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Jessicablueeyes7 44F
20 posts
5/15/2018 12:46 am
Just a question.in need badley for a logical answer

Im sure i will get a lot of stupid replys on this or maybe non at all..but either way im going to ask it in hopes of someone that can help me out with it......ok my question is why do men that only play the part of a fuck boy,never showed anything more than that but a good time,still find the need to lie about what they are doing or up to...i thought the whole purpose n benefit of a playpartner was not having to lie or hide shit...i just met 2 back to back..like why feel the need,n its shameful cause they just thought their game was really that smooth n irresistible to where they thought i couldnt handle rejection or being let go cause u might of met someone different n more serious...ummm no its not like that,not at all,tell me...so i dont look like an idiot still trying to chat n no longer interested so u decide to stop talking n Answering messages...instead of just saying the truth...and im not saying this is all men,so please dont come at me with that...im asking for whatever man that thinks this same way n feels he fits this description ...or someone knows of someone that is this same way or has personally experienced the same as me...i need to know why they still feel the need to lie like he would of in a relationship....when it was so unnessary

Laxgeek36 49M  
590 posts
5/15/2018 1:13 am

Jessica, I wish I had a good explanation for you, seems that honesty is just really hard to find these days....sorry that you've had to go through this

Jessicablueeyes7 replies on 5/28/2018 12:24 am:
That is the truth...its becoming extinct..

Yours_4A_knight 55M
1405 posts
5/15/2018 1:48 am

People are afraid that they will lose a sure thing, and while they could and should say, hey Sexy (talking to you) I met this person and I really want to explore things with them, still friends right?

It could work, they instead do the opposite hide things from both of you and put themselves in a place where they rapidly get themselves caught.

Like the monkey with his hand caught in the box because he won't let go of the peach to get his hand back out.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.

Jessicablueeyes7 replies on 5/28/2018 12:33 am:
Thats it..its so freaking easy to say...i wouldnt be so confused if we didnt sit n talk about what we were looking for n agreed to it..i was honest about both of them n told them it wasnt only going to be just the one..i liked them both...but time to move on..too many cocks floating around to fixate on it lol

Ienjoythetaste 71M
2562 posts
5/15/2018 3:11 am

I would think that they are mainly only interested in a one off fuck unless it is given to them on a plate when they have no one else around.

They lie to cover their insecurity and possible rejection.

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Readmoreofeveryt 47F

5/15/2018 6:32 am

I have no idea why some guys act like idiots. I've had that happen to me also. Most the time by no one I really give a shit about so I don't care and move on. When they pop back up too bad for them they had their chance. Most are married taken and sneaking around. It's harder for the attached guys with kids to sneak around. The decent ones help get their kids from place to place and etc. They won't tell you why. If you get the married vibe and you ask they almost always say yes they are married and wife has health condition or its open marriage.

Jessicablueeyes7 replies on 5/28/2018 12:35 am:
I appreciate your advice on it...it is time to move it foward๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š

Supersande 51M/42F
2 posts
5/15/2018 7:20 am

Don't expect these friends with benefits to have any moralistic values after all they're just a lay, I mean unless they feel that you can be more then just a booty call and you could possibly want more from them, then that's when they tend to lie for no reason. It's there defense mechanism or they're just pathological liars so either way it's a lose-lose situation. All you can do is look past it and enjoy the sex,if it's even worth it.

tymeflyz2fast 70M

5/15/2018 10:11 am

One possibility is they didn't want any confrontation so they just 'ghost' on you. I'm not saying you would give them a confrontation, only giving you one possible thought that may go through their mind.

DiscreetAffairPA 44M
213 posts
5/17/2018 7:42 am

You'll do yourself more harm than good trying to figure it out. Most of them probably have something to hide, and don't want to get caught.

Jessicablueeyes7 replies on 5/28/2018 12:23 am:
Exactly my thought in it...its obvious they are hiding something..then wonder why they are stuck in a shitty situation miserable n always cheating

JimSpang 51M  
81 posts
6/25/2018 11:54 am

I think you got some good answers there, i agree with many. For some people the anonymity emboldens them to act in a way they never would face to face. Such a shame

Jessicablueeyes7 replies on 8/4/2018 7:53 pm:
Thank you very much for your feedback ๐Ÿ˜Š

Jessicablueeyes7 replies on 8/4/2018 7:56 pm:
Thank you so much for your time and feedback.. appreciate it

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