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Comfort and Calm from Pleasure vs Anxiety, Fear from Violence  

Ianpoman 79M  
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11/4/2016 2:49 am
Comfort and Calm from Pleasure vs Anxiety, Fear from Violence

Does it seem strange to you that sex in our culture is taboo or shameful or guilt-ridden for so many people, while violence in entertainment, sports, not to mention war, is so accepted or taken for granted or fascinating? Touch and pleasure bring out the best in me: more compassion, willingness to help others, less guarded and more generous. On the other hand, fears of disease or involuntary domination or violation of decency and dignity make me tense up, suspicious, stingy. I wish we could embrace our various sexualities--that seems to me one of the greatest features of this website--AdultFriendFinder. Yes, safety, respect, hygiene are essential for genuine pleasure. At the same time, I wish I didn't feel like our culture accepts and even worships and adores violence and hostility and incivility as it seems to me we do. When the beauty of pleasure is available why is there such ugly violence?

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