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Howdy3328 59F  
831 posts
3/16/2009 6:29 pm

OK, I will admit, although I found the AdultFriendFinder site by accident, I HAD wondered how and IF it worked.

I wrote my profile, accurate as possible, and wondered, waht if anything would ever happen.

GOODNESS< the sharks smell new blood in the water........I was overwhelmed.
Can there really be this many people looking for the same thing as I am??

This will be easy


People SAY anything........the beauty of the internet, we can hide behind our screens

People SAY what they THINK you want to hear.....oh my goodness, can we stop playing games

The stories I have heard from others, oh, some good laughs, for sure

I am just tired of ALL

the drama, the lead-ons, the flat out lies...

SO, I sit quietly behind my computer screen, and chat to my friends

there are no expectations there

I can be me, as I always have been

What would you expect differently from me?


keithcancook 65M
18358 posts
3/16/2009 8:01 pm

It's kinda like separating the wheat from the chaff.

At least I think it's like that. I've never actually separated wheat from chaff before.

blog on!

bobby_ray56 65M  
274 posts
3/16/2009 9:45 pm

Howdy Howdy,

Good thing you had no expectations. Setting them low can be asking a lot here. It does require a lot of patience. It is not alway easy, and it is ot always fun, but, given time it can work. There may be a few swings and misses, but at least we swung. You will never get more out of this than what you put in. That does not guarantee that what you put in will be propotional in any way to what you get. That part is totally wide fucking open jump ball type stuff.

I agree with Keith. There are a few grains of wheat, and a lot of chaff. I can safely admit to knowing that there is one other decent man on this site in the last 5 years. It can happen.

Everyone of the male persuasion complains about the ratios here and the odds of success. There is a good reason for that. They are not very good. In fact, they are about the same as any other online dating site. The odds on all of them suck. The insult to injury factor is higher here because the ladies are purportely sluttier. That has not been my experience. The pictures posted here may be more explicit, but it is the same ladies on the othere sites as well. If ya' wanna see em nekked, got a Gold Membership...

For what it is worth, I have met ladies here that were dreadful, mediocre, really good, and absolutely outstanding. I am not responding to complain. I have made some good friends along the way here as well. This was worth the time and effort. There were times when it was frustrating, and better times came asa well. It did take a while for that.

I may have to get a t-shirt made that says, "I met my second wife on AdultFriendFinder".

Hang in there kid, you will be fine. just keep digging. the light at the end of the tunnel is not always the train. When you find what you seek, it will be a done deal.

Thanks for posting!


hotnhrd332 46M

3/27/2009 10:41 pm


hell...if i knew what i wanted...maybe know what to expect....lol

actually....have only one expectaion.... i expect itll take longer than need be to get what i want. some things we can control...others....well....

mwminsalem 65M

3/31/2009 6:46 am

Nicely said

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