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The Young Ones Just Don't Get It Sometimes!!  

GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1886 posts
1/18/2017 10:48 pm
The Young Ones Just Don't Get It Sometimes!!


So once again I’m questioned about why I’m on AdultFriendFinder if I’m not looking to hookup…

Below is our email exchange….I know I should probably just tell them to “fuck off”....but sometimes I just like to debate the topic with them…

Usually you start to get the crap when you shoot them down….Buck up boys and learn to handle a little rejection gracefully!

Perhaps his pick up line needs a little work? “Do u want to fuck”?

Hot**** (leaving his whole handle out, so as not to break TOU’s)

hey babe how are u
1/18/2017 10:35 am

Me
I'm alive...that's always good...lol
1/18/2017 11:14 pm

Hot****
do u want to fuck?
1/18/2017 11:19 pm

Me
No thank you
1/18/2017 11:26 pm

Hot
y u on here?
1/18/2017 11:34 pm

Me
I thought I covered that in my profile. Not everyone on here..is here for a fuck buddy....
1/18/2017 11:47 pm

Hot
ur fucking weird this is a hookup site
1/19/2017 12:19 am

Me
No my dear..I'm not weird! But you are small minded....

I'm an honest..real - genuine woman with a heart...who absofuckinglutley LOVES sex!!

You keep looking at profiles and you will see weird!! Trust me!!
1/19/2017 12:33 am

Me
I simply choose to not look for a sex partner at the moment!!
1/19/2017 12:34 am

Hot
so get off this site and watch tv or go on internet to watch porn why the hell are u on here
1/19/2017 12:35 am

Me
Hmmm....I'm curious...did the "powers that be" on AdultFriendFinder turn over that power to choose who should be here and who shouldn't?

Again...IF you are capable of reading...my profile says why I am here.

And I'm sure if you read the TOU's...you will see there is nothing that states one HAS to be looking for a sex partner to be on this site!!

Don't presume to tell me what to do my friend....I don't take direction well...unless I REALLY wanna!

You're a typical male...gets shot down and has to go on the attack!

1/19/2017 12:46 am

Hot****
shut down i dont give a shit ur 56years old nobody is going to date u if u were smart u would just fuck
1/19/2017 12:50 am

Hot****
ur an idiot this is a hookup site u not gona find a single dude that will date u and nobody reads those insane long profile like u have nobody gives a shit about ur hobbies or needs

1/19/2017 12:52 am

Me
I checked out your profile...Put a little effort into it and MAYBE you will be lucky and find a woman to give you a chance.

Trust me you silly clueless boy...the REAL men on this site appreciate a profile that is well written, truthful- tells what you want...need...desire! I have the emails to prove it...lol

But those are mature men....

You...sadly are the idiot and have no clue what a REAL woman...wants...needs etc. And the even sadder part is...you don't care..

Good luck finding a lady friend.....personality goes a long way.....lol

Hot****
ur 56 and single that is fucking pathetic ur a loser

1/19/2017 1:00 am

Me
LOL...

Ummmm...I was married for over 35 years...and divorced the hubby because he became a verbally abusive asshole. The divorce became final this past July!!

So I really haven't been "single" all that long...

Again you small minded little boy....I am single by CHOICE!! I have plenty to choose from if I wanted!

I have 4 sons....you are only older than one!! I sure as hell hope I raised them to have a more open mind...and more respect!!
Hot****
dude stop writing to me i dont give a shit
1/19/2017 1:08 am

Me
Ooops...my bad. I meant only one is younger than you...lol

And much more mature....lol

1/19/2017 1:09 am

Hot****

i dont give a shit

1/19/2017 1:10 am

Me
YOU wrote to me sweetie..and keep writing stupid immature BS..

But you're right...I'm done....And you are blocked!!

I think I may include our little exchange in my blog.....see how other members feel about an attitude like yours...lol

1/19/2017 1:13 am

Now granted...I can get a little sarcastic with my responses....OH WELL!! I can live with it....it's only occasionally....lol



Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
1/18/2017 10:54 pm

The magic comment!!.....Yay

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pocogato12 68F  
34278 posts
1/18/2017 11:37 pm

You were funny in that you kept feeding him his own shit and I bet he never gets it!!! Great mental exercise in the middle of the night

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GreenEyedLady_60 replies on 1/29/2017 11:55 am:
It was pretty fun giving him shit back!.....lol

He should have quit while he was ahead-so to speak. I gave him a very nice "no thank you" and even added a nice smiley face.

Apparently not good enough for him..haha

I_giv_pleasure 56M  
2715 posts
1/19/2017 12:19 am

That little boy needs to grow up and respect the lady's wishes. There's nothing about this site that says you need to fuck anyone, apparently he didn't get that memo. Hope you're having a great day


ash1961 45M
63 posts
1/19/2017 2:24 am

Sometimes people cannot stand or know how to deal with a Rejection...
So for those idiots - my answer will be always:
"Which part of the word NO - you did not understand"
Usually after this, they understand fully that they are dumbs, and stop bother you....
So it is working for me most of the time...


John324864 71M  
996 posts
1/19/2017 4:30 am

Poor little boy. Just how many time he has had sex in his life?


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
1/29/2017 11:50 am

    Quoting Darling_Annette:
    I get where you are coming from, but you can't change the way small minds think, so my attitude to losers like that is 'don't feed the trolls'. i would have cut him off mercilessly at his remark "ur fucking weird this is a hookup site'. That mentality is so prevalent here, i just can't be bothered wasting my time on it. But you obviously enjoyed the mental joust so good for you! *laughing* ... xx A.
I agree I can't change the way small minds think...but I occasionally will "call" someone out on that particular issue....lol

I did enjoy the joust with the silly boy honestly...after my initial pissed offness.....lol

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
1/29/2017 11:58 am

    Quoting I_giv_pleasure:
    That little boy needs to grow up and respect the lady's wishes. There's nothing about this site that says you need to fuck anyone, apparently he didn't get that memo. Hope you're having a great day
Thank you and I agree. I was nice in my rejection-but the fact that I rejected him at all...was his little reason to get shitty with me!

Poor little boy..I doubt he'll make many lady friends here with his attitude...lol

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
1/29/2017 12:00 pm

    Quoting ash1961:
    Sometimes people cannot stand or know how to deal with a Rejection...
    So for those idiots - my answer will be always:
    "Which part of the word NO - you did not understand"
    Usually after this, they understand fully that they are dumbs, and stop bother you....
    So it is working for me most of the time...
Yes...my rejection didn't go over well with him! I think he better get use to it though, if that's his attitude...lol

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
1/29/2017 12:05 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Wasn't really a debate. You chose to engage him in conversation, after he asked if you want to fuck. He was right about one thing, if the profile of the woman is too long winded, we tend to just look at the picture, the age, and the location.
Yes I did choose to engage him in conversation..

I'm not usually one for taking BS from someone...without possibly giving a little back!

All I can say to your agreement with him about a woman's profile being too long is: What a shame...that what a woman has to say...carries so little importance to either of you....just sayin'

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
1/29/2017 12:08 pm

    Quoting John324864:
    Poor little boy. Just how many time he has had sex in his life?
He definitely acted like a petulant little boy!

Most women don't go for that..so I think his sexual partners have been limited...and his chances will be slim for the future!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
1/29/2017 12:09 pm

    Quoting pocogato12:
    You were funny in that you kept feeding him his own shit and I bet he never gets it!!! Great mental exercise in the middle of the night
It was pretty fun giving him shit back!.....lol

He should have quit while he was ahead-so to speak. I gave him a very nice "no thank you" and even added a nice smiley face.

Apparently not good enough for him..haha

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


SweetCirce 78F  
7589 posts
2/5/2017 9:10 pm

IF he had been someone who actually wanted to hear what you were saying, you could have pointed out that there are several men on here who state on the their profiles that they're not looking to hook up. I respect that - adults should respect other people's wishes without feeling personally insulted.


sexycurvy1000 71F
137 posts
2/6/2017 11:50 am

I get mail from young guys all the time. Most don't read my pretty specific profile. I have to say, I always include the phrase: I wish you well and hope you find what you are looking for when I send the reason (too young, too far, no chemistry in profile & pic). I get a thank you for even replying.
The only hurtful reply to a rejection was a man who said some thing like... You probably like to fuck young guys and that's why you rejected me. Well, think about looking at your grandmother. That's what these young guys are looking at when they're fucking you...an old grandmother.
That really hurt.


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
2/26/2017 7:39 pm

    Quoting sexycurvy1000:
    I get mail from young guys all the time. Most don't read my pretty specific profile. I have to say, I always include the phrase: I wish you well and hope you find what you are looking for when I send the reason (too young, too far, no chemistry in profile & pic). I get a thank you for even replying.
    The only hurtful reply to a rejection was a man who said some thing like... You probably like to fuck young guys and that's why you rejected me. Well, think about looking at your grandmother. That's what these young guys are looking at when they're fucking you...an old grandmother.
    That really hurt.
I get emails from younger guys all the time too, and I'm usually graceful and nice, and wish them well in finding what they are looking for.

It's the ones that get nasty or belligerent that cause me to get a little frosty...lol

I'm sorry you had to experience a mean guy that couldn't take your rejection like a real man and had to be hurtful.

I DO hope you (and find what we are looking for. My profile is pretty specific too...lol

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


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