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NSA - What Does It Mean To You?  

GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1920 posts
4/24/2019 2:27 pm
NSA - What Does It Mean To You?

So we all know NSA on this site generally means.....

No Strings Attached

My question is -

What does it mean to you? What do you consider "strings"?

Is this the type of connection you are hoping to find? Or do you want something more?

To some it means this......




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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
4/24/2019 2:30 pm

This woman (me.....lol) is not a No Strings Attached kinda one

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luv2meetu36 56M
414 posts
4/24/2019 2:43 pm

just that... get together. enjoy each others company. and maybe see again... but not required... fun had by all.. smiles all around.. or not..


Allhard4u50 58M
941 posts
4/24/2019 2:44 pm

NSA means to me.....mutual fun and satisfaction.....when you want and no commitments...


grizz54545454 72M
123 posts
4/24/2019 2:51 pm

just fucking and sucking


puss1207 58F

4/24/2019 2:53 pm

All of the above ....and we go our separate ways...or not


AliOrbit 64F
624 posts
4/24/2019 3:20 pm

National security Adm.
No Stupid Assholes
Nice Succulent Ass
It means that you had better not form any attachments because it is just sex.


RavenGB 59M
1100 posts
4/24/2019 3:22 pm

Carpe diem - for those who never saw Dead Poets Society!


johnny_got_band 53M

4/24/2019 3:32 pm

no show assholes


benard69 63M/63F  
5176 posts
4/24/2019 3:33 pm

For most on here it means NO SEX Allowed....lol


redrockrascal 61M
21593 posts
4/24/2019 3:40 pm

It means nothing is being suggested to happen beyond the initial meeting.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


zeke53028 61M  
1102 posts
4/24/2019 3:42 pm

To me "no strings" means no expectations. No expectations of texts, phone calls or any communication other than when you just want sex. Not for me. I like some kind of friendship.


looking4u69ca 59M
4040 posts
4/24/2019 3:52 pm

No string attached is probably a one time fling. Like picking up someone in a bar. Might not even know their real name, marital status or much.
Beyond that it becomes more of a FWB situation involving communication, texts, phone calls, dinner etc.


dogslife2live01 68M
1979 posts
4/24/2019 3:53 pm

it means that pinocchio finally gets away from geppetto

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


TB5758 62M/63F  
533 posts
4/24/2019 4:07 pm

To me it means just a basic friendship on a casual level. Yes there is sex but it is not meant to be a serious relationship and should not become "clingy". Have a few drinks, some laughs and sex. Make it so it is something you look forward to. It should be someone you both or everyone enjoys depending on your situation. Okay I am starting to ramble, Sorry.


fandangochick 43F  
37 posts
4/24/2019 4:14 pm

Knowing and agreeing what the outcome is before it happens...


1seeking1 55F
3122 posts
4/24/2019 4:19 pm

NSA or hook up , just go to nearest bar and see what you can pick up. I have no interest in either as mentioned I know I could go to bar and leave with someone. I am hoping for a little more then that.


bitchkitty2017 67F  
5289 posts
4/24/2019 4:20 pm

no string attached just a fuck buddy or random hook ups which may or may not mean ; std's or some sort of disease if no protection is used ..if yr having no strings relationship with someone that does not mean you are the only one..lol


Wonder167 53F

4/24/2019 4:50 pm

Can't really add to what everyone else has written, even the Pinocchio reference. lol

At this time, it is not something I'm interested in.


clittywhisperer1 56M
1360 posts
4/24/2019 6:12 pm

no sucking allowed . not stuffed ass , my ex was like that


positively4you 70F  
3949 posts
4/24/2019 7:56 pm

It is a fuck buddy. Nothing more


s2ndegree 61M  
9733 posts
4/25/2019 12:41 am

Putting others to good use.

Hotel room.
phones ,wallets,purses
engraved jewelry is left in
cars and leave the room
15 minutes apart.

Using more than all the road!


author51 57F  
95989 posts
4/25/2019 1:04 am

NSA Is one thing I do not do as I am only strictly into exclusivity with my lover and he has to be the same with me..if something more comes than I am all for it...I am a lover...who loves one man and one man only....

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


let_me_see1 61M  
664 posts
4/25/2019 7:46 am

No strings attached is just sex....until after a few meetings and emotions can enter the situation, which is when both need to be reminded of their no strings attached relationship! LOL

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
4/25/2019 9:48 am

    Quoting luv2meetu36:
    just that... get together. enjoy each others company. and maybe see again... but not required... fun had by all.. smiles all around.. or not..
I can agree with your description....

Thanks for your response!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
4/25/2019 9:49 am

    Quoting Allhard4u50:
    NSA means to me.....mutual fun and satisfaction.....when you want and no commitments...
Sounds about right to me.....

Thanks for stopping by!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
4/25/2019 9:52 am

    Quoting puss1207:
    All of the above ....and we go our separate ways...or not
Yes...so far the descriptions are "accurate".....of course worded differently.but same general thought.

Thanks for stopping by!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
4/25/2019 9:53 am

Simple and to the point...

Thanks for your thoughts!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
4/25/2019 9:55 am

    Quoting  :

Me too.....lol

Thank you for visiting my blog!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
4/25/2019 9:58 am

    Quoting AliOrbit:
    National security Adm.
    No Stupid Assholes
    Nice Succulent Ass
    It means that you had better not form any attachments because it is just sex.
Actually....I Googled NSA just to see what came up, I mean I know what it means of course.....lol

National Security Administration was the first thing to come up.

I like your other terms though....good stuff.....lol

Thanks for the laughs!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
4/25/2019 10:01 am

    Quoting RavenGB:
    Carpe diem - for those who never saw Dead Poets Society!
Seize the day could work....

Thank you for stopping in!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
4/25/2019 10:02 am

Well since it seems some people make plans to meet on this site and then don't...it would fit!

Thanks for your input!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
4/25/2019 10:04 am

    Quoting benard69:
    For most on here it means NO SEX Allowed....lol
LOL....seems it does work that way on here sometimes...

Thanks for the laugh!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
4/25/2019 10:05 am

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    It means nothing is being suggested to happen beyond the initial meeting.
Can't argue with that....

Thanks for stopping by!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
4/25/2019 10:08 am

    Quoting zeke53028:
    To me "no strings" means no expectations. No expectations of texts, phone calls or any communication other than when you just want sex. Not for me. I like some kind of friendship.
Couldn't agree more with your description....

I also agree - NSA is not for me....I want a bit more....

Thanks for your thoughts!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
4/25/2019 10:11 am

    Quoting looking4u69ca:
    No string attached is probably a one time fling. Like picking up someone in a bar. Might not even know their real name, marital status or much.
    Beyond that it becomes more of a FWB situation involving communication, texts, phone calls, dinner etc.
Good description....

Once there are repeated meetings - some "strings" could start to creep in!

Thank you for visiting my blog!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
4/25/2019 10:12 am

    Quoting dogslife2live01:
    it means that pinocchio finally gets away from geppetto
Hmmmmmm.....never heard it put that way.....lol

Thanks for your thoughts!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
4/25/2019 10:16 am

    Quoting TB5758:
    To me it means just a basic friendship on a casual level. Yes there is sex but it is not meant to be a serious relationship and should not become "clingy". Have a few drinks, some laughs and sex. Make it so it is something you look forward to. It should be someone you both or everyone enjoys depending on your situation. Okay I am starting to ramble, Sorry.
I can agree with your thoughts, NSA is meant to be kept on a more casual level for those "involved". Having fun, but no commitments to more than the parties agree to!

No need for apologies....

Thanks so much for stopping by!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
4/25/2019 10:18 am

    Quoting fandangochick:
    Knowing and agreeing what the outcome is before it happens...
I agree....it works best when both or all agree beforehand what they are looking for or want!

Thanks for your thoughts!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
4/25/2019 10:21 am

    Quoting 1seeking1:
    NSA or hook up , just go to nearest bar and see what you can pick up. I have no interest in either as mentioned I know I could go to bar and leave with someone. I am hoping for a little more then that.
Sounds about right....

I honestly want more than that myself....by no means marriage.....lol But a friendly connection with more than just sex for sure.

Thank you for the visit and your thoughts!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
4/25/2019 10:25 am

    Quoting bitchkitty2017:
    no string attached just a fuck buddy or random hook ups which may or may not mean ; std's or some sort of disease if no protection is used ..if yr having no strings relationship with someone that does not mean you are the only one..lol
Can't argue....you put it pretty well!

NSA could very well mean there are other people involved with the person you are having sex with.....not really my cup of tea!

Thank you for visiting and bringing your thoughts!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
4/25/2019 10:32 am

    Quoting author51:
    NSA Is one thing I do not do as I am only strictly into exclusivity with my lover and he has to be the same with me..if something more comes than I am all for it...I am a lover...who loves one man and one man only....
Well Joy...your thoughts are the same as mine - or is it mine are the same as yours?.....lol

I can't do a casual pick up,fuck buddy,NSA/FWB or whatever other term one wants to use!

I want exclusivity, phone calls, "dates", caring and sharing - trust and honesty and perhaps the "warm & fuzzies" should it happen! Those are "strings" to most people...

Also a one man woman....and willing to wait to find the one worthy one!

Thanks so much for your thoughts!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
4/25/2019 10:38 am

    Quoting let_me_see1:
    No strings attached is just sex....until after a few meetings and emotions can enter the situation, which is when both need to be reminded of their no strings attached relationship! LOL
I agree - no strings is just sex!

But it is true that the more the two people come/cum together, those pesky emotions can start to creep in, despite perhaps the parties not thinking that way in the beginning!

At that point - especially if it's more one sided - a discussion needs to be had to figure out if the arrangement should continue or is it best to move on....

Thanks for stopping by.....

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
4/25/2019 10:53 am

Sorry if I missed responding to anyone....

I think most of us have the same thoughts on what a NSA arrangement is, so the responses where pretty similar and I figured they would be.

I'm honestly not "built" that way....for me - sex needs to be somewhat more than just the physical act of two bodies slapping together despite the wonderful "feeling" that is!

I need a connection of friendship, caring, communication, and for a mutual agreement to a one on one "commitment" for however long that works out.

Those things I mention are the "strings that some/many want to avoid, and that's perfectly fine! As long as each of us bring honesty and understanding from the beginning - then hopefully no one gets hurt and both people have lots of great sex.....lol

If one wants one thing - and the other wants something different...it just won't work and honestly....there probably shouldn't be an attempt made?

Just my thoughts and opinions.....lol

Thanks to everyone who responded - I absolutely appreciate it....

Best of luck finding whatever it is that will bring you what you want and desire!

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backpocket13 46M
8738 posts
4/26/2019 9:51 pm

Hey Darlin,
...........Generally speaking That’s what I thought it meant too!...........
Sinfully Yours, backpocket13


mepnj 40M
30 posts
4/29/2019 9:19 pm

NSA equals time to play


Story435 72M
3184 posts
4/30/2019 11:24 am

Hello!
NSA is for people that will agree to this so do want this. I have found that other want more out of a partner they have sex with. I do have a friend that is all she want is to hope into bed when she wants and needs some pleasure all she wants! Been awhile that I have seen her and that's ok.
Butch


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
4/30/2019 12:33 pm

    Quoting  :

Yes....I suppose it could be NCA as well, as long as both parties agree to the "concept" of there being no consequences.

My last "relationship" was a sorta situation that turned from one thing to another (for me). It started out as one thing, but I caught those dreaded feelings and for me it changed. I take responsibility for that...he didn't ask for me to love him and I had no plans for that to happen, but it did!

So in other words there were consequences for me - but technically he bore no responsibility.

But.....for reasons I won't go into - he did have some responsibility!

Anyway.....

NSA/NCA.....can work for some, and I'm sure it is a great thing! I learned from my experience with that last relationship - that it's something that will most likely - not happen or work for me.

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
4/30/2019 12:34 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks......lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
4/30/2019 12:36 pm

    Quoting mepnj:
    NSA equals time to play
It certainly can for some!

Thanks for visiting!!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
4/30/2019 12:39 pm

It is a "concept" that both parties have to agree upon and stick to. If it changes...then it needs to be honestly discussed. and decisions made basically....whether to continue if possible or part ways - if not.

Thanks for your thoughts Butch!!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
5/1/2019 2:45 pm

    Quoting  :

Short and to the point....but accurate as well.

Thanks for stopping by

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Imthatgirl1122 38F
1641 posts
5/2/2019 2:20 am

just sex? maybe not even friends...


johnok161 53M
15 posts
5/2/2019 10:18 pm

No emotion, not commitment no connection. Just cum draining sex.


wants2_licku 56M
22 posts
5/11/2019 9:44 am

Just the proverbial "two ships passing in the night."

Enjoy the moment. No commitment at all. It may happen again, or may never happen again.


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
5/13/2019 3:42 pm

Yes....most likely sex...with little else would be my thought!

Friends or FWB seems to imply at least some sort of "connection". Friendship could be a "string" to some...

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
5/13/2019 3:44 pm

    Quoting johnok161:
    No emotion, not commitment no connection. Just cum draining sex.
Yes I suppose NSA could be described in that manner!

Thanks for your thoughts

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
5/13/2019 3:47 pm

    Quoting  :

Yep....sounds about right as any other description.

Whatever works for you is good - as long as it's understood by the other person as well!

Thanks for visiting

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
5/13/2019 3:52 pm

    Quoting wants2_licku:
    Just the proverbial "two ships passing in the night."

    Enjoy the moment. No commitment at all. It may happen again, or may never happen again.
I agree......

Not something I'm comfortable with or looking for - I need and want more, and that brings perhaps some "strings". But I am upfront with that...so no misunderstanding my intentions and desires.

Thanks for your thoughts

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JB734 55M
46 posts
5/14/2019 1:29 pm

Get to know the person. No commitments. Be friends get together and have fun.


longtermfriend19 55M
43 posts
5/15/2019 6:23 am

always strings if you fuck lol. I guess means your free to enjoy others .i'm scared of deseases I want one long term friend


Sneakyfun7 34M
27 posts
5/16/2019 12:21 pm

Mutual understanding of the goals of the meet.


donny55breeze 51M

5/17/2019 7:07 pm

just an agreed get together. just a nice night out and some good sex for all.


orgzms4bofus 60M
79 posts
5/20/2019 8:03 am

Just sex no movie no dinner no obligations expectations


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
5/20/2019 6:38 pm

    Quoting JB734:
    Get to know the person. No commitments. Be friends get together and have fun.
Well I think most of what you said is correct, but sometimes when you get to know them it becomes possible to develop some "strings" because it can bring feelings and that's usually seen as a string!

That's when the parties involved should most likely talk, and decide how to proceed, or perhaps they should just get out of it and move on....

Thanks for your thoughts

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
5/20/2019 6:45 pm

    Quoting longtermfriend19:
    always strings if you fuck lol. I guess means your free to enjoy others .i'm scared of deseases I want one long term friend
I mostly agree....if it is a reoccurring thing - which it usually is, then feelings can develop...

That opens a can of worms,especially if those feelings are just one sided.

If a person can compartmentalize things like feelings etc, then it may work out.

I'm not one of those people! The hopeless romantic in me wants to eventually find someone that will be more than a friend for sex...and the other things in life to enjoy together. An exclusive friend that I am enough for...

Best of luck to us both....

Thank you for visiting

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blackdaddy4bitch 26M
11 posts
5/21/2019 4:18 am

just sex without any complications, conversations


Timis2231 26M
3 posts
5/21/2019 1:39 pm

NSA is definitely an interesting term, in its purest sense, I'd argue it means mutual individuals that are alright with having an intimate or primal session with the idea that no relationship will blossom from it, pure fun and satisfaction without the mix of romantic feelings.


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
5/22/2019 1:03 pm

    Quoting Timis2231:
    NSA is definitely an interesting term, in its purest sense, I'd argue it means mutual individuals that are alright with having an intimate or primal session with the idea that no relationship will blossom from it, pure fun and satisfaction without the mix of romantic feelings.
I agree...your description is pretty spot on!

Romantic feelings bring strings, and then it changes things....

Thanks for your insight!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
5/22/2019 1:07 pm

    Quoting  :

I agree...

Ongoing can sometimes lead to emotions and that becomes a string, unless you can separate the two.

I can't....it's why I know it doesn't work for me...

Thanks for visiting!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
5/22/2019 1:09 pm

Agreed...

Thanks for visiting!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
5/22/2019 1:15 pm

Please forgive me if I missed a personal reply....

We seem to pretty much agree on the meaning of it....

It means sex with no real feelings or emotions! If I have sex with someone there needs to be a connection other than just sexual ones....and that's just not possible for me....

I don't judge on that...just know it's not for me...

Thanks to all who visited and left their thoughts!!!

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