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Why my dating life has turned into a string of Taylor Swift songs  

HollyBerryswl 52F  
20 posts
8/15/2016 7:32 pm
Why my dating life has turned into a string of Taylor Swift songs

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nicelipss66 44F
23849 posts
8/15/2016 9:33 pm

Hi Holly, you need a comment for your post to show. is a new setting of the site. I'm giving you one. try to remember that after creating a post. you need to go back and comment your own post in order to be visible on the main blog board.

Yours_4A_knight 55M
1424 posts
8/15/2016 10:21 pm

You seem like a really normla very attractive woman, I am not sure that size has a lot to do with it.
A lot of people, myself included are looking for friends who are willing to concider sex, it does not have to happen everytime we get together, but I like the idea of the chance.
I hate to say this, being as attractive and as great a woman as you are, maybe you would have better luck meeting guys someplace other than on this site, like sharing some mutually enjoyable activity that has you with them in person at least couple times a week.
Just a thought, I know that I have abandoned ever meeting someone here that Is as excited about me as I am about them

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.

Justforfunman 48M
11 posts
8/16/2016 4:32 am

I am a big guy so i know what it is with size But you definitely are not big and have an awesome smile! Plus you look great in this furry boots Keep your head up Someone that loves to cook and pay attention to someone is a great catch!!!!

doe_ra_me 108M

8/16/2016 5:46 am

Here's a thought Shug – our perspectives, thoughts define our reality.

Listening to taylor swuft influences your perspective, which in turns influences decisions, which affects outcome. Try something a bit more positive (not having heard swuft, just assuming based on your writing) ... rather than seek a man to fill a void (double entendre) ... umm, rather than a Mr Right, serve yourself a right at this moment, until you run across a human worthy of more of your time.

And you can meet a man in the local grocer just as easy as you can on this site. Just share that great smile, and eye contact with some odd quip about fresh produce. Or coffee grounds. It isn't the comment, but the eye contact and your smile that will open communication.

We suffer primarily not from our vices or our weaknesses, but from our illusions. We are haunted, not by reality, but by those images we have put in their place.

shaunola1971 49M  
54 posts
8/21/2016 11:00 am

Dating is always a tricky venture. Personally, I've had dates that I thought went smashingly well. But my date's opinion was obviously not the same. It's hard to guess sometimes about chemistry and compatibility. You listed so many important positive qualities and know yourself pretty well, although I think you sell yourself short on physical appearance.

Don't give up on your search just yet. In fact, you may want to increase the frequency of your dates (by that I mean dinner meetings, etc.). This is going to sound bad on the surface. However, dating is a numbers game to some degree. You can only do so much weeding out via messages. The more people you meet in person, in a vanilla environment, the more likely you are to find a solid match who appreciates the qualities that are important to you.

cumwithme4469 58M  
104 posts
8/7/2017 7:43 pm

there's nothing wrong with your size. you've got a very pretty face too.
don't let anybody tell you different.

check my relationship blog for crazy dates. it's not eHarmony

apervypoet 61M
90 posts
4/16/2018 7:37 am

Has to be the puppeteer not you. Try listening to the Rolling Stones and perhaps the strings will be broken forever and your luck will change. Definitely not your size.


menu1119 60M
18 posts
10/9/2019 5:24 am

I think you're beautiful! It's about the person!

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