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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1886 posts
4/1/2016 8:49 am
What Do You Need To Fuck??


I'm curious about the way others feel on the subject of what you need to fuck someone........

This is for both men & women to speak on..so feel free to express your opinions..desires...requirements etc...In finding the playmate you seek!

Is it just any cock or pussy that is willing? Are you into random hook-ups? Group sex?

Or do you need (or want) something more? A connection (doesn't have to be romantic)..where you do more than text or call and say "Ya wanna fuck"?

For ME?....I can't blindly or randomly fuck someone, just because I may be horny or want sex. I need to know the person...like the person and feel safe with that person to fully enjoy the experience!


Then the sky is the limit....

So please....let me know your thoughts

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


luvwetwild2 55M  
672 posts
4/1/2016 9:01 am

Great post. Me, I need to chat first, get comfortable with the conversation, do a public meet and then if the chemistry is right.......screw each others eyeballs out!


HermanG67 53M
8120 posts
4/1/2016 9:04 am

knowing AND liking someone is paramount for me


spankandsquirt20 41F
10332 posts
4/1/2016 9:45 am

I prefer to get to know someone by chatting first, either by email or texts. Then...if I like the person and we share some stuff will I consider hopping into bed with them. But a public meeting first....mind you I've had one where we met for coffee and then continued home to his place. So yeah...I need to know a bit about the person first, and won't just randomly hook up with someone just because they send me a message. I need some emotional context as well. Great post.


Chance6369 54M
307 posts
4/1/2016 9:51 am

Knowing someone makes the sex way better...


s2ndegree 61M  
9741 posts
4/1/2016 9:52 am

I've got to know the person .

Using more than all the road!


Great_eight 54M
1475 posts
4/1/2016 11:46 am

Physical attraction is a necessity, share some messages to figure out if we are looking for the same things. A meeting in person to see if there is attraction. Sex anytime thereafter if both of us are in agreement.


Shyguyinaz 56M
1624 posts
4/1/2016 1:42 pm

Physical attraction is a must but I also must have some sort of connection with the woman.


sphxdiver 70M  
21070 posts
4/1/2016 4:07 pm

Has to be a connection, either physical or otherwise.


BiggLala 48F  
28844 posts
4/1/2016 11:20 pm

I have to know and like the person. Connection is important too, but that can be relative the person or situation, i.e. I might not need a connection above a basic level. Of course, physical and/or sexual attraction is must.

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spicyfunguy 58M
205 posts
4/5/2016 5:08 pm

I am of the opinion that if you know someone then you will have a more satisfying and fun time. I sorry, but my cock has a conscious and I won't just put it in anyone. You need to have that connection with a person, someone you can talk to and joke with. That's what make the sparks when you finally do get together. Text, email, phone chat and then meet for a drink and get to know one another.


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
4/7/2016 1:02 pm

Sounds just about right to me spicyfunguy....

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


Dragonmaster6996 76M  
8 posts
4/17/2016 8:18 am

Friends first


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
4/28/2016 1:38 pm

Friends first is a good policy Dragonmaster...gotta like the one you're with

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


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