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Cougar - to be or not to be?  

FredandWilmma 58M/54F  
33 posts
5/8/2019 11:51 am
Cougar - to be or not to be?

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FredandWilmma 58M/54F  
11 posts
5/8/2019 11:52 am

Admitting most of the younger men on this site do have the big thick cocks that I crave at times......


fashionablegma 77F
8054 posts
5/8/2019 12:01 pm

Oh many reasons,stamina is a plus,their age,no bad habits that older men have,good looking,hot handsome taut tight sexy bodies,silky smooth skin,some look past my age and find it sexy that I would want to be intimate with them,among just a few things I adore,oh they keep me feeling younger,for me that is a plus at my age


FredandWilmma replies on 5/8/2019 12:25 pm:
I have always shot them down, and seeing your point of view, now I understand what they mean when they prefer uncomplicated older women and see how that would be sexy to have a young stud just take advantage of you

positively4you 71F  
4054 posts
5/8/2019 12:05 pm

When I was 52, he was 29. Best time ever. My last was 48 when I was 68. I do have a pattern. I have never been with a man as old as me at that time. Just works out that way. As I age he has to be younger, most my age are dead or incapable or just too grouchy. 🤦‍♀️


nickdurps 45M
18 posts
5/8/2019 2:06 pm

As the younger man I slept with a 45 Yo and a 59 yo in my 20s , for me I enjoyed the experience and the fact that my partners knew what they wanted and directed the action, of course I think they appreciated the fact that I was really turned on by them and I showed my appreciation.


FredandWilmma 58M/54F  
11 posts
5/8/2019 2:16 pm

I am thinking I am going to have to try me some young meat !


missthee 54F  
4279 posts
5/9/2019 3:06 pm

Too many young men message me here but most of the time I sense a communication gap. In other words, their style of writing is cringeworthy. Also I am not physically attracted to youthful faces or overexcitable personalities, so the younger person should possess an air of maturity.
Having said that, yes there is an advantage in a younger man - - the ability to have sex more than once per date/day.


FredandWilmma replies on 5/10/2019 6:33 am:
I agree. They have yet to reach that maturity level that sparks the hunger in the brain. I am very attracted to intelligence, and most of the younger men have not begun to experience life yet. If one could find a younger man with an old soul..... that would be icing on the cake. Cocky men just are not for me. I have been with older man who would put younger ones to shame...... 5 rounds in 4 hours. He was an energizer bunny with no drugs needed. Felt it for days.

discreteSteve62 52M
2078 posts
8/12/2019 3:13 pm

When I was a cub (well before I ever heard of the cougar and cub expressions, probably before they came into common use), I played with some older women.

There were various reasons for their interest, in two general categories:
1. They were interested in younger men in general, and I was young.
2. They were interested in me, in spite of whatever reasons they might not be interested in younger men in general.

The "1" group included youthful good looks (though I score a lot higher now "for my age"), endurance (as in multiple rounds with fast recharge), and enthusiasm. Another possible attraction is disposability, though it's not something women told me directly); in other words, the age difference makes more likely that a hook-up or fling that's meant to be no-strings remains no-strings.

The "2" group included intellectual compatibility (in spite of being too young for the wisdom of age), endurance (in the additional sense of having learned to last quite a while even the first round), and early discovery of how to give ora6

The best cougar experience was with a woman only seven years older (31 to 24), so it isn't quite a cougar thing. We were a great match in terms of intellectual compatibility, and we remain friends all these years later. She also enjoyed my endurance (both ways) and quick recharge. I assume she liked my looks. And she excused my ignorance of oral, in part because I was an enthusiastic learner when she requested it. My subsequent partners all have her to thank for her request that I give it a try, which showed me that it was something I loved doing, and put me on a path of learning to do it well. If her intention had been a no-strings fling, I missed the message; I would have been happy to have her as a relationship partner (though I can see a clear cause for an eventual break-up in retrospect).

Other examples were women I met at parties. One was really horny, and her boyfriend (also younger, though not as much younger as I was) was away. I was horny too, and we satisfied each others' lust quite a lot. She also found me good company between rounds. Unfortunately, she didn't request oral, perhaps because she thought such a young man would require too much teaching, or that I might not be willing to try.

Another notable party cougar was the result of peculiar circumstances. In my early 20s, I met a very attractive 40-ish woman at a party, and invited myself to her table. She didn't mind, and I didn't get the message that she was more interested in a guy closer to her age. But her roommate, who was not really my type, joined the table and started buying me drinks. By last call, I was not fit to drive. With the hot woman's permission, the plain woman invited me to sleep it off in their hotel room. Their couch was uncomfortable and the room really cold, and the plain woman invited to the bed, saying she'd stick to her side. But the hot woman and her guy were making lots of amorous noise on the other bed, and my general horniness overpowered my lack of specific interest in the plain woman. We went a couple of rounds before sleep, and another in the morning. When it was time to clean up, I walked around naked, hoping the hot woman would notice. I later learned that the hot woman and her guy hadn't proceeded beyond really noisy kissing followed by sleep without sex -- and that in the morning she had noticed me, and had become interested, but kept quiet about it out of respect for her roommate. That was also before I learned the Joys of giving oral, but if she was interested in that, she didn't dare ask because she was happy enough getting any sex, let alone sex when her hot roommate wasn't getting it. (My discovery there was that sex with others watching is a real turn-on.


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