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GeekWluvTool 57M  
21 posts
5/27/2018 5:50 pm
Flirting on here


Why is it we get notifications that someone has flirted, so you go to their profile, say Hi and maybe something witty, bam No Response. You send friend request only just friends? No response, Did they really flirt or is the system making it up? or do people actually flirt just to see a guy crawl? I am a man and this is bullshit. And dont get me started on Views. Comments welcome

BiggLala 48F  
28942 posts
5/27/2018 6:04 pm

I think a lot of flirts and views are generated by the site. Genuine flirts/views are probably a numbers game to generate attention and a pool of interested 'applicants'. It's all frustrating, but not much you can do. I say don't message those women, as I'm of the opinion that if a person can flirt then they can send a message...yes, even women. I used to message men first but I stopped because it didn't yield any results for me, but other women might have a better 'success' rate.

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GeekWluvTool replies on 5/27/2018 8:52 pm:
Thank you for your insight. I do believe the terms of usage does refer to your thoughts on flirts and views. I just want to know how to shut them off. lol

sphxdiver 70M  
21067 posts
5/27/2018 6:23 pm

Because usually, it is nothing but a scammer, who has already screwed a member here of their off site information.
So they have their Gold membership by way of ill gotten gains.

Standards used to be able to flirt years ago, but the site wised up and did away with that feature for standards, they should do the same exact thing to hot listing as well.

Over 95+% of the time, it's only fakes and scammer that use those features on this site.

Just my opinion !!!


GeekWluvTool replies on 5/27/2018 8:53 pm:
Thank you for your comments and insights

Heathen_G 61M
7838 posts
5/27/2018 6:26 pm

Why is it we get notifications that someone has flirted, .... Because someone has flirted with you... or the site flirt-bot generated it.

so you go to their profile, say Hi and maybe something witty, ... In case it is real, don't muck it up with the additional wit.... see if they respond to your "Hi". If they do, then go from there.

You send friend request only just friends? .... Wouldn't do that....Why would want to be only just friends with a woman? Especially if she lived in your area.

or do people actually flirt just to see a guy crawl? ... Consider your age. The women , most anyway, are likely around your age, and some may be just testing to see if they can still hook a mans interest .


GeekWluvTool replies on 5/27/2018 8:55 pm:
Thank you again for your insight

Yours_4A_knight 55M
1401 posts
5/27/2018 6:38 pm

I would basically assume that if it is a standard member it is site generated and if she is a gold member she can write a message so why the flirt?

Yeah, it is all basically junk with the site trying to get something to happen for those of us who no one is really interested in.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


GeekWluvTool replies on 5/27/2018 8:55 pm:
I like your response quick and dirty. Thank you.

1deeptouch 74F  
103 posts
5/27/2018 6:44 pm

Ah, well, this is all about looking to see what's out there and being an emotionally intelligent being. (HuH???)

People cannot checkout profiles without VIEWING them. Some here only do that from the comfort of their own laptop or phone for the Entertainment value.

Under no circumstances need anyone take it personally one way or another if they are viewed, even repeatedly, by others who do little more than that, or just try to engage in a chat. That said, its also perfectly OK not to chat, even if you looked at a profile or flirted (my version of giving a thumbs up to what I see there). For me, distance generally prevents taking things further, but I like to let others know when I think they are interesting or really have it together in my book.

So I flirt my support or approval, or friend, or I hotlist in case I manage to have more than a little in common with the profiler. An exchange of emails may quickly bring to light other things in common, or differences that will illuminate an ill-fitting match. Nothing personal.....its sampling, even before meeting. Don't want to waste your time and would prefer that if there is some dealbreaker, we discover it sooner rather than later.

Those just wanting hook ups may have different standards of communicating. These are mine.


GeekWluvTool replies on 5/27/2018 8:59 pm:
Thank you so much for your comments from someone whom actually uses these responses. Interesting Insight. Find anything interesting in my profile? Really like the way you write.

curious299 57F  

5/27/2018 6:50 pm

In my experience, a view is triggered by my cursor trailing over a profile picture when I am moving the cursor. The profile does not need to be clicked on.


GeekWluvTool replies on 5/27/2018 9:00 pm:
Very interesting and insightful. Thank you.

mufdiver69er2 60M  
1431 posts
5/27/2018 7:15 pm

what lala and curious said...mostly site generated..i had someone that showed as viewed me everytime i was on..contacted and was told they had looked...once..2 weeks before...site kept pushing it to make me think it was ongoing...

woop woop


GeekWluvTool replies on 5/27/2018 9:03 pm:
That is definitely what I was wondering. If you view someone a week ago does it regenerate the view a week later, especially if you have had limited access or views. Interesting I write programs and that sounds like one I can prove or disprove. Thanks.

LAxoxguy 41M  
23 posts
5/27/2018 7:58 pm

I have been contacted quite a few times with flirts, and it never leads to anything. I don't see why someone would not just write a message on here.


GeekWluvTool replies on 5/27/2018 9:04 pm:
Thank you for responding always welcome.

pillow_fighter2 38M
376 posts
5/27/2018 10:34 pm

They almost should just do away with the flirt feature. If somebody can flirt, they can get to the point and send a message. Oddly, I mostly get flirts from men, often right after I do a cam show. Go figure lol

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GeekWluvTool replies on 5/29/2018 9:39 am:
That funny, me too. I have had more kind things and flirts from guys on here than I would have ever expected. It is what it is. Thanks for your comments.

lyavu 47F  
1374 posts
5/29/2018 7:14 am

AdultFriendFinder system sucks . I get notifications pple viewed my profile only to say hi and get the most rude response


GeekWluvTool replies on 5/29/2018 9:37 am:
You are not deserving of rude comments. Most aren't but in the world of the internet people feel like they can say and do anything with no repercussions. Thank you for your response.

Heathen_G 61M
7838 posts
5/29/2018 2:12 pm

GeekWluvTool replies on 5/29/2018 9:37 am:
You are not deserving of rude comments. Most aren't but in the world of the internet people feel like they can say and do anything with no repercussions. Thank you for your response.
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You are not deserving of rude comments. .... Hold on..... "Rude comments" can be very subjective. She might think a guy I.M. 'ing her and telling her he wants to fuck her ass, is a rude comment, when really , for this kind of site versus eharmony, that is appropriate and not rude. .... So tell her to give an example before you say , "You don't deserve rude comments".


GeekWluvTool replies on 5/29/2018 3:22 pm:
One area where I totally disagree. But this is for my next blog. So I won't delve into it here.

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