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Becoming a Dominatrix  

JaniceJanes 46T  
661 posts
1/25/2020 9:50 am
Becoming a Dominatrix

I recently have had a couple different men who have told me they are interested in having me be their Mistress. Mistress as in BDSM, not as a sexual partner outside of an existing relationship they have with another woman or lover.

I have had a fascination with some portions of the BDSM scene for a long while. Mostly the Bondage and Domination aspects but my earlier attempts to become a Dom or be subjected to Bondage didn’t inspire me to proceed. I clearly didn’t know what I wanted, or how to do it, so I failed to find enough satisfaction to continue.

In fact, looking back at my efforts to be a Dom were total failures. The one time I try to Dom my Partner I used a Strap On that was too large. It caused him pain and I really didn’t want to hurt him. We never tried it again after that one experiment.

As I said, my interest in Domination was rekindled after different men asked be my Slave. I even started corresponding with one and verbally humiliating him and making him do demeaning tasks. I realized that I was starting down the same path as before, not knowing exactly what was expected of me.

Thru this site, I contacted a few Mistresses asking for help in learning how be a Dominatrix. One final agreed meet with me and give me some advise.

We met for lunch last Tuesday at a small restaurant in Manhattan. Right away I was impressed by her confident attitude and smart appearance. You would never imagine her as someone who was a professional Dominatrix.

As a matter of fact, anyone who observed us at lunch there was no way they could have guessed what we were talking about. We could have been friends taking a break from shopping or coworkers discussing a new Project. We could have even appeared as sisters discussing family matters.

This had all the appearances of a Business lunch except we were talking about the Business of Dominating willing men.

She, I promised not reveal her real name or her Professional name, was rather matter of fact in her answers my many questions. There was no emotion or hype in her answers, just guidance as how I should approach this new venture in my life.

The first thing she told was that she never had sex with any man she was Dominating. The men she dealt with, her customers as she referred to them, were not expecting sex in a traditional way. They were there to be subjected to Humiliation, Pain or Anguish. Denying them sex was part of what they expected. They don’t even expect a Good Bye kiss.

She stressed that it was extremely important to know exactly what the man wanted in advance of a Session with him. Similar to him being a customer in any other transaction. He knows what he want, you provide that service and everybody leaves happy.

This is simply Role Playing she said. You, even as the Dominate one, are expected play the role he needs. She told me of one man who expects to be Diapered and after he wets his diaper to be spanked and scolded as if she was his mother.

Dressing for the role is key to being what he expects. Different roles require different costumes to successfully play the role and to heighten his experience. Being a Dominatrix does not always required wearing skin tight leather and Tall Boots. You sometimes are asked to be a Nurse, a School Teacher, a School Girl, a Mother or even a Sister figure. Dressing for a particular role is paramount to being a Good Dominatrix.

My name for this new role must be chosen carefully to compliment the role, or roles, I am aiming to fulfill. I’m giving this a lot of thought.

I learned so much from her in an hour that I feel ready to give it another chance. Only this time, I will be better prepared.

I’ll update this later after my first Session with a customer. Whenever it happens.

Jan


6inchjoey 52M

1/25/2020 9:52 am

Nice...


Leegs2012 48M
87211 posts
1/25/2020 10:09 am

Very HOT!! And you look so sexy in that outfit!!


lonelyinspace66 55M

1/25/2020 10:55 am

You can spank me anytime!

Good luck in your new ventures x


moha440 51M
264 posts
1/25/2020 2:12 pm

You are sexy, you have a very beautiful body that I want to suck your whole body
I like the pictures very much with you, I woke up to you


oraljim201 73M
7348 posts
1/26/2020 1:10 am

very sexy


nobodysfool0601 57M
9 posts
2/11/2020 9:09 am

If You decide that's what You want ,let me know. I would be very interested. ..


Leegs2012 48M
87211 posts
2/13/2020 3:35 pm

You know, you are more than welcome to practice on me!!


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