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Ellasboudoir 56F
1083 posts
5/5/2021 9:24 pm
Buck naked or discreetly hidden??


Good Evening my fellow playmates,

My question is what is more of a turn-on? A woman who posts pictures of herself spread wide open for all see or a woman who just flashes you the goods in a discreet way?

Would you rather see a peek-a-boo shot or would you rather see her spread open so wide you can see her cervix?

FTR-- I would rather see a man's chest, back, or arms than I would a dick pic but that is just me. I mean give me some mystery.

And nothing turns me on more than a man telling me how lovely I am or sexy I look versus saying he wants fuck me. I realize men are visual but you have remember women aren't wired the same way. We like sexy, sultry, mystery hotness. Not blatant in your face cock pics. Keep some of the mystery there for us, please.

So what do you think guys and gals?

Stipped down, dirty, open wide sex shots or discreet, mystery, teasing sexy shots???

Ella

Lance_Goodthrust 64M
346 posts
5/5/2021 10:42 pm

A totally naked woman can be really sexy, but I prefer pictures of her in some kind of lingerie, see-through or otherwise. Leaving a little to the imagination is always such an erotic thing.


Lkn4funwith2 56M
1201 posts
5/5/2021 11:45 pm

I prefer to see full spreads because I do not like surprises. In public, it really turns me on when a woman enjoys flashing, especially when she does not wear underwear.


Pegsarefun 43M
75 posts
5/5/2021 11:49 pm

I would say a mix....some days action shots (or post action)....some days seductive shots....

A teasing selection will get our collective blood pumping.......


succulent960 61M
700 posts
5/6/2021 12:10 am

une femme habillée sexy sans tout devoiler


Dom__1964 57M
54 posts
5/6/2021 12:26 am

Even fully clothed shots can be sexy. An elegant gown, tight jeans and t-shirt.
Profile pics of genitalia don't really do it for me.
It's about the art of seduction and the tease.


MrWrong4RghtNow 55M  
2198 posts
5/6/2021 2:07 am

I like a little mystery. If I wanted full spread I would have gone into gynecology or porn directing. ;

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BDaddys 55M
345 posts
5/6/2021 2:42 am

A tease is always good, keeping things partially covered is cheeky and allows the imagination to get to work.

Once the engine is running however, it's nice to see more detail...

So it depends on mood for me. Start sweet, cheeky and teasing but work up to putting it all out there.


SMOOTHISGOOD07 69M  
96 posts
5/6/2021 3:33 am

Creative photography doesn't happen nearly enough. The female form can be displayed suggestively by planning the entire frame of the photo. Don't forget to clean up the background, and please leave out the piles of laundry and/or kids toys, like many so-called photographers forget. A hot photo session can be fun to stage, AND fun to review . . . together.(Y)


fang070 51M
1185 posts
5/6/2021 3:34 am

I would say, the point is not how much cloth is on, or how much skin is shown, but how sexy, sensual, teasing the picture is. Is more a matter of attitude. And as someone said before, it depends of the mood you are when viewing the pics.
One thing for sure, the gynecologist point of view is not sexy.

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profcoquin27bis 57M
4182 posts
5/6/2021 4:37 am

totaly agree with you, here i don't show all, only in private


WyoCowboy7751 68M
2333 posts
5/6/2021 4:58 am

A Second VOTE for each of the Comments already Stated


1bighammer1000 56M
4226 posts
5/6/2021 5:09 am

Showing just a little stirs the imagination and is sexy as hell, completely naked is also sexy for myself as it tends to leave me with the impression that a woman is confident in herself. I find confidence sexy as hell also. On the other hand I don't need to see the end of the road either.
I had one gf that refused to get undressed until it was completely dark. And another gal I played with claimed she didn't like how her body looked. What was different with her was she would wear panties or a t shirt around me. I would go to her house and she would be wearing only her panties, she had nice tits, and a nice body. When I started getting undressed she would go into the bathroom and put a t shirt on not a long t shirt , before removing her panties. After the first round we would go to the kitchen and have a smoke and a cup of coffee, still no problems with me seeing her pussy, she would stay in a t shirt until I left. Because of things like this, I really appreciate a woman that is confident in herself.

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paulslookn 63M
562 posts
5/6/2021 5:40 am

Spread it wide open and beg me to lick it and suck on it until you cum.....


Massass1963 58M

5/6/2021 5:54 am

This is a more difficult question than you might think--at least for me! I love women in sexy lingerie with garters! I do like the wide open fully nude pics, as well. Here is why: There is nothing more awkward than developing a relationship with someone and first seeing them totally naked in the bedroom ... and maybe even being turned off by what you had concealed from you. I know that seems shallow, but many guys (and sure woman, too) are quite visual. Make no mistake, I don't expect, nor offer, perfection!
Imagine a woman who loves a big cock, never getting to see it until getting undressed for sex, and seeing a very small cock. There are woman on here that DO stress that is what they want. I just think it is good to provide as much information before you spend time to meet.
All that said, maybe those pics aren't posted, but shared as things heat up, but BEFORE meeting??
I DON'T like to see super closeups of pussies, though. I like to see a bit of upper body and thighs with it! A nice pussy is important, but I do appreciate a sexy body and wish to see that, as well.


Starsearch1965 56M
2054 posts
5/6/2021 6:05 am

Discrete showing just a little


cyclingfool 59M  
6633 posts
5/6/2021 6:06 am

A mix. I enjoy a woman that is playful and bold, but in the appropriate setting. As I would she would appreciate of me also.
I love lingerie and think of it as a gift wrapping of the beauty of a woman. So if I had to pick one, I'd pick sneak peaks.


CleavageFan4U 64M  
68308 posts
5/6/2021 6:23 am

Nice sexily teasing shots (like you tend to post on HNW!!) are my preference - to both view AND take.

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scoupe42 58M  
12838 posts
5/6/2021 6:38 am

I'm not greedy, a peek is OK with me.


bbuckwwheat 62M
6177 posts
5/6/2021 10:02 am

I like a bit of imagination to be involved. Lacy bras that show hints of areolae, sheer panties that show well trimmed pubic hair. Body paint that hides at first glance, but reveal a lot on closer inspection.

Most important is a smile. While it will never happen, I would like to meet a certain blogger from Michigan based on her profile photo that shows only her great smile!

Private mailbox at my blog bbuckwwheat
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Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/6/2021 7:47 pm

    Quoting Lance_Goodthrust:
    A totally naked woman can be really sexy, but I prefer pictures of her in some kind of lingerie, see-through or otherwise. Leaving a little to the imagination is always such an erotic thing.
I feel the same way. I like the mystery.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/6/2021 7:47 pm

    Quoting Lkn4funwith2:
    I prefer to see full spreads because I do not like surprises. In public, it really turns me on when a woman enjoys flashing, especially when she does not wear underwear.
FULL SPREAD humm okay then.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/6/2021 7:48 pm

    Quoting Pegsarefun:
    I would say a mix....some days action shots (or post action)....some days seductive shots....

    A teasing selection will get our collective blood pumping.......
Makes sense and I tend to agree.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/6/2021 7:48 pm

    Quoting succulent960:
    une femme habillée sexy sans tout devoiler


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/6/2021 7:49 pm

    Quoting Dom__1964:
    Even fully clothed shots can be sexy. An elegant gown, tight jeans and t-shirt.
    Profile pics of genitalia don't really do it for me.
    It's about the art of seduction and the tease.
Oh yes I agree 100%


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/6/2021 7:49 pm

    Quoting MrWrong4RghtNow:
    I like a little mystery. If I wanted full spread I would have gone into gynecology or porn directing. ;
now that is funny.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/6/2021 7:50 pm

    Quoting BDaddys:
    A tease is always good, keeping things partially covered is cheeky and allows the imagination to get to work.

    Once the engine is running however, it's nice to see more detail...

    So it depends on mood for me. Start sweet, cheeky and teasing but work up to putting it all out there.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/6/2021 7:51 pm

    Quoting SMOOTHISGOOD07:
    Creative photography doesn't happen nearly enough. The female form can be displayed suggestively by planning the entire frame of the photo. Don't forget to clean up the background, and please leave out the piles of laundry and/or kids toys, like many so-called photographers forget. A hot photo session can be fun to stage, AND fun to review . . . together.(Y)
Agree I have a blog I am going to write about the whole crap in the background being distracting. Thanks for the response.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/6/2021 7:53 pm

    Quoting fang070:
    I would say, the point is not how much cloth is on, or how much skin is shown, but how sexy, sensual, teasing the picture is. Is more a matter of attitude. And as someone said before, it depends of the mood you are when viewing the pics.
    One thing for sure, the gynecologist point of view is not sexy.
yep wide open gapping hole is not sexy to me.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/6/2021 7:53 pm

    Quoting  :

Sir you have game. I love your responses.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/6/2021 7:53 pm

    Quoting profcoquin27bis:
    totaly agree with you, here i don't show all, only in private
Clever man.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/6/2021 7:54 pm

    Quoting WyoCowboy7751:
    A Second VOTE for each of the Comments already Stated


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/6/2021 7:55 pm

    Quoting 1bighammer1000:
    Showing just a little stirs the imagination and is sexy as hell, completely naked is also sexy for myself as it tends to leave me with the impression that a woman is confident in herself. I find confidence sexy as hell also. On the other hand I don't need to see the end of the road either.
    I had one gf that refused to get undressed until it was completely dark. And another gal I played with claimed she didn't like how her body looked. What was different with her was she would wear panties or a t shirt around me. I would go to her house and she would be wearing only her panties, she had nice tits, and a nice body. When I started getting undressed she would go into the bathroom and put a t shirt on not a long t shirt , before removing her panties. After the first round we would go to the kitchen and have a smoke and a cup of coffee, still no problems with me seeing her pussy, she would stay in a t shirt until I left. Because of things like this, I really appreciate a woman that is confident in herself.
I understand what you are saying but it is hard as a woman to be confident sometimes especially if you have been burned before.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/6/2021 7:55 pm

    Quoting paulslookn:
    Spread it wide open and beg me to lick it and suck on it until you cum.....
You are a crazy ass man. LOL


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/6/2021 7:57 pm

    Quoting Massass1963:
    This is a more difficult question than you might think--at least for me! I love women in sexy lingerie with garters! I do like the wide open fully nude pics, as well. Here is why: There is nothing more awkward than developing a relationship with someone and first seeing them totally naked in the bedroom ... and maybe even being turned off by what you had concealed from you. I know that seems shallow, but many guys (and sure woman, too) are quite visual. Make no mistake, I don't expect, nor offer, perfection!
    Imagine a woman who loves a big cock, never getting to see it until getting undressed for sex, and seeing a very small cock. There are woman on here that DO stress that is what they want. I just think it is good to provide as much information before you spend time to meet.
    All that said, maybe those pics aren't posted, but shared as things heat up, but BEFORE meeting??
    I DON'T like to see super closeups of pussies, though. I like to see a bit of upper body and thighs with it! A nice pussy is important, but I do appreciate a sexy body and wish to see that, as well.
I get all of that. I know it is a complicated question because it depends on the people and situation but thank you for your views I appreciate the feedback.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/6/2021 7:58 pm

    Quoting cyclingfool:
    A mix. I enjoy a woman that is playful and bold, but in the appropriate setting. As I would she would appreciate of me also.
    I love lingerie and think of it as a gift wrapping of the beauty of a woman. So if I had to pick one, I'd pick sneak peaks.
I love the gift wrapping concept that is a super sexy thought pattern there.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/6/2021 7:59 pm

Oh look at you being sweet to me. Thank you, Sir. I aim to please.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/6/2021 8:00 pm

    Quoting scoupe42:
    I'm not greedy, a peek is OK with me.
There's my guy. Thank you for stopping by and sharing.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/6/2021 8:00 pm

    Quoting bbuckwwheat:
    I like a bit of imagination to be involved. Lacy bras that show hints of areolae, sheer panties that show well trimmed pubic hair. Body paint that hides at first glance, but reveal a lot on closer inspection.

    Most important is a smile. While it will never happen, I would like to meet a certain blogger from Michigan based on her profile photo that shows only her great smile!
Well just email her and go for it.


Rayateu 65M
261 posts
5/6/2021 8:10 pm

Start out with the tease and if there's a connection being rewarded with more revealing poses is always a good thing.


bbuckwwheat 62M
6177 posts
5/7/2021 5:37 am

Distance and circumstance prevent ever meeting. I do comment on her blog occasionally. I am pretty sure that I do not meet her preferences.

Private mailbox at my blog bbuckwwheat
Fayette, Iowa


liketowatch44g 70M
30 posts
5/7/2021 7:14 am

I love them bare tits showin. *Y*


magictonguesc13 51M
54 posts
5/7/2021 12:01 pm

I do like seeing both from women. The "tease" shots get the juices flowing and then sometimes I really like to see what I'll be licking with my tongue!
Sorry about my "dick pic' on my profile.....


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/7/2021 1:55 pm

    Quoting Rayateu:
    Start out with the tease and if there's a connection being rewarded with more revealing poses is always a good thing.
Very true!! I understand that.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/7/2021 1:56 pm

    Quoting bbuckwwheat:
    Distance and circumstance prevent ever meeting. I do comment on her blog occasionally. I am pretty sure that I do not meet her preferences.
ooohh sorry....


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/7/2021 1:57 pm

    Quoting magictonguesc13:
    I do like seeing both from women. The "tease" shots get the juices flowing and then sometimes I really like to see what I'll be licking with my tongue!
    Sorry about my "dick pic' on my profile.....
LOL your dick pic doesn't bother me. I think you look hot....


agelesssexylegs 78F
1051 posts
5/14/2021 10:51 pm

At an age where i prefer to stay clothed and tease,its classier than being naked as at my age,my body old and in the most part gravity has taken over,just thankful certain materials/designs hold me together as i once was,fitting like a second skin


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/15/2021 8:19 pm

    Quoting agelesssexylegs:
    At an age where i prefer to stay clothed and tease,its classier than being naked as at my age,my body old and in the most part gravity has taken over,just thankful certain materials/designs hold me together as i once was,fitting like a second skin
YES!!! I agree. Keep something for the imagination.


s2ndegree 62M  
9796 posts
6/30/2021 1:53 pm

Maybe I should get that headfromassectomy after all!
It might cure my rather clothed mindedness.
My money is always on the anticipation
rather than someone dragging out their
vacation pictures again.

Using more than all the road!


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