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Step Back In Time  

DeeInNeed78 42F
275 posts
8/2/2020 7:00 am
Step Back In Time


If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice...how far back would you go and what would the advice be?

I'm disqualifying "1 month and I'd advise myself save my money and not join this site."

profcoquin27bis 56M
3316 posts
8/2/2020 7:07 am

Hi from France
i am standard member and i don't want pay here
but if you want chat, i have a private box on my blog [profcoquin27bis]


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/2/2020 7:10 am

So pop into that time machine...


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/2/2020 7:51 am

    Quoting profcoquin27bis:
    Hi from France
    i am standard member and i don't want pay here
    but if you want chat, i have a private box on my blog [profcoquin27bis]
Bonjour Francais...you haven't answered the question mon cherie...


harbor112 60M
1325 posts
8/2/2020 8:18 am

For me, the early 70's get a any job at Microsoft, and buy the stock too...... Oh Well


CleavageFan4U 63M  
62509 posts
8/2/2020 8:35 am

Oh come on now - give it a chance.

And in keeping with "our" on-going discussions via your blog - my advice to the younger me, try nekkid recreation sooner!!

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Mr00Fun4U 61M  
959 posts
8/2/2020 8:52 am

Oh the one time I would like to step back was when I had a chance to date a cheerleader when I was in my early twenties. I wasn’t where I wanted to be in life...just got out of college and working as a teller in a bank to get into the management program and did bartending on the weekends. A waitress that I worked with told me that her friend liked me...but wasn’t brace enough to pull the trigger.

My advice is now what I tell my sons...don’t get caught up in material shit...just have some fun whenever you can because life can pass you by when you’re not looking.

Oh and I like your excellent advice about this site. You my lovely Lady have class.

Step Back In Time


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/2/2020 9:04 am

    Quoting harbor112:
    For me, the early 70's get a any job at Microsoft, and buy the stock too...... Oh Well
I like your thinking


Hotjuicysex1 47M
6 posts
8/2/2020 9:05 am

Looking for a lady who's ready to hang out and have some fun. I can host or travel to you. Only if you're ready to make this happen hit me .. daytime or this evening only .. as long this add is up i am looking.. not looking to play the questions games ..

Hotjuicysex


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/2/2020 9:05 am

Well said...let's all get starkers !!!


profcoquin27bis 56M
3316 posts
8/2/2020 9:06 am

back when i was 15/16yo


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/2/2020 9:07 am

    Quoting Mr00Fun4U:
    Oh the one time I would like to step back was when I had a chance to date a cheerleader when I was in my early twenties. I wasn’t where I wanted to be in life...just got out of college and working as a teller in a bank to get into the management program and did bartending on the weekends. A waitress that I worked with told me that her friend liked me...but wasn’t brace enough to pull the trigger.

    My advice is now what I tell my sons...don’t get caught up in material shit...just have some fun whenever you can because life can pass you by when you’re not looking.

    Oh and I like your excellent advice about this site. You my lovely Lady have class.

    Step Back In Time
You blew out a cheerleader sir ???? with her pom poms and ra ra skirt ???...that trigger finger needed working on...and your final point to your sons is excellent...grab it while you can...


Massass1963 57M
243 posts
8/2/2020 9:09 am

Don't buy a NEW vehicle nor overbuy more than what you need; Spend on a modest house, instead. Do it early in life as possible.
Cars suck money out of you, often more than was necessary and they lose value far faster than most can pay off. Houses if paid off BEFORE retirement can set you up very nicely when retirement comes.


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/2/2020 9:51 am

    Quoting Massass1963:
    Don't buy a NEW vehicle nor overbuy more than what you need; Spend on a modest house, instead. Do it early in life as possible.
    Cars suck money out of you, often more than was necessary and they lose value far faster than most can pay off. Houses if paid off BEFORE retirement can set you up very nicely when retirement comes.
I think I need you as my financial adviser mass...


Yours_4A_knight 55M
1378 posts
8/2/2020 10:08 am

I would go back a tell my 20 year old self that he will always make a crappy husband, save your money and never get married

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


EnigmaInitiative 52F  
3978 posts
8/2/2020 10:24 am

Ya know, I'm pretty sure I would go back to eighty six, and tell myself to stay in college.

In a sense, sexuality is the built-in psychedelic experience that only a very few people manage to evade.

~Terence McKenna


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/2/2020 11:03 am

    Quoting Yours_4A_knight:
    I would go back a tell my 20 year old self that he will always make a crappy husband, save your money and never get married
Awww I'm sad to hear that...give me a cheery one too...


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/2/2020 11:06 am

    Quoting Hotjuicysex1:
    Looking for a lady who's ready to hang out and have some fun. I can host or travel to you. Only if you're ready to make this happen hit me .. daytime or this evening only .. as long this add is up i am looking.. not looking to play the questions games ..
That one took an unexpected turn


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/2/2020 11:07 am

do continue...


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/2/2020 11:08 am

    Quoting EnigmaInitiative:
    Ya know, I'm pretty sure I would go back to eighty six, and tell myself to stay in college.
Ooh studying what?


Wok2016 38M  
490 posts
8/2/2020 11:14 am

Probably go back to 18 and choose a different major for University (college), instead of playing it so safe. Harder to take risks as you get older...


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/2/2020 11:27 am

    Quoting Wok2016:
    Probably go back to 18 and choose a different major for University (college), instead of playing it so safe. Harder to take risks as you get older...
Ooh somebody else said similar...what would you have studied?


EnigmaInitiative 52F  
3978 posts
8/2/2020 1:07 pm

I was studying education at the time.

In a sense, sexuality is the built-in psychedelic experience that only a very few people manage to evade.

~Terence McKenna


Massass1963 57M
243 posts
8/2/2020 7:21 pm

I see you are from London. I have been there many times as well as to other parts of England.


beenlost 59M
44 posts
8/2/2020 10:54 pm

'84.
The advice? "Get your ass to every single class and every meal in the cafeteria from here til you graduate.

I messed up my early college career worrying about money. But, if I had succeeded and graduated on time in '83, I never would have meet the best people in my life.


lindoboy100 57M
22101 posts
8/3/2020 1:13 am

I would go back to my early 20s, and would have learned to dance at that age (rather than 20 years later.) Yet to meet a woman who doesn't like a good dancer........

My advice would be to travel, at every opportunity, to go out into the world and experience as much of other cultures as possible.

Good wee post McNeed!

Pull ma finger.........


tease_n_toes 72M  
553 posts
8/3/2020 4:11 am

I would go back to My middle teens, with the advice to live on the edge and not be concerned about what others may think! And gotten a good start on a good life!

I have had a good life since I focused on the future and stopped being concerned about others thoughts and actions. One of the good things id I have YOU as a friend!!


missthee 54F  
4253 posts
8/3/2020 5:10 am

I should have started jogging at a much earlier age.


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/3/2020 9:55 am

    Quoting Massass1963:
    I see you are from London. I have been there many times as well as to other parts of England.
Ah any favourite locations outside London?


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/3/2020 9:58 am

    Quoting beenlost:
    '84.
    The advice? "Get your ass to every single class and every meal in the cafeteria from here til you graduate.

    I messed up my early college career worrying about money. But, if I had succeeded and graduated on time in '83, I never would have meet the best people in my life.
Yes pros and cons, swings and roundabouts...


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/3/2020 10:00 am

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    I would go back to my early 20s, and would have learned to dance at that age (rather than 20 years later.) Yet to meet a woman who doesn't like a good dancer........

    My advice would be to travel, at every opportunity, to go out into the world and experience as much of other cultures as possible.

    Good wee post McNeed!
Do you have a speciality oh kilted one...salsa, foxtrot, waltz ? Good advice on the travel...favourite part of the globe?


Massass1963 57M
243 posts
8/3/2020 7:38 pm

    Quoting DeeInNeed78:
    Ah any favourite locations outside London?
A few really...Love the Cotswolds towns, such as Bourton-on-the-Water. Also loved York up north. Overall, though, Devon is my favorite county....Just beautiful there!


lindoboy100 57M
22101 posts
8/4/2020 2:56 am

    Quoting DeeInNeed78:
    Do you have a speciality oh kilted one...salsa, foxtrot, waltz ? Good advice on the travel...favourite part of the globe?
I do, oh needful one, it asda be salsa every time, viva la musica salsa......funnily enough, I don't know any scottish ceilidh dances!

Fav' would be pretty much anything 3rd world, but in particular west Africa and some parts of america latina. And Colombia is probably one of the most amazing countries ever.

Pull ma finger.........


lindoboy100 57M
22101 posts
8/4/2020 2:59 am

Wot about you McNeed? Travel/dance/whatever??

Pull ma finger.........


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/4/2020 3:15 am

    Quoting missthee:
    I should have started jogging at a much earlier age.
Join the club !!!


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/4/2020 3:16 am

    Quoting tease_n_toes:
    I would go back to My middle teens, with the advice to live on the edge and not be concerned about what others may think! And gotten a good start on a good life!

    I have had a good life since I focused on the future and stopped being concerned about others thoughts and actions. One of the good things id I have YOU as a friend!!
Hello stranger...


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/4/2020 10:55 am

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    Wot about you McNeed? Travel/dance/whatever??
Travel probably Italy...Florence, Rome etc...dance...drunkenly around my handbag...you forgot to mention the latina lovelies in Colombia ...I'm sure that must be a bonus for you?


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/4/2020 10:56 am

    Quoting Massass1963:
    A few really...Love the Cotswolds towns, such as Bourton-on-the-Water. Also loved York up north. Overall, though, Devon is my favorite county....Just beautiful there!
Devon eh?...how do you take the scones...jam first or cream?...It's a big issue in that part of the world


lindoboy100 57M
22101 posts
8/4/2020 12:32 pm

    Quoting DeeInNeed78:
    Travel probably Italy...Florence, Rome etc...dance...drunkenly around my handbag...you forgot to mention the latina lovelies in Colombia ...I'm sure that must be a bonus for you?
Cannae bit a bit ay a jig roon' a handbag right enough!

Cor blimey, those Colombianas........stunners, especially when they dance. A fair few are enhanced mind, some wi' arses like the kitchen shelf, but aye, bonnie lassies for sure.

You've been here before McNeed.........?

Pull ma finger.........


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/4/2020 12:40 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    Cannae bit a bit ay a jig roon' a handbag right enough!

    Cor blimey, those Colombianas........stunners, especially when they dance. A fair few are enhanced mind, some wi' arses like the kitchen shelf, but aye, bonnie lassies for sure.

    You've been here before McNeed.........?
They were always Miss World I think...do they still do that? every rock and tv star seems to be married to a former Miss Colombia?


Yours_4A_knight 55M
1378 posts
8/7/2020 11:17 am

    Quoting DeeInNeed78:
    Awww I'm sad to hear that...give me a cheery one too...
This is a cheery one, I would be so much happier if I had never been married

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/9/2020 6:58 am

    Quoting Yours_4A_knight:
    This is a cheery one, I would be so much happier if I had never been married
Ah ok...quite the tattoo you have there?


Yours_4A_knight 55M
1378 posts
8/10/2020 4:36 am

    Quoting DeeInNeed78:
    Ah ok...quite the tattoo you have there?
Thanks I am really happy with it even if basically no one sees it very much anymore, or ever really

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


DeeInNeed78 replies on 8/10/2020 11:12 am:
It will be unveiled at some point...

QuitetheSOP 54M
122 posts
8/10/2020 11:32 am

1989 and the advice "well you wouldn't have enjoyed that threesome with the two Swedish nurses anyway"

Regards SOP


Paulxx001 63M
16322 posts
8/11/2020 7:16 am

Anything I'd change would be considered a regret, no?
I think I'd leave things as they were /are.
Perhaps that one time I passed an unmarked police car doing 190 km / hr.
Yep... that would be the one! 😊


Only_one_14 51F  
1298 posts
8/11/2020 11:02 pm

2006

“Women have a wonderful instinct about things. They can discover everything except the obvious.” ~ Oscar Wilde


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/12/2020 11:30 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Anything I'd change would be considered a regret, no?
    I think I'd leave things as they were /are.
    Perhaps that one time I passed an unmarked police car doing 190 km / hr.
    Yep... that would be the one! 😊
Lol


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/12/2020 11:31 am

...and what would be the advice you'd give yourself?


Lonely197248 48M
5 posts
8/14/2020 9:12 am

I would tell myself to NOT GET MARRIED SO YOUNG !! Enjoy yourself and fuck as many women as I can !! But that didn’t happen....... got married at 20 and only FUCKED 1 woman in my life !! Soooo DEPRESSING !! And now, I haven’t had sex or anything sexual in over 3 years now !!


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/15/2020 1:17 am

    Quoting Lonely197248:
    I would tell myself to NOT GET MARRIED SO YOUNG !! Enjoy yourself and fuck as many women as I can !! But that didn’t happen....... got married at 20 and only FUCKED 1 woman in my life !! Soooo DEPRESSING !! And now, I haven’t had sex or anything sexual in over 3 years now !!
All good things to those that wait lonely


69ereatwetpussy 58M  
3672 posts
8/15/2020 11:20 am

I'ld love to step back in time right all my wrongs. Starting at 15 most of all the age of 20. Stop the drugs, drink less, save more money. Thats about it in a nut shell.now I'm in a good place but I regret thing I've done.


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/15/2020 11:37 am

    Quoting 69ereatwetpussy:
    I'ld love to step back in time right all my wrongs. Starting at 15 most of all the age of 20. Stop the drugs, drink less, save more money. Thats about it in a nut shell.now I'm in a good place but I regret thing I've done.
Pleased you are now in a good place 69er


spokaneeman509 32M
16 posts
8/16/2020 12:21 am

Thanks


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/20/2020 6:04 am

    Quoting  :

Yep seize the day!


Ginnung2 41M
165 posts
8/21/2020 8:26 pm

I'd go back a decade or two, and the advice would be: take some time to work on yourself. If you spend all your energy taking care of others, you'll have nothing left with which to care for yourself.


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/22/2020 7:03 am

    Quoting Ginnung2:
    I'd go back a decade or two, and the advice would be: take some time to work on yourself. If you spend all your energy taking care of others, you'll have nothing left with which to care for yourself.
Thanks ginn...yes don't be too selfless


Himerus4u 58M
106 posts
8/26/2020 10:11 am

Good advise, save yr money, be std.


Dark141553 29M
5 posts
8/27/2020 1:19 am

Very cool.


Bigmorgan20 43M
38 posts
8/27/2020 3:10 pm

nice one!here for the points too thanks


TippyMoreland 59M  

8/30/2020 7:30 pm

I love my career; but my off work passion is the ocean. I think I would bo back and looking at a career as a dive instructor in the tropics after college.

Oh or play congas with Jimmy Buffet. I know, I know, it isn't a sexual fantasy so if it makes you feel any better I'll bang one of the margarita soaked groupies after the show.


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/31/2020 7:58 am

    Quoting Himerus4u:
    Good advise, save yr money, be std.
be std?...not sure about that


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/31/2020 7:59 am

Indeed


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/31/2020 8:00 am

    Quoting Bigmorgan20:
    nice one!here for the points too thanks
3 for a win, 1 for a draw


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
8/31/2020 8:02 am

    Quoting TippyMoreland:
    I love my career; but my off work passion is the ocean. I think I would bo back and looking at a career as a dive instructor in the tropics after college.

    Oh or play congas with Jimmy Buffet. I know, I know, it isn't a sexual fantasy so if it makes you feel any better I'll bang one of the margarita soaked groupies after the show.
Lol a nice dream...the warm ocean and congas ! ...and wasn't looking for sexual


XHamburgDave 77M  
9455 posts
9/7/2020 7:45 am

I would go back to 2002. I was working in Germany and split up with a great GF, trying to save a marriage that was already past it's sell by date!

The marriage failed anyway, and although I remained friends with the GF for several years we were never again lovers


DeeInNeed78 42F
178 posts
9/12/2020 6:57 am

    Quoting XHamburgDave:
    I would go back to 2002. I was working in Germany and split up with a great GF, trying to save a marriage that was already past it's sell by date!

    The marriage failed anyway, and although I remained friends with the GF for several years we were never again lovers
Lovers then friends only...


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