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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1886 posts
3/28/2017 2:42 pm
Sometimes I Just SMH....lol

Sooooooooo as I've mentioned before I'm on some other sites.

They are less risque than this one. One does not allow any nudity at all, and the other allows nudity...but you must be granted access in order to view them.

Well anyway, during my browsing, I came across a profile "handle" for a guy that I recognized from both sites. No big deal, it happens all the time.

The difference was that on the one site his status is listed as single-on the other it is listed as attached...lol.

So at the very least the guy is a moron....

But in my opinion he is also insincere and a liar....He is the kind of guy that will say whatever he thinks will get him what he wants...he is the kind of guy that most women don't wanna meet...and should run the other way from...the kind of guy that gives men...a bad !

I searched his name on here and his profile must be "put away" and he also comes up invisible on another site, that he will grant you access to..if he likes you...lol

I guess my thought in writing this little blog post is...

Keep it REAL.....PLEASE!!.....(guys AND ladies)



Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
3/28/2017 2:43 pm

Sooooooooooo very TRUE....

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


NJABiker 71M  
133 posts
3/28/2017 2:49 pm

Absolutely hate liars. This site is so full of liars and players it's become nothing more then entertainment for me.


camperdude_69 59M
4435 posts
3/28/2017 2:54 pm

always best to be your self.
a lot of rude, disrespectful people here. and fakes.


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
3/28/2017 2:58 pm

    Quoting NJABiker:
    Absolutely hate liars. This site is so full of liars and players it's become nothing more then entertainment for me.
That's about all it is for me as well. I have tons of doubt that once I may decide to look for whatever it is I decide I want....that I will find it here!!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
3/28/2017 3:00 pm

    Quoting camperdude_69:
    always best to be your self.
    a lot of rude, disrespectful people here. and fakes.
I couldn't agree more! There are some genuine and very real people here, but I'm afraid they are few and far between! (sigh).....

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
3/28/2017 3:40 pm

    Quoting Hot4U17712:
    Oh I've seen multiple ones on different sites for the same people & all the profiles say something different!

    In this day & age...very few know how to be honest, sincere, or real!
    Sad really because the next generation learn from these same people!
EXACTLY!! My profiles on the other sites may have different handles..but pics are mostly the same...wording in the profiles may be a little different too.

Some sites only allow certain kinds of pics...words..phrases etc. But 2 + 2 can certainly be put together in them....lol

But they are all absolutely honest...sincere and real and reflect who and what I really am!! There is no effort to deceive.

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


mc_justmc 60M  
6500 posts
3/28/2017 4:40 pm

I joined the "K" site, but haven't seen anyone I know.


let_me_see1 61M  
664 posts
3/28/2017 5:58 pm

You raise a very good point! One thing I do notice, and I am totally guilty of this, is people's situations change and they don't update their profiles often. I am now dating someone and have not changed my profile from single in months. I read profiles on here that have not changed one word in the 4 years that I have been on here. LOL Of course I am still single and not married, but it is misleading and is just plain old laziness!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
3/28/2017 6:50 pm

    Quoting let_me_see1:
    You raise a very good point! One thing I do notice, and I am totally guilty of this, is people's situations change and they don't update their profiles often. I am now dating someone and have not changed my profile from single in months. I read profiles on here that have not changed one word in the 4 years that I have been on here. LOL Of course I am still single and not married, but it is misleading and is just plain old laziness!
Yes...I'm sure that happens on occasion. People throw up a profile and that's it.

Something like a status change from attached to single or especially the other way around (just my opinion) should be something that is updated though.

I guess I am a little sensitive to the issue. I was "with" a guy for a few years...we remained on the sites (did not play as a couple or anything) and he didn't change his status to reflect that he was involved. I did.. I put it in my profile that I had a playmate...

Found out he was meeting other's behind my back ( I had asked him to tell me if he was going to though- it was my understanding that we were exclusive) and when I asked him if he mentioned he was involved to any of these women....well....I'm sure you can guess his answer...

If not asked...he didn't tell , and apparently they (the women that he met} just assumed he wasn't because of his divorced or single status. How did he put it? A loophole.....

My fault though for continuing something with him....but I had deep feelings for him...and lower self esteem...that's all good now!! I feel great about ME...and working on getting him out of my heart!!

He'll do the same thing to someone else...

My opinion is...if ithere is an exclusive relationship...it should be acknowledged in a profile, if one wants to continue on these types of sites. Onviously playing as a couple is a different story...

Does seem misleading otherwise...but again-just mt opinion......

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


let_me_see1 61M  
664 posts
3/28/2017 7:04 pm

    Quoting GreenEyedLady_60:
    Yes...I'm sure that happens on occasion. People throw up a profile and that's it.

    Something like a status change from attached to single or especially the other way around (just my opinion) should be something that is updated though.

    I guess I am a little sensitive to the issue. I was "with" a guy for a few years...we remained on the sites (did not play as a couple or anything) and he didn't change his status to reflect that he was involved. I did.. I put it in my profile that I had a playmate...

    Found out he was meeting other's behind my back ( I had asked him to tell me if he was going to though- it was my understanding that we were exclusive) and when I asked him if he mentioned he was involved to any of these women....well....I'm sure you can guess his answer...

    If not asked...he didn't tell , and apparently they (the women that he met} just assumed he wasn't because of his divorced or single status. How did he put it? A loophole.....

    My fault though for continuing something with him....but I had deep feelings for him...and lower self esteem...that's all good now!! I feel great about ME...and working on getting him out of my heart!!

    He'll do the same thing to someone else...

    My opinion is...if ithere is an exclusive relationship...it should be acknowledged in a profile, if one wants to continue on these types of sites. Onviously playing as a couple is a different story...

    Does seem misleading otherwise...but again-just mt opinion......
Yes, it sounds like you have felt the pain. Honesty is what is needed by everyone, no matter what they want. We just all need to be honest. And update our profiles more often! Lol

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author51 57F  
100254 posts
4/1/2017 1:04 am

I detest liars, fakes and scammers.I find this site more than enough for what I search for.

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
4/1/2017 9:52 am

    Quoting author51:
    I detest liars, fakes and scammers.I find this site more than enough for what I search for.
I detest them as well...I basically go on the other sites for much the same reason I am here. To read profiles, learn about people,their thoughts,hopes, dreams, perhaps new perspectives etc,

But I am honest on each one, as to my status of not looking for a playmate etc. at the moment.

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


author51 57F  
100254 posts
4/3/2017 1:55 am

    Quoting GreenEyedLady_60:
    I detest them as well...I basically go on the other sites for much the same reason I am here. To read profiles, learn about people,their thoughts,hopes, dreams, perhaps new perspectives etc,

    But I am honest on each one, as to my status of not looking for a playmate etc. at the moment.
It is always good to broaden ones horizons.Honesty is the only way to live my friend..

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
4/3/2017 5:11 pm

    Quoting author51:
    It is always good to broaden ones horizons.Honesty is the only way to live my friend..
I absolutely agree...on both counts!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


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