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Getting past limits
Posted:Sep 21, 2016 7:51 am
Last Updated:Oct 30, 2020 4:18 am

I love watching the younger brothers and sisters having naked fun together and by themselves. Some guys seem to last forever. How great to see women cumming again and again. Just love it. I haven't had all that much experience with sexplorations. Looking for patient, accepting partners who would enjoy my obvious passion and looks if they knew me. I like mutual fun without insistent expectations but a readiness to be pleased and to please. Somehow written words and photos and vids don't convey 3D lust, excitement, passion, depth. Sure there are limits--time, availability, interests, expectations--but isn't AdultFriendFinder about getting past those limits?
Older for younger for friends and fun
Posted:Aug 11, 2016 2:28 am
Last Updated:Oct 30, 2020 4:18 am

Men and women enjoy my sensual body rubs as much as I do. I enjoy all ages really and these days especially younger people. There's something inquisitive and yearning about younger people enjoying older men. Maybe it's reassurance that aging can be satisfying and fulfilling. Pleasure is important at all ages as well as possible. I'm more interested in pleasuring than being pleasured by men and women. Hygiene is so important in reducing anxiety about getting an STD. Sexual activity when safe and sane is so healthy: comforting and stimulating as well. I am passionate and also respectful.

I used to be able to host but caring for my wife of many years no longer makes that possible. She is well aware of my sexual interests and needs and we agree to talk about them no longer. I'm not looking for another spouse, just the pleasure of women and men similarly inclined. Corresponding is great. Meeting--even better.
How we show affection...
Posted:Jun 29, 2016 10:52 am
Last Updated:Oct 30, 2020 4:18 am

Talking and writing are great, imo. But showing affection physically feels even greater to me. When I read what you write or listen to what you say, I often smile gladly, recognizing that something in what you're saying/writing is like what want to say and write. When I see you face to face and touch you and you touch me, I just want to touch you more. And more than just touch happens, well I hope so anyway. There's not only oral sounds but touch and taste, too--no tongue lashing but lots of licking here and there, and more there. It feels so good. That moment is so flexible and fluid and fun, it's a deposit in my bank of memories. Even if it doesn't happen just that way again with you, it doesn't disappear. That's my idea of affection, the good stuff of being alive.
Having fun
Posted:May 3, 2016 2:28 am
Last Updated:Jun 27, 2016 6:01 am

Do we need fun with others? I do. I love seeing people happy, laughing, having a good time without being demanding, coercive, or dramatic. Good food, easily digested and just passing through is relatively simple to understand. Then there's exercise: well, why not sexercise? Sure be safe and sane and respectful but butts and tits and pussies are such motivations to be considerate and passionate and healthy. I love oral pleasures, especially tits and cocks like fruit at harvest time. HMU, y'all
Gentle Affections
Posted:Apr 1, 2016 4:47 am
Last Updated:Oct 30, 2020 4:18 am

I love the thrust and power of orgasms, the pleasure of being naked and the thrill of satisfying skin hunger with others, the bonding of touch, taste and smell in addition to the lust of sight and sounds. Also, I love hanging out naked with no other agenda than to enjoy each other together or separately. There is an animal affection that's possible between us, much as it is expressed openly for our beloved pets. We have language for expressing our affections that doesn't have to be possessive, domineering, jealous or judgmental. Seems to me we've spent too much time hurling words to hurt others rather than to heal our differences, our desires, our possibilities for consensual affection.

I don't like labels. Much prefer labia ... and oral pleasures beyond talking.
Sweet scent and taste of sex
Posted:Mar 16, 2016 1:15 am
Last Updated:Oct 30, 2020 4:18 am

Exploring my own body has been a treat to my nose and tongue--just smell and taste so good. The touch of my nipples sends pleasure to my cock and hits the dopamine button. We each have unique smell and taste--kissing, licking, sucking. Getting intimate enough with another to enjoy these pleasures is worth the frustrations of merely viewing, flirting, hotlisting, friending, corresponding. Real connections are the best in my experience. I find the adage true that for all our differences we also have so much in common. I'd love to hear if others love smelling and tasting as well as looking and listening to heavy breathing!
Kissing, Licking, playing
Posted:Feb 2, 2016 4:12 am
Last Updated:Jul 2, 2016 2:06 pm

I crave sucking tits. So much fun. Love smiling and kissing and naked play. Just love giving pleasure, listening to the sounds of heavy breathing, the taste and scent of pussy, the comfort of foreplay and the explosion of orgasm. Sharing is so much fun.
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Naked hugs
Posted:Jan 19, 2016 2:58 pm
Last Updated:Mar 12, 2016 2:02 am

Is it possible to be together and have fun, laugh, touch, get acquainted and see where it goes? I think we all expect that being together automatically means wham bam thank you ma'am or man. But what if the unspoken pressure to perform, the sense of insistent expectations for a great "performance" don't have to be in the mix? It's okay to be shy, to be yourself and just be together for the fun of being together. I'm looking for friends who may or may not become special friends. What are you looking for?
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Playing and Pleasure
Posted:Dec 21, 2015 9:08 am
Last Updated:Oct 30, 2020 4:18 am

Who else thinks that playing and pleasure are good ways to relieve stress, comfort others, express affection and lower aggression? Seems to me interacting sanely and safely would be worth educating our young people so that they might reach older age with greater enjoyment and less trauma. We could all be happier than we are, don't you think? Perhaps you're happy enough but doesn't that make you want to see others happy as well? I want to share my healthy happiness with others similarly inclined.
Posted:Dec 4, 2015 1:58 am
Last Updated:Jan 6, 2016 1:58 am

Comfortable touch, taste, fragrance go so well with cocks and tits and pussy. What a great way to reduce tension, share affection and heal many life stresses. Pleasure is such a needlessly hidden treasure. Getting acquainted slowly is fine but why hide the goodies under bushels of clothes or words? Sucking is such a pleasure.
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Changing pleasures
Posted:Nov 27, 2015 1:48 am
Last Updated:Feb 4, 2016 1:59 am
Labels limit naked needs. We wrap our bodies in clothes and clothe our minds in words. That's lucky when we want to hide our bodies, to pretend we are someone else's design or fashion. We cloak our spirit with words that deceive the lust or love we want to share. Who are "we"? Ordinary people shackled to conventions and taboos about sex. But also aren't we shackled to taboos about spirituality and the rainbow of beliefs that make sense to us (and which may change over time).

To me AdultFriendFinder is about letting down those conventions, taking off those taboos like undressing before showering. Naked pleasure is really simple. Without clothes or words it's pointless to pretend we are what we aren't.

I'm looking for warm-hearted friends to share naked pleasures. I've found some terrific people on this site and loved getting together. Not just into bodies but not into drama, dependencies, insistent expectations either. Do others feel this way, too?
Soothing pleasures
Posted:Nov 22, 2015 4:17 am
Last Updated:Oct 30, 2020 4:18 am

I like the fantasy of sexplorations and the reality even more, rare though they are! Touch is so important. When the chem's right it invites curiosity and interaction. It doesn't have to end in orgasm but it could. I'm looking for people without insistent expectations but who desire sharing pleasure.
Garden Pleas
Posted:Nov 19, 2015 4:16 am
Last Updated:Nov 20, 2015 1:10 am

Hi everyone. I like to think of my body and spirit as a garden: earthy, richly fertile, fragrant, colorful, nurturing. I'm pleading for other gardeners to get acquainted, share "produce" and pleasure. Naked touch, hugs, play without insistent expectation seems so healthful to me. Sure our bodies change with time, but our spirit doesn't, or at least doesn't have to. I welcome correspondence, getting acquainted, maybe more if we're mutually interested. In the garden of me I offer refreshing food of good relationship.

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