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Icould 61M
270 posts
1/28/2020 11:41 am
So tell me it is my imagination.


So tell me it is my imagination.
I have hung around this place for far to long now and I have seen things change. The Blogs went from having a lot of creative and interesting writers to having less and cut and paste became popular.

I still miss the writing and hope those that still hammer all the interesting posts keep up their great work. There have always been flame wars and people who don't see eye to eye as with any large group there are differences of opinion. This difference sometimes creates interesting discussions and sometime wars of words and worse.

The thing that really has bothered me of late is the lack of trust and that lack although it seems mostly deserved is still an unpleasant thing. Has it always been this bad and I have had my heads in the sand? That very possible.

The ladies here for the most part are hit on so hard and so often it is surprising any of them stay and not surprising that when they message back it is often a bit harsher and more jaded then what I feel I deserve. Perhaps my skin has grown to thin for this sort of place which causes me to type thing that really don't always spread sunshine and flowers either. That is not my intent but sometimes my reaction, sorry for just adding to the problem.

I will continue to enjoy those here that make me think, smile or laugh. Trying to expand that small group just seems to wear me down these days.

Enjoy your blog and those around you. If you are cheerful, thoughtful, need some one to type at, bored, feel free to send a positive comment my way.

ohh yea and with the theme of the site if you live near by and we happen to hit it off perhaps there is a coffee in the future as well.

There you go
That's all and none of it tragic.


Icould 61M
3756 posts
1/28/2020 11:42 am

I am guess the swipe society will pass me by.

There you go
That's all and none of it tragic.


1seeking1 54F
3029 posts
1/28/2020 12:52 pm

Sadly I think that most internet sites are similar. You are not alone, seems to be getting worse. Wish i knew of another way to meet people, still interesting and entertaining here.


Icould replies on 1/28/2020 2:25 pm:
I always thought of the Blogs here as a bit of an escape from the rest of the site. While still sexy and open minded not always based on the idea of a quick pickup.

I guess there is still some of that here.

superbjversion2 65F  
19777 posts
1/28/2020 1:21 pm

It's not your imagination. I got totally fed up with this place over the weekend and turned my profile off. I knew wouldn't be able to comment on blogs but I could still read. I had trouble finding anything that wasn't memes or just pictures. It's like FB with dicks and tits around here any more.

Around here, my odds are good but the goods are odd


Icould replies on 1/28/2020 2:26 pm:
BJ You can't leave. If the few people I enjoy on here where to leave then what?

Tmptrzz 57F  
78087 posts
1/28/2020 2:08 pm

I know things have changed so much here lately, I miss writing my erotic adventures stories. But I don't have as many readers of those as I would like. I think the more visual stuff has become much more popular. I am showing more visual on my blogs as well.

With my current recipe blogs a lot of copying and pasting, but I don't think many realize how much time and effort is put into them. You want to make sure they are most appealing to the watchers who watch our blogs.

For me I wish there were more members who write great blogs like you do. As there is always a great read to be found her. I hope you enjoy the rest of your day..

Just your average every day run of the mill nana here!!!


Icould replies on 1/28/2020 2:29 pm:
Tmp I know you still put an effort into your blog and I am sure others do too but I would rather read your stories.

I must admit I don't spend as much time here as I once did so I end up read less posts as well.

redrockrascal 61M
21399 posts
1/28/2020 3:04 pm

It seems like a good number of people who wrote things, vs. just pics, have left. Reasons, among others, being . . . in no particular order . . .
the blog pics only thing (kinda boring),
the dick pics thing,
the distrust thing,
the disrespect things,
the poorly maintained site things,
the diminishing features things

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Icould replies on 1/28/2020 3:46 pm:
It use to seem there was more of a coming and going. You would loose a good blog but a new one of interest would show up.

japaneseass 52F  
49053 posts
1/28/2020 7:43 pm

I love READING one's carnal desire...but sadly, I am not much of a writer, so I can't write. I wish I could!!! But I am a very visual person, hence my blog is very visual. But again, that doesn't mean I don't enjoy reading one's inner erotic thoughts, or stories. In fact, I used to enjoy camming with one on one basis, and there were lot of desire expressed during the session. Many men would made me cum, without even laying a finger on me. Now, that is a pure art.

We used to have a lot of writers on the blogs, but I don't see much any more. As the blog current shift to more and more visual blogs, they all complained how boring the blogs has become, and left. If the current blog trend is boring, they should have written more. But alas, perhaps their goal was to become top bloggers. To me, then, why wouldn't you write more? If they like writing, they should write, not quitting.

Recently as last year, I had a great male blogger whom I used to enjoy reading, but he seems like he left. I don't know why. Perhaps, he just lost his interest or got tired of too many dramas on this site.


Icould replies on 1/29/2020 9:00 am:
People come and go as our lives change and evolve. I think that will always happen.

The writers still write but there is also a critical mass that is required to inspire and encourage each other. Once that is gone it is a slippery slope.

I don't consider myself much of a writer either but I do enjoy reading others posts, erotica or day to day life.

There are many who strive for reader/viewership here and their position on the list is important to them and that can be a fine goal as well.

There are some like yourself who have more photos on their blogs

Icould 61M
3756 posts
1/29/2020 7:58 am

People come and go as our lives change and evolve. I think that will always happen.

The writers still write but there is also a critical mass that is required to inspire and encourage each other. Once that is gone it is a slippery slope.

I don't consider myself much of a writer either but I do enjoy reading others posts, erotica or day to day life.

There are many who strive for reader/viewership here and their position on the list is important to them and that can be a fine goal as well.

There are some like yourself who have more photos on their blogs you use photos of yourself and have always worked that way. I am sure there is a continued effort to take and post all of those photos.

There you go
That's all and none of it tragic.


RyuFujin 52F  
1126 posts
1/29/2020 4:48 pm

I write, somewhat... but do run into huge blocks where my Muse just flat out refuses to inspire me. I mostly comment on other's blogs, and on occasion post Fortunes from cookies if I've had lunch at a Chinese joint, which some seem to enjoy.

I do have one erotic story of sorts; it's one of my earlier posts about a year ago. But haven't had a good inspiration since.


"Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.


Icould replies on 1/29/2020 10:05 pm:
I will need to have a read someday.
A varied blog can be interesting.

Jules1590 51F
6490 posts
1/29/2020 6:02 pm

All valid points. You're not wrong at all, the blog scene has definitely changed. I think you're a fine writer and enjoy your posts.
i've often pondered on why people blog? The motivation for me is to share something that inspired me to write. I have an insatiable curiosity of people and the world at large, so usually quite curious about their responses.
I think a few people here have varying and unrealistic expectations of the site. Some have not learned what the site is about, no matter how many years they've been here and still get aggravated by it. That's wasted energy and unnecessary negativity. If its not a nice entertaining distraction, why do it?


Icould replies on 1/29/2020 10:07 pm:
Well said I do come here because I have enjoyed for the most part.
What is this site about? Sex is what a lot would say but I am not sure that applies to a lot of folks.

RyuFujin 52F  
1126 posts
1/30/2020 9:42 pm

This is the story. Obviously, it's NSW/Not Safe for Work.
Love Letter

"Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.


Icould replies on 2/3/2020 8:29 am:
thanks for sharing it

Vixn_Vella 45F  
14918 posts
2/4/2020 6:48 am

I've been writing on here off and on for about 10 years and I too have noticed. Everyone has their own personal preference of what they like to read/see on here. I think it just takes a bit of digging to find those gems!

My stuff is generally ridiculous stories based on my self deprecation of what my life is. It appeals to a lot of people but if you're looking for straight up porn pics (which a lot of people do) then I'm definitely not the blog to read. I like real life stuff, amusing things.

Case in point, I just literally clicked on yours so I'm going to dive right in and see what it's all about

I have no effing clue where I'm going and what I'm saying Vixn_Vella

Its not me....It's you.

And no...we cannot be friends


Icould replies on 2/4/2020 9:00 am:
Going to have to have a look I think

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