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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1889 posts
9/4/2017 3:43 pm
Just A Few Thoughts If I May......


Just a few friendly suggestions if I may, when encountering a woman camming on A*F*F. Ladies if you have any to add...please feel free.

If any gentlemen have suggestions on women watching them on cam….you can comment on that as well, or you can write a blog on one for that…..lol.

This all seems pretty much common sense honestly, but not all men behave the same way on this site. Sorry - some don’t have that sense to know any better, and some just think with the head below their belts, instead of the one on their shoulders.

Sooooooooooooooooo….

First maybe remember :

Not all of us women go on the cam to masurbate for you or put on a show! Some just hop on occasionally to video chat or just say “Hi”.

Perhaps read her profile first before you (some of you) start with all the lewd or rude comments. If the profile indicates the woman has no interest in that type of chat or behavior- ( does anyone like rude?), maybe think twice! I personally will ignore you!!

Don’t ask her to show you her boobs or pussy if she has already indicated that it isn’t gonna happen. ( I plainly state it in my profile this fact, and had you read it- you’d already know this). If you are a gold member...you have no excuse.

Don’t beg or whine if she declines your request, should you ask anyway. I’ve had this happen, not a pleasant thing...trust me!

Don’t send her your dick pics - most of the women on here will ask if they want one from you...don’t just assume and send it. If she wants to watch you cam….she would most likely have tuned in already.

Don’t get bent out of shape or mean if she doesn’t answer your IM quickly - most likely she is being inundated with IM’s and can’t respond as quickly as they come in. Be patient…...

DO be nice and friendly...perhaps even a bit respectful….it goes a lot further than the other way.

I DO understand that this is a sex site, but it doesn’t mean that all women are here for that singular reason. Some are here for other reasons...to blog, to read profiles, to observe, and maybe just chat with a few friends they’ve made along the way! Camming or video chatting is just another way to do that sometimes.

Remember you are not just typing words...there is actually another person on the other “end” of the keyboard.


Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
9/4/2017 3:46 pm

See you on the other side

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Readmoreofeveryt 47F

9/4/2017 4:09 pm

I agree


Kalbi54 65M
1241 posts
9/4/2017 5:18 pm

What is and will always be an issue, is how AdultFriendFinder is marketed to the male viewers, who make up the bulk of paying customers. Much like commercials on TV, sex sells... and somehow no matter how many times it's repeated, guys will always believe (right or wrong), a woman or women will swoon or beg for a cock because they can see it.


let_me_see1 61M  
664 posts
9/4/2017 5:59 pm

Its all about having respect. I guess lots of guys dont know that people are to be respected, even if it is a sex site. We dont check our manners at the door when we sign on here. Women deserve a guys respect, whether we read their profiles or not. Good call out of the asswipes on here babe! 😎

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BendMeOver278 29F  
2758 posts
9/4/2017 6:25 pm

This is great advice!

I wish more people on here would know that last statement. Some damn harsh things are said online.


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
9/4/2017 8:06 pm

Thank you...I appreciate it!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
9/4/2017 8:11 pm

    Quoting Kalbi54:
    What is and will always be an issue, is how AdultFriendFinder is marketed to the male viewers, who make up the bulk of paying customers. Much like commercials on TV, sex sells... and somehow no matter how many times it's repeated, guys will always believe (right or wrong), a woman or women will swoon or beg for a cock because they can see it.
I think you are right, but it would be the smart man (and woman) to realize that despite it being a sex site, everyone should treat each other how they themselves would like to be treated.

This woman won't be one begging for any cock.....lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
9/4/2017 8:18 pm

    Quoting let_me_see1:
    Its all about having respect. I guess lots of guys dont know that people are to be respected, even if it is a sex site. We dont check our manners at the door when we sign on here. Women deserve a guys respect, whether we read their profiles or not. Good call out of the asswipes on here babe! 😎
It definitely should be about respect as far as I'm concerned as well. I always try to give it to anyone that contacts me, as long as they do as well. When I get the emails from those that are rude or crude I will generally just delete them without a word.

Can't for the life of me see how some men don't get it that if they were to just treat the women on here that they may be interested in, with some decency....they may make out a whole lot better.

I'm not usually one to go quiet into the night if something bugs me....LOL

Thanks for your support J !!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
9/4/2017 8:23 pm

    Quoting BendMeOver278:
    This is great advice!

    I wish more people on here would know that last statement. Some damn harsh things are said online.
Thank you..I appreciate your opinion!

It is true that some people just don't think that they're actually dealing with a real human when they contact someone on here. I've had my share of mean comments said to me....that's when I will usually give something back just a bit! But I still don't say anything too harsh....just kinda let em' know....

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author51 57F  
99912 posts
9/5/2017 1:45 am

Great post my friend.I do not cam because I have none with this computer which I state on my profile.The messages I still get from men asking me to cam is mind blowing.They need to read that profile first and too many of them do not.. I HOPE the men reading this will take this information you gave to heart...

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Story435 72M
3247 posts
9/5/2017 5:22 am

Hello
Very well put. Men need to be nice when viewing a ladies cam. Never ask her do anything for you if she want to show she will do it. Never send cock pics or ask to view your cam she is on cam and not just for you. Always remember the ladies here get a lot of mail for us men and can't reply to all the mail they get.
Butch


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
9/5/2017 6:32 am

    Quoting author51:
    Great post my friend.I do not cam because I have none with this computer which I state on my profile.The messages I still get from men asking me to cam is mind blowing.They need to read that profile first and too many of them do not.. I HOPE the men reading this will take this information you gave to heart...
Thank you my friend!

I have the cam, but very and I mean very, rarely use it to cam on here. But anytime I have been brave enough (lol)...it is a ridiculous spectacle. Some men it seems, take it as a sign that it's okay to start asking you to do their bidding.

I actually enjoy reading profiles, it's a shame more don't. Mine is rather lengthy, but it does clearly state my intentions and what's off limits. But still I get contacted asking questions that are answered had they taken the time.

I feel it will most likely go like that forever.....but we can hope....lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
9/5/2017 6:37 am

    Quoting tedscott40:
    Good, thoughtful, common sense advice.
    Ted
Thank you Ted......

I hope it is taken to heart by those men that need to hear it! There are good guys here too, but some just don't get it!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
9/5/2017 6:48 am

    Quoting Story435:
    Hello
    Very well put. Men need to be nice when viewing a ladies cam. Never ask her do anything for you if she want to show she will do it. Never send cock pics or ask to view your cam she is on cam and not just for you. Always remember the ladies here get a lot of mail for us men and can't reply to all the mail they get.
    Butch
Hi! Thank you.....

I think it's a matter of we all need to be nice to one another.

But since my post was directed at the men, I think you are correct. I'm not sure why some men don't realize that if they behaved in a nice manner, they could just very possibly get a more positive response from a woman.

The ratio of men & women on here is nuts, so women do get tons of emails and it can get a bit overwhelming.....lol

Thanks Butch for your common sense!!

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travellerabc123 50M
3831 posts
9/5/2017 6:35 pm

Hi, Tam!

Embrace the suck


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
9/6/2017 7:00 am

LOL........Ooooooooh Lord!

I'm not lookin' for any lunatics...that's for damn sure!!!...haha

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