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A couple of observations.....  

DesertFox214 63F  
12 posts
9/13/2014 9:10 pm
A couple of observations.....


I've recently had some interactions with a couple of members that disturbed me in a number of ways, so I thought I would write it down and hope that someone can help me understand.

First, one gentleman made me feel like a commodity and that I should be privileged to interact with him. When he asked for photos, I sent them, and when I asked him for a reciprocating photo, he simply ignored my request, which I thought was odd. When I told him I had a bad feeling about that and that I might cancel, he simply canceled on me first and blocked me. It confirmed my gut feeling but still....really? No need to get nasty.....

Then, when another gentleman didn't get an immediate response from me, he e-mailed me and told me that I was off of his list of possibilities and wished me good luck. This was after a few days....wow, talk about impatient! Another big red flag.

So many men are grateful for any response. So, guys, if you want some feedback....be nice, please? From every man I've talked to, they all seem to say that there are so many more men than women here, so gentleman, treat us nicely, please?

You'll get so much further that way.......REALLY.....

Am I wrong?

coptrainer56 70M
1878 posts
9/13/2014 10:09 pm

You have to laugh at the moronics and focus on whatever it is that you seek.
You have no control of the childish acts of others, just ignore them and move on.

Be safe, relax and just have fun!


porterpiper1 53F
3767 posts
9/13/2014 10:53 pm

I got this from one guy also, We text then he ask for a face pic, We never talk on the phone but you want a face pic, I think not, then he ask for body shots, I never met you nor have I talk to you on the phone but I am going to send you nude photos, I think not. I will send a face if I talk to you on the phone, so he never text me again, He has body shots of himself that is cool, it is his choice


Steve_Austin1969 50M

9/14/2014 12:11 pm

Welcome to the blogs. You will find the most people who blog tend to be more honest and real so always check that when interacting with someone new. A profile is easy to polish up but the real person does come out over time in the blogs.

Regardless of the ratio of men to women on here the fact is we, each of us, is in control of the interactions on here. It is up to each of us what and when we will share with others. There are a lot of immature asshats on here. There are also a lot of users and abusers. And there are some true Ladies and Gentlemen as well. Our task is to sort out the chaff from the grain. The diamonds from the dirt and rock.

You are right that presenting a modicum of respect and grasp of social graces (being friendly) gets anyone further than being an jerk.

My profile, public pictures, videos, and lots more of what rambles around in my head can be found in my blogs. Stop by for a visit and say "Hi" Steve_Austin1969


pytimesx 60M
941 posts
12/9/2014 10:55 pm

Let's not respond to .....(Am I wrong?)..... since it appears to be a rhetorical question seeking support.

And, only point to this little excerpt (edited for correctness) - - ( please be nice ). One only needs to read your three blog posts to know who they'd be talking to and what they'd be risking. I skipped over the first two because this is the best I can say on any of them.


JeffNevada 68M  
3 posts
6/17/2020 7:17 pm

You're not wrong. If anything you're to nice. People can be real a-holes. They're selfish and put themselves first. You're not wrong. xx


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