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Posted:Aug 30, 2018 5:10 am
Last Updated:Oct 30, 2020 3:57 pm

I have noticed several changes since I was last here. Unfortunately I think they are getting their ideas from Ashley Maddison about giving FAKE emails in order to get you to join. That really is not necessary.
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My dream weekend during the Fall.
Posted:Nov 6, 2020 6:47 am
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2020 6:03 am

If I could have a dream get-away for during the Fall it would be to a secluded cabin like this a waterfall. I would be with someone who I really enjoyed the companionship of and who was also very adventurous. It would be a NO clothes weekend the entire trip. Can you image how cool it would be to have on this deck with this view and while listening to the water rush over the rocks. It would be a very oral weekend as in anytime either one of us felt the desire we would stop everything and commence to enjoying the flavor of the other. Just imagine, NO tv, NO phone distractions, NO noisy neighbors, NO POLITICS, just you and your very sexually passionate friend. And don't forget the wonderful sight of taking in each others beautiful fire reflecting glimmering body while laying on a soft furry rug a roaring fire when it gets dark.

So who's ready to pack and head there now?

And who thinks they could hold up all weekend?
Turning down sex...
Posted:Oct 30, 2020 10:20 am
Last Updated:Nov 2, 2020 5:01 am

Have any of you turned down sex because you did not want participate in what they wanted do? If so, what was ?

For me, I can think of twice in my lifetime where I turned down joining in on a sexcapade due what was being asked. In both cases the lady friend wanted me join in a MFM threesome. I know many are comfortable with it and even enjoy it. However, for me, as sexist as this may sound, I am confortable with a FMF but not the other. So in both cases I turned down the opportunity particiapte. Sorry if that sounds shallow but is my body, my mind and my perogrative.

Actually three times if you include not joining because I felt uncomfortable having her husband in the room watching. That was an request I received.
Sexual cravings and fulfilling a bucket list item.
Posted:Oct 16, 2020 6:17 am
Last Updated:Oct 23, 2020 6:07 am

start with, it has been a little while since I have written something on here but I have just been in a little bit of a 2020 funk (no other way describe ). Also, has been over two weeks since I have last had sex so my sexual cravings and desires are pretty strong right now. Several things have made me wonder about my topic and one falls in the category of not going through with the bucket item.

Normally I am pretty vanilla on this site, but I don't think I can truly express my thoughts and feelings without being a little more detailed so you will have a chance to understand the topic better. Also, I am a little embarrassed about mentioning this but here it goes... So I had the chance a couple of months ago to off a bucket item list of mine. Some people might get really turned off of by this but I have no clue if the thought process is normal or just my creative warped mind. I told my lady friend, and I have never mentioned this to anyone EVER before, that one of my bucket items was to give a cream pie, eat it out of them and return it to them in a passionate kiss. She agreed to it and the fun began. I lasted absolutely no time because I was so excited about the opportunity and it was a huge explosion or should I say out pouring. When I stepped back to complete the second leg of the process I saw something that really turned me on, however, my strong sexual craving/desire went away as fast as I had gotten . WHY?

I have noticed this before that when I blow my load all of a sudden all of my strong sexual cravings vanish. Is this a normal thing? Also, makes me understand better how some women talk about not getting fulfilled on their end because the guy doesn't follow through after getting what they want, the sexual tension release that comes with shooting your load. Because I have ALWAYS been more of a pleaser and wanting make sure my partner gets her fill first, I felt really deflated that I was unable complete my on fantasy. Yes, I turn into a fantasy because if you can not deliver is not something that is real. I have seen myself do this a thousand times in my head and I have even used that thought process in order finish when the sex was not all that good and I just needed something put me over the edge so I could finish.

So be brutally honest with me, is this a strange thing desire do? Has something like losing your strong sexual desire gone away when you finally got the opportunity? Would love hear from others on what they think and their thoughts on the subject.

P.S. is a good chance I end up deleting this post if I get embarrassed about .
The BEST you ever had? And what made it that way.
Posted:May 26, 2020 7:32 am
Last Updated:Sep 3, 2020 7:14 am

What was the best sexual experience you have ever had and what made it the best?

For it was actually someone I met from here about 11 years ago. She was a very cute little petite blonde who was feeling a bit neglected. I do not remember who reached out who first but I can still remember the first couple of pictures she sent me. She was wearing some Cheeky (brand) panties and nothing else while lying her bed. At first I really thought someone was trying scam but we did a cam cam meeting and it was her. Even though back then our cams really stunk and were small images I could see enough know I wanted see her in person. She lived about two hours north so we met for the first time a little closer because she was going be in the area. We it off from the beginning and knew we needed meet for a little longer the next time. She began send some short video clips of her masturbating thinking of and she was really worried at first that I was not going like them. But it was just the opposite, she put herself out there and I loved it. I think I might have even exploded a little the first time I saw one of her vids. (Side note: When someone shares something with me like this I never share with others. I beleive it is for them decide who sees their private images and clips not .)

Anyways we ended meeting at a hotel midway between both of us and had one of the most sensuous, romantic and energizing sex capades I have ever been apart. I feel like both of us let our walls down and gave into the other. We were both pleasers so making sure the other was getting all they wanted was our main goal. I think we did it about everyway you possibly could and I still to this day relive that day in mind weekly. That is how good it was.

I think I touched on why it was probably the best... she wanted to please me as much as I wanted to please her. Both of us got what we wanted personally and much much more. We stayed friends and in touch for a while but life has taken us both in different directions. Both of us have great memories and I would love to meet someone like that again.

So what is yours?
Sometimes you just need a little fresh air. (Warning: A little graphic)
Posted:May 15, 2020 6:53 am
Last Updated:May 22, 2020 12:10 pm

If you have followed my blog for any amount of time you know I do a lot of traveling, Well, I used do a lot more before all this craziness started. Anyways, on my last trip I had a very long stretch where there was nothing see, just a boring drive and had plenty of time kill. This is when I do a lot of my thinking and sometimes my thinking is about sexual things that causes a sleeping someone want pop-out for a little fresh air. I blurred the picture so the women who don't want see that type of picture will not have ... kind of... but I can still get the my point across. Oh, and in case you couldn't tell... I like travel comando.

When you travel, do you ever get a little extra fresh air in areas that normally do not get it? Do you have any funny stories about doing it? I once was passed by a camero going really fast only to notice that he was really excited as I could see the top of a females head in his lap. Guess I know what she was doing.
HNW: Need More Jets
Posted:May 6, 2020 12:02 pm
Last Updated:May 15, 2020 6:42 am

Well it has been a while since I have posted a HNW shot so I thought I would put one out this week. As I was soaking this past weekend trying to massage my sore muscles I thought about this post idea. Two things came to mind; first, this jetted tub needs about twice as many jets as it has and they need to be more powerful, secondly, how much nicer this would have been with a little company... any volunteers?

Have a great week and Happy Hump Day!
Let me be your boy-toy. (Food for thought)
Posted:Apr 24, 2020 12:23 pm
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2020 10:30 am

You can't help but see so many profiles saying they want meet someone for _____, but do they really mean it? Even people who may match 0% with do not return emails or other points of contact. So do they really want meet someone or are they just here because they thing it is a fun place hang out and write things they think about but do not have any plans on acting on. The blogs are great because people interact, however, they are not there meet people. Nothing wrong with that as I feel I have made a lot of friends who I may or may not ever meet if I travel their area for vacation or wor But it just seems a shame that so much sexual desire goes untapped and so many connections close by are not real. I would just love be someone's boy-toy (of my preference type) one time. I would love to meet a female who would want to be my girl-toy just because they wanted a little adventure and fun. I am in great shape currently but in years to come I know I will most likely fall off more and will have less and less stamina. To bad people on here only live in a fantasy world. So what do you think? am I right? and what percentage of individuals return your correspondence (not including the blogs)? I bet I get about 5% or less. I must really look hideous.
Female fetishes... do they exist?
Posted:Apr 21, 2020 11:03 am
Last Updated:Apr 24, 2020 12:03 pm

It seems anytime you see a fetish, talk of a fetish or hear someone mentioning fetishes it seems always reference something that a guy has asked for. I can not ever remember seeing a fetish reference from a lady. I am not including the dom/sub lifestyle in the fetish question as I believe that is more of a lifestyle than a fetish. Here is one that I hear often when watching a video site: feet, show your feet. Well, I for one love feet when they are nicely shapped and not disformed from wearing really tight shoes. I love giving feet massages as a great start foreplay. I will actually even get a rise from doing it. But has any lady ever said she wants see some guys feet? I have never heard it or anything else for that matter. If you have a fetish, or love feet, let me hear it. Thanks!
Undressing: You do it or they do it for you?
Posted:Apr 7, 2020 11:39 am
Last Updated:Apr 21, 2020 11:25 am

This is really a simple question but I want know what others feel is best. For , I would rather undress the person like I am getting a great birthday present. Not saying that watching someone undress is not great or just seeing them walk in naked is not great, I just prefer do the undressing of them myself so I can have added built- excitement and enjoy at my own desire. So tell me what is your preference?

If you are one of the ones like me who prefer undress your partner yourself, please tell how you like go about it. I will give my favorite way in the comment section.
I am a man and I prefer to undress my partner myself.
I am a man and prefer for my partner to undress in front of me.
I am a man and prefer to just see them naked to start with.
I am a female and I prefer to undress my partner myself.
I am a female and prefer for my partner to undress in front of me.
I am a female and prefer to just see them naked to start with.
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Misery loves company... that is why I am a loner.
Posted:Mar 11, 2020 5:55 am
Last Updated:Apr 21, 2020 10:52 am

After reading a friends post yesterday I was reminded of how sad some people are on here. The old saying "Misery loves company" is true. People who go onto others blogs and post nasty things about them are miserable. They are most likely lonely and will never find happiness.

You have to CHOOSE to be miserable or happy if you think about it. For me, it is my human nature to be kind, helpful, thoughtful and giving. I get a super rush of positive endorphans when I do things for others. A smile can be just as contagious as a negative comment. Have you ever been out at a restaurant and smiled at a baby sitting at the next table? They will always smile back. Why is this? because it is in your human nature to be happy. Miserable people really have to work at being so miserable. They are many times self-absorbed and the only way they think they can be happy is to make others miserable like them. Hence, the phrase "Misery loves company."

Today I challenge you to smile at strangers, do an act of kindness for someone you do not know, it could be as simple as holding the door for them. Trust me, you will feel better inside even if they do not acknowledge what you have done for them. But if they do acknoledge, most likely you brought some sunshine into their day and they will most likely pass it on just be cause you made them feel special.

...and no, I am really not a loner but I do spend a lot of my time a lone. But I am also not miserable because I choose otherwise.
Have you ever gotten so distracted in a work environment...
Posted:Mar 10, 2020 6:52 am
Last Updated:Mar 12, 2020 6:14 am

Okay, so after my last post, I am back out of town for a large group meeting. I get in a little late and have to sit near the front in an isle seat. The person leading the meeting is a lady in her mid 40s and she is wearing a skirt that comes down to about 8 inches above her knees. It is a loosely fitting dress and her legs were ghostly white from the lack of seeing sun since last summer. I am not lying when I say she had the best legs I have seen in a very long time. They were flawless, and believe me, I checked every square inch. She was in high black heals and they really made her calves look incredible. Needless to say, I could not think about work and all that was on my mind was wanting to run my hands up and down her legs and thighs with lotion and kisses. I have never met this lady before so I really know nothing else about her. I really hope I did not look like I was stareing at her legs the entire meeting but I know I was. I can not even tell you the first thing about anything she said. Bad me, bad me. I really hope I can find a powerpoint of her presentation. I do not think this has ever happened to me before.

So does this happen to women as well when a guy speaks or is it just simply a guy thing and our love for flesh?
Life's little disappointments.
Posted:Mar 8, 2020 6:05 pm
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2020 9:21 am

I have been dropping by here every now and then just seeing if there is anything new. Sorry to the nice ladies who visit my blog and comment. I do promise to drop by your alls soon. Today was a day that reflected on one thing good... the freaking sun finally showed back up. Makes for a most pleasant Daytimer. But, as I sit here in a hotel miles from home I am dissapointed that there is nothing near me and noone to spend time with. Mostly because I think a lot of women are scared or afraid to take a chance with someone from here. I will give them the benefit of the doubt as I know meeting someone who you do not know can be a scary thing. That is why I like to make friends in the blogs first so if I am in their area they will know more about me and feel more comfortable about meeting.

Recently I met someone while traveling for business, from another site, who was not exactly the person they portraid themselves to be. She sent pictures of a much thinner person. Did she not think when I saw her in real life that I would notice the difference? Needless to say, I was a total gentleman because I do not believe in hurting anyones feelings, even if they have lied. I want to be the better person. Anyways, I spent about 30 minutes talking with her and then delicately moved on so not to upset her. Even though I was very angry inside. I ended up at a strip club talking to a dance in her early 40's and was able to make her day. I gave her something that I had made for the other lady and left her with many words of encouragement in hopes that she could better her situation. I think I should be getting paid for all my counciling... what do you think? Anyways, here I sit alone and am thinking about my next work trip in two weeks wondering if I could actually meet someone, without tipping ones, who would love the companionship of very caring gentlemen. Hope all of you have a wonderful week and that the sun will shine brightly in your area!

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