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Imthatgirl1122 39F
1459 posts
9/21/2020 1:56 pm

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not my lucky day


so I've been talking with one guy for couple of weeks. he told that he's looking for relationship, which I immediately apologise because I'm looking for a different thing (and I don't think more than yrs age gap is suitable for that too).but he insisted that he was opened with the idea of casual fun. I said alright. but it's funny because he didn't asked meet right away for sex. he spent couple of weeks trying get know ... I did along.

so I met mr cutie today. he's a good looking guy but more to cute, like a baby face kinda guy. taller than me with light brown hair, no facial hair, and smell amazing. I arrived like mins earlier and he already waiting for downstairs. hmfirst sign of gentleman. I love that. but as we went his place I could tell that he was nervous. I'm thinkin shit. Gotta take it slow then. I'm trying read him so I could decide my next move.

he sat in the bed and I was standing in front of him. took his hands and put it in my body slowly, let him touched over. I could feel his hands in my thigh, rubbing it under my dress and went rub my pussy and my boobs then he grabbed my face and started kiss . he lay down in bed with top, still kissing while my hand rub his hard dick. then I took off his t-shirt and shorts then I started to lick him everywhere. and I done it slowly, take my time. he really did smell good everywhere, I was like enjoying my fave lollipop. found out that he loved it with I licked his ass too.

he undressed me and started to kiss me everywhere. he rubbed my pussy. I'm soaking wet down there. for some time, we masturbate each other while keep kissing. it's pretty hot and I'm really<b> horny </font></b>but I could feel there's a bit awkwardness in the air like he didn't know what to do next. or maybe it's just my feeling. so I kiss his body all over while stroke his dick at the same time. I'm about to suck his dick again while suddenly he grabbed me and he cum all over my boobs.

he pulled me to his arms to cuddle me with his cum between us. okay, I'm thinking we'll have some rest then. 5 mins later he started to with my clit. yeah, still wet down there. and I played with his dick and tried suck it again..slowly. and nope, he couldn't get hard. I was like damn it. he was so young but I know it's different with every guy. so we stopped masturbate each other. and just talked.

while cuddled, he asked ...do you wanna come over again soon? me still sexually frustrated answered okay (while remembering that in life I'll try anything twice before decided it's worth it or no).
so I got home, with him still texting me making sure that ill come visit him again. I swear he was too cute. I like that part.
let's see, if I do then I need to use new strategy to make it extra slow.

couldn't believe this happened...but hey sometime I win, sometimes I lose. c'est la vie lol.

Imthatgirl1122 39F
1802 posts
9/21/2020 2:00 pm

still frustrated...


idblueswoman 62F  
773 posts
9/21/2020 2:44 pm

Did you really get naked with some guy the first time you met him? Granted you have been talking awhile, just risky in my book. Hell I won't even meet for coffee right now.


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 9/22/2020 2:13 am:
I agree with you, we are in pandemic. but normally yeah, as long as we talked and exchanged picture then I'll have sex in first meeting. I tried to be careful always. thanks

LovesYourMess 36M
16 posts
9/21/2020 2:49 pm

He should have at least eaten your pussy out. It's a shame to let all that delicious wetness go to waste!


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 9/22/2020 2:14 am:
I know right, but he's nervous so I don't want to make him more nervous haha. thank you

ChuckUFarlie2020 46M
98 posts
9/21/2020 2:59 pm

Welcome to what it's like getting blue balls


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 9/22/2020 2:14 am:
shit feeling haha... better luck next time for me. thanks.

LoopyLoopyEmpty1 27M  
24 posts
9/21/2020 3:41 pm

Well (.)(.) At least your the nice woman who told every body about his Dilemma lol . But that sounded really special of a moment. Next time have a plan be to clean up your wetness. You have to dry the dishes be for you pack the away .


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 9/22/2020 2:15 am:
it started as a really sexy moment haha... better luck next time I guess. thanks

Leegs2012 47M
56881 posts
9/21/2020 3:43 pm

Well, I would try it one more time. If at that time you are not satisfied, then move on my friend. I wish I could be naked with you!!...even after I have cum a couple of times, I still be going down on you until you were completely satisfied.


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 9/22/2020 2:16 am:
oohhhh you're my kinda guy then

lookin4herMI 48M
140 posts
9/21/2020 3:55 pm

Really idblueswoman take that negative bullshit somewhere else!


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 9/22/2020 2:16 am:
oh thank you. my hero

1seeking1 55F
3256 posts
9/21/2020 4:17 pm

Could he have pleased you with finger or tongue. I learned while back to bring my toy and if need be go to bathroom to finish myself, as pointed out pelvic congestion quite painful.


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 9/22/2020 2:17 am:
he did try, the moment was gone I guess. I went home and finished myself thanks for stopping by

bow2mistree 32F
7 posts
9/21/2020 4:45 pm

really not your lucky day


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 9/22/2020 2:17 am:
I know

Massass1963 57M
414 posts
9/21/2020 7:46 pm

One thing most women seem to not understand, and maybe you as well, is that men DO get nervous too. For women nervousness often prevents arousal and orgasm. For men it often accelerates it.


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 9/22/2020 2:18 am:
I totally understand that. that's why I planned to meet again. he's such a nice guy. thanks

author51 57F  
102822 posts
9/21/2020 11:29 pm

    Quoting Massass1963:
    One thing most women seem to not understand, and maybe you as well, is that men DO get nervous too. For women nervousness often prevents arousal and orgasm. For men it often accelerates it.
We all get nervous for sure and it effects both sexes differently for sure..

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 9/22/2020 2:19 am:
I agree with you Joy, I'm still nervous too sometimes.

DoctorBooty 39M  
6377 posts
9/22/2020 4:46 am

Was he very young? He sounds inexperienced.

Probably a guy who it would've been better to go on a date with first, he's not used to meeting for just sex.

I need to come teach these men for you.


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 9/22/2020 7:24 am:
yeah he's very young. i assume that too.. but we didn't move too fast, been talking for weeks and sexting. my mistake. should've thought about it sooner...

profcoquin27bis 56M
3475 posts
9/22/2020 4:59 am

try again with is tongue, finder and toys


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 9/22/2020 7:24 am:
I sure will..

Massass1963 57M
414 posts
9/22/2020 8:51 am

    Quoting Massass1963:
    One thing most women seem to not understand, and maybe you as well, is that men DO get nervous too. For women nervousness often prevents arousal and orgasm. For men it often accelerates it.
After having read a few responses from others here. It seems most men like to use it as an opportunity to state how much better you'd have been with them. Possibly true...maybe not.
Regardless, my strongest advice is not to mention it at all to him. Hopefully he isn't reading about himself on this blog. Once a man knows you are "evaluating" his "performance" it will very likely be a self-fulfilling prophecy for you... he will undoubtedly become self-conscious which simply makes it worse, not better.
Put the shoe on the other foot and think about if he had written about you not getting wet enough...or unable to climax? In the end, if a man cums before a women is the issue he came too fast? Or, the women too slow? Who is the final authority on what is the "right amount of time?" Standards are often imposed to make others conform to a certain standard or to make them feel inadequate. The medical community will do such to justify selling their "products", whatever they might be.


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 9/23/2020 1:28 am:
for me sex is all about communication. ill never say something to hurt other people's feeling purposely, rather I will talk with them. and if a guy wrote about me about me can't climax or not wet enough then that's their right. I would love to read it though so then we can talk about how to fix it. see, what I wrote here is not a judging or shaming other people, it's simply talking about my experience and what can I do to maximise the experience. sex is all about learning about what our body can give. no standard at all. thanks tho.

Jules1590 52F
6831 posts
9/23/2020 7:17 pm

Poor guy, definitely nervous and inexperienced. He was probably super aroused to have such a sexually exciting woman in front of him.

Communication is key and he needs to feel like a man. One suggestion is to be open and playful, put him at ease. Definitely talk about it. Sex chats ahead of time, have him cum before he meets you. It will take the edge off for him. Some guys think they need to save it... Nah.

hmmm... and let him play with you, go down on you first and get you off. He'll feel like a hero and he'll be ready to get down to business. It would be fun to be the Mistress and teach him. Good luck my dear.


Imthatgirl1122 replies on 9/24/2020 1:15 am:
oh wow you are amazingly sexy. thanks for the advise, I definitely will do that. super slow and talk about how to pleasure each other. really look forward to that. thanks..

69ereatwetpussy 58M
3948 posts
9/24/2020 5:37 am

You did nothing wrong
it happens the build up
he knew it would happen it's
That what you felt
I was with some I really want to make love with
She got me hard wanted doggy stile
It's been along time since I had suck my cock into another pussy
And as soon as my head touch her wet lips I cummed
I felt so bad for her
She wanted to get fuckn
But in the back of my head u knew it might go down this way
So try again it was your first meet
It could have been nerves antishaption or he has a short fuse
let him eat you first that's what I would do with you
Make you cum with my tongue
then my fingers
Then you grab his hard cock
slide it into your wet hot pussy
And fuck him .......
XoxoxooxThomas


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