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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1889 posts
7/10/2017 4:33 pm
Yup..Another Man- On AFF....LOL


Sooooooooooo...once again a guy contacts me with some lame ass email and apparently expects me to jump for joy and be grateful? Excited? Blown away with his way for words?

Guys..in case you didn't know - this is NOT how you get most women to respond in a positive way, or even respond at all. I just happen to occasionally like to clap back if someone is this childish-especially at the age of thirty six...when he really should know better!

Gimme a break!!

I've named him the Man-. Obviously not his profile name, but since I didn't want to violate the TOU's and I didn't want to embarrass his immature behavior personally.

I'm just nice that way.....lol

I honestly don't feel like I have to take this kind of shit. I realize it happens and most times I just delete the email and that's that. BUT sometimes if ya just happen to catch me on one of those days....Ya get the sarcastic me....too bad!!

The Man-

Wanna give me a blow job?
7/10/2017 3:38 pm

Me

Uhhhhhh.....no thanks!
7/10/2017 3:45 pm

The Man-

Why not? I'll return the favor.
7/10/2017 3:47 pm

Me

Why not? I don't even know you...and you think I would just give you a blow job?
7/10/2017 3:49 pm

The Man-

This is a site where people look for sex, just sayn. Don't you like to get your pussy licked and fucked? Well i like to get licked and fucked too.
7/10/2017 3:51 pm

Me

Read my profile and see if you think I'd really consider your request...
It may be a sex site...but that doesn't mean everyone is looking for mindless sex just for the sake of it!
In answer to your question though...of course I do....but not just by anyone!
So my advice to you would be to find someone that wants to take care of that for you....cause it won't be me...just sayin'.....lol
7/10/2017 3:55 pm

The Man-

You should join ourtime.com Thats a dating site for old folks. That’s more your speed.
7/10/2017 4:00 pm

Me
Ahhhhhhh....a typical response from a boy when he's shot down. Attack and insult the woman that he wanted to give him the blow job!!
Good luck finding a woman young or old to pay any attention to you..with an opening email line like that!!
You're clueless.....lol
7/10/2017 4:57 pm

The Man-

You're old

7/10/2017 5:23 pm

Me

Honey....I'm experienced.....lol

Age is but a number! You are thirty six and acting like you're fifteen. YOU contacted ME and wanted to know if I wanted to give you a blow job...I gave you an answer you didn't want to hear and you continue with the BS because I said no!!

Grow up....lol

I'm done with you now......so how about you find a young girl that is on par with you mentally and hope she'll give you that blow job- this woman wouldn't give ya the time of day! I prefer mature men.....

I've wasted enough time with you, but it has been fun.

Btw...look for our little exchange in my blog....it's always good to show how NOT to interact with a woman to those others who may be like you. I'll keep your name out though, since it's against TOU's to include it.

But I'd sooooooooo love to be able to keep it in...just so the ladies know to stay away from another little man- on this site!!
7/10/2017 5:38 pm

The Man-


You're old

7/10/2017 6:21 pm

Me

LMAO.....

You said that already!..

The day I start giving a shit what you think about me fucktard....will be a really cold day in hell....lol

Too bad you won't see our little exchange in blogland! I'm done toying with you now....and you will be blocked!!

Thank you though for the laughs you've provided me today....LOL

SEE YA!!



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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/10/2017 4:35 pm

Grow up...will ya Man-Child!!

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papis_baby_girl 41F
5344 posts
7/10/2017 4:51 pm

lol...you weren't 'old' when he stepped to you.

I guess the male ego is such that the minute they get turned down then all hell breaks loose.

sad...

I don't get butt hurt when someone turns me down...yeah it stings... but I just move on.

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/10/2017 4:52 pm

    Quoting Deviant1965:
    Wow.. and I mean wow.. I dont understand why when someone responds you jump to sex, then start to insult them.

    Angry angry people.
I hope you mean him...lol

I'm a really nice woman...and usually really laid back about things, but when I get my dander up, as I said..I reserve the right to clap back.

He deserved what he got (in my humble opinion....lol)

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/10/2017 4:53 pm

    Quoting  :

You're welcome...I'm sure most men on here are not like him. But just a reminder for some!

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let_me_see1 61M  
664 posts
7/10/2017 4:53 pm

Obviously the reason he has to ask for a blow job like that is because he never gets a blow job because he always asks for a blow job like that. LOL Being respectful to a lady is something so many men miss. But I am glad there are a large group of jerks like him out there. I can't tell you how many people have told me how appreciative they were when I simply open the car door, because nobody else ever does. If you treat a lady right, you will have all the blow jobs you want....and the will all be much better too!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/10/2017 4:58 pm

    Quoting  :

I agree.. but those are too much for him to grasp...like I said to him, he's clueless!!

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ruleher101 53M/50F
201 posts
7/10/2017 5:02 pm

thank you thank you,these idiots make US/us pee OUR/our pants laughing soooooo had....HE needed a good laugh today so again thank you..


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/10/2017 5:03 pm

    Quoting papis_baby_girl:
    lol...you weren't 'old' when he stepped to you.

    I guess the male ego is such that the minute they get turned down then all hell breaks loose.

    sad...

    I don't get butt hurt when someone turns me down...yeah it stings... but I just move on.
Exactly...I wasn't old then! But when I shot him down..THEN I'm old?

He obviously has a fragile ego and couldn't take it, his problem! I agree..things don't always work out the way we may like, but the way we handle it seperates the adults from the children.

Hopefully he learned a little today, but I doubt it....lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/10/2017 5:05 pm

LOL....I thought so....but just checkin'

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/10/2017 5:13 pm

    Quoting let_me_see1:
    Obviously the reason he has to ask for a blow job like that is because he never gets a blow job because he always asks for a blow job like that. LOL Being respectful to a lady is something so many men miss. But I am glad there are a large group of jerks like him out there. I can't tell you how many people have told me how appreciative they were when I simply open the car door, because nobody else ever does. If you treat a lady right, you will have all the blow jobs you want....and the will all be much better too!
Absolutely J......lol

It's a shame that some men don't get it. I can honestly say that most men that may contact me are respectful and even complimentary etc. But every once in awhile you get one like him. He'll see how it goes with the next woman he approaches like that, maybe he'll learn..maybe he won't.

IF he doesn't...he sure as hell won't be gettin' any blow jobs anytime soon...LOL

Your way is the right way J.......

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/10/2017 5:18 pm

    Quoting ruleher101:
    thank you thank you,these idiots make US/us pee OUR/our pants laughing soooooo had....HE needed a good laugh today so again thank you..
LOL...you're welcome!

I'm glad I could give some chuckles today...lol

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SweetCirce 78F  
7586 posts
7/10/2017 5:23 pm

I've just had to point out to a man in his 60s that just asking "do you want to play with me" is NOT the way to find a playmate.


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/10/2017 5:25 pm

    Quoting  :

Well thank you...I don't know about a saint, but I am generally a really nice person and it got to the point where I was having some fun letting him know how immature he was. That probably isn't nice...but he had it coming.

I can only be me....but thank you for appreciating that!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/10/2017 5:27 pm

    Quoting SweetCirce:
    I've just had to point out to a man in his 60s that just asking "do you want to play with me" is NOT the way to find a playmate.
Yes...it's not just the younger ones that don't have a clue sometimes. It can cross all age ranges unfortunately!!

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Prof10001 60M  
3644 posts
7/10/2017 5:39 pm

Was his email signature, POTUS?

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Magosika3 31M
181 posts
7/10/2017 5:42 pm

the guy sounds sad yet desperate

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Brownie202 63F
1874 posts
7/10/2017 5:44 pm

I had that happen to me a few times. In chat, not mail. Nice until told nicely no. Always younger ones. I tell them I like men not boys. Also having a cock makes them a male, not a man. They think out age is desperate. It's them for thinking we are easy so will not turn them down.

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zeke53028 61M  
1107 posts
7/10/2017 5:44 pm

He's an ass. As Uncle Si says, "you just can't fix stupid."


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/10/2017 5:47 pm

LMAO.....

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TB5758 62M/63F  
540 posts
7/10/2017 5:51 pm

Some believe an older mature woman would jump at the chance to give some "fucktard" (my favorite word) a blow job. I mean my wife is 60 and men (boys) 18 want to get with her. One said I am your man. Actually I thought I was but I digress. Most of these guys have no game at all. I am embarrassed for them. Anyway sorry you had to endure that but I think you enjoyed fucking with him. I did enjoy reading it.


40Deuce 43M
5727 posts
7/10/2017 6:18 pm

I feel like you missed an opportunity here - if he was going to return the favor that means he was going to give you a blowjob right ? It would have been interesting to see how he was going to pull that off on a lady . Many theories could have been tested .

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travellerabc123 50M
3831 posts
7/10/2017 6:24 pm

Give 'em hell, Tam!

Embrace the suck


s2ndegree 61M  
9741 posts
7/10/2017 6:40 pm

I 'm not interested in anyone under 50 so when flirts or hot listings and even messages come from younger people I don't bother.I know most don't read profiles but that really doesn't matter since I wrote it I also follow it.

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/10/2017 7:10 pm

    Quoting Magosika3:
    the guy sounds sad yet desperate
Hmmmm....interesting take on it I suppose. The thing is..if he's either of those things..it would most likely be his own fault. He needs to learn how to interact better with people. To not attack someone because he didn't get what he wanted. Then claim he didn't want it in the first place.

He needs to grow up....he wouldn't be desperate if he behaved in an adult manner and treated a woman better.

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/10/2017 7:18 pm

    Quoting Brownie202:
    I had that happen to me a few times. In chat, not mail. Nice until told nicely no. Always younger ones. I tell them I like men not boys. Also having a cock makes them a male, not a man. They think out age is desperate. It's them for thinking we are easy so will not turn them down.
My experiences have mostly been through emails, since I rarely get on the IM...but on the times that I gave it a try-there were usually one or two IM's with a similar sentiment. A few words like "wanna fuck" or something similar.

What make a man think that is gonna work with a sane, self respecting woman...I have no idea. I'm certainly not desperate and I doubt you are or many women on here are.

You are correct..just because he has a cock doesn't make a man a man. The way he treats others and behaves like an adult is more relevant.

Some get it...some don't and sadly they never will!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/10/2017 7:19 pm

    Quoting zeke53028:
    He's an ass. As Uncle Si says, "you just can't fix stupid."
Yes he was....and no you can't...lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/10/2017 7:29 pm

    Quoting TB5758:
    Some believe an older mature woman would jump at the chance to give some "fucktard" (my favorite word) a blow job. I mean my wife is 60 and men (boys) 18 want to get with her. One said I am your man. Actually I thought I was but I digress. Most of these guys have no game at all. I am embarrassed for them. Anyway sorry you had to endure that but I think you enjoyed fucking with him. I did enjoy reading it.
You are absolutely right..some do think the more mature woman is desperate and willing to get with any guy who asks her. Like your wife I have received a decent amount of interest from younger (sometimes very young) men wanting to fuck me...date me etc.

There have been some that were very crude in their approach and then there have been some that have been pretty decent, nice and respectful. Sometimes the younger ones have behaved better than the older ones.

Thanks for the sympathy....but you are correct- I did enjoy "fucking" with him...only not in the way he was hoping....lol

Glad you enjoyed it.....lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/10/2017 7:37 pm

    Quoting 40Deuce:
    I feel like you missed an opportunity here - if he was going to return the favor that means he was going to give you a blowjob right ? It would have been interesting to see how he was going to pull that off on a lady . Many theories could have been tested .
You're right...and I did consider debating with him how he was going to pull off a reciprocation. It probably would have been comical....lol

But either way...I did rather enjoy my exchange with him....and honestly felt I got the best of him....That's probably wrong of me...but hopefully he learned a little lesson....lol Most likely not....

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/10/2017 7:38 pm

LOL....oh trust me...I will if it's deserved....haha

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amwfcurious 50M
325 posts
7/10/2017 7:39 pm

seriously, what's with all the entitlement mindset these "kids" are on now a day???

No one is entitled for shit from anyone else let alone someone that you don't even know. You're right in burning the little boy imo. You are actually being kind to him there are so many other things I would have thrown at his way if I was you.


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/10/2017 8:01 pm

    Quoting s2ndegree:
    I 'm not interested in anyone under 50 so when flirts or hot listings and even messages come from younger people I don't bother.I know most don't read profiles but that really doesn't matter since I wrote it I also follow it.
I'm actually not interested in younger than that myself and will sometimes not respond to the emails from younger men. I do state in my profile that I'm not interested in younger, but as you said..not many read a profile.

If I receive a nice,respectful email then I may take the time to just say that I'm not looking for younger and let it go at that.

I guess it just depends on my mood some days.....lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/10/2017 8:20 pm

    Quoting  :

I'd hazard a guess that honestly most women on AdultFriendFinder have run across the same situations.

You're right that standard members can't read a full profile, but they can read about a paragraph,if they hover over a profile with their mouse while using a laptop (but perhaps not if using their cell) which is why I put in the beginning of my profile that I'm not looking for younger or couples.

I do get a bit aggravated if it is a gold member and they ask questions that are very clearly answered if they took the time to read my profile before emailing me. I was once told by someone responding to one of my previous blogs that perhaps the guy had a - Nothing ventured...nothing gained type of mentality in contacting me...even if he did take the time to read my profile.

I usually try to me nice and patient for the most part...but if it has been a day when I've had way too many of the same type of emails....I can get a little exasperated....lol

So men....bottom line here is: if you are a gold member, read the woman's profile first. It would be much appreciated!!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/10/2017 8:30 pm

    Quoting amwfcurious:
    seriously, what's with all the entitlement mindset these "kids" are on now a day???

    No one is entitled for shit from anyone else let alone someone that you don't even know. You're right in burning the little boy imo. You are actually being kind to him there are so many other things I would have thrown at his way if I was you.
Yes...some do have that mentality of entitlement or that an older woman should automatically be thrilled to death if a younger guy shows an interest.

I'm glad to have your approval of my sparring with him....lol

Trust me...I did consider giving him worse than he got. I'm a really nice woman, but when pushed, I can have a tongue as sharp as a knife that can cut with surgical precision.....lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/10/2017 8:35 pm

    Quoting  :

Exactly....I get that it is one of the facets of AdultFriendFinder, but many people are here for other reasons. I state mine clearly in my profile, so as not to be misleading...but still get asked to "fuck" someone or why I'm here.

That boy most definitely needed to get a clue...on a few things...but will most likely remain clueless....lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/10/2017 8:41 pm

    Quoting Tennispeachy:
    Should have blocked him from the first message
Ahhhhhh maybe....but I decided to have a little sparring with him..... it made for a little fun for me. Perhaps he could learn a bit-perhaps not......

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tresennui 65F  
2470 posts
7/10/2017 8:49 pm

Generally I just ignore those emails. However, every once in a while I am compelled to respond which, if I allow it, becomes very similar to the exchanges you showed here.

My thought is that guys who write those emails are under the impression this is mainly a porn site for hooking up (cannot imagine how they get that idea!) and do not realize many of us use it as we do any other dating site, except sex is more out in the open.

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MyBaffies 51M
4359 posts
7/11/2017 1:42 am

If it carries on like this, the site is going to have to rename itself to ImmatureFriendFinder.

Baffies

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/11/2017 5:58 am

    Quoting tresennui:
    Generally I just ignore those emails. However, every once in a while I am compelled to respond which, if I allow it, becomes very similar to the exchanges you showed here.

    My thought is that guys who write those emails are under the impression this is mainly a porn site for hooking up (cannot imagine how they get that idea!) and do not realize many of us use it as we do any other dating site, except sex is more out in the open.
I generally do the same...ignore and/or delete them,but like you every once in awhile I feel compelled to respond. Perhaps it had been the tenth time that day I received the same type of email and it pushed a button.

I think you are probably right that some men (not all) get the impression this is strictly a sex site, after all the site brags- Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now...and I get that. BUT....it doesn't say ALL people are here for that, nor is iit n their TOU's that you have to be looking for sex or hookups to be a member. That goes over some men's heads apparently.

Some don't get it that if you initiate an email with some thought out, respectful thoughts/words...they may get a better response....duh!....lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/11/2017 6:00 am

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    The Man-Child: Wanna give me a blow job?

    Your response should have been: Yes , or no. That's all that is required from you.

    Saying, "Wanna give me a blow job", doesn't make him a man child. You chose to mock him, so continuing a conversation.

    Typically men come to sex sites looking for mindless , connectionless sex. That's normal. You are experienced, you should know that.
Hmmmmm...well your opinion is noted!

However since it was my email...I get to choose how I respond to it!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/11/2017 6:02 am

    Quoting MyBaffies:
    If it carries on like this, the site is going to have to rename itself to ImmatureFriendFinder.
Perhaps you are right...it might fit better, at least sometimes!!......lol

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ShylyInterested 100F
44 posts
7/11/2017 11:35 am

    Quoting let_me_see1:
    Obviously the reason he has to ask for a blow job like that is because he never gets a blow job because he always asks for a blow job like that. LOL Being respectful to a lady is something so many men miss. But I am glad there are a large group of jerks like him out there. I can't tell you how many people have told me how appreciative they were when I simply open the car door, because nobody else ever does. If you treat a lady right, you will have all the blow jobs you want....and the will all be much better too!
This is true! A gentleman who allows the interest to build slowly, teasingly, with give and take, is likely to find a very warm response


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/11/2017 3:11 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    it was my email...I get to choose how I respond to it....

    That is entirely true.

    But to everyone else who isn't trying to brown-nose you , you do appear to be the trouble maker.
The respondents to my post have no reason to brown nose me! To what end? They just happen to have a similar opinion to mine about the Man-Child in question.

The Man-Child in question was a pig (in my opinion), but having read some of the comments you post on other blogs....I'm not surprised you would see it differently.

Again...I'll respond any way I want to an email sent to me. If me calling out a pig and boy who can't take a rejection like a man makes me a trouble maker (in your words)...Ummmmmm....I think I can live with that!!....lol

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Dragonmaster6996 76M  
8 posts
7/12/2017 8:49 pm

Oh, that was funny. Some people just can't read.


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/14/2017 1:01 pm

    Quoting  :

You are most likely correct on both counts!

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CarriedBack 58M  
121 posts
7/15/2017 6:58 am

Thanks for making my morning! That was outrageously funny, but I'm sorry you had to go through the experience to provide us with some laughs. I hope your weekend improves from here.


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/15/2017 9:13 am

    Quoting CarriedBack:
    Thanks for making my morning! That was outrageously funny, but I'm sorry you had to go through the experience to provide us with some laughs. I hope your weekend improves from here.


Glad I could be of some help making you laugh. It's okay..I'll be fine, we women on here get that sorta thing sometimes. Most times honestly, men are pretty respectful and nice on here..it's the occasional fool that has no clue.

I blocked him, so I won't have to deal with him again..but I'm sure another will come along eventually....lol

I guess the lesson to them should be: Be careful..ya mind wind up as a blog post...lol

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author51 57F  
99910 posts
7/16/2017 5:38 am

Have been there, done that conversation too many times to count on this site.Love your responses my friend....

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/16/2017 9:55 am

    Quoting author51:
    Have been there, done that conversation too many times to count on this site.Love your responses my friend....
Thanks for your support Joy....I have as well, as I'm sure most women on this site have. Really lets one seperate the boys from the men!

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Dick4001567 60M
3938 posts
7/16/2017 10:48 pm

Wow the nerve of him!!


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/17/2017 8:03 am

Hmmmmm...hard to tell if that was sarcastic or supportive...lol

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bill1058 61M

7/18/2017 10:48 pm

LOL! Growing old is inevitable, growing up is an option! I guess he didn't know he had a choice. lol


FMAOPLS 67F  
27036 posts
7/20/2017 11:47 pm

He's destined for failure and is likely too clueless to figure out why.

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trisha_ann_glynn 48T
1991 posts
7/21/2017 12:19 am

The way that he went from a casual come on to heated anger is a red flag.
He is stalker material, and probably is on some kind of medication.
These are the ones that "even I" avoid.


porterpiper1 53F
3759 posts
7/21/2017 12:11 pm

You were very nice about how you respond to him, so many stupid, dumb idiots on this site


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/25/2017 2:12 pm

    Quoting bill1058:
    LOL! Growing old is inevitable, growing up is an option! I guess he didn't know he had a choice. lol
He is just clueless about it all....

But you are right, we all get older, but I hope to retain some of the "child" in me...but in a good way!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/25/2017 2:16 pm

    Quoting  :

Thank you...but I sometimes enjoy the exchange if I'm in the right mood for it. Perhaps it helps to educate some of those that don't have any idea how to send a decent email to a woman.

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/25/2017 2:19 pm

    Quoting trolleyman1000:
    I've read this type of exchange before, so I know there are guys like this out there. But still (still!) I shudder and shake my head in total disbelief when I see one.
Yes, many of the women on this site have been the receipient of similar emails. I shake my head when I get them or read about the other women's stories as well.

Hopefully most men understand NOT to do it the way that was detailed in my blog post!.....lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/25/2017 2:20 pm

    Quoting FMAOPLS:
    He's destined for failure and is likely too clueless to figure out why.
Absolutely....I agree with you!....lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/25/2017 2:24 pm

    Quoting trisha_ann_glynn:
    The way that he went from a casual come on to heated anger is a red flag.
    He is stalker material, and probably is on some kind of medication.
    These are the ones that "even I" avoid.
I try to avoid any on here honestly that can't put forth a little effort to send a decent message. It doesn't have to be long, but shouldn't just ask if I want to blow them..fuck them etc.

They are gonna get deleted or get no response most times.....lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
7/25/2017 2:26 pm

    Quoting porterpiper1:
    You were very nice about how you respond to him, so many stupid, dumb idiots on this site
Thanks...I usually try to be nice to everyone and even when I get a little "testy"...I still don't aim to hurt too bad....lol

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valdezvicvic 62M
996 posts
8/5/2017 9:55 am

Be glad your not selling real estate - face to face and an hour gone with those types ... and on your property ...


Colzlollipop45 48M

8/7/2017 4:52 am

Unfortunately this happens too often on sex sites based on conversations I have had with women on here and on other sites (and no, not ourtime.com either!!) Sadly it seems a lot of guys will not learn. They get a raging boner and through their entitlement mentality they think any lady will gladly take them on. Get to know a lady first, what turns them on and once you've flirted and charmed your way in, the "sexier talk" will come (more) naturally.

Thanks for sharing your experience....it was highly amusing the way you put him in his place!!


easy_going2014 53M
13753 posts
8/7/2017 12:25 pm

Hi tam18974.

thanks for sharing this experience.

the beauty of free... is that a world of opportunities presents itself to so many more peeps...

the ugliness of free... is that a world of ill-prepared people try to take advantage of the situation...

I've only blocked four people on this site... that's not too bad in 3 years...

If I read something I don't like... I make an assessment and move on... so many heavenly creatures to meet... some are real... some are not... I've met two face-to-face... and... I enjoyed both... the drama with other potential firsts has also happened... but, in my easy going way... I can move to the next flower, so to speak...

I will leave you with this... thanks for reading me...

I discovered LP this year...

"I've done so many things wrong..."

LP - "Good With You"

Mostly I'm bad, mostly I make
The people that care about me, love me, sad
And I don't know why
Mostly I lie and maybe it's because
I don't want anyone to know who I am
Oh, but you, with your angel face
You take me to a place, I've never been
Oh, but you, with your innocence
You break through my defense

I'm only good with you
I'm only good with you
I've done so many things wrong
I've sung a thousand songs
What did you see in me?
It's still a mystery
Thought that I was through
You made me someone new
And I'm only good with
I'm only good with you

Mostly I'm a mess, never say no
Get myself in trouble telling everybody yes
I don't know why
Oh but you, when I feel your love
Your better than any drug
I ever had
Oh, but you, you make me see in light
In the darkest night

I'm only good with you
I'm only good with you
I've done so many things wrong
I've sung a thousand songs
What did you see in me?
It's still a mystery
Thought that I was through
You made me someone new
And I'm only good with you
I'm only good with you...

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Good luck!!!


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
8/9/2017 9:30 am

    Quoting Colzlollipop45:
    Unfortunately this happens too often on sex sites based on conversations I have had with women on here and on other sites (and no, not ourtime.com either!!) Sadly it seems a lot of guys will not learn. They get a raging boner and through their entitlement mentality they think any lady will gladly take them on. Get to know a lady first, what turns them on and once you've flirted and charmed your way in, the "sexier talk" will come (more) naturally.

    Thanks for sharing your experience....it was highly amusing the way you put him in his place!!
You are correct...it happens a lot, you just have to read the blogs to see that!

Again correct that some men just won't or don't learn. If he thinks with his raging boner...he's thinking with the wrong head.

Your approach sounds like a much smarter choice.

I'm glad I could provide a little levity in your day.....lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
8/9/2017 9:36 am

    Quoting  :

He definitely didn't act like an adult...that's for sure...lol

It's a shame you've had the experience of talking to so many fakes and flakes on here and other places. I haven't really had too many bad times talking to people here. But it is evident that there are fakes and flakes here and elsewhere..

Seems a problem lies with some couples profiles, so I hear. Men pretending to be part of a couple- women pretending as well. So stupid, because sooner or later the truth comes out....or the lies continue.

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