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Is a man Bi if he lets another man suck his cock??
Posted:May 13, 2021 6:25 pm
Last Updated:May 20, 2021 2:40 am

Hello my fellow playmates,

It's been a while. My internet has been down...

But today it is back.

I missed HNW but maybe next week.

My brain is wondering tonight if a man lets another man suck his cock is he Bi?

Are you straight if you let another man suck you off as long as you don't return the favor or touch him or kiss him. Just purely let him give you a BJ?

What if you want to fuck a "twink"? Or you want to fuck a "sissy"? Does that make you gay or bi?

B says you are not gay if you let another man suck your cock but I BS. If you have any type of sexual contact with another person of the same sex me you are gay.

What say you my fellow playmates? Who is right me or B??

Does every man want to fuck a 22 year old??
Posted:May 8, 2021 3:52 pm
Last Updated:Jun 2, 2021 6:31 pm

Good Evening my fellow playmates,

Tomorrow is 's !!!

I am a Mom to 3 adult who would never believe I write a sex blog much less that I have sex....

Could it be I am a MILF??? B says that I am GILF...that got him an ass chewing. GRRRRRRRR.

It's bad enough that I feel old I don't need him telling I am a grandma. I am not a grandma yet but yes of course I am plenty old enough to be one. But still.

Anywho I was watching a show the other and they were saying that every man wants to fuck a 22-year-old. That is their ideal age and woman.

Is that true?? And if so why 22?? I mean when I was 22 I didn't know shit about who I was or what my desires were. I just wanted to fuck with no real understanding of all the mind-stuff that makes sex GREAT!!!!!

But maybe men don't care they just want a tight body. Who knows??

But I would love to hear from both men and women about their thoughts on this, please.

Happy 's to all the Mom's there.

Professional porn or amateur??? What is your pleasure?
Posted:May 7, 2021 3:13 pm
Last Updated:May 31, 2021 5:59 pm

Good afternoon my fellow playmates,

Happy Friday!!!!

So this weekend maybe you will be watching porn, if you are what do you tune into?? Professional or amateur??

What's your pleasure?

Now B LOVES, LOVES, LOVES amateur. He likes the "realness" of it. not so much times. I feel like it can be too "real". I get so distracted with the shit in the background. Dirty clothes, toys strewn everywhere, food and cups cluttering the tables. Not to mention some of the people just a little too nasty times. I lose focus and start wanting to clean their house or clip their nails or some shit like that. Nothing to my mood like seeing toys scratted everywhere and wondering if they are going to clean up where they have had their nasty asses laying before the come home from grandma's.

Now professional can be just as distracting too. I wonder where the girls get their nails done and what shade of color it is. I wonder if she knows her boob job was botched, her nipples are pointing in different directions. I feel sad when I see the girls staring blankly into the camera while getting pounded by some guy old enough to be their grandpa. I wonder if she is enjoying the work or if she is just trying to survive.

So for me, I have to search through all kinds of porn to find just the right one. More often than not it appears to be amateur. So I guess amateur is my choice if I have one.

Your thoughts and which are the best sites to find great porn??

Buck naked or discreetly hidden??
Posted:May 5, 2021 9:24 pm
Last Updated:May 15, 2021 8:19 pm

Good Evening my fellow playmates,

My question is what is more of a turn-on? A woman who posts pictures of herself spread wide open for all see or a woman who just flashes you the goods in a discreet way?

Would you rather see a peek-a-boo shot or would you rather see her spread open so wide you can see her cervix?

FTR-- I would rather see a man's chest, back, or arms than I would a dick pic but that is just me. I mean give me some mystery.

And nothing turns me on more than a man telling me how lovely I am or sexy I look versus saying he wants fuck me. I realize men are visual but you have remember women aren't wired the same way. We like sexy, sultry, mystery hotness. Not blatant in your face cock pics. Keep some of the mystery there for us, please.

So what do you think guys and gals?

Stipped down, dirty, open wide sex shots or discreet, mystery, teasing sexy shots???

Is it HNW already....
Posted:May 4, 2021 8:28 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2021 6:03 pm
Well, I am not really naked but sort of kind of...okay not really but hopefully this is okay as well.

Happy HNW!!!

Enjoy your hump day.

Rimming...yes or no????
Posted:May 4, 2021 3:40 am
Last Updated:May 6, 2021 7:45 pm

Good Morning my fellow playmates,

So on the last blog, someone brought up rimming.

My question is do you like to do it to someone?

Do you like having it done to you?

Now my opinion is it can feel good but I get so damn nervous when it is being done to me because I worry am I clean enough. Is everything shaved up and looking appealing enough? I am an over-the-top clean freak so this pushes all my panic buttons. This is one of those things that I have to focus on not focusing on in order to enjoy....if that makes sense.

The hard part is B loves to do it to me. He treats my body like an ice cream cone. He gets this crazy look in his eyes and then he growls "Daddy's hungry baby". That's when I know to just lay back because he is not gonna stop until every piece of me has been sucked and licked properly.

I always give it one last effort by saying, "You making me nerrrveesouss"

To which he growls, "I like nervous." as he comes at me licking his chops with his cock brick hard and bouncing.

Ahh my guy always up for fun.

You want to put your cock where????
Posted:May 2, 2021 6:22 pm
Last Updated:May 14, 2021 6:17 pm

Good Evening my fellow playmates. I hope your Sunday has been peaceful.

My question for today is do you like anal sex????

Now the first time B asked me if I liked anal sex I screamed "Hell NO!!!"

Problem was I had never had anal sex before.

I was a 40 + year woman who had been in a sexless marriage for the most part and when we did have sex it was very vanilla. But I knew I didn't want anything up my ass.

My motto was it was an exit not an entrance and I made no bones about it.

Now B was very nice about it and said "No issue, not a necessity"

Then I started to ask some of my friends what they thought about it. Well for the most part they all said they either hated it or they had never tried it. Then one girl said "Oh hell yeah. I love it. It feels great."

What??? really I thought. Surely it can't feel that great. But she assured me it was.

Soooo I decided maybe she was right. I should at least give it a try. Over time as B and I had sex, he would with my butt and touch there during intercourse. Well, one day I said "Let's try this" Well needless say B was excited....

I'll spare you the details (for now) but with a lot of patience...and lube we finally did it. HOLY HELL!! it was wonderful. He was patient and careful and I truly enjoyed it. Then the next time we did it I was actually able cum from it. Now this REALLY EXCITED B!!!

So yes now I like...love anal. How bout you???

Do men really want submissive women???
Posted:May 1, 2021 6:49 pm
Last Updated:May 6, 2021 7:43 pm
Happy Saturday night my fellow playmates,

I hope you are all well there in AdultFriendFinder land. I was just wondering about something...

Do men really want submissive women??

Now out in the real world, I don't have a submissive bone in my body and before I met my guy B I didn't have a submissive bone in the bedroom either.

But once he stepped into my life, Katie bar the door I want him to be in charge in the bedroom all the time. Now, this doesn't mean that I can't say what my kink is that night or that he gets to decide when and how we have sex but he is definitely in charge in the bedroom. I will do whatever he wants, his wish is my command. It fucking turns me on so much to know that he is in charge AND takes care of my every need. I love to know is pleased and yes if he wanted too I would bow his feet but he has never asked.

Maybe one I will be that lucky.....

So guys do you want a submissive woman??

Girls do you like being submissive???

Tell , playmates, please share.

Surprise, Surprise...
Posted:Apr 30, 2021 6:32 pm
Last Updated:May 20, 2021 6:25 pm

Good Evening my fellow playmates,

So one of my fellow playmates commented on my last post "How do you like your pussy served" that he like it any way as long as "it doesn't have puss oozing or shit falling out of it."

Now I thought this was hilarious...

But I also wondered what does a guy do if the first time he sleeps with a new woman and she pulls her panties off or he pulls them off he is repulsed by what he sees, smells, or feels????

Do you a time out and leave?

Do you take one for the team and dive in?

Do you try improvise?

What do you do??? And do you tell her or do you just make excuses and leave quietly?

Tell me guys what do you do???

How do you like your pussy served up???
Posted:Apr 29, 2021 5:58 pm
Last Updated:May 7, 2021 3:13 pm

Hello My fellow playmates...

So how do you like your pussy served up??


Landing strip --one nice clean line of hair from clit area up

Natural (hairy) except for around the entrance

All-natural (hairy)

My guy likes it bald and wet....

Is a Blow job enough???
Posted:Apr 28, 2021 6:15 pm
Last Updated:May 27, 2021 4:03 pm

So my fellow playmates a question for you.

Is a BJ enough for a man or does he need intercourse every time??

Some nights I just want suck my guy's cock while I finger my wet pussy. I love go my fantasy world in my head while I am sucking his thick coc I pretend like it tastes like some other chick's pussy and I am cleaning up 's cock for him after he has fucked her hard. I don't want any talking or interaction from him just let use your cock for my pleasure. Is this wrong? Am I using him like a toy? Does a man need interaction and intercourse every time or can you be satisfied with just getting your cock sucked??

Thanks for your feedback it helps us chicks be better partners to our guys.


Well here goes my first HNW...
Posted:Apr 27, 2021 6:04 pm
Last Updated:May 14, 2021 6:15 pm
Well, I am fully naked but you can see half of ....does that count??? LOL
Cuck "Quean" or "Queen"??
Posted:Apr 26, 2021 7:19 pm
Last Updated:May 14, 2021 6:14 pm

Hello, my Fellow playmates,

One of my fantasies is to watch my guy have sex with another woman...

Now my understanding is if I am in control such as picking the , deciding how and what they can do, etc. then I am a Cuck "Queen".

If I want to watch and be humiliated and degraded or even let him play alone without being there or participating then I am a Cuck "Quean".

So let tell you my fantasy and then maybe you can help decide what "title" fits best.

I want to pick a chick that I believe my guy would love to fuck then I want to invite her to my boudoir where I will sit in the corner and watch as she pleases my guy.
I want to play with my pussy while she sucks his thick cock, I want him to while he fucks her tight pussy long and hard. Then when he has exploded inside of her I want to clean up his cock and smell her pussy all over his and cock.

SO what am I???

"Quean" or "Queen"



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