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KtMnDu 67M
7175 posts
8/20/2017 8:17 pm
I Age Somewhat Poorly......

I’m a fortunate guy, in a whole lot of ways…..and I am always aware of that, and very thankful…….

But Joanne passed away recently…..

Joanne and I were boyfriend / girlfriend our junior and senior years in high school, and we were each other’s first sexual partner…..we were “virgins” and we lost that ‘label” together…..we were quite “adult” about it, and our first time is an experience which I treasure to this day…..

We both stayed in touch, and we eventually found ourselves in San Diego. There was this circle of friends, and we saw each other regularly through the years…….she was in her mid-thirties when she met and married Bill, a guy who was 20+ years older…….I vividly remember our discussion about that age difference at the time…..but she was sure, and I understood…….

I had lunch with Joanne a few weeks before I moved up here to the Great Northwest……I told her of my “next chapter”…..and she wondered about her own “next chapter” after Bill went off to meet his maker……

A bunch of us in that circle figured Bill would outlive us all.....

Bill, at 87, is still with us……Joanne passed away last month, pancreatic cancer, no symptoms until those last 2 months……

With Joanne gone, and with Bill’s dementia, last week, he moved into an assisted care living situation…….

As I age, I realize I'm in for more of this......

I am a fortunate guy, in a whole lot of ways…..but I get sad at times…….

KtMnDu 67M
6216 posts
8/20/2017 8:23 pm

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millsy171 28M
3 posts
8/20/2017 9:36 pm

great read

KItkat1415 58F  
19985 posts
8/20/2017 9:52 pm

I hope you are okay.
I know you will be surrounded with love from more than one person as you age.
Believe it.
Count on it.

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nd2hvfun 61F  
10006 posts
8/20/2017 10:02 pm

sorry for the loss of your friend, sometimes when we start losing our friends our own mortality stares us in the face. That was nice you stayed friends with her all these years i am sure that meant a lot you being her first and all

je ne regrette rien

wickedeasy 70F  
32438 posts
8/21/2017 4:05 pm

get home. you'll be fine. it's about the love and feeling it, yanno? it will fill you back up.

You cannot conceive the many without the one.

LiveLifeDoU 65F  
2204 posts
8/22/2017 4:53 pm

what nd2hvfun said is what I would have said...hugs

wickedeasy 70F  
32438 posts
8/24/2017 2:26 pm

ps. i get sad at times too. we think too much.

You cannot conceive the many without the one.

27025 posts
8/24/2017 9:42 pm

It makes me so sad to read this. I hope your loss is eased by many years of happy memories.

We just never know, do we?

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