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She's not who you think she is.
Posted:Mar 17, 2015 1:30 pm
Last Updated:Jan 9, 2017 5:27 am
Meet Adriana7755

Now, before you go reporting me to A F F, she isn't a real member. She's an account the site created.

Site support sent me an email from Adriana7755 to test my account, and in turn they replied on my behalf. I knew I hadn't replied to "her" message so to make sure my account hadn't been compromised I ask the site support guys on their March blog Site Problems, Bug reports, Customer Feedback and Suggestions March 2015 if it was them. They duly replied that it was indeed their account.

I should have asked why do you need a fake account to test on the site? You already have the Site Support account that I would have assumed would be used for testing.

Adriana has a blog post I am dating a man who is very devoted but never emotive. One member commenting that Adriana is a "mystery" on her profile.

Adriana has 25 top fans. Do they know she's not real? Her top fan "quan09" viewed my profile. Another test account with lots of blogs. One perhaps aptly entitled "I hate my life". "He" has a profile picture of two very young looking girls.

Adriana has one photograph. If you do a Google search on her image she's suddenly Nataliya from Kishinev.

If you really want to meet Nataliya and be her friend you can!

With all the complaints about bots, fakes, and fudging member numbers, why does the site do this? Surely it doesn't help their cause any.

Yes, I get that they need different accounts for testing purposes, but why use a picture? Why have top fans and accept friend invites?

I think these accounts are misleading to say the least, and it makes me wonder how many of them are on the site.

One thing's for sure, they'd never make good spies...
Merry Christmas!
Posted:Dec 24, 2014 1:10 pm
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2015 7:58 pm
I would dearly love the gift of time right now, so I could personally wish some of you a very Merry Christmas.

But, this will have to suffice for now, so I hope that's okay

I'm in the middle of moving house right now, and that, along with having a cold to end all colds - yes, even worse than man-flu if you can believe that! - and juggling two houses, removal men (not literally), and all that goes with moving house, well, as you can imagine, it's been a pretty stressful and time-consuming few weeks.

So, my apologies to those of you who had perhaps hoped to get a more personal Christmas wish, or a reply to your message sent to my inbox or to my blog. I just haven't had the time, so I hope you understand.

I do, however, wish you all a very Merry Christmas, and I hope that whatever you do, you have a wonderful day. Especially to those of you who have taken the time to read the nonsense I've written for the last six months on my blog, whether you comment, follow or just read and shake your head...thank you for your time. It means a lot to me

And, please, let's remember that Christmas isn't all about opening gifts. I find that too often people forget the real meaning of Christmas...

...and that's eating that big plate of turkey for Christmas dinner

Merry Christmas, everyone!

For My Eyes Only
Posted:Nov 5, 2014 4:37 pm
Last Updated:Jul 20, 2016 4:27 pm
Okay, so I have a feeling this might be a huge disaster, haha, but I'll give it a try anyway!

You can leave private messages for me on this blog. As the title says "For my eyes only". They won't be shared with anyone. No one else can see your message, only me.

Now, unless someone can tell me differently, my replies will be public. I won't use your name, maybe an initial, or I won't address you at all, but you'll know by my reply that it's for you and you alone. So I can promise discretion, as long as you promise not to be an ass

As a few of you already know, I'm fond of using some of the really dumb messages I receive on here as blog fodder. So, if you don't want to end up as such, please be respectful. If not? Then we'll have a problem. And when I say "we", I really mean "you".

I'm not sure what I expect from this. I'm a little curious as to what, if anything, you will say So, I'll throw caution to the wind, expect the unexpected, hope for the best, and take it from there.

Have fun, and let the games begin!


**Update** My replies will indeed be private. Thanks for that piece of info, you know who you are

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Ladies, (and gents) did you know...?
Posted:Aug 21, 2014 5:24 am
Last Updated:Jun 19, 2015 4:57 pm
So you've banned some creep, for whatever reason, from viewing your profile. You can relax knowing you won't hear from them again.


If your profile features in any of the "Hottest" categories, pictures, albums, etc, even a banned member can view your pictures and leave a comment.

I was really shocked to see two members I'd banned commenting on my pics days after I'd banned them.

I contacted AdultFriendFinder who informed me that, although they're banned from seeing my profile, they can still view all my photographs because I'm featured in their Hottest Whatever!

If, like me, you want to control your pictures, profile and privacy, I'd encourage you to send a quick message to AdultFriendFinder asking them to review this set-up. I don't think it's acceptable, and I doubt many of you will, especially if you've had an unpleasant experience with someone.

Have you experienced this? If you did would you be as annoyed as I am? Or does it not bother you?

**Update October 2014**
Banned members are stalking us via our status updates and photographs. These appear on their activity stream. They know they are banned from viewing our profiles, yet continue to like and/or comment on our status updates and photographs.

AdultFriendFinder should be a safe place for everyone, but it's not. Not when they allow banned members to stalk and harass us in this way.

I mail them at least three times a week when the same banned members continue to stalk and harass me. I get the same reply everytime, "This member has been dealt with...". Lies. AdultFriendFinder are allowing these creeps to get to us through a loophole their programmers could easily fix.

It is not acceptable!

"Friends Only" Blogs.
Posted:Oct 10, 2014 6:36 pm
Last Updated:Oct 24, 2014 9:09 am
A F F really need to find a way to get these "Friends Only" blogs off the public blog forum. If they're not public, they have no business being there.

I won't become someone's fake friend simply to read their blog. I think it's a pity they had to change their blog from public to private in the first place. Often down to nasty blog comments when their blogs were public. Sometimes due to people stalking them via their blogs. I get it, I do.

But, please, let the rest of us know not to bother clicking on your private blog by simply having "Friends Only Blog" as the title or alongside it, as a few have done already. I am grateful to those of you who have been thoughtful enough to do this.

I know I'm not the only one who finds it a tad frustrating to see a blog title that catches our attention, we click on it, only to be met with "Nope, you can't read my blog! You're not my friend! Shoo! Blog off!"

So, until A F F moves you to another place on the blogosphere - around the same time as hell freezes over, I'm sure, haha - just a little bit of courtesy would be nice. A little heads-up, if you will.

Thank you, and happy blogging

**UPDATE** Just came across a "locked" blog. Which, of course, you don't realise it's locked until you've wasted your damn time reading the whole freakin' blog! Don't post it if you're going to lock it, give me a break

RIP Gene Wilder...
Posted:Aug 29, 2016 1:21 pm
Last Updated:Sep 16, 2016 6:11 am

...you will always be Willy Wonka to me.

Gene Wilder 1934 - 2016
Move over, Judge Judy!
Posted:Aug 19, 2016 5:52 am
Last Updated:Sep 14, 2016 7:58 am
Meet Judge Patricia Lynch QC.

I read this story in the last few weeks on another site, and thought it was worth sharing. I found it on "Legal Cheek" and have copied and pasted for your reading pleasure.

"A top judge left a courtroom stunned yesterday, after calling a defendant a “c**t” during sentencing.

Judge Patricia Lynch QC made her shocking comment while sentencing 50-year-old John Hennigan for breaching his anti-social behaviour order.

This is the charming Mr. Hennigan who thought nothing of saying to the victim - who was with her two young aged eight and six - "I don't agree with inter-racial relationships. I like natural." She was shocked and surprised and asked what he meant. He said: "I prefer white ."

Mid way through Lynch’s sentencing remarks, Hennigan — who has 23 convictions to his name — told her she was “a bit of a c**t”.

Without missing a beat, Lynch, who became a circuit judge 2014, responded: "You are a bit of a c*** yourself. Being offensive to me doesn’t help."

Hennigan then responded: "Go f*** yourself."

Remaining cool, calm and collected, Lynch, who is a former member of London’s Red Lion Chambers, retorted: "You too."

According to the Mirror, Hennigan was in court for breaching his order after “insulting a black Caribbean mother”. Jailing him for 18 months at Chelmsford Crown Court yesterday, the sassy judge said:

"Your offence is thoroughly unpleasant and repeated breaches of this order using the most unpleasant of language and causing distress. It’s said custody would be distressing for you but it seems you never learn. This is the ninth time you have breached this order, the same offensive, racist comments and you don’t deserve another chance."

Judge Patricia Lynch QC 1 — Defendant 0."

Yay for Judge Lynch! Judge Judy would be so proud of you.

Although there has been a lot of support for Judge Lynch, a judicial investigation has been launched after complaints were made about her comments. Let's hope common sense prevails and the investigation finds this no-nonsense Judge "not guilty" of any wrongdoing.
In the pink and taking a stand against bullying.
Posted:Aug 17, 2016 3:41 pm
Last Updated:Sep 21, 2016 6:08 am

I'm posting this in support of HNW. To be clear, I'm not a member of the HNW group, but I don't support bullying in any way, shape or form.

Remember a few things, please.

Two wrongs don't make a right.

Never feed the troll.

Whining isn't attractive.

The blogs should be a place of fun. Not bitching and bullying.

The drama has brought out some very unattractive characteristics in some people on the blogs. Sad to see, and somewhat depressing to read to say the least.


Enjoy the rest of your week

Posted:Jun 22, 2016 12:34 pm
Last Updated:Jul 28, 2016 2:39 pm
Not mine.

The introduction below belongs to someone who just commented on some of my photographs.

I don't think I've ever read such utter BS on here. And, if you're a regular reader of my nonsense, you're aware that I deal with BS on the site often.

So without further ado, here is the oddest profile I've seen to date.

"This is our mates new profile, we created it for him. He has a very modest profile on a sister site to this, in which all his photos are cropped or blurred, saving his modesty.

Well courtesy of us finding his tablet, on this profile you have him fully naked. Think he took these for his ex.

Bare in mind he will get what ever messages you send on the other site.


Profile set up in somewhat of a hurry. More photos to follow. WEVE ADDED SOME CLOSE UP PHOTOS NOW

Hi, new here and looking to date. About to return to the country having been working abroad and as I said, looking to date etc. I have been single now for well over a year and it's time to get back into the game. Im quite reserved at first but open up when you get to know me. I have a physically active job and as such have tried hard to keep myself in shape.

Looking forward to chatting to whom ever pops onto my profile.


I'm not sure who is dumber. The owner of the profile or the "mates" who claim to have posted the naked pics of their mate.

No cam? Give me a break. If you have a tablet I think it's fair to assume there's a webcam on it.

You won't strip for anyone in person? Ehm, I think we've all seen from your pics that you do, in fact, strip.

Now, I know A F F has many other sites, but are they all connected to the point you don't know when a person is messaging you from X, Y or Z site

The profile supposedly belongs to a 38 year old man. If, and it's a big "if" I get it, but if his friends really did this without his knowledge, surely he's going to be really pissed off to say the least at his "friends" for doing this. I know I would be.

So, fake profile? Do you think the owner of the profile really doesn't know? Or that his "friends" are in fact the owner of the profile and it's all BS.

As for telling women not to tell the guy that we can all see him naked as the day he was born, please. Women talk, that's what we do!

Update: He/she/them sent me a message.

Hi, I did read your profile, honest. Face pic may follow if we get on.
27/6/2016 8:22 pm


Yeah, let me know how that works out for you.
27/6/2016 8:33 pm

27/6/2016 8:42 pm

What a dipstick I'll keep you informed, as I know you're all on the edge of your seats, hahaha, not!
Picture This
Posted:Jun 8, 2016 4:53 pm
Last Updated:Jan 11, 2017 11:49 am
It's so nice to see the site's photograph checkers - I'm not sure what their real job title is - are on top form and not allowing photographs that don't abide by their strict rules when it comes to posting profile pictures.

Like this one I posted earlier.

No, no, Holly, cropping out most of the pooch wasn't enough. So I was sent the obligatory "Nice try, but it didn't work!" email from customer service.

"We moved your recently uploaded photo to your Other Photos album. Other members will still be able to view it when they click on your profile, and feel free to move your photo to another album, add a description, or edit your display options.

This photo has been flagged as ineligible for your profile photo. The most common reason this happens is that someone who is not on your account is shown in the photo or in some way violates our Photo Guidelines."

Well, that told me! Suitably embarrassed, I crawled back under the rock from which I slithered out from earlier.

Then, a few moments ago, I was reminded of a profile I'd reported before when this person viewed me, and wondered to myself...just what the hell kind of numpty does this site employ that they allow the following?!

Did you spot the problem with this profile pic I know it's difficult, but take another look. Go on, you know you want to.

I admit to sniggering at him checking the "no" box for relocating. I'm not quite sure one can relocate from the other side.

I might look out the picture I have with me and a camel. That will show those good for nothing pic checkers I won't be messed with

Be careful what you wish for.
Posted:Apr 29, 2016 6:48 am
Last Updated:Jan 9, 2017 5:24 am
Meet Ostro7* from Charlotte, NC, USA, whose introduction reads as follows:

"Mature & Gentlemanly man, rough yet smooth....hard, yet soft, physically conditioned, intelligent, driven, self actualized, caring, sensitive to the needs of others, does not drink, does not do drugs or smoke, and no patience for phony people and lies, deception, and plain BS. Don't wast my time and we will be good.
My Ideal Person attractive, intelligent, sensual, good physical shape, of sound mind and spirit, sense of humor, does not take herself serious and able to laugh at ones self, just a few of the important attributes I prefer..."

All sounds lovely, doesn't it?

In reality, however, this is the real Ostro7*

I should point out that his profile states his age is 45. Hmm, memory problems perhaps? Oh, and he's married. So he's just an all-round good guy who likes to send abusive messages to strangers online. The women must be falling over themselves to get to him Form an orderly queue, ladies, no need to push!

Now, I personally don't care who has what information on their profiles. That's their business. Not looking for someone my age? I won't lose any sleep over it, and I certainly won't be sending you such a disgusting message about something that has zero impact on my life. I really have more to do with my time...as most normal people do.

So why is Ostro so bitter and feels the need to write such vile, disgusting things? He has a wife, albeit one who wouldn't fuck him with his dog's dick. He has 'friends' on the site and women who 'experience sexual encounters with him that last hours, complete with multiple orgasms.' So why would he care that I have no interest in older men?

It's certainly a mystery to me why people get so upset at what strangers say online Especially when it's something so trivial, something that has nothing to do with them, and will certainly have no impact on their life whatsoever.

Cheating on his wife certainly isn't keeping ole Ostro busy enough, so perhaps he should find a couple of new hobbies to occupy his time. That way, when he comes across a profile that he takes offence at for no reason whatsoever he'll have less time to think about his dog's dick.

So, I guess the moral of this story is indeed be careful what you wish for. Ostro wanted me to 'slam him' on my blog, and while he's made my blog I don't have any need to 'slam him'; he's done that all by himself.

Oh, and for the record I get lots of messages from older men who write to say they respect my choices, wish me well, throw in a nice compliment and leave it at that. That's called being mature and that's the example of being a gentleman. Ostro could certainly take a leaf out of their book.

Have a wonderful weekend, everyone!
What lies beneath.
Posted:Apr 12, 2016 2:51 pm
Last Updated:May 10, 2016 7:52 am

What is with this current obsession with beards? I just do not get it.

If you're good looking, why on earth would you want to hide that gorgeous face?

I know this might come as a surprise - given the blog, haha - but I am not a fan of the beard.

I particularly hate this look...

...and don't even get me started on overweight men trying to hide their extra chins by growing facial hair. You are fooling no one

Sorry, Jonas! I know you're as cute as a button under all that hair and, ehm, fat.

Oh, and not forgetting the good ole US of A's goatee on a fat guy beard I swear they're all related, but I haven't done any research into this, so don't quote me on that...yet. Don't forget the obligatory baseball hat, ya know, just to complete 'the look'.

Ladies, are you a fan? Or, like me, is it a turn off? Or maybe you don't mind either way. Guys, are you following the trend or did you start it? Or are you clean shaven and you agree with The Telegraph newspaper that "Men who sport beards are more likely to exhibit sexist and misogynistic behaviour than their clean shaven counterparts"? Whatever your views, I for one will be really happy when this trend comes to an end.

That being said, there are always exceptions. A few good men who can carry off the look without me wanting to drag them by the beard to a decent barber. kzoopair being one of them Yes, I know, you were all ready to give me a verbal beating And this pretty little thing...

...Ryan Gosling hiding that pretty boy look under a beard, what a waste.

So what's your pleasure? What say you? Beard, or no beard?

(Let's hope all the pics stay up!)
Site Ad
Posted:Nov 8, 2015 4:35 pm
Last Updated:May 26, 2016 6:03 pm
They say desperate times call for desperate measures. I think showing this ad on the site speaks to A F F's desperation for money.

Although my ads are disabled, this little gem showed up as I logged off the site earlier this evening.

The look on the girl's face makes me feel very uncomfortable to say the least. She looks distressed, and I don't think her expression would make any decent human being curious to see more.

If memory serves me correctly, FullOn4U complained on the Site Support Blog about a similar ad some time ago. I think the site removed the ad, but hopefully FullOn will remind us what happened with that particular ad.

The ad states that "girls on adult dating sites are outraged at this shocking video...", inferring men on adult dating sites enjoy it. Not all men will fuck anything with a pulse, and not all men think pictures like this are acceptable; adult site or not.

What do you think?

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