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Is a man Bi if he lets another man suck his cock??  

Ellasboudoir 56F
1089 posts
5/13/2021 6:25 pm
Is a man Bi if he lets another man suck his cock??


Hello my fellow playmates,

It's been a while. My internet has been down...

But today it is back.

I missed HNW but maybe next week.

My brain is wondering tonight if a man lets another man suck his cock is he Bi?

Are you straight if you let another man suck you off as long as you don't return the favor or touch him or kiss him. Just purely let him give you a BJ?

What if you want to fuck a "twink"? Or you want to fuck a "sissy"? Does that make you gay or bi?

B says you are not gay if you let another man suck your cock but I BS. If you have any type of sexual contact with another person of the same sex me you are gay.

What say you my fellow playmates? Who is right me or B??

Ella

cyclingfool 59M  
6619 posts
5/13/2021 7:12 pm

I expressed in reply to an earlier blog that I am open to anal play, giving and receiving. My desire is with/from women.
My ex g/f participated in such play with much pleasure received by her. Me too, but yes she enjoyed it.
In tough times in our relationship she would weaponize my enjoyment in anal play as it making me gay.
Nothing could be farther from the truth. Not that there is anything wrong with it, just not me.
So no cock sucking to or from men for me. Just my choice.
We all have our kinks, quirks and selfbeeing (I made that word up and I'm trying o be politically correct).
I never answered your question.
I don't know. In my old fashion ways, yes, but does it really??


BiJack55 72M  
312 posts
5/13/2021 7:43 pm

Who cares? If it makes you happy. just enjoy and don't worry about it.


OlderMostlyBtm 61M
18 posts
5/13/2021 7:52 pm

I do and I am, but in general I think it depends.


Seventhehardway7 57M  
1 post
5/13/2021 8:04 pm

SAME SEX CONTACT IS TOTALLY GAY


luckyhands21 43M
315 posts
5/13/2021 8:06 pm

All of the above makes you ghey. Super ghey. Like disturbingly nasty ghey.

#utterlydisgusting


cockmasterthe1 44M
17 posts
5/13/2021 8:16 pm

y duz matter so000000000
much 2 sum ppl?๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ˜ถ๐Ÿค


hogknot 55M  
981 posts
5/13/2021 8:26 pm

You are gay on all the above situations


classicalrebel4 66M
1717 posts
5/13/2021 8:51 pm

If it is just the physical sensation of getting your cock sucked then what's the difference between a man or a woman doing it. I don't think the issue of sexual orientation is as black and white and issue as people used to believe, especially now. In addition men seem better able to separate sex from love far more than women can. If there is really a difference between enjoying physical stimulation from someone of the same sex and loving someone of the same sex then I think you could get away with that it doesn't make you bi. I could be wrong, it is so difficult for humans to objectively analyzes themselves.

Please don't let me be misunderstood.


Peakman46 53M  
18 posts
5/13/2021 8:51 pm

Why do you have the need to fit everyone into two or three neat categories? Human sexuality is MUCH more complex than that. For many a bi woman is considered straight, but a bi male is considered gay. Go to Porn Hub, lesbian sex is in the straight page, while male on male is in a whole separate gay area. Why? Isn't same sex considered gay by your standards? Hmmm..... Younger people today seem to understand the diversity in sexuality much more than the older generations with our neat little three categories that everyone must fit into. Closed mined and ignorant.... Whatever turns you on, why the need to make labels ? As long as it is legal, who gives a shit what you like? And why the need to categorize it?


CandG1985 50M/36F  
10 posts
5/13/2021 9:03 pm

As others have said, what's the big deal? If you are a guy and enjoy any kind of sexual contact with a guy (along with women), what's wrong with considering yourself Bi? Why do you have to cling to the title of "straight"? Someone said - maybe joking - you don't have to tell everyone.

I do think in some cases, like myself, you can enjoy occasional sexual contact with guys, but not necessarily be attracted to them outside of sex - like in the same way you might be with a woman.


bim6712 53M  

5/13/2021 9:30 pm

Agree with CandG1985 ... does it really matter? The thought of "it's cool for women but taboo for guys" is hypocritical. If it's enjoyed then who cares. If it's not then don't do it.

We have enjoyed the company of others for a long time. We have come to find that many women enjoy their guy involved like that more then guys might think. Granted this is not always the case so not making a 100% statement. But, for many women, just like us guys enjoy seeing women, many times it's the ladies fantasy seeing the guys too. That's how it was with us ... started as her fantasy.

So, in our opinion, just have fun and enjoy.


boobwhisperer69 58M  
7645 posts
5/13/2021 9:38 pm

I agree with you!!!


Lkn4funwith2 56M
1197 posts
5/14/2021 12:00 am

A gay man has sex ONLY with men, and a bi man enjoys sex with men and women, just like bi women do. Who cares what others think? If you feel that a man is gay if he has any type of sex with another man, go with that, nobody will be trying to convince you otherwise. I have met many couples where the woman loves bi men, and it has been incredibly HOT! I especially LOVE bi women who enjoy bi men.


New2Midlo 51M  
897 posts
5/14/2021 7:11 am

I think you shouldn't waste time on things like labels, but that's just me.


CleavageFan4U 64M  
67773 posts
5/14/2021 7:42 am

I don't get too wrapped up in defining terms. If someone wants to call me bi or gay - Pfff, whatEVER.

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fisherman5999 58M  
902 posts
5/14/2021 8:50 am

A person that has any kind of sex with both M/F is "Bi". If the person only has sex and 'loves' only the same sex, that's being 'Gay'. A person that has sex only with the opposite sex is straight. SIMPLE !


Allhard4u50 59M
1671 posts
5/14/2021 3:44 pm

Theyโ€™re gay


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/14/2021 6:18 pm

LOL well that was blunt


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/14/2021 6:19 pm

    Quoting fisherman5999:
    A person that has any kind of sex with both M/F is "Bi". If the person only has sex and 'loves' only the same sex, that's being 'Gay'. A person that has sex only with the opposite sex is straight. SIMPLE !
Okay then


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/14/2021 6:21 pm

Understood.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/14/2021 6:22 pm

    Quoting New2Midlo:
    I think you shouldn't waste time on things like labels, but that's just me.
Perhaps


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/14/2021 6:23 pm

    Quoting  :

Sounds complicated.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/14/2021 6:23 pm

    Quoting  :


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/14/2021 6:24 pm

    Quoting Lkn4funwith2:
    A gay man has sex ONLY with men, and a bi man enjoys sex with men and women, just like bi women do. Who cares what others think? If you feel that a man is gay if he has any type of sex with another man, go with that, nobody will be trying to convince you otherwise. I have met many couples where the woman loves bi men, and it has been incredibly HOT! I especially LOVE bi women who enjoy bi men.
I was just curious I don't really care either way.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/14/2021 6:25 pm


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/14/2021 6:25 pm

    Quoting bim6712:
    Agree with CandG1985 ... does it really matter? The thought of "it's cool for women but taboo for guys" is hypocritical. If it's enjoyed then who cares. If it's not then don't do it.

    We have enjoyed the company of others for a long time. We have come to find that many women enjoy their guy involved like that more then guys might think. Granted this is not always the case so not making a 100% statement. But, for many women, just like us guys enjoy seeing women, many times it's the ladies fantasy seeing the guys too. That's how it was with us ... started as her fantasy.

    So, in our opinion, just have fun and enjoy.
Thanks


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/14/2021 6:26 pm

    Quoting CandG1985:
    As others have said, what's the big deal? If you are a guy and enjoy any kind of sexual contact with a guy (along with women), what's wrong with considering yourself Bi? Why do you have to cling to the title of "straight"? Someone said - maybe joking - you don't have to tell everyone.

    I do think in some cases, like myself, you can enjoy occasional sexual contact with guys, but not necessarily be attracted to them outside of sex - like in the same way you might be with a woman.
Did I say it was a big deal? I just asked a ???


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/14/2021 6:27 pm

    Quoting Peakman46:
    Why do you have the need to fit everyone into two or three neat categories? Human sexuality is MUCH more complex than that. For many a bi woman is considered straight, but a bi male is considered gay. Go to Porn Hub, lesbian sex is in the straight page, while male on male is in a whole separate gay area. Why? Isn't same sex considered gay by your standards? Hmmm..... Younger people today seem to understand the diversity in sexuality much more than the older generations with our neat little three categories that everyone must fit into. Closed mined and ignorant.... Whatever turns you on, why the need to make labels ? As long as it is legal, who gives a shit what you like? And why the need to categorize it?
Easy big guy just asking a question.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/14/2021 6:28 pm

    Quoting classicalrebel4:
    If it is just the physical sensation of getting your cock sucked then what's the difference between a man or a woman doing it. I don't think the issue of sexual orientation is as black and white and issue as people used to believe, especially now. In addition men seem better able to separate sex from love far more than women can. If there is really a difference between enjoying physical stimulation from someone of the same sex and loving someone of the same sex then I think you could get away with that it doesn't make you bi. I could be wrong, it is so difficult for humans to objectively analyzes themselves.
Huuummm okay


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/14/2021 6:28 pm

    Quoting hogknot:
    You are gay on all the above situations
LOL okay then


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/14/2021 6:29 pm

    Quoting cockmasterthe1:
    y duz matter so000000000
    much 2 sum ppl?๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ˜ถ๐Ÿค
Easy there...just asking a question.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/14/2021 6:30 pm

    Quoting  :

Truth


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/14/2021 6:30 pm

    Quoting luckyhands21:
    All of the above makes you ghey. Super ghey. Like disturbingly nasty ghey.

    #utterlydisgusting
Alright then


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/14/2021 6:30 pm

The man has spoke


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/14/2021 6:31 pm

    Quoting OlderMostlyBtm:
    I do and I am, but in general I think it depends.
Okay. That is your pleasure.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/14/2021 6:32 pm

    Quoting BiJack55:
    Who cares? If it makes you happy. just enjoy and don't worry about it.
Nobody worrying here but ok.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/14/2021 6:33 pm

    Quoting cyclingfool:
    I expressed in reply to an earlier blog that I am open to anal play, giving and receiving. My desire is with/from women.
    My ex g/f participated in such play with much pleasure received by her. Me too, but yes she enjoyed it.
    In tough times in our relationship she would weaponize my enjoyment in anal play as it making me gay.
    Nothing could be farther from the truth. Not that there is anything wrong with it, just not me.
    So no cock sucking to or from men for me. Just my choice.
    We all have our kinks, quirks and selfbeeing (I made that word up and I'm trying o be politically correct).
    I never answered your question.
    I don't know. In my old fashion ways, yes, but does it really??
Understood. And shame on her for making you feel like that.


lyavu 48F
1510 posts
5/15/2021 5:41 am

There no women to suck his cock ?


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/15/2021 8:25 pm

    Quoting lyavu:
    There no women to suck his cock ?
Huh?? Who's cock are you referring to??


kinkyargirl 48M/47F  
4 posts
5/15/2021 8:41 pm

Bi means twice the options and twice the orgasms.


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/16/2021 7:19 am

    Quoting kinkyargirl:
    Bi means twice the options and twice the orgasms.
Well there you go....perfect


Nudger62 66M/40F  
11 posts
5/19/2021 11:34 pm

For me i would say, if you like being sucked by another guy or sucking cock yourself then do it.
Girls who enjoy pussy/having pussy eaten by another girl should go for it too.
Why does everything have to be so complicated.
If you enjoy it,,,, DO IT !!


Ellasboudoir 56F
526 posts
5/20/2021 2:40 am

    Quoting Nudger62:
    For me i would say, if you like being sucked by another guy or sucking cock yourself then do it.
    Girls who enjoy pussy/having pussy eaten by another girl should go for it too.
    Why does everything have to be so complicated.
    If you enjoy it,,,, DO IT !!
LOL agreed!!! I was just curious.


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