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Some Things Never Change.....  

KtMnDu 68M
7208 posts
1/16/2018 5:55 pm
Some Things Never Change.....

It was a little over 4 years ago now that I returned to this space on the Intertubes and put myself up here on this barely-functional site, again, along with my hopes and dreams.......

And so I posted this:


I have always believed that really good sex is the result, and effort, of partners that take the time to come to know each other in a number of different ways. On sites such as this, members approach possible new relationships from the physical, sexual side of things, and as such the discussion starts there, with those preferences and those needs and desires. This is different than typical, say, dating sites, where sexual preferences seem to have a lower priority than one's desire to find a partner who likes walks on the beach, good books or spirited political discussions......though these interests may lead to heightened arousal as well. Again, we like what we like.......

I think putting the physical, sexual preferences up there first makes a lot of sense, for it really matters in an ongoing partnership. The tough part is openly talking of these things when people first meet in person. But honestly discussing it through a series of emails with someone you have not yet met face to face seems easier.....there is still a bit of anonymity and distance. And obviously, as always, the honesty matters.

I would bet that more people have found long-term partners and friends through sexually oriented sites than any of the Match dot com-type places.

Myself, as I am sure others have experienced, that after a number of emails where all things sexual have been kicked around, and where these needs and desires seem to be in sync.....that when we did meet in person, there was this comfort, this knowledge, this compatibility that made for a really good foundation going forward. Now, all those other non-sexual interests certainly matter, but those things could be dealt with much easier than a base-level sexual incompatibility.

And those walks on the beach?..........well, they seem to be just a little bit better.............

KtMnDu 68M
6214 posts
1/16/2018 5:57 pm

I was much older then.....I'm younger than that now.....

superbjversion2 65F
20658 posts
1/16/2018 6:19 pm

It has to be very comforting for a man to know ahead of time that if his cock slips into an unexpected orifice, he will not be dismembered!

Then again ... it's very easy to SAY one likes something.

Sex is to Fun as Square is to Rectangle

wickedeasy 70F  
32406 posts
1/17/2018 1:52 pm

i'm glad you're younger than that now

so, odd thing when i looked at your pic today i saw a face with a child's hand touching it............go figure.....

then i looked again and it was gone. i mention it because it brought tears to my eyes. so perhaps it means something .

You cannot conceive the many without the one.

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