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Loneliness Comfort Friendship  

Ianpoman 76M  
76 posts
12/1/2016 3:28 am
Loneliness Comfort Friendship

I wonder if you agree: a lot of us on AdultFriendFinder and other similar sites are lonely for the kind of comfort and friendship that is more than sexual release but less than full strings attached commitment. Perhaps like me you are committed to a partner whose health prevents sexual intimacy any more. You give comfort and help as best you can. You don't want to hurt your partner who may not be at all open your sexual needs/wants. But what do you do? Shut down your passion? That doesn't work for me. Live with debilitating depression with medication maybe? I don't like side effects of meds. Watch porn? It helps me. Correspond with any willing correspondent? Yes, indeed. Jerk off? You bet. Sublimate? A whole lot.

My sexual passion is central to my self understanding and joy in living. I am fit, clean, healthy, exercise regularly, eat well, play Bach Goldberg Variations, work on the Rachmaninoff 3rd piano concerto cadenza first movement, still learn new music, read, correspond a lot, give and receive massages whenever possible. Perhaps that's all there is. But a friend with benefits would be great as long as it was mutually satisfying. What do you think? What do you do?

coranimuscorcill 55F  
801 posts
8/5/2017 11:03 am

Yes, I agree with a lot of your post.
The circumstances of many people here are similar to yours. None is easy to navigate day to day. An authentic life longed for seems only a dream for most.
Here, without the societal and/or self imposed pressures, many of us find that these less than three dimensional friendships bring forth more honesty than decades long real time friendships.

You're invited to CorPlay anytime.
Kinky-ish coffee or before bed time fun in favorite chat rooms.
Life is too short not to laugh!
Peace, light, love

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