manage you, huh I can tell that you've been through some changes in your past, relationships But come on and walk through that door Cause I'm what you've been waitin for [Bridge:] Whatever's on your mind (let it off) Girl we've got lots of time (we can talk) Through all the good times and bad times I wanna be the gots ta be in your life
[Chorus 1:] Gots ta be the one that makes you sad Gots ta be the one you never had Gots ta be the one that you want so damn bad Gotta be, gotta be, gotta be your everything (your everything) Gots be the only one you fight Gots ta be the one that makes it right Gots ta be the one you don't like half the time (the time) Gotta be, gotta be, gotta be your everything (your everything yeah)
[Verse 2:] Girl you just can't love anybody I tell you I'm the right one for you, But you gots to believe me Cause everything that I tell you is true, yeah I wanna be your mother,your father, your brother, and your sister too Be the good,be the bad Be the gots ta love that you run to Girl [Bridge:] Whatever's on your mind (let it off) Girl we've got lots of time (we can talk) Through all the good times (the good times) and bad times I wanna be the gots ta be in your life (your life)
[Chorus 2:] Gots ta be the one that gets your nerves Gots ta be the one you don't deserve (you don't deserve) Gots ta be the only one that you serve (that you serve) Gotta be, gotta be, gotta be your everything (your everything) Gots ta be the one to change your faith (oh) Gots ta be the one you love to hate (you love to hate) Gots ta be the one you let eat off your plate (let eat off your plate) Gotta be, gotta be, gotta be your everything (gotta be your everything)
[Break down 1:] Listen Things aint always gonna be, be so easy girl And I can let you know for sure that I'm gonna always be right here For the long run I might make you mad, you cuss me out, but your still my girl And I promise that I would never put my hands on you girl I wanna be everything to you girl
[Chorus 3:] Gots ta be the one that you can't stand (ooooh ooooh oooh) Gots ta be the one you call your man Gots ta be the one to put a ring on that hand (that hand) Gotta be, gotta be, gotta be your everything (gotta be your everything, your everything, your everything) Gots ta be the one you can't forget Gots ta be the one that you regret Gots ta be the one like you ain't never met (never met) Gotta be, gotta be, gotta be your everything
[Breakdown 2] Listen I don't want you to love nobody but me You and me can do almost anything Gots to be the one you want Gots to be the one you flaunt
You can't get mad at nobody but me In fact I'm the only one you can receive Gots to be the one you want Gots to be the one you flaunt
[Repeat Chorus 1 Until Fade]
-Gots to be by B2K-
To be looked as perfect in her eyes in an imperfect world...sigh...
This song does bring me to good spirits. It might sound cheesy to some but I dig it
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Romantics vs NonRomantics
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Posted:Dec 1, 2010 10:21 am
Last Updated:Jun 27, 2011 5:36 am
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I always viewed myself as a romantic. Looking at myself in a realistic way I am far from that. What it boils down to when pegging yourself is if you believe in having a soulmate out there in the world just tailor made for you. In my younger days i believed it to be true, now I am not as convinced. In fact I view potential partners as someone I could grow to love. That's the NonRomantic way. Romantics believe there is only one true love for them. I mean romantics in the truest form of love like Romeo and Juliet.
What changed my point of view exactly. I am not sure when it happened. I do know that my sexual experiences and the ever growing varying of opinions that are widely available now. Thanks to the internet, have played an influential part in my beliefs.
At first I wanted my sexual experiences to be with females I loved in some way. As women came and went through the years, I discovered I didnt need to feel love for them to have sex. While the thought sounds awful in theory, it is the entire reason why some of us are here on AdultFriendFinder. The majority of people here on AdultFriendFinder are not looking for love. Dont ourselves that we are. If your profile states you are willing to accept friends with benefits or anything beyond just one female and one man together. Then you are not looking for true love as it explained in the holy bible and ultimately the way it should be in the world. At best we are looking for a connection, or someone to pass time with while we wait for something better to come along. It sounds cruel, i know, actions speak louder than words.
All married/attached people would probably agree to some extent. The singles crowd is where things get cloudy for them. They want the best of both worlds, have someone that is great in bed but at same time have no commitment whatsoever. When singles go searching for bedmates, I doubt they are asking themselves if they are in love. I know I wasnt when I realized I could fuck females without being in love. I am being a realist now in stating that I dont have to be in love with you to screw you. Perhaps it is a male thing, I dunno.
Yeah I get you do need some kind of connection with your potential sex partner. It doesn't even have to be a huge connection. Maybe something small like just lust, a crush, he has money, she is hot, big tits, big dick, etc, etc. All I am saying is that love is not necessary , nor required to be able to fuck them. Otherwise all of us would not have so many skeletons in our closet. Lord knows I have my share.
Sex has been around for ages yet we are all still fascinated by it. It sells and is around us everywhere we are. I am drawn to it like a moth to light. I am a human being that craves sexual attention.
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I rather fuck you
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Posted:Nov 19, 2010 12:32 am
Last Updated:Nov 19, 2010 10:08 pm
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I'd rather fuck with you all goddamn night cause your pussy's good. Now I'm fucking all your friends cause you ran your mouth like I knew you would. You were bragging to your friends, saying "Dapperdan knows how to fuck". So bring your ass in here and give me some, so I can bust a nut (go on and sing that shit).
Chorus: I'd rather fuck you, yeah (said I'd rather fuck with you) 2x
I'd rather fuck with you, cause I like the way you scream my name. I know you like this dick, cause you enjoy the pleasure and pain. Now I'm riding on this pussy here, and I'm not gonna stop (I'm not gonna stop bitch). We can do it doggy style, and you can get on top (sing this motherfucker).
Chorus
Whoo boy, I'd rather fuck with you, yeah (sing that song bitch). I need you baby, whoo, I'd rather fuck you, I'd rather fuck with you.
I'd rather fuck with you, cause the other bitches wanna wine and dine (fuck all that). I better hurry up and bust a nut, cause it's check-out time. She said she wanted me to eat the pussy, well I think I'll pass (I don't think so). So get your ass up you funky bitch, and wash your ass (sing this motherfucking shit).
Chorus till fade out
If you care to hear it, search youtube
Feeling frisky and this song popped into my head from way back in the day. Funny yet so true at times. Sometimes a man just wants some good pussy. I dont see anything wrong with that. Sharing is caring, no?
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Technology
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Posted:Nov 18, 2010 5:28 am
Last Updated:Nov 19, 2010 7:53 am
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We all use it yet I long for the expressions of face to face meetings. There are endless means to hook up and be friends or beyond that with FB, yahoo,myspace, AdultFriendFinder, countless other sites. I admit sometimes I avoid a call and rather text to avoid conversation. Sometimes texting provides a buffer for a clever reply.
I hate that I'm over relying on technology to get laid. yep strictly relying on AdultFriendFinder to get me over that hump. I hate going to bars and picking up some anonymous chick but at same time it is exactly what I am doing here without beer goggles.
Us men too often confuse sex with intimacy but apparently among women intimacy sometimes results in sex. Women want passion and the getting to know someone before anything happens in the bedroom. That is fine, just remember guys are really literal. When it is a date and not a hook up, women need to say so. Women have to set the limits from the get go and we will have to learn to talk to you from there. It is either feast of famine! Too many times I read what women would do behind close doors. Unfortunately it is misleading because it will not happen upon first meeting. It takes time to know someone and be comfortable with someone. There are exceptions and some ladies are firecrackers right from the start. Too few of those to satisfy the overwhelming male population on AdultFriendFinder.
While it is great I get to see videos and pics of ladies spread eagled on my phone.My mind plays tricks on me believing I will be the next guy to hit that. Since us men are visual by nature, all these racy pics I get sent further plunge my mind into a sexual frenzy. More often than not, it is all for nothing and I just jerk-off to mere images. The very thing I try to avoid! I thank the guy that invented the camera phone but at same time I much rather see it live. It dont take much to convince a guy to come on over and fuck. I have told many, I would walk 100miles, swim lake Michigan, throw an old man down a flight of stairs to get some pussy! Well not just any pussy, I dont wanna get carried away but chances are I would do whatever it takes to get it. t some it may sound dumb, maybe even childish but it is real, it is the truth.
Technology is great but dont let it replace the time and energy it could have been used actually meeting someone. I am all for that, I am old school that way.
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EASY?
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Posted:Nov 17, 2010 7:12 am
Last Updated:Nov 19, 2010 8:03 am
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We all thought it be so easy. Well I certainly think it is easier for women here.
Reading over some blogs, some women have their pick of the litter. Their criteria for selection goes deeper than what a typical man looks for. That is not to say some men have it easier than others. I am sure some men have their regular fuck sessions already established.
For myself I have found it to be a painstakingly meticulous task to establish one connection with one female. It could be a number of things. I am a standard member so it makes it difficult to communicate accurately. So I am trying this blog thing and see how this works out, hoping to catch someone's attention. It could be my race, my looks, distance, insightful/witty introduction. I dont know really. No I wont pay a subscription again , it seems silly to me to pay for what seems basic communication to establish a connection. I have paid before, same results as I am getting now, so why shell out cash for same results. I am just using common sense here.
I have tried hotlisting and re hotlisting, lol, as a form of keeping potential ladies informed i may be interested. Results have been 1 in 100 may respond. and of course the scammers and spammers hotlisting you dont help the cause. For us men it happens more than you think. yeah i could report it but I happen to think AdultFriendFinder doesnt really care.
There is a double standard here at AdultFriendFinder I didnt realize until recently. While I am not complaining, i do wonder why that is. For example women get to look at a man's full profile and pics as a standard member. Men only get the brief summary of a profile and usually just one pic, sometimes we get to see 3 for some reason. men can hotlist but not flirt or flirt back, while women can send free flirts or flirt back.
AdultFriendFinder will do what works, and its working so why fix it.
I certainly thought it be easier than it has been because of the seemingly droves of women eager to be pleased. I guess my naive thinking goes if your are looking then I am here for the taking...lmao. That is not to say I am not picky either cuz I am. Just because a woman is eager and has a pair of tits doesn't necessarily mean I am all in. In the same token since I am just looking for a sex partner and not a lifetime relationship, I am not going to be too damn picky. There are few things are deal breakers. Dont weigh more than me, nor have more hair than me. I am not gay, bi, or tri. No transgenders, trans anything. No couples. Not into BDsm or gangbangs or orgies.
While I get discourage, i just hope one day to find someone I can connect with and get things going. I am not looking to have multiple partners, it just isnt the real me. One female to have regular meetings of sexual intercourse, perhaps wine and dine on occasions. One female to perhaps be included in her life and she becomes a part of mine for as long as it lasts. I like to think that I will live for the moment with this partner and just go along for the ride.
While the eye candy and bevy of nude women is more then plentiful. I yearn for physical contact, the first meeting, the first touch, the first kiss, the first fuck. Those memories are few and far between. well it is for me since I dont go around banging anything with a heartbeat.
May we all find what we are searching for, peace.
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Perspective
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Posted:Nov 16, 2010 5:37 am
Last Updated:Nov 19, 2010 8:11 am
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Let's say a guy named Roger is attracted to a woman named Elaine. He asks her out to a movie; she accepts; they have a pretty good time. A few nights later he asks her out to dinner, and again they enjoy themselves. They continue to see each other regularly, and after a while neither one of them is seeing anybody else. And then, one evening when they're driving home, a thought occurs to Elaine, and, without really thinking, she says it aloud: ''Do you realize that, as of tonight, we've been seeing each other for exactly six months?'' And then there is silence in the car. To Elaine, it seems like a very loud silence. She thinks to herself: Geez, I wonder if it bothers him that I said that. Maybe he's been feeling confined by our relationship; maybe he thinks I'm trying to push him into some kind of obligation that he doesn't want, or isn't sure of.
And Roger is thinking: Gosh. Six months.
And Elaine is thinking: But, hey, I'm not so sure I want this kind of relationship, either. Sometimes I wish I had a little more space, so I'd have time to think about whether I really want us to keep going the way we are, moving steadily toward . . . I mean, where are we going? Are we just going to keep seeing each other at this level of intimacy? Are we heading toward marriage? Toward ? Toward a lifetime together? Am I ready for that level of commitment? Do I really even know this person?
And Roger is thinking: . . . so that means it was . . . let's see . . .February when we started going out, which was right after I had the car at the dealer's, which means . . . lemme check the odometer . . . Whoa! I am way overdue for an oil change here.
And Elaine is thinking: He's upset. I can see it on his face. Maybe I'm reading this completely wrong. Maybe he wants more from our relationship, more intimacy, more commitment; maybe he has sensed -- even before I sensed it -- that I was feeling some reservations. Yes, I bet that's it. That's why he's so reluctant to say anything about his own feelings. He's afraid of being rejected.
And Roger is thinking: And I'm gonna have them look at the transmission again. I don't care what those morons say, it's still not shifting right. And they better not try to blame it on the cold weather this time. What cold weather? It's 87 degrees out, and this thing is shifting like a goddamn garbage truck, and I paid those incompetent thieves $600.
And Elaine is thinking: He's angry. And I don't blame him. I'd be angry, too. God, I feel so guilty, putting him through this, but I can't help the way I feel. I'm just not sure.
And Roger is thinking: They'll probably say it's only a 90- day warranty. That's exactly what they're gonna say, the scumballs.
And Elaine is thinking: maybe I'm just too idealistic, waiting for a Knight to come riding up on his white , when I'm sitting right next to a perfectly good person, a person I enjoy being with, a person I truly do care about, a person who seems to truly care about me. A person who is in pain because of my self-centered, schoolgirl romantic fantasy.
And Roger is thinking: Warranty? They want a warranty? I'll give them a goddamn warranty. I'll take their warranty and stick it right up their......
''Roger,'' Elaine says aloud. "What?'' says Roger, startled. ''Please don't torture yourself like this,'' she says, her eyes beginning to brim with tears. ''Maybe I should never have . . Oh God, I feel so......'' (She breaks down, sobbing.) ''What?'' says Roger. ''I'm such a fool,'' Elaine sobs. ''I mean, I know there's no knight. I really know that. It's silly. There's no knight, and there's no .'' ''There's no ?'' says Roger. ''You think I'm a fool, don't you?'' Elaine says. ''No!'' says Roger, glad to finally know the correct answer. ''It's just that . . . It's that I . . . I need some time,'' Elaine says. (There is a 15-second pause while Roger, thinking as fast as he can, tries to come up with a safe response. Finally he comes up with one that he thinks might work.) ''Yes,'' he says. (Elaine, deeply moved, touches his hand.) ''Oh, Roger, do you really feel that way?'' she says. ''What way?'' says Roger. "That way about time,'' says Elaine. ''Oh,'' says Roger. ''Yes.'' (Elaine turns to face him and gazes deeply into his eyes, causing him to become very nervous about what she might say next, especially if it involves a . At last she speaks.) ''Thank you, Roger,'' she says. ''Thank you,'' says Roger.
Then he takes her home, and she lies on her bed, a conflicted, tortured soul, and weeps until dawn, whereas when Roger gets back to his place, he opens a bag of Doritos, turns on the TV, and immediately becomes deeply involved in a rerun of a tennis match between two Czechoslovakians he never heard of. A tiny voice in the far recesses of his mind tells him that something major was going on back there in the car, but he is pretty sure there is no way he would ever understand what, and so he figures it's better if he doesn't think about it. (This is also Roger's policy regarding world hunger.)
The next day Elaine will call her closest friend, or perhaps two of them, and they will talk about this situation for six straight hours. In painstaking detail, they will analyze everything she said and everything he said, going over it time and time again, exploring every word, expression, and gesture for nuances of meaning, considering every possible ramification. They will continue to discuss this subject, off and on, for weeks, maybe months, never reaching any definite conclusions, but never getting bored with it, either.
Meanwhile, Roger, while playing racquetball one day with a mutual friend of his and Elaine's, will pause just before serving, frown, and say: ''Norm, did Elaine ever own a ?''
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Confused
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Posted:Nov 12, 2010 1:58 am
Last Updated:Jun 27, 2011 6:01 am
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It bugs me that some ladies cant or wont say what they really mean. I am referring to giving a guy an honest answer when meeting for the first time. Recently had an experience with one such individual. I drove to Michigan City to meet her. Before that I showed her pictures of me and even video cam. She agreed to meet.
She chose the place and time. I wasnt totally disappointed, she was a short bbw but had an extremely cute face. I chose to give it a chance to see if she had more substance to her than just a pretty face. We had so-so conversation and i kept commenting her on her good lucks. I was only referring to her face but I wasnt going to be rude with harsh truth. After all she did appeal to me, even though I kept thinking she may be a bit overweight. I chose to focus on the positives about her.
I pay for entire dinner and she asks "what do u want to do?" afterwards. I am thinking what the hell does this mean?, this a trick question? I answer "whatever you want, im cool with it". She pauses and says"maybe we can go to my place and hang out" i say "no problem, ur choice" quickly she says"no, some other time, yeah cuz i gotta work tomorrow and i dont wanna be a bad host" I reply "no problem, nice meeting you and looking forward to next time" with a smile. We hug and she kisses my cheek 3times. I wanted to kiss her but thought it be too forward on first meeting.
It took me an 2hrs to get home because of snow and freezing rain. Normally it takes just an hour. i thought evening had gone ok besides inclement weather.
I get home and receive a text from her. 'Did you have a good time' it read. I sent back a reply 'yes, ur company was worth it'. we text back and forth until 2am, she sends 2 pics, one of her going to bed in pjs. and a racy one of her clit. Last one got me by surprise, i was happy and replied 'missing is my tongue all over it, ur killing me with this pic!' I oblige like 15 mins later and send her 2 dick pics. No response so i assumed she went to bed finally.
I text her just about everyday next 3days. She seems unattached and claims she is preocupied and cant response in timely manner. Immediately i start thinking what is going on with this chick?
I remember reading that if someone isnt interested anymore they fail to respond to ur texts.I am hoping i was just imagining things.
day 4 after that date and I catch her online and start chatting. Out of the blue she lays it down for me. 'Your not my type, you dont meet my standards' she types. 'what do you mean by that', i respond. 'well ur AdultFriendFinder main pic is like from a million years ago and when we met in person, you no longer appealed to me' she claims. 'main pic is only a year old and u should have either walked away or told me right away' was my reply.
WTF!? and to think I considered fucking this chic. Well i got played. Chics that play games like this make it extremely hard to be a nice guy. I didnt lie to her and gave her plenty of opportunities to turn me away. So all i can do is scratch it up as a learning experience. But man what a mind fuck.
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