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Should I quit AFF?  

FordMcG 22M
13 posts
6/24/2020 10:27 pm
Should I quit AFF?

Is this site worth the hassle?

10288 posts
6/25/2020 12:10 am


Imthatgirl1122 39F
1834 posts
6/25/2020 1:25 am

yep, it is worth the hassle for me. I am a real girl with real profile and have met someone from here. but you just need be careful. I can see that you just join...so give it some time.
have you try tinder? sometimes I hooked up there easier than here haha

Vader0967 53M
435 posts
6/25/2020 3:18 am

nothing in life is easy... the best things are tough and require patience... give it some time and be safe

positively4you 71F  
4205 posts
6/25/2020 4:31 am

You are cute, hot and young. Go out there and find your woman in real life.

JustLookn439 55M

6/25/2020 5:06 am

I have to warn you at the risk of sounding sexist, that for THIS question, don't take a woman's advice. My reason for such a statement is simple; Women experience this site VERY differently than men.
The ratio of men to women is possibly 50 to 1. It can't be accurately determined since there are SO many fake profiles, duplicate profiles, and profiles that apparently can crossover from other sister sites.
That said, if a woman chooses to, she can find men much easier and local. The problem is that women, with very few exceptions, are looking for something very different than most men here. Most are here to entertain men with blogs, internet pics of pornstars, or just look to chat; many state "not looking to meet." So, with a watered down pool of women to start with, you then find most aren't looking for sex, which limits you further...or they are looking for other women.....now you have just a handful.
If THAT isn't bad enough, communicating with them is nearly impossible via chat and email. They are inundated with men's messages, due to the aforementioned ratio.
PERSONALLY?..... Tonight, I will be signing off for the last time and deleting my account.

Yours_4A_knight 56M
1459 posts
6/25/2020 5:12 am

As a relatively average straight guy, online self introduction services really don't have a lot to offer you.

Or me either for that matter, which is why I'm not paying for this any more, not because it is so expensive, about a pack of cigarettes a day for a month covers a year, or a premium coffee a day for 6 weeks. My problem with this or any site that claims to offer the chance at real introductions is that for straight single men, like myself, unless you are truly some how exceptional you are just hopeless

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.

BiggLala 49F  
29436 posts
6/25/2020 9:50 am

I didn't vote, as you're asking two different questions. So, I'll answer each in turn:
1 - Should I quit AdultFriendFinder?
Do YOU think you should quit the site? If yes, then...YOU have YOUR answer.

2 - Is this site worth the hassle?
That is completely up to you. I don't know what effort you've put into your activities here, what you seek, or what your expectations were when you joined. So...do YOU think the site is worth the "hassle"? If yes, then...YOU have YOUR answer, so go forth and [try to] prosper. Although, the more I think about it...if you're calling it a "hassle", then...no, this site is NOT for you.

To sum up...as you can see...us old folks have answered you. This site isn't worth your time or hassle. Go out and enjoy life, find a nice girl your age, in the real world and have...fun!

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sussi1028 60F

6/26/2020 12:39 pm

You are young, you look nice on the pic Positively4You go out in the world and find a female or search for it on AdultFriendFinder, but don’t sit back and expect a female to please you orally, be on top of you, you got to do something as well. Most of my friends are your age and they never wait for me, they take initiative as well. Ask yourself Sex Partners we remember by number and not by name if you can answer this honestly, you will also know if you have a space on AdultFriendFinder

missthee 55F  
4348 posts
6/27/2020 6:57 am

It took me several months but I did find good matches. A lot of talk talk talk and more talk to get there.

undercover_bi469 56M
704 posts
6/27/2020 1:05 pm

If you don't expect a lot, then you won't be disappointed. I am no longer a paying member because the site has too many failures. I keep the free profile and check in now and then.

flannel_light 58F  
2319 posts
6/28/2020 1:32 pm

I am real and I have meet a few. Nothing as to what I am searching for.

The light of the lighthouse calms me.


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