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Why We All Like Cock Sucking
Posted:Jan 4, 2021 8:26 am
Last Updated:Feb 13, 2021 6:34 pm
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By saying , I mean women and men. Yes, most men enjoy Sucking a Cock. It’s not something only women enjoy.

Cock Sucking is simply an act of pleasure EVERYONE has a taste for. No pun intended. It is as much a part of a sexual relationship as kissing, touching and fondling.

Even men who mostly have sex with women and enjoy eating her pussy have told me they love sucking the outer pussy lips deep into their mouth and stimulating them with their tongue. Similar to sucking a small penis I guess.

I have also asked men who like to suck pussy lips if they would rather be sucking a cock and somewhat surprisingly most men have said YES.

So, why is it that EVERYONE likes, or wishes they could, Sucking Cock?
Here’s my theory;

Of the 5 Senses we have, Cock Sucking can satisfy most of them.

SIGHT - When we have a Cock in our mouth, we never have a closer, better look at it. We clearly see it as it goes rhythmically in and out.

HEARING - We can hear our own sucking sound plus the moans of pleasure of the man we are sucking.

TOUCH - Not necessarily just the sense of touch you get from your fingers tips but the sense of touch you feel with your lips and tongue. The lips are even more sensitive than your finger tips.

TASTE - When Sucking a Cock, if you do it right, the cock produces PreCum naturally . Mixed with our own saliva, this PreCum has a unique and noticeable taste.

SMELL - Not much here unless you can detect the natural aroma of a clean human body.

Combining everything all the senses feel at the same time is truly satisfying and creates a feeling like no other. Add in the emotional content and it’s impossible not to find Cock Sucking a total pleasure.

A note in regards to a Transsexual Cock Sucker, it signifies we have completed our journey into being accepted as a desirable woman. A woman a man will share his given beauty and seed with.

One last comment on a personal note. Of the men I have had sex with, the far, far majority have sucked my small Penis. Some more that others and with more vigor but most of them have tasted me.

In closing, The Cock is King and will ALWAYS BE.

Jan
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New for 2021
Posted:Dec 5, 2020 12:57 pm
Last Updated:Jan 26, 2021 2:12 am
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Every year the dictionary companies add new words and phases that people have started using in everyday English. Many of these new words are derived from the technology industry however, many of these new words come from the Social Media world as people find new ways to describe an old process (e.g., rub one out) or to add a current tone to an specific word (e.g., Ecoanxiety).

I have put together a list of my own new words I plan to submit to the Oxford English Dictionary Review Board for consideration;

eJANulate - When I cause a man to ejaculate.

Jantasy - When a man has a fantasy involving me.

Janacise - Verb of Jantasy.

Janoff - When a man Jacks Off over me. Personalized form of Rub one out.

JanAss - 1. A concatenation of Jan’s Ass
2. Onomatopoeia of Janice


Januation - When a man moves up to experience sex with a Transsexual like Janice.

Janny - A more precise description of a Tranny like Jan.

JanLand - Magical place where dreams come true.

Jandrogynous - Having both parts of Female and Male Secondary Sexual characteristics (i.e.,Boobs and Penis).

Finally,

Jantastic! - Exclamation after sex with Jan.

Jan
Just thinking this morning with coffee and Cognac.
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Sex and Politics
Posted:Sep 24, 2020 8:33 am
Last Updated:Dec 29, 2020 9:21 am
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I can’t think of NO better way end a developing relationship or a sexual partnership than introducing Politics in the equation. This, , is the single dumbest thing some people do that will totally sour a relationship.

I recently was in a conversation with a man, a man I had talked to many times before, that was showing real promise. I truly had an interest in him. I found him handsome, in very good shape, an interesting conversationalist, and we shared many of the same interests.

We were at the point of finalizing plans for our first sexual encounter when from out of the blue, he made a Political statement. What he said was so foreign to what we had been discussing, I was stunned to the point of ending the conversation and thus ending all plans for meeting him.

Without going into the details of what he said, I will just say It doesn’t matter his political leanings. I really don’t care what they are. But to go from describing what he would do to my ASS in one breath, to thanking some politician for making it possible, shows my ASS was not at the center of his thinking. My ASS seemed to have become his avenue for stating his political beliefs. Disgusting!

I was prepared to share my body in every passionate way with him and he wasn’t so excited by the thought of having me in any sexual way he wanted, that he couldn’t focus just on that for a few minutes without bringing something totally unrelated.

Just a warning to everyone, If you ever, ever mention anything in any way Political to me, you will be immediately removed from my “To Do” list and banned forever from entering JanLand.

I’m not being Egotistical. I’m just saying Sex deserves your full attention. It is not something to at. BTW, that’s another thing men say that is a complete turn off, “Let’s get together and ”, like SEX is some kind of game.

Guys, don’t show your insensitivity and lack of maturity. Give a woman your complete focus. You will be Rewarded, in the END.

Jan

PS, I still can’t believe I almost had sex with this jerk.
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The Advantages Transsexuals Have Over Females
Posted:Sep 22, 2020 10:56 am
Last Updated:Feb 8, 2021 9:07 pm
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Beside the many obvious differences between Transsexuals and natural Females, there are several not so obvious advantages Transexuals have.

Lets take a quick look at the more apparent disparities;

Transsexuals don’t get Pregnant. We’ll never show a year after having sex with a man asking for support.

Transsexuals never have the monthly time when females usually abstain from sex. It’s just too unpleasant a “Period” for females to have sex.

We don’t have Headaches that deny men sex. I checked the medical history of this and found no history of Transsexual Headaches. NEVER.

Transsexual do not have Menopause. Theoretically, we will want to have sex forever. We will never suffer Vaginal Dryness and the painful intercourse that it causes.

Now, I want to explain some Transsexual attributes that I believe gives us the real advantage over the ordinary female;

Appearance - I have written about this before and truly believe this is one of the major factors that attract men to Transsexuals. We take the time and effort to always look our best when with a man. Looking beautiful is the most common goal all Transsexual have before meeting with a man or even another Transsexual. We take great pride in being as sexually desirable as we can be.
We spend hours getting every aspect of our appearance just right before a date. The process of becoming as beautiful as we can be is almost foreplay to us. We become aroused becoming glamorous.
We never just grab a shower and flop on our back for sex. Our attention to every detail when preparing for a date is what we enjoy.

Appreciation - As Transsexuals, we know that not every man chooses to date us. For various reasons (not understandable to me) some men just never desire to spend an evening of pure passion with a Transsexual.
Therefore, the men that court us are very Appreciated by us.
Men that respect and admire Transsexuals are the true reason we became Transsexuals. We need the attention of men to justify our existence and satisfy our feminine emotions.

Understanding - Since all Transsexual spent part of their life as a man, we have a better understanding of men. We use to live among them so we have a greater understanding of what men want from a woman.

We have spent time in the boys locker room and know what they talk about and how they think. We know men can just see a pair of breasts or a nice ass and nothing else. We know they don’t always think in terms like emotional connection or mental compatibility. They just see women as sexual objects for the most part.

Since we know this, we are willing to be just that, a Sexual Object. That’s what men want and that is what we are here for. We’re not looking to find a husband, unless he a real Daddy of course.

It’s OK guys, you can Find Us, Feel Us, Fuck Us and Forget Us. We accept that.

Size Matters - Not the size you may be thinking of but our personal size similarities. We are often somewhat taller than most females, closer a man’s size. I have heard from many Transsexuals that men who date Transsexuals will venture into the world of Crossdressing with her. This is not really unexpected to me.
These men have a desire to also be beautiful, even for just a few hours. A Transsexual about the same size can share her underwear and clothing to give a man the same feelings we have when we dress. Some of these men will go so far as to become Sub-Dominate and begin to dream of being fucked by another man.

The FWB Thing - I have never been with a man that did not want to with my little Penis. Although I don’t have much feeling down there anymore, men are fascinated with another Penis and can’t stop wanted it in some way. It has been Kissed, Sucked and even jerked. Things they can’t get from a female.
Yes, we are the complete package. We have everything men desire. We have so much more than a female can offer. We ARE the answer to men’s dreams, their dreams.

Female know they can’t compete with us sexually so they refuse accept us. They insult us, they demean us, they slander us. They will never understand why men prefer us and love us. They don’t and never will respect, appreciate and admire a man’s cock like we do.

Transsexuals should be Proud. We are the better Women.

Jan
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I JUST DON’T UNDERSTAND the DILDO
Posted:Sep 11, 2020 11:49 am
Last Updated:Dec 29, 2020 9:20 am
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I see and get a lot of pictures from people of all types, Men, Women, Transsexuals, that have something, usually some sort of Dildo, inserted somewhere in their body. For a long time, I have wondered why?

I’m told a Dildo is used to bring Sexual pleasure to a person but I really wonder if that’s true.

I confess, I have never used a Dildo, or any other “Toy” so I am coming from completely not knowing if they work or not. I have no experience with any artificial device used to stimulate sexual intercourse.

First of all, how can someone using one of these toys NOT know it’s artificial and not real and still get sexually excited. Isn’t that like licking an empty spoon and thinking you satisfying your hunger? It just seems impossible to me to somehow imagine being sexually satisfied by a piece of plastic no matter how it’s shaped or colored.

Second, I believe a Dildo has to be manipulated, held or shoved in by a person’s own hand. Doesn’t that distract from the objective of being pleasured. How can you provide the necessary action for a Dildo to do its intended purpose and not realized you are doing it to yourself. I just don’t know how this works.

Sites like this one are for meeting real people with the prospect of having a sexual affair. So how does a picture of someone with a Dildo advance that objective. Does a Dildo in your ass mean you want to meet real people? Why would you need to be with another person if can do it all to yourself? I’m confused.

I am one who believes the human body is a beautiful thing. It is natures most perfect creation. If you want to have sex, you should not have to advertise that by having a Dildo stuck in your body. Show your body, that’s what people really want to see.

I do accept the fact that many either won’t or can’t find sexual pleasure with another person. There are many, many legitimate reasons. However, If a person can’t spend quality time with another person, I fail to see how a Dildo is a viable option.

Nature gave us hands that are attached to arms that are just the right length to reach all parts of our bodies. That’s all that was needed for thousands of find real self stimulation and self satisfaction. Civilization and society advanced without rubber devices. We did OK for centuries with only natural means cure our loneliness times.

I am especially curious about by Crossdressers and Transvestites who feel the need so show us what they can do with a Dildo. We know. We don’t need a demonstration of how you have sex.

I encourage everyone respect your body. Just as you are careful what you eat and drink, please be careful of what else you put in your body.

Jan
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I JUST DON’T UNDERSTAND the DILDO
Posted:Sep 11, 2020 11:49 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2021 9:12 am
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I see and get a lot of pictures from people of all types, Men, Women, Transsexuals, that have something, usually some sort of Dildo, inserted somewhere in their body. For a long time, I have wondered why?

I’m told a Dildo is used to bring Sexual pleasure to a person but I really wonder if that’s true.

I confess, I have never used a Dildo, or any other “Toy” so I am coming from completely not knowing if they work or not. I have no experience with any artificial device used to stimulate sexual intercourse.

First of all, how can someone using one of these toys NOT know it’s artificial and not real and still get sexually excited. Isn’t that like licking an empty spoon and thinking you satisfying your hunger? It just seems impossible to me to somehow imagine being sexually satisfied by a piece of plastic no matter how it’s shaped or colored.

Second, I believe a Dildo has to be manipulated, held or shoved in by a person’s own hand. Doesn’t that distract from the objective of being pleasured. How can you provide the necessary action for a Dildo to do its intended purpose and not realized you are doing it to yourself. I just don’t know how this works.

Sites like this one are for meeting real people with the prospect of having a sexual affair. So how does a picture of someone with a Dildo advance that objective. Does a Dildo in your ass mean you want to meet real people? Why would you need to be with another person if can do it all to yourself? I’m confused.

I am one who believes the human body is a beautiful thing. It is natures most perfect creation. If you want to have sex, you should not have to advertise that by having a Dildo stuck in your body. Show your body, that’s what people really want to see.

I do accept the fact that many either won’t or can’t find sexual pleasure with another person. There are many, many legitimate reasons. However, If a person can’t spend quality time with another person, I fail to see how a Dildo is a viable option.

Nature gave us hands that are attached to arms that are just the right length to reach all parts of our bodies. That’s all that was needed for thousands of find real self stimulation and self satisfaction. Civilization and society advanced without rubber devices. We did OK for centuries with only natural means cure our loneliness times.

I am especially curious about by Crossdressers and Transvestites who feel the need so show us what they can do with a Dildo. We know. We don’t need a demonstration of how you have sex.

I encourage everyone respect your body. Just as you are careful what you eat and drink, please be careful of what else you put in your body.

Jan
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Just Some Idol Thoughts
Posted:Aug 28, 2020 7:08 pm
Last Updated:Sep 23, 2020 11:57 am
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Anyone else find it ironic that China, where to COVID began, is also the largest producer of Dildos in the world. They fucked up everyones life and now sell toys so some can keep feeling fucked.

How many Transsexuals does it take to screw in a light bulb?
Depends on where you screw it in I guess.

Shouldn’t the old saying “Boys will be Boys and Girls will be Girls” be changed to “Boys will be Boys and some will be Girls also”.

Is it OK to refer to Anal Sex as a “Cum From Behind Victory?”.

Why do so many men just post pictures of their cock? Half the people of the world have one so it’s not unique if you happen to have one.

If COVID testing can be done while you’re in your car, when will STD testing be available like that?

Hasn’t COVID Testing become the only Test you hope you Fail?

And, isn’t it time sex workers in the US be considered Essential Workers? That was done in Italy and we never heard that it caused any problems. Also, from what I saw, there was no requirement for a plastic barrier between the parties.

During the Lock Down, is Wednesday still considered HUMP Day? As far as I know, not many people HUMPING.

I started today with Coffee and Cognac. Strange world when the best part of the day is so early.

Jan
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Examining Cocks Closer
Posted:Aug 22, 2020 9:50 am
Last Updated:Aug 23, 2020 8:22 am
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I am constantly amazed at the number of photos I get that are just a mans coc It seems the bigger they are, the more willing they are show .

I have thought deeply about this and want set the record straight about Cocks as related their size.

Let’s start by saying nature has a wonderful way of making us all different in many ways. We are tall, short, big and small with different colored hair and texture and facial looks name just a few. These differences we can easily see. Some we find pleasing while others may not impress us.

However, beneath the clothing there are some differences, especially in men, that we can not see so easily unless they are displayed us more openly, mainly the Penis.

For such a small percentage of the body, it gets the most attention on this site and others like this. Without actually counting, I would offer there are probably more pictures of men Cocks than their faces. It’s almost like saying, “Here, meet my cock, the rest of me is not important”.

So, let’s put all other features aside and just concentrate on the Cock, especially its size and its appeal women.

Small Cocks - Few of these are displayed on here. I guess men with small Cocks are less proud and therefore elaborate other qualities of their manliness. However, when the smaller cock is unveiled, women don’t tend reject it. It can still bring as much pleasure during intimate times as any Coc It has been my experience, that men with smaller Cocks are more of a complete lover. They understand that the cock alone is not their strong point so they often spend more time on foreplay arouse their partner. The outcome is the same, just another route the distention.

Big Cocks - I don’t understand why so many men think that a Big Cock is all that is needed in a sexual relationship. Please don’t get me wrong, the bigger cock can be a lot of fun but, in all honesty, it is not all that matters a woman seeking true sexual pleasure. There is so much more that contribute a fantastic Orgasm than just having a Big Cock stuck in you.

While on the subject of Big Cocks, a few words about the Big Black Coc In my opinion, this has become an overrated Badge of Honor for some women. I often see women, and Crossdressers, saying BBC ONLY or BBCs the Front of the Line. This again is a very shallow way describe a sexual experience. In fact, I have found the BBCs are usually very emotionless about sex. Just look at the number of BBC for Hire advertisements you see on the various sites. I suppose if a woman wants add that her Sexual Resume, or even just try one once, fine, go for it.

The Mid Sized Cock - Most men fit in this category, the 5 8 inch Club and that’s a very good thing . These men don’t expect disappoint a woman, or overwhelm them. Most men in this size grouping have the confidence include lingering Foreplay and Romance as part of their Love Making. These men are not Average but well Above Average sexual partners as being complete Lovers. They have neither shame for being too Small nor bravado for being Big.

These are just some of my observations from over the last few .

I must add, I’m under Quarantine again and started my Saturday with Cognac and coffee and time add my Blog.

Jan
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A Question for You
Posted:Aug 7, 2020 11:13 am
Last Updated:Dec 29, 2020 9:19 am
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A Question for you tp Ponder



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Resume updated
Posted:Jul 12, 2020 12:36 pm
Last Updated:Aug 29, 2020 4:07 am
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While I had the time during the COVID Shutdown, I helped my Ass update it’s Resume in the case a new position becomes available. I decided post this in hopes of her being offered a new situation.

Jan’s Ass Resume, updated July 2020

NAME: Jan’s Ass

LOCATION: Between Waist and Thigh
Happy Valley, America

CURRENT POSITION: Under utilized since March due COVID Isolation

SEEKING: Meaningful Role in any new Position

EDUCATION: Attended several PREPARATORY Training sessions and have been thoroughly schooled.

ABOUT ME:

To begin, I am Educated, Experienced, Talented and well Respected. I have been told I have the unique ability to resolve the Hardest of issues and to find the best possible OUTCOME for involved Parties.

I am often described as a TEAM Player, willing take the biggest of Challenges. I am know be able motivate my Teammates always RISE the occasion and perform at their BEST.

I am well Rounded and am known be a MultiTasker with the ability separate the most PRESSING subject from the SMALL ones.

I am a Leader that others willingly follow and Look too. I openly take a Position that my Subordinates clearly understand and are eager to pursue.

I am open to recommendations aimed at Improving the Process and obtaining a mutually satisfying GOAL I encourage all be as OPEN as I am if our roles where reversed.

I am seeking new opportunities where I can apply my wide Experience in the field of Sexual Satisfaction. I have been utilized in a variety of areas and have always completed my tasks in a timely and complete manner.

My ambition is be the BEST performing member in any UNDERTAKING.

References can be provided if requested. The identities of the references will be MASKED provide for their PROTECTION.

Please contact if you wish an Interview after the COVID has subsided. I am OPEN offers.

Best regards and hoping Hear from you ,

Jan’s Ass

I think she did a pretty good job expressing herself.
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Abstinence vs Indulgence
Posted:May 15, 2020 12:10 pm
Last Updated:Aug 31, 2020 1:57 am
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It seems , the Stay at Home policy has had a terrible effect on some people, and I include myself. For us that are single, we have been put in a Form of Isolation that has pushed some the edge of keeping their total sanity.

I noticed this by having many discussion on this site with both men and women since the Lock Down began back in March. The internet allow us to talk to others in various states and other countries. I have many friends throughout this country and overseas and a common subject in our discussions is “How are you doing?” and this has taken on a completely new meaning from when that was just a simple Greeting.

It use to be just a simple way to start a conversation but in the time since the Covid-19 and the Lock Down it really has become a question of “How are you holding up under this Shut Down?”. Everyone wants to know the impact this forced isolation has had on others.

As usual, I view this in a Sexual light. It is so obvious to me that people denied all activities and the resulting emotional release have nothing else to think about but our most basic needs. Food, water, shelter and sex. And the order of importance has has been reversed.

Our benevolent city and state officials have graciously allowed us access to Food, Water and of course the Shelter where we must remain. Household pets get the same for that matter.

What our wonderful leaders have in a sense denied us, is the freedom to have sex. Think about it, don’t bars, clubs, restaurants serve as meeting places and often a prelude to sexual activity?

Take those away and then demand we Social Distance and there no means to express your sexual temperature to another person. Internet meetings are the only recourse to those of us who live alone. Is like in the movies of someone in prison getting a visitor and only being allowed to talk from behind a glass barrier. No hugging or anything like that just the ability to see but not to touch.

Being denied sexual freedom has several possible negative results besides being just Horniness which is a legitimate symptom. WED MD sites potential emotional problems, high blood pressure, anxiety, stress, loss of memory, inability to concentrate and others. Even frequent masturbation can’t fully help they mention.

Please note, the potential problems associated with not having frequent sexual relations are common to older people and they are considered “The Most Vulnerable” to the virus.

In my mind, that makes younger people who have to go without sex also very vulnerable to the virus also. This just doesn’t make any sense.

We all know the risks the virus may have. We also know that not everyone who contracts the virus will have a bad reaction to it and many don’t even realized they had it. Certainly not everyone who has the virus will die from it.

I believe it is up to the individual to decide for theirselves if the risks outweigh the possible pleasure or vice versa. We’re adults. The officials that were elected must think some of us are smart, we voted for them so we must by their own definition be Smart.

In all cases, if people willingly consent have sex they should be allowed the freedom have sex.

How about a compromise. Let the bars in NYC open one day a week without social distancing, without masks and gloves and let the people have a little fun. Call it a Sexday instead of a Friday. It could save our sanity.

Let the people FUCK!

Jan
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Be Prepared for when It’s Over
Posted:Apr 15, 2020 10:35 am
Last Updated:Jul 9, 2020 9:54 am
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Thinking forward the end of the LockDown should not take you by surprise as the “Stay Home” did. This will be over soon so you should be prepared for that day. Here’s a few Tips make sure you’ll ready for the day we start return Normalcy.

Have a date, or more than one, lined up in advance. The end of the LockDown will be eagerly anticipated and good men will be in short supply for awhile. Plan ahead and keep him interested.

Keep your house or apartment well supplied with everything you need for a good dinner for . Restaurant, bars and clubs will not be able open instantly. Be prepared have your date at your home. Make it a special evening.

In addition keeping plenty of food on hand, remember have a good selection of wines and other alcoholic drinks also on hand for those first few dates.

Have some new Outfits ready. Since most malls and department stores are closed you probably will need to shop on-line. Delivery may vary so order well ahead of time. Make sure of the proper fit when new clothes arrive in case you need to alter them before wearing them for your date.

Stay as well groomed as you can in Isolation to be prepared for the Big Day. You may need to figure out something to do with your longer that normal hair. Try different hair styles if you can.

Be sure to have plenty of Condoms and Lubricate on hand. Don’t risk an STD just because the Corona Virus is contained. Don’t count on your date to have some condoms, always be prepared.

I’ll pass along more Tips as I think of them. Remember, Success comes from good Planning.

Jan
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