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50 Shades of Reality  

EnigmaInitiative 51F  
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11/4/2019 10:41 am
50 Shades of Reality

I'm going to talk about the 50 Shades of Grey because it's a hot topic. We all know how much I like to put my two cents in on subjects I have an opinion on. And, well, I'm definitely an opinionated slut. Sweet and silly slut with a point of view, ain't I just special? You should also know...I'm a wordy bitch. You all should see me try to compose a tweet, it can take me for-flippin-ever to edit it to 0 characters. I betcha I can write a blog post faster than I can word a tweet. Hehehehe

Anyway, so I didn't see the movie, though I did read the first book. I may see the movie when it makes it to my trusty Redbox, don't you all just love Redbox? It's like a movie candy machine, and who doesn't like candy and movies? I had a different opinion regarding 50 Shades of Grey not two months ago, then I had a conversation with one of the Domliest Doms I know. He lives in Michigan, and I used to see him once upon a time...

Originally, I cursed 50 Shades as “bad for the lifestyle”. I condemned it for not having the required information for new doms and subs, saying it would lead bullies into bdsm. And, new subs would come with the wrong idea of what the lifestyle is and be led astray “” doms. Basically, I was thinking for people, and that's something I need to stop.

One of the things my friends said to me was...it is fiction and fantasy. It was never intended as a BDSM manual. Doms and newbie subs are always coming into the lifestyle wielding fantasies of what true BDSM. How is 50 Shades any different than them reading stories on literotica, here, or watching porn?

Anyone who has been in the lifestyle long enough has realized that many so called dominants learned the “skills” from porn. And, I was a newbie sub once who relied on porn to give me an idea of what the lifestyle was all about. But, then, I used my critical thinking skills to learn more, study more, seek out more information. And, that's what we need to let these newbies do for themselves.

50 Shades is a fictional story based on fantasy. It's a “Cinderella” type love story with a little kink....that's it. Ever hear of Star Wars? Was it a manual for how to live in space? Interact with aliens? No, it was a fantastical story, period. Let's not into the “hype” and make 50 Shades more than it is.

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EnigmaInitiative 51F  
2713 posts
11/4/2019 10:43 am

I'm going to talk about the 50 Shades of Grey because it's a hot topic. We all know how much I like to put my two cents in on subjects I have an opinion on. And, well, I'm definitely an opinionated slut. Sweet and silly slut with a point of view, ain't I just special? You should also know...I'm a wordy bitch. You all should see me try to compose a tweet, it can take me for-flippin-ever to edit it to 140 characters. I betcha I can write a blog post faster than I can word a tweet. Hehehehe

Anyway, so I didn't see the movie, though I did read the first book. I may see the movie when it makes it to my trusty Redbox, don't you all just love Redbox? It's like a movie candy machine, and who doesn't like candy and movies? I had a different opinion regarding 50 Shades of Grey not two months ago, then I had a conversation with one of the Domliest Doms I know. He lives in Michigan, and I used to see him once upon a time...

Originally, I cursed 50 Shades as “bad for the lifestyle”. I condemned it for not having the required information for new doms and subs, saying it would lead bullies into bdsm. And, new subs would come with the wrong idea of what the lifestyle is and be led astray by “fake” doms. Basically, I was thinking for people, and that's something I need to stop.

One of the things my friends said to me was...it is fiction and fantasy. It was never intended as a BDSM manual. Fake Doms and newbie subs are always coming into the lifestyle wielding fantasies of what true BDSM. How is 50 Shades any different than them reading stories on literotica, here, or watching porn?

Anyone who has been in the lifestyle long enough has realized that many so called dominants learned the “skills” from porn. And, I was a newbie sub once who relied on porn to give me an idea of what the lifestyle was all about. But, then, I used my critical thinking skills to learn more, study more, seek out more information. And, that's what we need to let these newbies do for themselves.

50 Shades is a fictional story based on fantasy. It's a “Cinderella” type love story with a little kink....that's it. Ever hear of Star Wars? Was it a manual for how to live in space? Interact with aliens? No, it was a fantastical story, period. Let's not buy into the “hype” and make 50 Shades more than it is.

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Showyouinsac 46M
78 posts
11/4/2019 10:52 am

Good read.


EnigmaInitiative replies on 11/4/2019 11:50 am:
Thank you

Ackerson35 25M  
38 posts
11/4/2019 11:01 am

Awesome stuff definitely worth the read 👍


EnigmaInitiative replies on 11/4/2019 11:50 am:
Thank You

ULIXBIG 65M
6859 posts
11/4/2019 11:05 am

I like your comparison to Star Wars!


Apollorising58 59M  
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11/4/2019 11:16 am

good read indeed write on sexy!

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ltrskr 71M  
4017 posts
11/4/2019 11:17 am

Hmmmmm.....


IAMLOOKING4UM 69M
167 posts
11/4/2019 11:19 am

Nicely done


idblueswoman 61F  
655 posts
11/4/2019 11:23 am

I found the book boring, unbelievable and an insult to my intelligence. Very poorly written... While I know some others felt differently, I never went past the first book


EnigmaInitiative 51F  
2713 posts
11/4/2019 11:50 am

    Quoting ULIXBIG:
    I like your comparison to Star Wars!
I appreciate your Thoughts ULI, Thank You

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EnigmaInitiative 51F  
2713 posts
11/4/2019 11:51 am

Thanks

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EnigmaInitiative 51F  
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11/4/2019 11:52 am

Thanks for your opinion, I don't agree.

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EnigmaInitiative 51F  
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11/4/2019 11:53 am

    Quoting idblueswoman:
    I found the book boring, unbelievable and an insult to my intelligence. Very poorly written... While I know some others felt differently, I never went past the first book
I agree with you, it was boring and stupid. And, the only reason it made it to number one was because she already had an online following to buy up her book when it came out. She created her own hype.

I wrote this in 2015 when the movie was coming out, I never did see the movie.

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Blackbull9099 37M  
2 posts
11/4/2019 1:18 pm

i enjoyed that


ltrskr 71M  
4017 posts
11/4/2019 1:29 pm

It's a yolk, egghead....LOL!


EnigmaInitiative replies on 11/4/2019 3:25 pm:
Ah, Okay.

I suppose I'm confused, the last time you were in my blog, you were so mean to me.

Paulxx001 63M  
15293 posts
11/4/2019 1:37 pm

Well... I never read it. Should I? 🤔

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


jajo696 65F
1678 posts
11/4/2019 2:36 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Well... I never read it. Should I? 🤔
Yes....Paul....read em ..there are 3....and then another( Grey) written from only the male perspective. Form your own opinion. That lifestyle takes on many differing variations and his is a bit different, as he states. IMO its a character study~~


EnigmaInitiative 51F  
2713 posts
11/4/2019 3:26 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Well... I never read it. Should I? 🤔
Give it a shot, I didn't exactly like it. But, others have a different Perspective.

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EnigmaInitiative 51F  
2713 posts
11/4/2019 3:26 pm

    Quoting jajo696:
    Yes....Paul....read em ..there are 3....and then another( Grey) written from only the male perspective. Form your own opinion. That lifestyle takes on many differing variations and his is a bit different, as he states. IMO its a character study~~
Interesting Perspective and Thank You for Sharing It.

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SpunkyMonkeyz58 61M
955 posts
11/4/2019 4:18 pm

Well done n Bravo and yes a very good read our dear friend Truth, as a lot of Doms in the BDSM field truthfully have no idea of what it means to be a Dom and I am so thankful for my Femdomme Sande Xx Oo Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrfect Awrooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo Meooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooows I have learned a lot from her as she believes there is some Dom in me, her submissive one Purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr Purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr Purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrfect


EnigmaInitiative 51F  
2713 posts
11/4/2019 5:39 pm

    Quoting SpunkyMonkeyz58:
    Well done n Bravo and yes a very good read our dear friend Truth, as a lot of Doms in the BDSM field truthfully have no idea of what it means to be a Dom and I am so thankful for my Femdomme Sande Xx Oo Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrfect Awrooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo Meooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooows I have learned a lot from her as she believes there is some Dom in me, her submissive one Purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr Purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr Purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrfect
You can learn a lot from both sides of the slash, can't you my dear friends?

I've learned a lot over the years, my trouble is usually that I forget. I'm learning how to remember.

By writing that shit down.



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pacnwlover42 51M
7560 posts
11/4/2019 7:55 pm

Katie Hill resigned? That's really sad...she just got started in the House.

Funny women are incredibly sexy!


Logan0867 52M
189 posts
11/4/2019 8:25 pm

Interesting perspective I hadn't thought about. I never read them because I heard they were originally Twilight fan fic and I wasn't a fan of Twilight so...


EnigmaInitiative 51F  
2713 posts
11/5/2019 5:07 am

    Quoting pacnwlover42:
    Katie Hill resigned? That's really sad...she just got started in the House.
Yep, it is sad, isn't it?

The "powers that be" didn't like an outspoken women, so they cut her down. Sounds familiar, to me.

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EnigmaInitiative 51F  
2713 posts
11/5/2019 5:08 am

    Quoting Logan0867:
    Interesting perspective I hadn't thought about. I never read them because I heard they were originally Twilight fan fic and I wasn't a fan of Twilight so...
You know me, Logan, I'm all about Perspective.

Like the Perspective that Our Love has lasted Twelve Years.

That's some monumental stuff from my point of view.

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citizen4722 62M  
65830 posts
11/6/2019 9:20 am

I'm safer with this version:

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"Hurt me!" she begged, raising her skirt as she bent over the workbench.
"Very well," I replied, "You've got fat ankles and no dress sense."


EnigmaInitiative 51F  
2713 posts
11/7/2019 7:16 am

    Quoting citizen4722:
    I'm safer with this version:

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    "Hurt me!" she begged, raising her skirt as she bent over the workbench.
    "Very well," I replied, "You've got fat ankles and no dress sense."
The fact that your book says SHEDS tickles my TWISTED sense of HUMOR.

I crack myself up, you crack me up

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1licker4u2 51M
7 posts
11/10/2019 2:37 pm

Just a thought:

As I read this reading, I had thoughts of wanting to be a DOM.
How does one become a DOM?
Is there a DOM training class, club, or group that would train them?
I hear and see people interested in "training" a SUB, But not DOM?
I would guess that observing a group of study, like any other; is the best way to learn the lifestyle. Is there groups or people that would let one obverve?...... and yes, I am a bit of a voyer.....

Obviousely, I know nothing about the lifestyle.
I am however, a curious Gemini and want to answere questions in my head.
Can anyone shed some light on this side of this topic?

I am ALWAYS thankful and appreciate all of your writings.


EnigmaInitiative 51F  
2713 posts
11/10/2019 3:27 pm

    Quoting 1licker4u2:
    Just a thought:

    As I read this reading, I had thoughts of wanting to be a DOM.
    How does one become a DOM?
    Is there a DOM training class, club, or group that would train them?
    I hear and see people interested in "training" a SUB, But not DOM?
    I would guess that observing a group of study, like any other; is the best way to learn the lifestyle. Is there groups or people that would let one obverve?...... and yes, I am a bit of a voyer.....

    Obviousely, I know nothing about the lifestyle.
    I am however, a curious Gemini and want to answere questions in my head.
    Can anyone shed some light on this side of this topic?

    I am ALWAYS thankful and appreciate all of your writings.
As a fellow Gemini, I totes understand and relate to your dilemma. What I can say is that Dominance is a state of mind.

It's often easily figured out how to dominate someone by FIRST talking with them, and getting to know them. On a real level, not just a sexual level.

I'll write a post about it, eventually.

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