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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1890 posts
10/7/2015 6:01 pm
Educate Me Please!!


Okay...it has come to my attention that there are some (please note some) men on this site that apparently pretend to be part of a couple in order to get (or hope to get) women to contact them?? I'm guessing they are targeting bi women looking for couples?

HUH???

Would this unsuspecting woman not eventually become suspicious when no female half of this couple materialized? Do they really think this BS would work?

Yeah....let's start off a potential FWB/NSA/Whatever it is you're looking for thing...with a lie!!

I guess just more of the games that get played on these types of sites!!

To me it seems a little pathetic and a bit desperate.....

Ladies....have you come across men like this?

Gents...why in heaven's sake would you/men do this?

Oh....in the interests of fairness..I suppose this could happen in the opposite way as well (A female pretending to be a couple).

Again....same questions apply

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


spicyfunguy 58M
205 posts
10/7/2015 6:11 pm

Tam,

I agree with you. People should be real and not phony. But that may be too much to ask for in today's society.


keithcancook 63M
18277 posts
10/7/2015 6:17 pm

Clearly, no meeting was ever intended. Just how some folks get their jollies, I suppose...

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resant78 41M  
2778 posts
10/7/2015 6:22 pm

I'm not sure what they wish to accomplish, but like what Keith said, it's their way of getting their entertainment value.

I'm glad I'm the first couple to reply to this, my reason is, I am attached and I do not want to hook up. I'm here for the blogs and I'm a bit of an exhibitionist.


notsure1949 71M
9833 posts
10/7/2015 6:31 pm

honesty is always the best policy


mamacita38dd 42F
53124 posts
10/7/2015 6:42 pm

Yes, I have had quite a few couples(men) try this. The truth always shows itself with time.

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
10/7/2015 6:42 pm

I do get that this place is different things to different people and we're all here for our own reasons.

I'm here for viewing blogs...seeing and comparing viewpoints...looking at pics...but NOT fucking with anyone's head. And to me if there is deception...that's what is being done.

I guess I tend to lose sight of the fact that just because I operate from a place of honesty...not everyone does!! Silly me...lol

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


Woodyeverready 61M
1188 posts
10/7/2015 6:52 pm

I think it is more likely that these men pose as a couple in order to get free gold which is available to couples participating in the icebreaker promotion.

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sphxdiver 70M  
21071 posts
10/7/2015 7:14 pm

Just as many as the other fake profiles pretending to be single females.

The thing is though, the scammers or whatever, make up a couples profile, the site after a short period of time will give them a Gold membership.

All kinds of fake shit on this site !!!


FullOn4U 55M  
20445 posts
10/8/2015 3:11 am

The usual scam that I've heard of is that a man pretends to be a couple, invites someone to join them, meets for a drink but unfortunately wife is delayed. He suggests going to the hotel room, where wife will join them when she can. Before she gets there (and of course "she" never will) , he suggests that they start without her...

Now I've heard that this is most common with men scamming bi men - as he's expected to play with both the line is that the two men have to find out if they are "compatible". Though obviously the same approach will work with bi women.


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
10/8/2015 7:31 am

Hmmmm.....so they can get a gold membership pretending to be a couple huh? Never ceases to amaze me the things people will pull on this site.

Some of these "fake" couples profiles even HAVE women's pics on them (stolen from this or other sites or ex GF's maybe)....to make it seem legit!!

Again...to me it smacks of desperation....But that's just my opinion..

For Pete's sake...Be mature...be honest...have at least a little integrity..

Probably asking too much from this place though....

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


cyclingfool 58M  
6504 posts
10/8/2015 8:16 am

There is no reason to lie on this site or other sites like this. Being honest should prove easier to truly find what you want. Kinks and fetishes have value to the person with the said kink or fetish, but will you really satisfy them if it is built on a lie?
I was on a swing site and had a profile as a couple with my then g/f. The desire was in the end all mine, so we didn't end up having any actual contacts or activities.
Me being the thrifty person I am, I bought a lifetime membership to the site...lol
I still get inquiries, from members of the site, but I am always honest and it is the end of it. So be it. I know it wouldn't be fun if I tried to live a lie and make something of someone contacting me.
That being said, want to come join me on the site...lol Just kidding..


GreenEyedLady_60 replies on 10/8/2015 8:29 pm:
Hmmmm...I think it depends on what you are looking for from this (or any other) sites, as to how truthful someone may be. If one is just looking for a fuck buddy or a series of partners,then they might not care about being real honest. Anything to obtain the goal.

If on the other hand you are looking for more of a FWB or LTR type of thing,honesty should be forthcoming and a given. You need to trust each other for a few reasons...And that starts with honesty always...

I do agree if something is built on a lie...it is flawed from the beginning.

GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
10/9/2015 8:44 am

I think it depends on what you are looking for from this (or any other) sites, as to how truthful someone may be. If one is just looking for a fuck buddy or a series of partners,then they might not care about being real honest. Anything to obtain the goal.

If on the other hand you are looking for more of a FWB or LTR type of thing,honesty should be forthcoming and a given. You need to trust each other for a few reasons...And that starts with honesty always...

I do agree if something is built on a lie...it is flawed from the beginning.

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


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