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A Few Suggestions From A Woman :D  

GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1886 posts
3/16/2016 10:40 am
A Few Suggestions From A Woman :D

] I try to make most of my blog posts to include the women & men on AdultFriendFinder.

ALL are welcome and I love to hear your thoughts


As a woman (and maybe it's just me),when I read profiles I'd love to see more information than "I want a fuck buddy" or "Let's fuck"...OR the standard AdultFriendFinder drivel!


Use some IMAGINATION...IF that's all ya got-chances are you're not gonna get a second look..(except from scammers...fakes and ladies (or men) that are gonna want you to pay to meet them...lol)

Things to perhaps include:

What exactly are you looking for? FWB..NSA..Fuck Buddy...LTR?

Your likes-dislikes in life & sex

Hobbies you may enjoy..things you might like to do in your spare time...etc.

Most important is BE HONEST....NO BS....say whatcha mean...and mean whatcha say!!

Just a few examples that may (or may not) help find more friends

IF you're not getting a whole lot of views & action...it's worth a try....lol

I get that it's a sex site....but nothing wrong with some plain old communication...So NO ONE misunderstands and everyone has fun

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL

s2ndegree 61M  
9741 posts
3/16/2016 11:43 am

It's one thing to spark someone's interest. It helps when there isn't a face picture.They like what is written until you supply them with a facial image and never hear from them again.That's when you find out what's really important.No hobby,humanitarian effort or recreational activity is going to win someone over.I prefer to know the only thing people are interested in
that's why I don't play the game of hiding who I am.

Using more than all the road!

GreenEyedLady_60 replies on 3/16/2016 12:14 pm:
I personally would prefer a face picture (as opposed to a pic of their "junk"),but totally understand that some don't want to post that for their own reasons. I don't have a face pic..but would supply one after feeling comfortable communicating a bit with someone.

The thing you have to remember is pictures can be stolen from these types of sites (I have a Pinterest account and if I hover over profile pics..I can "steal" them and they would be added to my Pinterest and be visible to anyone)I have not done this,nor would I!!

I guess my biggest thing is honesty & sincerity..but realize it may be lacking on AdultFriendFinder..

Thanks for your thoughts

sphxdiver 70M  
21070 posts
3/16/2016 11:54 am

Have to agree with s2ndegree, there has to be some sort of photo attached.

The shadow-box profiles really don't cut it.

GreenEyedLady_60 replies on 3/16/2016 12:30 pm:
No the shadow picture sucks..but as I stated to s2ndegree..there can be legit reasons why one doesn't post a face pic. BUT after some communication perhaps one can be shared privately here or regular email.

Thank you for responding

s2ndegree 61M  
9741 posts
3/16/2016 4:01 pm

Showing a face is a honest move.I do love that there is no shortage of reasons why people won't show theres.

Using more than all the road!

GreenEyedLady_60 replies on 3/16/2016 6:15 pm:
I agree it is honest (that is of course IF it is really theirs). I unfortunately think I may have become a little cynical when it comes to this site.

But ultimately, I do feel of course that it is up to the individual, what type of pictures they put on their profiles. I don't think AdultFriendFinder has too many rules on that...as far as I can see.....lol

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