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HollyBerryswl 52F  
20 posts
8/21/2016 7:10 pm
(for men only)Telling people about your lifestyle preferences.

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funbitimes 42M
1329 posts
8/22/2016 2:35 am

Honesty is the best I feel. I told my wife on our first date that I was bi and was in the lifestyle. Others ran.

TicklePlease 52F  
13014 posts
8/22/2016 4:13 am

To a vanilla man, telling him you're in the lifestyle means you're going to give him a threesome (or moresome) with your sexy nympho girlfriends. Or it means you're a slut who's going to fuck his best friend behind his back. Either way, it almost always results in a reduction of effort on his part. You're easy so he doesn't have to try... or you're easy so you'll be fucking the next guy who comes down the pike tomorrow.

Save that until you're actually sure he's sticking around for YOU and that he's worth having sex with. The lifestyle is just a small part of you but it overshadows most everything else (from the male pov) because it has to do with sex. There's honesty and then there's discretion.

1NascarMan68 57M
453 posts
8/22/2016 8:46 am

You need to be true to yourself......I don't think there is anything sexy then a woman that knows what she wants, and not afraid to talk about her needs.

HollyBerryswl 52F  
2 posts
8/23/2016 6:13 am

@tickleplease. Your spot on. Ignorance is bliss for some and I will wait to tell!

XxChefGumbyxX 36M
1 post
1/30/2017 10:25 pm

Being who you are is must foranything anything worth doing. I gey same thing from woman not isto getting two men or MFF. love my woman slutty though

OralGuy1112 62M  
25 posts
7/10/2017 7:14 am

I know that everyone is different but if it were me, it would obviously be the icebreaker and then I could feel comfortable hanging out and chatting about anything instead of wondering whether or not I should say or do a certain thing. I'm probably in the minority on this but I would be pleasantly surprised, especially as that would be the kind of person that I was looking for.

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