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Do you pay attention to profiles without a photo?  

LetsChillax 53F
8768 posts
5/3/2018 9:44 am
Do you pay attention to profiles without a photo?

Yes, no, depends? Please elaborate.

mrstiffler469 56M

7/31/2018 9:31 am

My reason for checking is most people are worried about being exposed by people they know in the real world...

redhotfun4you2 57F  
1559 posts
7/27/2018 5:23 pm

A picture is always a bonus, however, not a necessity. Most of the people I chat with are from the blogs or from my local chat room. Some are people I have met from local events which I attend as well. So even if they do not have a profile picture I usually have a sense of the type of person they are.

For anyone else who contacts me, picture or no picture, I require respect. Without that I have no interest.

LadyTeddieBear 63F  
1131 posts
7/27/2018 9:23 am

Usually no unless they have a nice bio or if they contact me with a face pic in the message


Todd0516 45M  
17 posts
7/26/2018 7:59 pm

They are usually scammers.

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2700 posts
7/20/2018 12:03 am

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Gentlegent21 47M

7/16/2018 8:40 am

I totally understand the Privacy aspect of it, but in my opinion, a profile with some kind of picture is going to get first notice absolutely!

sassywanda 67T
2 posts
7/7/2018 6:32 am

I will and will chat and if there is an interest i will ask questions and ask to see a photo and not a nude one.I want to see the person as he/she is normally dressed.If not willing to show me a photo or 2 then i discontinue the conversation and move on.

bker4ever 62M
199 posts
7/4/2018 2:59 pm

a pic always helps

lookn4yu2day 68M  
104 posts
6/24/2018 1:01 pm

What's the old adage? "A Picture is Worth a Thousand Words." There ya have it! Both are needed to provide a person with some idea as to what the other person is about. Another pertinent adage "Don't Judge A Book By It's Cover."

There is a signnifcant number of persons who choose to have their written profile tell their story prior to any exchange of photos. After all, this is not a religious site and one has to act accordingly. Once a seeming level of trust is conveyed about each other then..... then I believe those persons who do not have a profile photo get to feel a bit more comfortable.

I personally do not discount any profile. I intently review all that is submitted. However, often even the written profile portions are incomplete and lacking. So.... it takes the desire to write and hope to hear from that person and determine if they are interested.

JeffXcitedNow 65M  
178 posts
6/18/2018 11:43 pm

I read all profiles, which includes looking at the pics included....I didn't have a pic for first 6 months or so as a member this time around (member previously 12 or so years ago); so I can understand why some pple don't have pics...{=}{=}
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gr8yham1965 55M

6/17/2018 6:15 pm

i read all the profiles i visit tbh

fun4all4one 65M  
20 posts
6/16/2018 2:51 am

It could be part of the excitement not knowing sometimes

porterpiper1 53F
3767 posts
6/15/2018 3:04 am

I guess i like to read what a person put into their profile, because seeing a pic doesn't mean it is that person you see in the pic, I don't have face pics, if I have a connection with someone then I send a face pic, I don't think people are always being shy or fake, I think they are being cautious about blasting their face pic on a public web site.

CD2ServeU 67T

5/22/2018 7:11 am

The way I see it ... a LOT of the profile pictures are just plain crap. If you post one, it should probably be a GOOD one of your face. But I do understand that not everyone wants the world to know they are here.

Pictures of private parts will quickly gain or lose interest. If they attract you, you look harder. If they don't you move on quickly. [That may also be true of all pictures.]

As a Standard member, I usually can't tell much about a profile anyway. Occasionally they are well written, but I have found that most people who contact me don't read anything anyway.

I know that one of my primary ways of determining interest is geographic distance. I once had a relationship with someone a hundred miles away. And while it worked for a while, it ultimately ended because it was just too far of a commute for a night out.

Closer is more important than picture. At leas IMHO.

DiscreetAffairPA 44M
212 posts
5/16/2018 1:15 pm

It depends on if the rest of the profile has any depth to it or not. One-liners, then no. If there's an explanation for the lack of photo, I might look. Many of us don't want our faces on here.

hrlyridr87 66M  
344 posts
5/16/2018 1:06 pm

I always read the profile to see if there are common interests. If there are, I send an email with a pic attached.

truckfun2005 54M
8 posts
5/16/2018 4:12 am

pictures are great but not important at first

Pwm9073 58M
17 posts
5/15/2018 1:53 am

Yes because i generally will read profile i sometime will hide or take my pic off occasionally

funasianma1e 45M
119 posts
5/13/2018 10:43 pm

sometimes. just out of curiosity.

atveffect 43M  
55 posts
5/13/2018 5:57 pm

you mean like yours

zjanus89 31M

5/13/2018 2:10 pm

If you can't be open enough to put in a photo... I mean... what are you doing here?

camgroup10 36M/37M
28 posts
5/12/2018 5:39 pm

it was worth a chance back in the day..now not so much

jay1446 64M
40 posts
5/11/2018 6:43 pm

It's all about location for me if there's no picture and there close by I pay bit alot of attention

curiousparty1234 34M
8 posts
5/11/2018 5:09 pm

If they send me a well crafted message I'll usually reply. I've been finding more and more bots on the chat that are starting to message me from another province with a big long paragraph that includes an outbound link.

And then if they've an interesting profile I'll message as well. I know the want for discreet meetings is strong so I post as few public photos of myself (that include defining features such as face, hands, and scars) as possible, reserving those for people I click with for meetings.

Saranghae2 48F  
206 posts
5/11/2018 2:52 pm

yes, i do. if they write an email that i click with and if they are local...

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ToriB2 42F  
1 post
5/10/2018 2:19 pm

to me they are either fake, or they hiding somthing so i wont talk or interact with anyone that has no profile picture

joewantssub 49M
29 posts
5/10/2018 1:52 pm

Most of the female profiles in the UK without pics are actually male Dick heads masquerading as females ~^~

60satisfaction 62M  
204 posts
5/10/2018 1:51 pm

Why bother? If a person can't post a single photo, what are they hiding?

Tightestgrip1978 42F
2 posts
5/10/2018 12:24 am

I make it very clear on my profile if you do not have a picture then do not email me. If you email me then you better send a picture with it. If you have a lot to hide maybe you should not be on this site. I live in a small town.

stax51170 50M  
32 posts
5/8/2018 10:34 pm

I don't pay attention to profile without pics because most of the profiles without photo are fakes fishing for emails of members. If the profile doesn't take the time to fill out the rest to of the questions. then the no pic is not going to be truthful with it intent for being on AdultFriendFinder. profile with are not better because they can be fake too. Bottomline if they are not going to make an effort on any level then it is not my effort to do the same to chat and get to know.

funsnellvillecpl 63M/51F  
2377 posts
5/8/2018 2:23 pm

nope and single guys cant read

Timetraveler2 57M  
158 posts
5/8/2018 1:14 pm

I read the profile, and base my desire to contact a person by how they express themselves. I would prefer no picture to one that is a close up of their crotch.

tongueteaseH 38M
10 posts
5/8/2018 11:27 am

Photos can be a nice addition but it has to start with something enticing. I'm still amused at the occasional photo where you feel like you're trying to guess the body part.

albanynycouple51 59M/54F  
23 posts
5/7/2018 8:16 pm

want too see self pics 4 interest

utfrangrl 46F
267 posts
5/7/2018 3:21 pm

I prefer profiles with photos.

SummerDances 44M
23 posts
5/7/2018 2:05 pm

Not usually. I understand the need for discretion and privacy, but there is always a work around. A picture of their shoes or shadow, or recently used sex toy are some options. For me a lack of profile pic shows a lack of creativity and confidence, two things which really turn me on.

If if if they live very close by and shoot me a very interesting IM then I might chat back.

browser2017 58M
49 posts
5/7/2018 9:03 am

I pay more attention to what is written

Domcop 50M

5/7/2018 8:59 am

I have actually met and had fun with a woman that did not post a pic on her profile. She was upfront that she wanted this part of her life private and would not take the chance of friends and neighbors seeing her here.

2017Up4You 52M  
164 posts
5/7/2018 7:18 am

Yes, if the profile is within about one hours drive and they are HWP and under 60 yrs. old...afterall, many folks here are here to secretly make a connection and do not want to share with the "world" their personal quest!

kenoshamale 54M  
20 posts
5/7/2018 5:56 am

If the profile is local and something in the profile catches my attention, It will not matter if they have a pic. I will try and start a conversation with them.

Aldemars13 50M
70 posts
5/7/2018 3:20 am

The photos are not everything ... I think there are a lot of fake photos on some profiles, but by talking with people, you can better get an idea of these .....

Strongsensual19 34M
25 posts
5/6/2018 12:43 pm

It depends if you can hold a conversation.

4meovr40 58M  
11 posts
5/6/2018 10:05 am

Yes if there is something that grabs my attention.

joeyten 65M
10 posts
5/6/2018 3:25 am

I voted no.. nor do I pay attention to profiles with dick pics or dicks with pussys, I don't want to see that shit. Men in Shorts I find a turn on.

Darkhorse705 51M

5/5/2018 9:18 pm

If they are local and sound interesting.... yes but they have to have a well written profile...

Veronica_Lynn 42T

5/5/2018 8:52 pm

I consider profiles with no pic. But after a while I'd like them to make the initiative of sharing a pic privately. Far too many times the conversation gets deeper and deeper towards meeting, yet I have no idea what the person looks like. I'm not big on looks and prefer someone that's genuinely a nice person... but when someone gives me a description and says "I have a long beard." and I know I don't like beards then how can I know if I'd find it attractive enough to accept it...

The discretion thing naturally hasn't been for me. Anyone afraid of this or that usually isn't compatible.

dream_on4849 62M/60F  
3 posts
5/5/2018 4:10 pm

we do not, we can understand discreetness, but ya dont need to show your face . your foot or left boob whatever. went to many rounds with guys hiding behind a couples profile and ones ya swore ya answered these same questions a week ago and your doing them again, like their reading off a clipboard. so over the years no photos and no single folks.

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103 posts
5/5/2018 3:30 pm

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Tony110392 49M  
2 posts
5/5/2018 2:42 pm

Generally I won't. But if they are close and have an interesting profile, sometimes I will.

ShoreCiti 55M
11 posts
5/5/2018 1:43 pm

My cupid matches are set for profiles with pics but if someone local checks me out, maybe. If they flirt, hotlist or message me, then yes, I will strike up a conversation. Some people are shy.

That said, my profile has a pic of my feet, so it's not too hard to do this.

So far, though, every scammer has had at least one pic.

lookingtoplay145 63M
127 posts
5/5/2018 12:18 pm

So far, I have meet more fake, bullshit conversations with pictures then none. I understand starting with no picture and only sharing with those who seem real.

dabless 43F

5/5/2018 11:44 am

I WILL chat, but won't look at the profile and will never, ever meet. I don't need a face pic. I don't meet dick pics. I just want something to prove he has some semblance of imagination...

plumbboi 27M  
161 posts
5/5/2018 9:11 am

If there is no photo then the profile has to be completed and well written to compensate for a photo.

There is alot to see out there, so get out & experience the what the world has to offer.......or not

shooter304 60M
34 posts
5/5/2018 8:43 am

I say no, a pic can be of any body part or part of the body but at least you have made an effort. I also enjoy the pix people post.

yumehole 54F
103 posts
5/5/2018 3:58 am

I voted yes and have met several times not receiving a photo sometimes the same day and its been wonderful.

dig76301 61M  
91 posts
5/5/2018 3:55 am

No I don't. Should be a rule you have to post at least one picture. It doesn't have to be of your face, but have something posted. And no more than Three prefer not to say.

sphxdiver 70M  
21075 posts
5/4/2018 9:02 pm

Sometimes, really depends on what's in the profile.

If it's blank like the photo, PASS !!!!

fandral2006 57M
14 posts
5/4/2018 6:57 pm

I voted no. I like to see at least 60 percent of the person to see if there's some attraction. No photo means no idea.

temptationplus58 62F

5/4/2018 5:36 pm

I voted no.. nor do I pay attention to profiles with dick pics or dicks with pussys, I don't want to see that shit.

SwtBadGrl 46F  
234 posts
5/4/2018 4:54 pm

Physical attraction is important unless you are into randomly jumping into stranger's beds, sight unseen

mitteimasu54 60M

5/4/2018 4:52 pm

Honestly, the photos do quench the visual yearnings. But, I have met women that really valued her privacy. Once contact was made then more info/photos were exchanged. And, this type has made for "real" and pleasurable meets.

SomewhereSE 62M
232 posts
5/4/2018 4:15 pm

I find most photo deficient profiles quite funny actually, I live in a sprawling, ever expanding metropolitan area of well over a million people, where it’s rare to read a profile of more than a few sentences as if that would be enough to be identified. Rarely are there women’s profiles that convey that there is more to the woman than just boobs and genitalia in need of attention. Any wonder you only attract dick heads?

SomewhereSE 62M
232 posts
5/4/2018 3:57 pm

Nope not one bit... I did in the past but never received a response and figure those are just women looking for their husbands/boyfriends, or males pretending to be women or just seeing what other males write... one of the nonsense suggestions from relationship “exspurts”

Pussycumwanker 49M
103 posts
5/4/2018 3:06 pm

Yes I do ..............some people get sick of the bullshit and remove photos but leave the lingering one liners .....intrigue is a wonderful thing , hope is another x

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jajo696 65F
2225 posts
5/4/2018 2:38 pm

I rarely read profiles, I prefer to talk with a person and form my own opinion before I read what they profess to be. We can't be objective anyway , so all those attributes that are claimed, should be said by our partners, not us. So yes, I'm only a standard member, but when I do get the chance to see profiles , it makes no difference to me....photo or not. People need to ask , why is a photo necessary? Is it going to have u stop talking to the person, or talk differently to a person. Photos have a way of over or underwhelming ....lol .....the viewer, which also precludes getting to know a person from the inside out. Me ? I have no photos due to being in a school district.

fkmeallnitelong9 49F  
1935 posts
5/4/2018 12:59 pm

I look at all profiles....some have ''shadow face'' BUT have pics on their profile...you don't know if you don't look....

ohioguy606 73M
294 posts
5/4/2018 11:30 am

I try to be discreet and therefore don't post a pic. Will send one or cam after we have chatted. Hasn't hindered things so far.....

throatscock 92M

5/4/2018 10:28 am

I ask for photo if there is none on profile. I usually avoid profiles without pic. What do they have to hide?

aniceride 50M  
106 posts
5/4/2018 9:58 am

weather there's a picture or not doesn't matter to me,what matters is how well or much did they fill out the profile.if there's not much there i just move on even if they try to contact me.most of the time when they do contact me with nothing in their profile it's normally a one liner email like "hey you wanna fuck" lol.the way i look at it is if you have nothing in your profile it shows a lack of respect,this isn't a porn site.these are for the most part actual people on this site looking to fill a need.i mean really,would you walk up to someone on the street and say hey you wanna fuck,i think not lol.so lets have a little respect for yourself and others and fill the darn profile out!also for gods sake be honest about it!there are all types of people on this site so you shouldn't have a problem finding something that fits you.okay my book comes out next week lmao.

CleavageFan4U 63M  
62077 posts
5/4/2018 6:23 am

LEt's just say I'm very visually oriented.

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sogoodfeelin 51M
21 posts
5/4/2018 5:31 am

I do as i know some people are like me and need to keep this side very discrete.

LoneLee87x 33M
10 posts
5/3/2018 5:14 pm

I at least talk to the person some to gauge what kind of person they are

Yours_4A_knight 55M
1365 posts
5/3/2018 4:18 pm

Being more of a beggar than a chooser, there being so few straight women in the area that I live in, I pay attention to all profiles.

A picture is information about the person I potentially want to know, but I am not on the site for the picture but to meet the person as unrealistic as that might be.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.

Leegs2012 47M
54559 posts
5/3/2018 4:11 pm

Not at all. Must be a real photo or photos.

NewName62 57M
11930 posts
5/3/2018 2:38 pm

The sexy photo of your shoe drew me to you. The way you are wearing the HELL out of those jeans reminds me I made a great choice. And the eye candy of your blog is outstanding.

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gardenboy321 57M  
41190 posts
5/3/2018 1:58 pm

Nope... never.

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charmer961 61M  
14554 posts
5/3/2018 1:12 pm

Rarely. For one thing we are visual creatures. For another it's usually a waste of time.

Brownie202 63F  
1828 posts
5/3/2018 12:54 pm

Yes I do. Don't have one of me so wouldn't be fair if I said they have to have one. I rather no picture then the @$$hole showing me his damn dick or him getting oral or his ass.

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disago 51M
170 posts
5/3/2018 12:17 pm

I really dig reading a well written profile. And one gem that I might find simply by headline, username or just 'feeling it', instead of the visual, well, it's like finding that super cool lamp at a thrift shop.

...I like lamp.

LetsChillax replies on 5/3/2018 12:31 pm:
Lava lamp

dpguy1957 63M  
434 posts
5/3/2018 12:17 pm

I used to have a pic(s) on my profile till a woman on here who lived nearby threatened to post it everywhere in town. if someone requests a photo, and we've corresponded to the point that i trust them, i gladly supply one or more.

fenderpicker 73M

5/3/2018 12:13 pm

I read the profiles either way, the ones without pics, usually have a good reason,. If I contact someone who piques my interest and we start a chat, You find out more about the person before you even get around to meeting. I can usually sort out the fakes from real people.

grandpa031958 102M

5/3/2018 11:43 am

Yes. I think they are more likely to be real women, who would actually be interested in meeting, but like me are being cautious about putting their face out there for anyone to see. I expect some percentage of the pics are fake anyway, or 10 years old. Plus I believe the vast majority of women on here, the ones who do post pics, are only here to post the pics and(or) fantasize in their blogs about sexual experiences they have no intention of ever living out with me. It's just fantasy entertainment.

windsjohn 69M  
692 posts
5/3/2018 10:41 am

I read most of them to see if they might be someone who might fit my criteria.

Funguy13916 63M  
40 posts
5/3/2018 10:40 am

One never knows who is to shy to reveal themselves. As for me, I would like to know somebody like that because I have the patience to allow them to grow. It's like not having fourplay to build.

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17 posts
5/3/2018 10:11 am


redrockrascal 61M
21600 posts
5/3/2018 10:04 am

Yes, there are very few members in my area.

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