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DrHeifer 61F
410 posts
12/23/2019 7:33 am
Monday Minute

1. I like working the week of Christmas and the week between Christmas and New Year. Everyone else is off, so I really couldn't do much even if I wanted . Then, I get take my seven weeks of vacation at another time. It's like having an extra weeks of vacation. Did I just admit being lazy?
2. When it comes being accepted, consistently showing up is everything. When I first got married, my mother-in-law hated just for being white. That's funny because she was half white, but she didn't like that half. She was mean for decades. I just kept showing up anyway. When I got divorced 25 later, I still kept showing up. I told everyone I got his family in the divorce. They all looked at like I smelled bad. That's okay. I continued show up at all the family events for the next twenty . It's funny now because they all just love like I'm their sister now. It's all about how much time you spend with someone. I have make sure that when I die someone shows up at my funeral, and I can't count on my own family for that, except for my .
3. In spite of the fact that my niece just passed, we're still going go ahead with our Christmas traditions. No one feels overly Christmasy, but we're trying keep a little normalcy going. We're going have a gingerbread house making contest. We'll have teams. I told my I won't be on her team because she has a bad attitude toward building gingerbread houses. She wants to bring super glue, but we told her she can't. If I see her fingers stuck to her jeans pocket I'll know she tried to sneak some in and it leaked in her pocket.
4. 2019 stole my joy.
5. Maybe I've said this before...but don't ever date someone who belongs to 50 groups with titles that all imply a dozen different personality disorders. A guy I dated married someone who fits this description. I saw a picture of him and his lovely bride of a couple of . He's looking completely freaked out these days. It's his third wife. You'd think he would have learned by now.

Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, and Happy Kwanzaa everybody!


DrHeifer 61F
187 posts
12/23/2019 7:33 am

1. I like working the week of Christmas and the week between Christmas and New Year. Everyone else is off, so I really couldn't do much even if I wanted to. Then, I get to take my seven weeks of vacation at another time. It's like having an extra two weeks of vacation. Did I just admit to being lazy?
2. When it comes to being accepted, consistently showing up is everything. When I first got married, my mother-in-law hated me just for being white. That's funny because she was half white, but she didn't like that half. She was mean to me for decades. I just kept showing up anyway. When I got divorced 25 years later, I still kept showing up. I told everyone I got his family in the divorce. They all looked at me like I smelled bad. That's okay. I continued to show up at all the family events for the next twenty years. It's funny now because they all just love me like I'm their sister now. It's all about how much time you spend with someone. I have to make sure that when I die someone shows up at my funeral, and I can't count on my own family for that, except for my kids.
3. In spite of the fact that my niece just passed, we're still going to go ahead with our Christmas traditions. No one feels overly Christmasy, but we're trying to keep a little normalcy going. We're going to have a gingerbread house making contest. We'll have teams. I told my daughter I won't be on her team because she has a bad attitude toward building gingerbread houses. She wants to bring super glue, but we told her she can't. If I see her fingers stuck to her jeans pocket I'll know she tried to sneak some in and it leaked in her pocket.
4. 2019 stole my joy.
5. Maybe I've said this before...but don't ever date someone who belongs to 50 FB groups with titles that all imply a dozen different personality disorders. A guy I dated married someone who fits this description. I saw a picture of him and his lovely bride of a couple of years. He's looking completely freaked out these days. It's his third wife. You'd think he would have learned by now.

Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, and Happy Kwanzaa everybody!


Paulxx001 63M  
15412 posts
12/23/2019 8:22 am

... oh and happy 'Festivus' today. 🍷🍷
I work for a company where the two weeks you describe are soo relaxing in the office ... lol 😂
So... showing up, right?
Hmmm... When 'we' split up... the doors were shut and they changed the locks. They let you in? 🤔 Kool.
Making sure someone shows up... Now THAT'S a worthy goal! 👍😎 Ya know... free buffets always work. 😶

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


ClassicRock2015 66M
822 posts
12/23/2019 8:26 am

Enjoy your two weeks semi vacation !...Merry Christmas !


redrockrascal 61M
21259 posts
12/23/2019 8:42 am

1. Did I just admit being lazy? More like opportunistically efficient

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


DrHeifer 61F
187 posts
12/23/2019 8:57 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    ... oh and happy 'Festivus' today. 🍷🍷
    I work for a company where the two weeks you describe are soo relaxing in the office ... lol 😂
    So... showing up, right?
    Hmmm... When 'we' split up... the doors were shut and they changed the locks. They let you in? 🤔 Kool.
    Making sure someone shows up... Now THAT'S a worthy goal! 👍😎 Ya know... free buffets always work. 😶
LOL! Except for my son and daughter, I don't have any family nearby. I moved here when I got married and stayed after the divorce since my kids had their own lives and jobs here. Free buffets really are a plus.

My son says he has the perfect ex-wife. They haven't seen each other or spoken since their divorce 10 years ago.


DrHeifer 61F
187 posts
12/23/2019 8:58 am

    Quoting ClassicRock2015:
    Enjoy your two weeks semi vacation !...Merry Christmas !
Thank you. Merry Christmas to you!


DrHeifer 61F
187 posts
12/23/2019 8:58 am

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    1. Did I just admit being lazy? More like opportunistically efficient
LOL!! I like that.


PAWAPh 43M
11612 posts
12/23/2019 10:00 am

Hey, Doc.

Thank You, You Too!

Jack


normalguy020202 40M
7 posts
12/23/2019 10:27 am

Wnjoy


DrHeifer 61F
187 posts
12/23/2019 10:55 am

    Quoting PAWAPh:
    Hey, Doc.

    Thank You, You Too!

    Jack
Thank you, Jack.


DrHeifer 61F
187 posts
12/23/2019 10:55 am

Thank you! You too.


looking4u69ca 59M  
3354 posts
12/23/2019 4:06 pm

Merry Christmas.


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