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Wednesday Whining  

DrHeifer 62F
408 posts
12/18/2019 8:41 pm
Wednesday Whining


1. In April, my niece died unexpectedly.
2. In June, my therapist dumped me. She said there were other patients who needed her more. It's a sad day when you can't even someone out of your own pocket to listen to you. I took it personally.
2. In October, my ex-husband died unexpectedly.
3. In October, my brother-in-law had a<b> stroke.
</font></b>4. Yesterday, my other niece died unexpectedly (sister to #1). I spent the entire day with her Saturday, and she was perfectly healthy.
5. 2019 hasn't been all bad, but it certainly hasn't been all good.
6. Today I told a realtor happy birthday, and she tried to sell me a house. That just seems wrong to me. Next year, I'm going to tell her Happy 80th Birthday. (She's in her 60s.)

That's it for today.

1971BiggUnsLuvr 49M
88 posts
12/18/2019 8:48 pm

Wow what a year... So sorry.

Hugs


fashionablegma 77F
7938 posts
12/18/2019 9:36 pm

Sorry to hear that,2020 has got to be good luck to you after what has happened this year,good luck


sphxdiver 70M  
21071 posts
12/18/2019 9:40 pm

Really sorry to hear about your loses.

The realtor, different story.


MoonKnight169 56M
26 posts
12/18/2019 10:22 pm

things are supposed to only come in threes


justaguyinalaska 54M  
647 posts
12/19/2019 12:39 am

1. Given that your niece was likely from a generation younger than ours, her passing is untimely and tragic.
2. You were right to have taken it personally. While there are no absolutes in Life (ie, somewhere there is assuredly someone more neurotic than you or , what convinced your therapist that one of those more *needy* cases would find his/her way to her couch? She had more than a little swelling of ego on display in her dismissal.
1, 2’, 3 and 4: I’m not a data scientist, but the probability of such a sequence of deaths on such a narrow time-line has to be approaching the odds of winning a lottery. You have truly been tested.
5. As youth fades and we begin our mortal recessional, *disappointment and loss* shifts to the foreground. That said, your burdens in 2019 have been undue.
6. As a real estate investor I am far from *shocked*. My opinion of brokers is unprintable, even on this site.


72901fun 58M
6 posts
12/19/2019 4:26 am

tasty


redrockrascal 62M
21443 posts
12/19/2019 5:53 am

2. In June, my therapist dumped me. Obviously the therapist is crazy

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


EvanBilly 59M
47 posts
12/19/2019 7:10 am

I am sorry to hear of anyone's troubles but dam...- play the lottery you are way over due for some good fortune ..
Very best and sincerely hope you have a happier holidays


DrHeifer 62F
192 posts
12/19/2019 8:14 am

Thank you. I have faith that 2020 will be much better.


DrHeifer 62F
192 posts
12/19/2019 8:15 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you. I know 2020 will be better.


DrHeifer 62F
192 posts
12/19/2019 8:15 am

    Quoting fashionablegma:
    Sorry to hear that,2020 has got to be good luck to you after what has happened this year,good luck
Thank you. I know you're right.


DrHeifer 62F
192 posts
12/19/2019 8:16 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you


DrHeifer 62F
192 posts
12/19/2019 8:16 am

    Quoting sphxdiver:
    Really sorry to hear about your loses.

    The realtor, different story.
Thank you. Yes, I guess she works every situation. LOL!


DrHeifer 62F
192 posts
12/19/2019 8:52 am

Exactly!


DrHeifer 62F
192 posts
12/19/2019 8:52 am

    Quoting  :

I hope you are right.


DrHeifer 62F
192 posts
12/19/2019 8:53 am

    Quoting  :

I sure hope so.


benard69 63M/63F  
5243 posts
12/19/2019 9:45 am

Think you need a New Year and a Very Very Long Hug!


DrHeifer 62F
192 posts
12/19/2019 2:14 pm

    Quoting justaguyinalaska:
    1. Given that your niece was likely from a generation younger than ours, her passing is untimely and tragic.
    2. You were right to have taken it personally. While there are no absolutes in Life (ie, somewhere there is assuredly someone more neurotic than you or , what convinced your therapist that one of those more *needy* cases would find his/her way to her couch? She had more than a little swelling of ego on display in her dismissal.
    1, 2’, 3 and 4: I’m not a data scientist, but the probability of such a sequence of deaths on such a narrow time-line has to be approaching the odds of winning a lottery. You have truly been tested.
    5. As youth fades and we begin our mortal recessional, *disappointment and loss* shifts to the foreground. That said, your burdens in 2019 have been undue.
    6. As a real estate investor I am far from *shocked*. My opinion of brokers is unprintable, even on this site.
1. My niece that passed Tuesday had just turned 43. Her sister who passed in April had just turned 37.
2. The way the therapist explained it to me, the physician group decided every patient needs to have resolution with X number of visits. I had more than that number of visits. She said she had taught me skills to handle my anxiety, so she could refer me to someone else outside the practice but she could no longer see me.
3. We have been tested for sure.
6. LOL! I worked in IT at a real estate company for 3-1/2 years. People tried to sell me a house at the coffee pot.


DrHeifer 62F
192 posts
12/19/2019 2:15 pm

    Quoting  :

Thank you.


DrHeifer 62F
192 posts
12/19/2019 2:15 pm

I assume you're referring to my picture and not my blog post. LOL!


DrHeifer 62F
192 posts
12/19/2019 2:16 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    2. In June, my therapist dumped me. Obviously the therapist is crazy
Absolutely! Maybe she realized I just wanted to whine and she was tired of hearing it. LOL!


DrHeifer 62F
192 posts
12/19/2019 2:17 pm

    Quoting EvanBilly:
    I am sorry to hear of anyone's troubles but dam...- play the lottery you are way over due for some good fortune ..
    Very best and sincerely hope you have a happier holidays
Thank you so much! I do need to play the lottery. You are right!


DrHeifer 62F
192 posts
12/19/2019 2:17 pm

    Quoting benard69:
    Think you need a New Year and a Very Very Long Hug!
I do!


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