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Breeder Wives. Is this really a thing?  

DiscreteSlowRide 51M
174 posts
8/3/2021 4:13 pm
Breeder Wives. Is this really a thing?

First, I am not judging what any of you do. I am just... inquisitive. Let's go with that.

Can someone help me understand this?? I get the fantasy most men have. is a heat factor when cums picturing us watching another man or multiple men having what is ours and precious us. I get the fantasy and I understand turning a fantasy into reality. I'm all for acting on fantasies!

Breeding though?? Yikes. Removing the heat factor out of the scenario and thinking about the reality, the real risks and ramifications seem to far outweigh the turn-on about following through with the actual act. 
Am I wrong??

Here is an example... again I am not judging.
I read a post  about a woman has been a [breeder wife] and she stated that she and her husband have been enjoying this for many years. In this particular post she described how she has hooked up with several random random men over the course of a day and into the evening. She made the point about mentioning that all the men were strangers, all of them took her bareback and filled her so she was dripping with several men. That evening, she went home, she told her husband about her many hook ups of the day and her husband became so turned on he took her right as she is dripping with lots of rando semen.
I mean the risks of catching serious permanent diseases is NOT in anyone's favor here.
Does this really happen??
Is it mostly about taking semen from random or multiple men?
Is the goal actually get pregnant from an unknown guy or is about something else?

Comments are welcome. If you prefer comment privately, you are more then welcome comment in the private section of my blog.
Yes My Wife is/ I am a breeder and it went very south
Yes my wife is/I am a breeder and it has been wonderful for our relationship
We have managed to stay STD free
We contracted and STD (or a few)
We don't care about the risk, we love the breeder lifestyle
We/I would like to try it
Yeah....I don't get it
Other


HAMONMAN 62M
12675 posts
8/3/2021 4:28 pm




will be interesting to see the feedback this poll generates


Humanity peaked during the 20th century.
We can't even make a decent starter solenoid any longer.


DiscreteSlowRide 51M
361 posts
8/3/2021 4:47 pm

    Quoting HAMONMAN:



    will be interesting to see the feedback this poll generates
Right? I will be watching regularly for sure.


Brownie202 64F  
2562 posts
8/3/2021 5:38 pm

I am at a kink/ fetish / BDSM site not a...l...t... I have seen it on a few profiles but I believe it was just one man who wants that. Not love just to breed children.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


DiscreteSlowRide 51M
361 posts
8/3/2021 6:54 pm

    Quoting Brownie202:
    I am at a kink/ fetish / BDSM site not a...l...t... I have seen it on a few profiles but I believe it was just one man who wants that. Not love just to breed children.
That's another thing I don't understand about it. Is it in part about breeding to have kids with some unknown random stranger?


heartshapedcock2 38M
1861 posts
8/3/2021 8:26 pm

Anyone seriously into this should be sterilized. This is child abuse.


soquiliquay 38F  
11 posts
8/3/2021 11:38 pm

I can see the appeal. Once upon a time I considered cuckolding. But being a nymphomaniac, I couldn't stand always being horny and being stuck with a tiny dick. Yeah, there's lovers but if I'm in the mood now, I want it now. I want to share my life with a man who can satisfy all of me, and that requires confidence, and a BBC.

I'd consider cuckold friends...but yeah, I just couldn't do the whole married to a cuckold, thing. But as far as sex goes, I refuse rubbers and my goal is to get pregnant. I'm on the hunt for the right stud to make that happen. Tried a donor, but he canceled on me for July and my cycle was perfect then...plus it means having to travel 3 hours or so to see him. I want to be able to have the opportunity to get pregnant, when I'm fertile. Not when my schedule permits me to travel. It's gotten to that point, I'm considering 3somes or more just to have more of an advantage, and since I'm moving...maybe I'll have better luck.

I just don't see the appeal of a cuckold raising another man's child. If a man doesn't want to be a father, he shouldn't be 'breeding.' We all deserve to know where we come from. A cuckold raising another man's child, is like saying, "Oh yes, we love a dead beat dad, they're wonderful men." I can understand a woman who was in a relationship and got preg, and the guy chickened out and ran off...she moved on to a better guy who's a great step dad...but that's not the case with a cuckold raising a 'bull's child." I don't even like that term. It's like saying we women are cows.

Women should rise up, have confidence in ourselves, and believe we deserve to be happy.

I think I'm rambling...perhaps it's time for sleep XD


Massass1963 58M

8/4/2021 5:40 am

I tend to be distrustful of many people's claims of their play on here. On the one hand I read over and over again from many profiles that include men, women, and couples of just how difficult it is to get people to meet. Then you get one that indicates that it is apparently easy to get a bunch of people to meet on the same day ... regularly? I question that.
As far a men loving to see other men fuck their wives, I think that is generally if the man is bi-sexual and interested in getting the man, as well. Most men I know--actually ALL men I know are very possessive of their wives or girlfriends. Seems like this is just that--a fantasy.


DiscreteSlowRide 51M
361 posts
8/4/2021 8:41 am

    Quoting Massass1963:
    I tend to be distrustful of many people's claims of their play on here. On the one hand I read over and over again from many profiles that include men, women, and couples of just how difficult it is to get people to meet. Then you get one that indicates that it is apparently easy to get a bunch of people to meet on the same day ... regularly? I question that.
    As far a men loving to see other men fuck their wives, I think that is generally if the man is bi-sexual and interested in getting the man, as well. Most men I know--actually ALL men I know are very possessive of their wives or girlfriends. Seems like this is just that--a fantasy.
Hey Mass. Thanks for replying.

You make all good points and I mostly agree with you, particularly how most men are typically very protective of their wives/girlfriends. With that said, I have known quite a few couples over the years who have been swingers and the husbands have been very open to their wives playing with other men. Most of the times they allowed their wives to play with just one man and that is after the husband approves. As I am told, the husbands have been straight and have not participated. I have never heard of a husband who is all for his wife fucking 5 strange random men bareback in one day.
Anyway, its very likely people write about fantasies and try to portray them as actual experiences.


DiscreteSlowRide 51M
361 posts
8/4/2021 9:38 am

    Quoting soquiliquay:
    I can see the appeal. Once upon a time I considered cuckolding. But being a nymphomaniac, I couldn't stand always being horny and being stuck with a tiny dick. Yeah, there's lovers but if I'm in the mood now, I want it now. I want to share my life with a man who can satisfy all of me, and that requires confidence, and a BBC.

    I'd consider cuckold friends...but yeah, I just couldn't do the whole married to a cuckold, thing. But as far as sex goes, I refuse rubbers and my goal is to get pregnant. I'm on the hunt for the right stud to make that happen. Tried a donor, but he canceled on me for July and my cycle was perfect then...plus it means having to travel 3 hours or so to see him. I want to be able to have the opportunity to get pregnant, when I'm fertile. Not when my schedule permits me to travel. It's gotten to that point, I'm considering 3somes or more just to have more of an advantage, and since I'm moving...maybe I'll have better luck.

    I just don't see the appeal of a cuckold raising another man's child. If a man doesn't want to be a father, he shouldn't be 'breeding.' We all deserve to know where we come from. A cuckold raising another man's child, is like saying, "Oh yes, we love a dead beat dad, they're wonderful men." I can understand a woman who was in a relationship and got preg, and the guy chickened out and ran off...she moved on to a better guy who's a great step dad...but that's not the case with a cuckold raising a 'bull's child." I don't even like that term. It's like saying we women are cows.

    Women should rise up, have confidence in ourselves, and believe we deserve to be happy.

    I think I'm rambling...perhaps it's time for sleep XD
Hi soquil, Thank you for your input.

First, well done on pressing through a well written reply with minimal rambling.

I suppose it would depend if the husband being a cuckold is typical. I have heard of so many different scenarios as to the husbands involvement. In some cases the husband is totally in the dark as to his wife's secret trysts. I have read about so many different scenarios on here and to Massass' point, who knows who is being truthful... I have known people who swing and I have never heard of men who encourage their wives to fuck multiple strangers without protection whenever possible.

As for you and getting pregnant via mutiple guys...
I get you have an insatiable drive, I get your hate for condoms, most of us, if not all of us would agree with you on that. It sounds like the way you are going to go about getting pregnant is a work in progress. A threesome or more?? eh... You might regret one day saying... I narrowed the father down to 6 possible men... So you might want to work through that or maybe because it was 2:30 in the morning when you said that.


Only_one_14 52F
3554 posts
8/4/2021 11:15 pm

Do they have porn for this?

A Man who knows how to use his tongue is extremely useful!


DiscreteSlowRide 51M
361 posts
8/5/2021 6:04 am

Yup! I'll share my links with you lol


lust4life59 62F
2294 posts
8/5/2021 10:10 am

From a BDSM dicionary -

" Breeding -----This usually means having unprotected sex to ejaculation, often includes a breeding fantasy where the role play involves being impregnated"

SO the getting pregnant part is a fantasy role play thing, but it usually involves unprotected sex. And could also include men that have had vasectomies, or women that are either past menopause or otherwise unable to get pregnant.

And in reality is this any different than arranging a gang bang for your wife or partner? In the kink community, it would be consentual on both sides, and the male Dominant would be the one usually in charge of making the arrangements. Because, you know, that whole control thing that exists in a power exchange.

As you know I'm on the other site. I'm not sure how common it is, because I don't have any interest in that kind of play. I do know I see events posted, now as to how many actually show up, again, I have no clue.


DiscreteSlowRide 51M
361 posts
8/7/2021 9:56 am

    Quoting lust4life59:
    From a BDSM dicionary -

    " Breeding -----This usually means having unprotected sex to ejaculation, often includes a breeding fantasy where the role play involves being impregnated"

    SO the getting pregnant part is a fantasy role play thing, but it usually involves unprotected sex. And could also include men that have had vasectomies, or women that are either past menopause or otherwise unable to get pregnant.

    And in reality is this any different than arranging a gang bang for your wife or partner? In the kink community, it would be consentual on both sides, and the male Dominant would be the one usually in charge of making the arrangements. Because, you know, that whole control thing that exists in a power exchange.

    As you know I'm on the other site. I'm not sure how common it is, because I don't have any interest in that kind of play. I do know I see events posted, now as to how many actually show up, again, I have no clue.
I see you have done some research Lust4.

So, there is a BDSM dictionary?? Interesting...

Ahhh ok... So there is a separation of reality and fantasy about getting pregnant.

Agreed, it definitely is not much different than arranging a gangbang but I am assuming some or many use condoms in gangbangs. The breeding fantasy (of what I have read) condoms do not seem to be an option. It seems to be about receiving semen from multiple men.


Punkerelli2 41M
18 posts
8/9/2021 12:24 am

I have been part of a breeder party. It was set up as a gang bang, but everybody had the same physical attributes. I did not realize this until later on in the lifestyle.


DiscreteSlowRide 51M
361 posts
8/9/2021 6:31 am

    Quoting Punkerelli2:
    I have been part of a breeder party. It was set up as a gang bang, but everybody had the same physical attributes. I did not realize this until later on in the lifestyle.
A breeder party? Interesting. So was the purpose to get her pregnant or was it more about, leaving the condoms at the door?


silverfox232 57M/56F
26 posts
8/20/2021 7:49 am

Female here is a breeder and was succesful on 2 occasions of giving birth from strangers.


DiscreteSlowRide 51M
361 posts
8/20/2021 2:18 pm

    Quoting silverfox232:
    Female here is a breeder and was succesful on 2 occasions of giving birth from strangers.
Really??
Was that the intention (getting pregnant) o0r just the consequences you as a couple accepted?


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