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ya...i dig you... the part i hate from those people is that...they left me hanging...you know... just disappear, and not telling me anything...i get that they are personally in the deep trouble, whatever the reason is, and they need some time to sort it out...they don't have to tell me in detail, but at least, i have a right to know what is going on between us...and sure, they don't want my advice, but at least, keep in touch and let me know how they are doing? i ain't their mother...ain't gonna wait for them forever... but i wonder what is their side of story...am i just so cut and dry? hey i have my own personal problem too...but i ain't bringing that between us, don't i?
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his treatment is inappropriate especially seeing if you did the same thing to him he wouldn't appreciate it.
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different personalities handle things differently.It is wired in to a high degree then life experiences further mold it .The key here is it is best to have people of a similar personality type in your life as it is easier to communicate clearly and be understood exactly as you intend by someone who's brain processes info the same as yours .By adding emotional reasons in your head to their behavior you alter the reality by your expectations being overlaid on their behavior . This is a major cause of poor communication ,the more emotion based person then ascribes negative hurtful feelings to the other person which are not intended or in fact actually expected by the other person to occur . I suggest everyone take a personality type testing online meyers briggs personality profile test , it tells you what you are to a high degree and then you can compare .There is an awesome book, just your type by dr's teiger and baron teiger .that compares every combination of match and tells the good parts and bad parts of every combo type ! wow that makes it easier to know hat you are getting into , what to expect and what you may have to do to make things work for everyone . They also have one to help you find a job best suited to your personality type .
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I've been accused of being clingy, and I've been accused of dropping off the radar for no reason. Truth is, I'm passionate about my feelings, and if I have feelings for somebody I'll let her know one way or another. I don't take hints well... I need to be told lol A little honesty goes a long ways. I don't need her life history up front, I just need to know if she feels the same way. I'll take an honest rejection over a hint any day.
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