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HollyBerryswl 52  
20 posts
9/15/2016 9:21 am

After a recent experience by a fellow AdultFriendFinder male whom judges to quickly.
I do have to add a note to the persons who have never been involved in any type of lifestyle. Much like many things in life there are varying shades of being a swinger. For me , I was broken sexually after my marriage. I felt unattractive, unworthy and I was completely Asexual for a very long time. Fast forward a few years and by happenstance I became involved. I realized that I was never unworthy, unattractive because that community does not judge. I met a lot of friends(yes just friends) who supported me thru that journey of discovery, allowed me to explore some new options and get myself back to a sexual being. And I'm ever thankful. I'm very rarely active in a sexual way at this time since I have always felt this is something best shared with a partner ( and if you are squeamish about thinking of sharing me, Remember it works both ways and talk to me after two women are sucking your cock) however, I digress. For the last few years, I saw an opportunity to gather people and work with hosting and promoting events in the lifestyle. I can't beat the fact, I have plenty of places to go, networking galore and lots of fun in the process. The lifestyle does not define me as a woman or lover as I have always felt that there is nothing more important than having a healthy relationship with all the bells and whistles with just someone. 90% of swingers are happily married. They are not looking for better, just different after so many years of marriage. The last 10% makes up Single men and women with the higher percentage being the men. With that being said, I'm looking for my one man. My intention is not to pawn you off to other women or the opposite , just asking to be openminded for something perhaps in the future because the lifestyle is far more encompassing then you will know till you experience it in real life. Don't judge and think we pile into a room and all get naked. Ignorance is bliss to some but until you walk a day in my shoes never assume anything. One can not grow unless they venture outside your box, you might like it and never go back.

007Kooljack007 38
1 post
8/30/2017 10:02 pm

Very well written detail....but I have a question for you...What if a person had a very bad marriage...and he is not really satisfied by the other half and they are on the verge of divorce....What should that person do?

Crk19712 49
1 post
4/6/2018 10:42 am

Very insightful and thoughtful.

enjoypleasure4al 65  
26 posts
7/26/2019 8:47 am

hello Holly, I read your blog and it is very nice to read something thoughtful. I am very interested in your parties as I am certainly just enjoying this sensual side and not looking to change anything. Please say hello anytime you like thanks.

enjoypleasure4al 65  
26 posts
7/26/2019 8:48 am

may I add that you should think highly of yourself you are very (well written), and quite beautiful. Chin up and enjoy life.

menu1119 60
18 posts
10/9/2019 5:30 am

You're right...the Lifestyle isn't for everyone. However, when two people have that core...that deep intimacy and understanding of each other that transcends everything else...a Lifestyle Relationship only serves to enhance things.

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