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EntertainMe2Nght 33F
22 posts
7/7/2020 3:10 pm
“What Do You Want to Chat About?”

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YummyNDelish79 41F  
3 posts
7/7/2020 4:19 pm

I totally agree. I enjoy natural, organic conversations. So many guys on here just don't know how to approach a lady. Or they lead with a dick pic...Uggghhh...lol

1seeking1 55F
3148 posts
7/7/2020 4:31 pm

Honest completed profile helps with that. When I get message like that 8 ask what in my profile made then reach out to me? Would help if the read the profiles.

jay_peek2000 57M
26 posts
7/7/2020 4:36 pm

Honestly, it sounds like you are not good at conversation. If you are not good at asking questions of someone, it becomes one- sided. They try to salvage the conversation by asking you what you want to talk about because you are offering nothing.

AnewWoman 61F  
167 posts
7/7/2020 5:20 pm

I understand what you are saying. Why do they page you to chat if they expect you to lead the conversation. If they say ask them anything, I ask why did you page me to chat? What makes you think I would be interested in you? Have you read my profile? What's wrong with you that you have to seek others so far away? They are the ones who are not good at conversation, not you.

60satisfaction 62M  
205 posts
7/7/2020 5:37 pm

That is so typical of young people these days...
No ideas bouncing around in those thick skulls,
When schools stopped teaching grammar, composition and debate,
people have not learned to express the simplest of ideas, beyond
their most basic desires for food and shelter..

60satisfaction 62M  
205 posts
7/7/2020 5:40 pm

Not to mention the folks that communicate with mono-syllabic grunts and groans.
Men and women alike, it is pathetic.

T_Louise 55F  
127 posts
7/7/2020 7:09 pm

I absolutely relate to your post, EntertainMe2Nght. I too prefer flow of conversation, not question period. It doesn't seem to matter what age they are, more often than not, it's an effortless and lazy attitude that prompts them to take the easy way out when it comes to conversation on here.

javierito_4235 28M
18 posts
7/7/2020 10:17 pm

maybe you are boring jjaja

dogslife2live01 68M
1998 posts
7/8/2020 2:39 am

interesting battle of the sexes here... but the answer is simple. when two people finally meet and one asks “What Do You Want to Chat About?” it is code for they really have nothing to chat about
they are not compatible
there is no chemistry, but the coffee is not finished
now the question would be why would people look for blame... is it really easier than to admit no connection ?

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity

MrWrong4RghtNow 54M  
338 posts
7/8/2020 7:12 am

So.... what’s on your mind right now? Lol
I get what you mean. It’s fine to start a conversation with “how are you?” because you either genuinely want to know, or you’re trying to start a conversation with someone new without asking the usual boring question. I will freely admit that I normally don’t start conversations but will jump in to add my voice to ones going on in a room. I’m terribly shy and lack certain social skills that most people are equipped with.
But hearing from you helps let us shy ones to try a different tack. Hugs

looking4u69ca 59M
4155 posts
7/8/2020 8:15 am

You bring up a very valid point. Conversation should flow freely.
I don't understand why a couple of a_holes needed to reply at all.
I wonder if it makes them feel better now.

seems6666 49F
3926 posts
7/8/2020 8:15 am

The men said she was at fault and the women said the men were at fault
interesting perspectives!
I can chat about most things and enjoy chatting with different people,,, but if i ask questions and get one word answers I call it a day.
I appreciate some ppl find it hard to engage in conversation, but they should use the emails instead of instant chat.

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