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JuliaBiSlut 41T
35 posts
4/22/2019 8:45 am
For the straight guys and gay girls.

I meet most of my partners in the "traditional" way. Out at a bar, we notice each other, we chat over a drink, maybe dance a little bit, hopefully hit it off and both of us want more so we go home together (or to your car, or behind the dumpster, whatever. )
I've been a girl full time for a long time, so most people don't know my secret right away or even ever. So if you're the person hitting on me, when should I "come clean" to you.
Right away. I should always introduce myself "Hi, I'm Julia, and I have a penis"
Try and sneak it into the conversation as soon as it's obvious there's an interest
On the dance floor, before we start grinding
Before you call an Uber to take us back to your place
At your place, before the clothes come off
While I'm going down on you and looking up with my big green eyes
Just let you figure it out on your own

_0U812_ 54M/26F
591 posts
4/22/2019 9:47 am

if I were a guy, right away...
But actually a major fantasy of mine,
A new girl friend and I go out, we hit it off.
Then back to her place, I'm still thinking she's a girl.
Then OMG she stands ,I'm leaned back against,
a counter, table, chair,?,, I'm soaked from her tongue!
Then she grins as she rubs the tip over my clit.
She sees me melt and TAKES me just the way I need it...
Kinda the short version, but you get it, right...

JuliaBiSlut replies on 4/22/2019 9:49 am:
Oh, I get it!

oraljim201 71M
5615 posts
4/22/2019 12:51 pm

figure it out on my own

newcuriousbivirg 53M  
142 posts
4/22/2019 7:01 pm

Since it's a fantasy of mine to meet a woman like you and have her gently guide me down between her legs and then surprise my eager mouth with her surprise , I would have no problem finding out on my own. I would eagerly find out what it was like to have it grow and harden in my mouth before turning around and asking her to slowly and gently taking me from behind.

Heathen_G 61M
7838 posts
4/22/2019 7:51 pm

Highly suggest you tell the guy immediately. A straight man invites you out, and you don't tell him immediately, you could end up in the hospital. So better safe than hurt.

If he's fine with you being a gay man in drag, basically, then he was never straight to begin with.

JuliaBiSlut replies on 4/22/2019 8:44 pm:
Lol, well, I'm not a "gay man in drag", and I'm guessing if I were, this situation wouldn't be an issue (since my birth gender would be apparent). I'm a girl.

JuliaBiSlut 41T
14 posts
4/22/2019 8:57 pm

I should add that this is a situation I've been dealing with for almost all of my adult life, so I've developed a pretty good knack for navigating it successfully. There's definitely been some mishaps, too (never assume a guy knows!). I was curious what you all would think and am genuinely interested in what everyone has to say.

13574 posts
4/23/2019 9:22 pm



cockinhand4uNow 57M
1371 posts
4/26/2019 9:53 pm

My first experience with a cock other than mine was with a trans woman. She was amazing. I didn’t know until we were making out and I reached down to get under her skirt and felt her cock. I was shocked but so turned On I just went with it. So glad I did

moralsSchmorals 43M
18 posts
4/27/2019 12:07 am

Maybe avoid clubs and bars where the men are going to assume you are anatomically a woman when you meet. There are tons of men who want you exactly as you are so there would be no need to have that conversation. My opinion. Other than that i would say something before or when there is that mutual connection and the potential for things going further becomes a real possibility. : D best of luck!

SeekingTrans603 50M
1 post
4/27/2019 4:08 am

Julia, I Luv Trans Women So It Would Be No Issue When Ever You Decided To Tell Me About Your Secret

So For Me "While I'm going down on you and looking up with my big green eyes"
Is Really Super Hot

Justin ?*

OakBarrel4 32M

4/29/2019 11:48 pm

I was thinking about this and I couldn't come to a definitive enough answer to vote. I would have guessed to sneak it in as soon as there in obvious interest (and that one got the most votes). How you disclose that information is dangerous. So much so that wikipedia has "List of Unlawfully killed transgender people" page. I'd hope you say something to him in a safe space before you are alone with him.

What I'm more interested in is how you go about navigating this situation especially since you noted you have been doing this for a while.

JuliaBiSlut replies on 4/30/2019 6:23 am:
I'll have to make another blog post about how I broach the subject. Keep an eye out over the next couple days.
Sometimes, telling someone in public is more dangerous than in private. People's public persona and bedroom desires can be radically different.

OakBarrel4 32M

4/30/2019 7:08 am

Julia, Thanks for the response. That makes all the sense in the world. Like I said, I would imagine that you would have the experience. I will look out for that post. Good Luck

voyeur2017 57M
815 posts
5/9/2019 4:32 pm

I would vote to bring it into the conversation early on during the flirtation....its safer for you.....you don't want to deal with the drama on the Uber ride to his place and when he reaches to fondle your pussy...he finds a really engorged clit ~~ ya know..

lookingtoplay511 66M  
20 posts
6/13/2019 7:21 am

It would be great if during the conversation the flirting and gentle touches are sign of mutual attraction. Then you mention how special you are and see if the attraction continues.

amused704 57M
33 posts
7/29/2019 10:42 pm

I love the topic

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