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Justwatchinyall7 53M
9 posts
8/13/2018 10:31 am
Instant messenger


I'm curious...why don't people take the few seconds to respond to an IM?

People...it's easy...I answer every message that I get... even if I'm not interested
Why not take the time to read and answer them?
Standard members can only engage 3 times in a 24 hr period. Believe me when I say we are very selective when we engage in a conversation.

Thanks for the forum to vent a little.

azlyn4562 67M

8/13/2018 10:37 am

I have answered people on IM and the people tell me they never received it. Instant Messenger isn't reliable. Some times it works and other times it just plain sucks.


utfrangrl 46F
267 posts
8/13/2018 10:54 am

I quit using IM it freezes up and hardly ever works right.


seems6666 49F
3902 posts
8/13/2018 11:22 am

It says people are logged on when they aren't. Also, if you log in on your phone it automatically logs you in to IM, when you might just want to read your messages etc.


MissCinders 54F
1529 posts
8/13/2018 12:39 pm

No one is obligated to but if I am already engaged in one chat I am not going to start answering others.


Tmptrzz 57F
82029 posts
8/13/2018 12:45 pm

I always answer my IM's but sometimes when I do they don't show up for me to see..

Just your average every day run of the mill nana here!!!


pocogato12 68F  
33778 posts
8/13/2018 12:56 pm

I only do one IM at a time if I am on there at all. You'd be better to get a private mailbox added to your blog. Ned help?? Ask

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Brownie202 63F  
1830 posts
8/13/2018 1:17 pm

To me its spam. My profile says I don't use it. Standard members can't read profiles I know. Not my problem they choose not to pay. Paying members can read profiles but either do not or do but think they are the exception to the I don't use the im part if my profile. If I did use it why answer the young ones? Same for the ones with naked pictures and or crude comments. Why be polite when the men were not the same themselves by sending me one? Do you answer all your junk mail to your home and so am mail? You should. How would the companies know not interested in their product / service if don't tell them? Send each one a polite not interested message. After all they took the time to write you. Only right.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


Brownie202 63F  
1830 posts
8/13/2018 1:23 pm

Missed the selective part with my first answer. Must mean by age and distance since I believe it's all you can read. If selective then why does a 18 year old send me a im? Profile says not more then a few years younger. Selective to who? Not me or other women who get so many who do not read profiles or ignore what is there.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


Justwatchinyall7 53M
30 posts
8/13/2018 1:45 pm

These are all fair and valid points...thanks for taking the time to comment.


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